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Whoever Raised These 42 Parents Should Probably Ask For A Refund
Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world, and it’s impossible to be perfect at it. No matter how much you love your children, there will be days when you accidentally drop them off at school wearing two different pairs of shoes or make them instant noodles for dinner because you just don’t have the energy to cook. No parent deserves to be crucified for these moments.
But there are some things that moms and dads definitely do deserve to be shamed for. We visited a community on Reddit that is dedicated to calling out the most questionable decisions that parents have ever made. From giving a baby a cell phone to putting a child on a motorcycle without a helmet, it’s clear that Mom and Dad don’t always know best. Good luck making it through this list without wanting to call child protective services, pandas, and be sure to upvote the pics that you find most appalling!
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#2
Quora Has Some Gems
Con O Cuinn 1 day ago
My uncle had long hair that my granny hated so she tried to cut it in his sleep, because she was nuts like that. But obviously he was lying on part of his head and she couldn't get it, and thought he'd be forced to go and get a proper haircut now. Nope, walked around with that mess for months to spite her.
#3
Anything For Clout
While having kids certainly isn’t for everyone, it is the path that most people take in many countries. The United States Census Bureau reports that from age 30 onward, the majority of women are mothers. Meanwhile, about 6 in ten men over the age of 15 are fathers.
Because having children is so common, the decision to have a kid isn’t always taken as seriously as it should be. Some people never planned on it but decided to go through with an unexpected pregnancy. Others may have been looking forward to it, but they failed to understand just how drastically a child would impact their life. Nothing can truly prepare you for parenthood, but the more you know, the better. Because an unprepared or disengaged parent might end up getting roasted on a list just like this.
#4
It’s Normal!
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 1 day ago
The kids are your responsibility, the damage they cause are your responsibility.
#5
We Know Everything About You
Tha Monkey 1 day ago
This is so sweet; I'm pretty sure my parents never read any of the stories I wrote in school (and I really loved writing). :|
#6
Limiting The Amount Of Water Your Child Can Drink
Angela Wollos 1 day ago
wow! way to deprive your child of a necessity of life. children cost money. is this a surprise to you? take yourselves to the Dr to find out if there's something wrong with you.
Now, we want to make it clear that this list is not meant to shame all parents. We completely understand that nobody is perfect, and all moms and dads have days when it feels like nothing is going right. But being extremely entitled or making choices that place your children in danger definitely shouldn’t go unchecked.
Johns Hopkins reports that nearly half of children growing up in the United States are exposed to traumatic social or family experiences during childhood. While parents can’t protect their kids from everything, they are sometimes responsible for these experiences. And this can have a lifelong impact on kids, sometimes even leading to them becoming estranged from their parents in adulthood.
#7
Mum Is Angry At Her Child For Growing
#8
Family Had Symptoms Of Covid But Sent Child To School Regardless
#9
Father Abandons 7-Year-Old On Mount Fuji To Reach Summit
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 1 day ago
Safely reunited with his father? How about he is given to a family member who cares for the kid?
Mark Travers, PhD, wrote a piece for Psychology Today about how even good parents can traumatize their children unintentionally. First, he notes that parents can do damage by failing to tune in for their kids, even if they do care for them. Kids need more than just food and a roof over their heads to thrive. They need emotional support, someone who will listen to them, someone who is invested in their accomplishments, and of course, lots of love.
#10
They'd Better Not Sue When That Child Is Yeeted Off A Ride Like A Drunken Flea
Ashley Harrold 1 day ago
There's a reason for the limit. It's terrifying that he's willing to let his child get hurt instead of taking turns on rides
#11
Yes, The Problem Is Definitely Not That You Gave A Phone To A 2 Year Old!
#12
Kid Got The Wrong Bag Of Cookies LOL
In the same vein, Dr. Travers warns that parents can harm their kids by failing to give them emotional feedback. When kids are left to try to understand and navigate their feelings completely on their own, they can become confused or overwhelmed easily. They might wonder whether what they’re feeling is normal at all, and they might struggle to find healthy coping mechanisms.
#13
I Wonder Why The Kid Needs A Door
#14
My Moms Response To Me Sending Her Flowers For Mother’s Day
#15
I Have No Words
Something else children desperately need from their parents is affection. But it can’t just come and go sporadically; it has to be consistent. Dr. Travers explains that children who cannot rely on their parents to provide affection will learn to minimize their feelings. In adulthood, they will likely be uncomfortable asking for support or showing vulnerability, and they may chronically feel lonely.
#16
Why Is She Still With Him!?
#18
Lincoln Park Zoo Chicago
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 1 day ago
I wonder why they had a fence? It is almost as if the animals might be dangerous.
Something that many people refuse to accept is that not all parents are happy with their choice to have kids. And while this does not justify treating them poorly, it may explain it in some cases. A 2021 YouGov survey found that one in twelve parents actually regret having children. They would probably never say this outloud, and they likely felt extreme guilt admitting it. But this is just one more reason why the decision to have children should never be taken lightly. Kids deserve the best, and their parents should be sure that they want them.
#19
How Do You Let Your Children Live In Such Filth?
YakFactory 1 day ago
Use that empty box, and put all the rubbish in it. Then find a rubbish bin and empty the box into it. Not that hard, is it?
