People Are Loving How This Leech Son Finally Got What He Deserved After Living Off Of His Parents’ Income For 31 Years
Being self-sufficient, independent, and capable of pulling your own weight—these are all qualities that were admired as much throughout history as they are in modern times. Sleeping in late, failing to keep down a job, and playing video games all day long, however, are not things that a grown-up person should be proud of doing. If someone’s over thirty and this is their life, something obviously needs to change. And fast!
Redditor u/Frequent_Gas6500 shared a couple of brutally honest posts about their brother—aka the 31-year-old ‘man-baby’—with the members of the r/TrueOffMyChest subreddit. Despite having raised 3 very successful kids, the OP’s parents, unfortunately, failed with the 4th. Or, as the author of the story put it: “They have allowed the man baby to sit in his cradle and make demands for 31 years too long. And now, they find themselves with an overgrown toddler who sits in the attic playing Valorant all day while cursing my mom out when she dares to ask him to clean up the rotting garbage he spreads across his room.”
After their dad had a medical emergency, the family decided to sell the house. And the ‘man-baby’ got the news that he’d have to move out and fend for himself. The gravy train had ended. According to redditor u/Frequent_Gas650, the “meltdown was legendary.” Scroll down for the full story, the update, as well as how Reddit reacted to the drama.
Though we all mature at different paces, it’s clear to most people that a 31-year-old should have a job and not spend the entire day playing video games
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A person explained how their ‘man-baby’ brother was finally forced to ‘leave the nest’ and how he caused tantrum after tantrum
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The OP wrapped up the story in an update that many internet users were eagerly waiting for
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It isn’t just that u/Frequent_Gas650’s brother is lazy, it’s that he’s malicious. The redditor described him as “an annoying, violent, self-centered brat who would push my parents in front of a bus for the thrill of the dopamine hit.”
For him, life’s all about video games, online forums, and eating food from a pantry that ‘magically’ fills itself. Whenever he doesn’t get his way, he lashes out. So much so that even the non-emergency line knows what his temperament is like: he’s violent. Meanwhile, the firefighter neighbor is also aware of this and is available to calm things down if needed.
In the update, the OP shared how their brother was shocked to realize that he’d have to use his own savings to pay for his food. Money that he’d rather have spent upgrading his computer. Eventually, however, he realized that all of his temper tantrums and sulking would have no effect. Eventually, he started working with Uber to make some dough and ended up finding a place to stay that… sounds absolutely horrible if we’re honest with you.
According to the OP, he began “living in a room above the garage in a 3 bedroom, rundown crackhouse straight out of Compton.” The rent’s cheap, but he’s still badgering his family for money. Meanwhile, he thinks he’s too good to work for McDonald’s (though it’s actually possible to make quite a career there, even earning six figures as a manager, as Bored Pandawrote recently over here). “The man-baby has left the building,” the OP was overjoyed. What happens next is anyone’s guess.
Being grateful for what you have comes easier for some people than others. However, it’s a skill that can be learned and, arguably, should be learned. It grounds you. It keeps you humble. And it makes you aware of all the blessing you have in your life. It’s also one of the cures for a deep sense of entitlement.
Fitness expert and entrepreneur Jack Bly previously spoke about gratitude with Bored Panda. “Gratitude is incredibly important, I believe. I practice it every single morning as part of my routine. Having good mentors helps big time,” he said that other people can help guide you and help keep you humble no matter how high you might rise. “And also life usually has its way of humbling those who are too proud,” he noted.
According to the fitness expert, some ways to practice gratitude can be very simple. For instance, you can start by writing out 5 to 10 things you feel you’re fortunate to have. You can then try to send a message of gratitude to someone you’re grateful for.
Jack said that it’s very easy these days to take everything for granted. However, with a shift in perspective, you can change everything. He said that you can ‘train’ your perspective to focus on gratitude. He added that one of the best things that anyone can do in life is move their body more. “Figure out what you enjoy that involves movement and do it. It could be sports, hiking, walking around a mall, etc.”
