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I've been an incredibly shy kid. Growing up shy can be quite challenging, and because I am still struggling today I drew some comics about being the shy kid.

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#1

Why Is This So Hard?

Why Is This So Hard?

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Hans
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The same happens in corporate meeting rounds. You start preparing how to introduce yourself. "Hello I am X Y, I work as ABC....No: hello, X Y my name, currently working on ABC. No. Ok, still two people before I need to go. Wait, why is the person next to me leaving the room? Everyone eyeing me now? Oh, It is my turn..." – "Herrg Err Err, I X Y am, uh, er, working also here, yes, er, thank you."

Mascha Claessens
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm kinda half-ish shy, not in every situation, but this sounds SO familiar. XD I always think of something to say, and it ALWAYS comes out entirely different and weird.

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Coco!
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it goes like this: Here, Here, Here, here, then that one dude that says PRESENT. and then the other dude that says HI then that other dude that has no friends says PENGUINS

Kann
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always feel my heart beats super fast when it's my turn. And when I finish, I sweat like hell --> feel even more embarassed =.=

Ivy_Fox
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've done this but when they called my name, I was SO focused on thinking of saying my name at the right time that I didn't say it at the right time.

Calvin Suzuki
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Noooo why u stop posting we love ur art

Alla
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My last name is hard to pronounce, the teachers always struggle and they end up saying the first letter of my last name

Gail Courtney
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

PLEASE tell me the black cat got the same `happy ending' with her human, that the "Good Dog" got.

Midna Geno
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went thru this so many times.

Jazmyn
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm extremely shy in some circumstances but I've never experienced this before. I'm always able to answer my name in a roll call without a problem.

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    #2

    Missed Opportunities And All That Regret Afterwards

    Missed Opportunities And All That Regret Afterwards

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    MBZ MetalsmithArtist
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took a year of offering to get my son's girlfriend to accept my offers of after school snacks- in contrast, his best (male) friend knows where I keep the rice cakes that I buy just for him. I was the kid that would be dying of hunger at friend's houses- I hate to think that our guests are uncomfortable in any way

    Nope
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you are a first class host!

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    Hans
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical friends mom: "I will leave it here anyway, I am sure you will get hungry soon. Well, to be sure I will prepare a second one!"

    EvilDinosaur
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true!! Plus it’s a challenge because I’m such a hypocrite about this because I’ll deny myself food until I practically pass out if I’m at a new friends house etc, but then INSIST that other people have to eat because I don’t want them to get hungry...

    Magdalina777
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's interesting. Is that a mentality difference? Here it's seen as kind of rude to not accept/eat food offered so it's kind of the opposite, I'll sometimes fail at refusing stuff I really don't like(and then I also have to say it's super nom and all) XD

    Miss Cris
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical moms and grannys offering food as for a whole country, and, if you don't finish it, asking "don't you like it?" with that offended face...

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    Kiki
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done this, not so much because I'm shy but because my stepfather drilled it into us not to accept "charity" from anyone. And charity meant ANYTHING you did not personally work for and buy yourself, which meant not eating at a friend's house.

    Daniel Romlin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    im the opposite i accept the snack because otherwise i think i am rude

    Bryson
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something that I would do

    Bunzilla
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My gosh this happens to me CONSTANTLY. Once I was at this playpark sort of place as a kid. I went with a few kids I knew and a kid I really didn't know too well, and that kid's mom was the chaperone. So we were buying snacks and everyone else got water bottles and I was like "just give me a cup, I can fill it in the water fountain." because I'd seen my mom do that before. And she was like, "No it's fine," But I INSISTED even though I really wanted a water bottle, but thought it's too late to turn back now. And then everyone laughed at me. I was like eight or nine.

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    #3

    Simple Questions Are So Hard To Ask

    Simple Questions Are So Hard To Ask

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    Reni W.
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this has happened to me so many times

    matafanaku
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Courage is pretty rare for me too.

    Magdalina777
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My latest feat on that field is work-related questions(not even the "how do I do this?" but rather the "what is it that needs done here exactly?" kind of questions which are not just legitimate but welcome usually) and 2 hours self-coaxing I have to do every time before asking one XD I think I'm improving though, more like 1 hour now

    Bezza Assefa
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok. This? This right here, just made me realize how much of a shy person I REALLY am!😫😂

    Jazmyn
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, this is definitely me. Usually I just improvise. For example, if I need white out, I just scribble the word out instead even though it looks messy.

    Rebecah Ozuna
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He, in my country, we grab stuff without asking.... and many instead of returning it just put it inside their purses.

    Miss Cris
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my country we often take it without asking but we return it, too !

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    Last Hurrah
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    7 years ago

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    Maybe it's better she didn't get the scissors.

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    #4

    Sometimes People Think You're Arrogant Or Cold

    Sometimes People Think You're Arrogant Or Cold

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    Kann
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always been exactly like this. Most of the time, people find me unfriendly and weird. I have almost no friends. I wish people knew that I was just shy but always willing to give a hand when they need help :'(

    mrreeow
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me too, I was way more shy when I was younger but have gotten more outgoing as I got older. Although when I'm in large groups I tend to just stay quiet and not talk, people always ask me if I'm okay or if I'm mad but I'm just content with observing everyone and staying out of the spotlight.

