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To have a conversation with someone, both of you need to actually listen to each other. Otherwise, a discussion might quickly turn into a shouting match, and nothing useful will come out of it.

Recently, TikTok user @brainwave111 asked women on the platform to share the most effective line they use to shut down men when they start getting too annoying, and thousands responded.

From top-tier diplomacy to creative insults, these phrases cover the full spectrum of how to flip a person, but with words.

#1

Woman speaking assertively to man during dinner conversation “I will not be disrespected by someone I lowered my standards for.”

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    #2

    Man and woman having serious talk over coffee about verbal weapon against men I see our cycles have synced.

    °• Marie •° , Vitaly Gariev Report

    #3

    Woman expressing anger during serious talk with man ‘I can only explain it to you I can’t understand it for you as well.’

    RMc🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🐴🐶 , SHVETS production Report

    #4

    Woman covering ears frustrated while man listens in conversation about verbal weapon against men “ I’d agree with you but then we would both be wrong “ then walk away.

    Elizaaaaaaa , Pavel Danilyuk Report

    sbj
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to use this one, it's brutal and I bet they don't get it

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    #5

    Woman consoling man during difficult discussion One time he was yelling and I said "okay, thats enough of that. let's do some breathing exercises." And then my 3 year old said from the living room "yeah, daddy has big feelings right now." 'then she came over and coached him on his breathing and I tried REALLY hard not to lose it.

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    #6

    Couple discussing seriously at table during verbal weapon exchange between men and women “For someone who eats the food I give him, and the drinks I give him so willingly and without question, you sure are bold.” I say this to my fiancé lol.

    V 🇵🇸 , Alex Green Report

    chi-wei shen
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is the "laughing out loud" part?

    #7

    Couple in bathrobes arguing in bathroom with expressive gestures “I would explain to you why what your saying is wrong but I don’t have the patience nor the crayons to do so.”

    Amber , Diva Plavalaguna Report

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    #8

    Couple having tense conversation in kitchen using verbal weapons “My second husband would never.”

    whit , Vitaly Gariev Report

    #9

    Couple sitting on sofa looking upset during tough conversation about verbal weapon against men “I like your simplicity when it comes to critical thinking.”

    Lauren Wallace , AI25.Studio Studio Report

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    #10

    Just remember, "I'm here because I love you, not because I need you." Queen

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    #11

    Woman expressing concern while talking to man at home Do you even need me for this conversation?

    Clwelty91 , Polina Zimmerman Report

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    #12

    Woman in yellow sweater refusing comfort from man on couch “Please hold while I lower my expectations.”

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    #13

    Woman explaining while man covers face in frustration I accidentally screenshotted our conversation and sent it to him and I meant to send it to a friend he responded “?” And I said “so you can see what you’re saying makes no sense.”

    H , Timur Weber Report

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    #14

    Man and woman facing each other closely in a serious discussion about verbal weapon “Don’t argue longer than you can last.”

    🦋sydney🦋 , Pavel Danilyuk Report

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    #15

    Couple sitting at kitchen table discussing documents with tense expressions I loveeee saying “whatever makes you feel taller.”

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    #16

    Man in glasses sitting in dimly lit room having conversation “if I knew you were gonna act like my ex I would've just stayed with him.”

    ᵀᶜᶜ Her6Eyez 🤍 , cottonbro studio Report

    Ode
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that should be a good reality check

    #17

    Woman in red shirt discussing seriously with another person “I love that you don’t let your height get in the way of your confidence.”

    Leah , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

    Ode
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Points for being savage and for the average white guy reference, but I'd like to see us keeping each other in check when it comes to deeds and behavior and leave the physical appearance in peace, especially when people can't do anything about it (such as with height)

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    #18

    Or “if i was your mother I’d be so disappointed to see that’s how i raised my son” idk why it always strikes a nerve. I love it.

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    #19

    You talk to me like I don't have other options.

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    #20

    Couple sitting pensively indoors in serious conversation “Ugh I love that you’re expanding your vocabulary but that didn’t make sense.”

    JT , Ivan S Report

    #21

    Couple having a serious conversation holding coffee in a home setting I just say nice pixie cut and go about my day.

    Teratalks2dogs , Anna Pou Report

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    #22

    Woman confronting man with intense expression representing savage women verbal weapons “Have you ever said that to a licensed professional?”

    Lacy💕 , Keira Burton Report

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    #23

    Man and woman in heated verbal argument showing savage women verbal weapons “Your voice gets really high when you’re defensive.”