The author of the post revealed some more of their thoughts in the comments while others shared their opinions about the family drama
I don't understand why people think they're "too good for McDonald's". If I needed a job desperately, I'd apply anywhere and everywhere. I'm decently educated, I have a degree and lots of industry experience, but if I were to need a job in a hurry, McDonald's would absolutely be good enough.
Yes, 100%. People might have to not list their education in order to get hired. Definitely better than being unemployed. Where I live, there's tons of jobs. Not glamourous, but if someone is honestly trying to find work, they will (chicken plant, tire factory, Walmart, etc.)
Load More Replies...Even if he does have a mental health issue, treatment must be voluntarily sought if it's going to work because HE is the only one who can do the work Much like addiction there has to be a rock bottom or event that causes an epiphany of hey maybe I do have a problem. You cannot save someone from themselves
Sometimes good parents end up with kids like this because they know at the end of the day, the parent will provide. Irresponsible parents sometimes end up with a hardworking responsible child because the kid learned to provide for themselves quickly. Having a sibling in a similar situation, it's heartbreaking. My mom is 70, working full time. The 37 year "kid" living there doesn't lift a finger. Same pattern of lazy/denial/anger. My opinion is that if a person can't work, they should get government benefits for being disabled. He's not even doing that. He is severe ocd (not diagnosed) and is too messed up in the head to work.
Had a woman like that who's son was a pos, a co-worker had to get her into a home as she wasn't qualified to work any longer (worked at a school and was a security 'nightmare') When she was told that if a student no longer attends school that, no they can't be in, can't rattle a door and come in, just because she recognizes him/her. More befuddled by the day too. Her son couldn't be supported anymore by her. Sad that a co-worker had to step in as the other children wouldn't step up and handle it.
Load More Replies...there is nothing wrong with living with your parents and doing what you love, especially in this ridiculous economy where its to the point that it's almost impossible for anybody not working for a office to afford even the smallest apartments with how inflated things got unless your extremely lucky or find the most run down places in existence. but there is a huge difference between living with your parents and freeloading. if your going to live with your parents, pay rent help around the house and get your own damn groceries
I hope this guy managed to sort himself out enough to get some sort of employment so he could keep his room and his computer. It sucks to be the disfunctional f**k-up just as much as it sucks to be related to one. He sounds like a deeply unhappy person, unable to cope with life. If he isn't able to engage with therapy, is there any way the family can get him on a short psych hold and get him on anti-depressants at least? Sometimes that provides enough mood stabilisation to let the patient engage in helping themself.
Mental health issues are a reason, not an excuse for shitty behaviour, but at the end of the day he's responsible for his own choices and one of those is to seek help or not. He's had far more in the way of access to mental health support than a lot of people and he chose to refuse it. Some times shitty people are just shitty people.
Load More Replies...So I'm going to get down voted, but here goes; at some stage in everybody's life we become our own problem. It doesn't matter if this guy has all the disorders or mental health problems in the world, he has to carry his baggage himself. I've have depression, anxiety the full monty, but the world doesn't owe me anything.
I agree. As a person with mental health problems they are there but they are not an excuse to be shitty. Its my responsability to improve, not my familys
Load More Replies...What part of him gives him the belief that "he's too good for McDonald's"???? I think McDonald's is too good for him. Don't let this man have a job near food.
I wouldn’t get too giddy about a person who is obviously mentally ill. But he does need help his family cannot provide for him. He’s certainly headed for prison where he won’t get the help he needs either.
I mean he sucks. But it just really doesn't sit well with me, how OP is refusing to call him anything other than a derogatory remark and is dismissive of any steps their brother is taking to start and build a life for himself. Uber is a job, and a shithole you are paying for yourself is still *your* shithole, much better than your parent's basement. All these condescending, derogatory remarks will just add to his problems. As for not going to the expensive therapy. Guess who does that? Yep. People who need it most. The first step a patient needs to take is to actually recognize that they have a problem they cannot solve without professional help. You can't just throw money at it and wish those problems away. Speaking as someone who was never good enough and who was always getting one shitty remark after the other, it can have a huge impact and can lead to petulant, avoidant behaviour.