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    Rebecah Ozuna
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, as soon as somebody ask me to talk i'm been told to shut up because my opinions doesn't match to the people around me. Acceptance is a lie; people don't like the ones that are different.

    Nini Meow
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I have reccuring thoughts about my talkative nature!

    Lisa
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People always say I'm arrogant, I've pretty much gotten used to it

    Ash E
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My whole life is this. And let's not forget when we're in the bathroom and over hear girls talking about how stuck up you are and that "she thinks she's so much better than everyone". When in fact you have NEVER said that (or anything for that matter) or thought that. Actually the opposite- but if that's the way they talk about and judge you when you say NOTHING! Why the F*ck would you ever open your mouth to let those people know you?

    Bart Mika
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don/t worry. Im 38 and I just exactly like you :)

    Leigh C.
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People used to think I was a snob. But they loved me when it came to Hide n' Seek and any other game that required silence

    Flexiegirl94
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i find it very hard to talk to new people and speak up for myself. i can relate

    Vesna Sunrider
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah I had no problem confronting a guy too tall even for me (I'm 180cm) at the gas station, because I saw him hitting a woman he was with. But speaking up for myself... 🙄

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    Nope
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last 3 frames is pretty much anyone/everyone who practices the least bit of introspection.

    Calvin Suzuki
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it socially acceptable to say “why are you so quiet?” But not socially acceptable to say “you talk to much”? Extraversion has become the norm across humans that people put down introverts and shy people.

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    #5

    Mom Just Never Understood

    Mom Just Never Understood

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    Kann
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so me. Sometimes I even pretend being 'suddenly' ill so I don't have to greet them in person >.<

    Wolfblood Fanatic
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents got divorced when I was young but IDK and so do they but my mom has a boyfriend and I'm kinda introverted AND extroverted at times so when I was younger, do you know how I overcame my shyness? By putting my hands on my head and ramming into his stomach like a bull. Still do it!

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    Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My WHOLE childhood!!

    Maryse Delacoure
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    " *Gaspu* J'espère qu'il y aura encore de la pizza une fois qu'ils seront partis "

    Bored Bear
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually wait in my room till the guests are gone and eat the leftover snacks by myself.

    Jazmyn
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't happen to me actually. Whenever my step parents have guests over, they always force me to sit at the dining table with them. Normally our guests are adults so it's not too bad.

    Hi,itsme
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done this many time. I thought i am the only one who does that.

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    #6

    As If School Life Wasn't Hard Enough

    As If School Life Wasn't Hard Enough

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    Kjorn
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    totally me when i was in school

    Rebekah
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Groups are the worst!

    Carolina Ren
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We teacher know!! But discussing a topic helps with active learning. We introduce the topic, you work in group then the evaluation.

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    Leigh C.
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was always given either no task or the least liked task.

    Fat Fox
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can relate. This makes my blood shiver

    Tor Rolf Strøm
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The three most hated words in my whole school history.. PLEASE FORM GROUPS.

    Bored Fox
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually had to do all the group works alone at school.

    Charlotte Cui
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    quick shoutout to the one friend that would always let me pair with her

    Rebecah Ozuna
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO! No eye contact.... they'll steal your soul. Really, it's what i thought it'll happened to me the first time i looked at somebody' face. I remember very well that pain in my heart. But i got over it and i'm cool with it.

    #7

    Is It The Right Time To Speak?

    Is It The Right Time To Speak?

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    Daria B
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add to this also polite behaviour, like, waiting for the person to let them finish because you don't want to interrupt their talking, and there you go! Mute forever. *sigh*

    Shana
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And when you finally decide to say something during a moment of silence , someone else starts talking again, noone really hears what you say and you feel like an idiot...

    Amanda Ford
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am like this at my in-laws' ALL THE TIME! They never shut up. I've gotten much better over the past 17 years at speaking out, but they often still ignore me (sometimes because I'm too quiet), or they ignore that I'm actually giving them the answer/information they're looking for/wondering about as their conversation. They do this latter one with my husband too, constantly! It's not our faults that we're both geeky nerds (or would it be nerdy geeks?) and they nearly all come across as air heads. \OO/

    Sara Rose
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then when you do say something but you are ignored or just plain interrupted, it makes you not want to even try to join in a conversation.

    Cora Woodcook
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially kids when they're near adults

    Jamie Davis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OPPOSITE of this I'm like So.....what's this about because what I have to say is.......

    Clancy YIN
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when people talk, I seldom join them

    Rebecah Ozuna
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not shy, i just don't give a horse.

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    #8

    When Is Talking Not Awkward? Sometimes I Can't Tell

    When Is Talking Not Awkward? Sometimes I Can't Tell

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    Clara The Idiot
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I quite often sit there going "ok it's too late now" "well it's DEFINITELY too late now" "damn I could have said something but its been 2 days so maybe not"

    Laugh Fan
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't think I'd want to bless them. Sneeze all over the place why don't ya! I'll just be backing away from your germs ta.

    Rebecah Ozuna
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, the germs! Sneezing them out and straight to you. Sick people should never leave the house.

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    Electric isopod
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you do finally say it and they're all like "what?" And you have to explain and it's mentally exhausting and you wish you just didn't say it....

    Puppi de Jong
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never realized how exhausting being shy could be!!

    Jamie Davis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "oh and bless you by the way" is a thing....

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