#20
Way To Get Your Kid To Hate You In The Future
#21
My Wife Ate My Son's Birthday Breakfast
If you’ve never felt the desire to become a parent, that’s perfectly fine. In fact, it’s great that you recognized that in yourself before making a huge mistake. Nowadays, people are becoming much more vocal about their choice to remain childfree, and slowly but surely, society is placing less pressure on adults to start a family. Many people believe that it’s better to regret not having kids than to regret bringing a child into the world. So if you’re confident in your choice not to become a parent, know that you’re not alone!
#22
Found This On Facebook
#23
On A Post Calling Parents That Don’t Get Their Kids To Believe In Santa “Sad”
crashthegreenhat 1 day ago
Oh yes we do have ways of knowing. For example, you broadcasting your emotional a***e on a public forum is one.
#24
I'm Pretty Sure You Aren't Supposed To Do This. At Least She Had A Helmet On
Lady Gypsy Rain 16 hours ago
I can remember as a kid around that age, my step, soon to be adoptive, father would take me to school like this. I had to wear long pants, preferably denim, and a helmet. And he was extra mindful about how he drove.
Ace 15 hours ago
Eh? No, that's not bald, loads of life left in it. The tread pattern is what it looks like brand new (although obviously it is not).
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TonjaLasagne 1 day ago
Kiddo has pegs that she can reach, is wearing an helmet, but needs a jacket. My son rode on the back of my bike when he was around 7 or 8 and he now owns three motorcycles himself, including the 2002 Triumph Daytona 955i CE that I gifted to him because I wasn't riding it enough.
Ace 1 day ago
It's legal in most places as long as they can reach the footrests. Looks like they've added special ones for the child, but I don't know if that would count.
Strings 1 day ago
Generally, the "child foot pegs" count. But I certainly wouldn't allow a kid on the back without a sissy bar to keep them in place
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Angelyn Poole 7 hours ago
I don't think the driver is old enough to even drive, let alone take this little girl with him.
What do you think of the photos featured on this list, pandas? While they are amusing, some might make you worry for the children involved in these situations. Keep upvoting the pics that you find most appalling, and let us know in the comments below how you feel about these parents’ questionable choices. Then, if you’re interested in reading another article from Bored Panda featuring parents who could use a reality check, we recommend checking out this one next!
#25
They Really Are Having Kids Just For The Content
#27
And How Did You Lose Your Kid Again?
Upstaged75 10 hours ago
Apparently this happens more often than you may think. I just saw a video from Japan where a kid did the same thing! I've seen others as well. You'd think the machines would be designed so kids can't get inside - but apparently that's not the case.
#28
Why?! ( Found This On A Facebook Group Page )
#29
Parents Are Asking For Tips At Kids' Birthday Parties Now
#30
In Honor Of Tax Season
Brian Droste 1 day ago (edited)
Depends on your age and whether you are working. Unless you are going to college, once you turn 18 even though you are living at home, especially if you are working I believe you are not a dependent any longer. Even if you make below to claim taxes you still have to fill out a tax form.
#31
Do Not Have A Baby
#32
7yo Gets Bullied At School For Sitting In A Car Seat, So Mom Waits Until He's Asleep, Takes A Photo Of Him, And Posts It On The Official Parents Magazine Instagram Page (855k Followers)
#33
Wait Until She Learns About "Real World" Office Jobs
#34
You Do Know There's Such A Thing As "In Moderation", Right?
Lady Gypsy Rain 16 hours ago
It’s far better to teach moderation. When you make foods off limits, kids will find a way to sneak them in and they won’t know how to enjoy things in moderation.
#35
Had To Take A Picture Before I Called The Cops
Lukas (he/him) 1 day ago
Nah taking a picture in this case is okay. He's already in there, he's not suffocating, he'll probably laugh at this when he's older.
#36
He Really Said 'Permanent Decisions, Temporary Feelings'
#37
Parent Going To The Extreme To Teach Kids A Lesson?
#38
Dumb And Useless Parents Risking Their Child’s Safety On The Road
#39
Just Living The Jream
#40
Spell Checking Your Child's Diary For Linkedin Points
YakFactory 1 day ago
Why are you reading your child's diary? Unless it's a school diary, give your child some respect and privacy.
#41
Coder Mom Gets Mad At Her Son For Using His Resources
Lukas (he/him) 1 day ago
"Gets Mad At Her Son For Using His Resources"? No, he was cheating. Test taking isn't always about the actual knowledge, it's about building skills and using your brain.
#42
What Were They Thinking?
Nicole Weymann 1 day ago
I think the argument was that babies should get fresh air, and depending on when the photo was taken, the living conditions inside (tenement in the early 1900s?) might be xtremely cramped. The picture does make me uncomfortable, though. An accident waiting to happen
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Binky Melnik 15 hours ago (edited)
I think all of my questions about by people are so awful (and illiterate) these days have been answered in this one post. I’m gonna call my dad and thank him for raising me properly.
Binky Melnik 15 hours ago (edited)
I think all of my questions about by people are so awful (and illiterate) these days have been answered in this one post. I’m gonna call my dad and thank him for raising me properly.
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