I don't understand why people think they're "too good for McDonald's". If I needed a job desperately, I'd apply anywhere and everywhere. I'm decently educated, I have a degree and lots of industry experience, but if I were to need a job in a hurry, McDonald's would absolutely be good enough.
Yes, 100%. People might have to not list their education in order to get hired. Definitely better than being unemployed. Where I live, there's tons of jobs. Not glamourous, but if someone is honestly trying to find work, they will (chicken plant, tire factory, Walmart, etc.)
Load More Replies...Even if he does have a mental health issue, treatment must be voluntarily sought if it's going to work because HE is the only one who can do the work Much like addiction there has to be a rock bottom or event that causes an epiphany of hey maybe I do have a problem. You cannot save someone from themselves
Sometimes good parents end up with kids like this because they know at the end of the day, the parent will provide. Irresponsible parents sometimes end up with a hardworking responsible child because the kid learned to provide for themselves quickly. Having a sibling in a similar situation, it's heartbreaking. My mom is 70, working full time. The 37 year "kid" living there doesn't lift a finger. Same pattern of lazy/denial/anger. My opinion is that if a person can't work, they should get government benefits for being disabled. He's not even doing that. He is severe ocd (not diagnosed) and is too messed up in the head to work.
Had a woman like that who's son was a pos, a co-worker had to get her into a home as she wasn't qualified to work any longer (worked at a school and was a security 'nightmare') When she was told that if a student no longer attends school that, no they can't be in, can't rattle a door and come in, just because she recognizes him/her. More befuddled by the day too. Her son couldn't be supported anymore by her. Sad that a co-worker had to step in as the other children wouldn't step up and handle it.
Load More Replies...there is nothing wrong with living with your parents and doing what you love, especially in this ridiculous economy where its to the point that it's almost impossible for anybody not working for a office to afford even the smallest apartments with how inflated things got unless your extremely lucky or find the most run down places in existence. but there is a huge difference between living with your parents and freeloading. if your going to live with your parents, pay rent help around the house and get your own damn groceries
I hope this guy managed to sort himself out enough to get some sort of employment so he could keep his room and his computer. It sucks to be the disfunctional f**k-up just as much as it sucks to be related to one. He sounds like a deeply unhappy person, unable to cope with life. If he isn't able to engage with therapy, is there any way the family can get him on a short psych hold and get him on anti-depressants at least? Sometimes that provides enough mood stabilisation to let the patient engage in helping themself.
Mental health issues are a reason, not an excuse for shitty behaviour, but at the end of the day he's responsible for his own choices and one of those is to seek help or not. He's had far more in the way of access to mental health support than a lot of people and he chose to refuse it. Some times shitty people are just shitty people.
Load More Replies...So I'm going to get down voted, but here goes; at some stage in everybody's life we become our own problem. It doesn't matter if this guy has all the disorders or mental health problems in the world, he has to carry his baggage himself. I've have depression, anxiety the full monty, but the world doesn't owe me anything.
I agree. As a person with mental health problems they are there but they are not an excuse to be shitty. Its my responsability to improve, not my familys
Load More Replies...What part of him gives him the belief that "he's too good for McDonald's"???? I think McDonald's is too good for him. Don't let this man have a job near food.
I wouldn’t get too giddy about a person who is obviously mentally ill. But he does need help his family cannot provide for him. He’s certainly headed for prison where he won’t get the help he needs either.
I mean he sucks. But it just really doesn't sit well with me, how OP is refusing to call him anything other than a derogatory remark and is dismissive of any steps their brother is taking to start and build a life for himself. Uber is a job, and a shithole you are paying for yourself is still *your* shithole, much better than your parent's basement. All these condescending, derogatory remarks will just add to his problems. As for not going to the expensive therapy. Guess who does that? Yep. People who need it most. The first step a patient needs to take is to actually recognize that they have a problem they cannot solve without professional help. You can't just throw money at it and wish those problems away. Speaking as someone who was never good enough and who was always getting one shitty remark after the other, it can have a huge impact and can lead to petulant, avoidant behaviour.








































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