    🐙Maddie🐙 , Yan Krukau Report

    #24

    Couple arguing on couch showing verbal weapon conflict between men and women "How does it feel to fail in the world that was built for you?"

    threeowlsinnatrenchcoat , Getty Images Report

    #25

    Toddler playfully touching father's nose outdoors parenting moment My 4 year old told her dad “that’s a big world for Elmo” when he had told me I was exhausting.

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    #26

    One of my go to’s is “I love how committed you are to this alternate reality you're in.”

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    #27

    Woman thoughtfully listening during a serious discussion with man indoors I tell him “when you’re ready to communicate like an adult you know where to find me.”

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    #28

    Woman looking frustrated while lying on bed with partner nearby “My dad would never.”

    lizzie.dunc , Ron Lach Report

    #29

    Upset woman and man sitting on couch looking away after a fight "That's a weird opinion for your tax bracket."

    Randy Lee , Curated Lifestyle Report

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    #30

    Couple arguing intensely on a couch during a confrontation “That’s a weird thing to say out loud.”

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    #31

    I'm sorry, I thought I was the girl in the relationship?

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    #32

    “This is getting brought up in your monthly review.”

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    #33

    Upset couple ignoring each other after verbal fight illustrating savage women verbal weapons “You’re the first person I’ve met that’s actually achieved their full potential.”

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    #34

    I call him David. David was his father, and while we loved him, he was controlling and very conservative. As soon as my husband starts telling me what I need to do, if I spent too much money, etc… I say, “Great, thanks David, I’ll do better.” Pisses him off, but also makes him rethink what he said to me, and then he apologizes.

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    #35

    Remember when I asked for your opinion? Me neither.

    Norah | Pilates Instructor Report

    #36

    Woman looking away while man stands in sunlight in tense room I also will ask him “spell that for me.”

    LifewithAlisha , cottonbro studio Report

    #37

    Woman expressing frustration while talking to man on couch “Don’t let logic or reason stop you!”

    kirby , Blake Cheek Report

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    #38

    Woman using phone at desk with laptop in home office setting When we’re in a heated text argument I start liking my own texts.

    Hair Loss | Health Coach | CT , Anna Tarazevich Report

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    #39

    “Imma let you have the last word. It seems real important to you.”

    ✨🌘𝒮𝒽𝒾𝓁ℴ𝒽 🌒💫 Report

    #40

    ‘Is that something you really want to have said or would you like a minute to reconsider?’

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    #41

    I said “you know better” one time to my husband and he was speechless.

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    #42

    “Do you ever wish your voice was deeper?”

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    #43

    “It's someone's nap time.”

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    #44

    “Do you like having a girlfriend?”

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    #45

    "Has anyone told you that you're doing a good job today? No? Well you should probably think about that."

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    #46

    "If you think that's a good idea."

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    #47

    I use my best Minnesota accent and say “ What’s going on hun? Ya okay? Ya need a nap or a snack?

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    #48

    You’re really funny… I’m gonna miss that about you.

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    #49

    “Mmm so that’s why” and elaborate on NOTHING.

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    #50

    My husband kept leaving the orange juice pull tab on the counter and it was pissing me off so I asked him twice to stop, the third time I said “you are now choosing to actively disrespect me”. He’s never done it again.

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    #51

    I read somewhere once "I didn't mean to make you so emotional."

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    #52

    "I love how confident you are just saying your thoughts out loud like that."

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    #53

    “That’s between you and your creator please don’t involve me.”

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    #54

    “And that’s how I know our mothers parented us differently.”

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    #55

    “I’m shocked you're comfortable saying that to me.”

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    #56

    "You're making me realize i could've done better."

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    #57

    “Not ONE single person has ever told YOU to leave ME.”

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    #58

    I’ve never been dryer.

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    #59

    “Why do you gotta make me be mean to you.”

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    #60

    Apparently just saying “ok” after everything he says WORKS REAL GOOD.

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    #61

    “Whatever floats your boat.”

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    #62

    I make loud buzzer sounds.

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    #63

    “Shall I write it in crayon for you?”

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    #64

    “Do you ever wish you were athletic?”

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    #65

    Today i said “you hate when i have an attitude but love to activate my attitude.”

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    #66

    “Pretend I’m still here and tell me all about it” then I walk off.

    🍂jillibean🍂 Report

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    #67

    "What's your goal here."

    🖤✨️GoreGirl✨️🖤 Report