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New Neighbor Can’t Stop Sneaking Into Yard, Pregnant Woman Decides Enough Is Enough And Calls Cops
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New Neighbor Can’t Stop Sneaking Into Yard, Pregnant Woman Decides Enough Is Enough And Calls Cops

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You know that saying “good fences make good neighbors”? Well, someone better grab a hammer and some wood because neighborhood life is a mixed bag – you might luck out with the quiet lady or end up next to someone who treats your windows like a free romance channel.

One Redditor found out the hard way that her new neighbor thinks boundaries, both literal and social, are optional when she was forced to call the cops on her for repeatedly creeping around her yard, peeping through her windows.

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    The neighbor’s landlord went on to assure the couple that he would take care of it the same day

    The OP (original poster) is 31, pregnant, and nesting with her husband. They live in a cozy neighborhood where everyone mostly keeps to themselves and waves politely to each other. Life was chill, the neighbors were friendly, and the most exciting thing happening was probably a rogue squirrel stealing birdseed.

    But then came her, the new neighbor with 2 kids, a mysterious past and a tendency to treat other people’s property like an open house. At first, things seemed normal, but then, like a poorly written mystery movie, things started to get weird.

    One night, the OP’s motion light went off, her camera pinged, and guess who was lurking in the backyard? Yep, neighbor lady, just casually strolling, peeking into windows, like in some cheap horror movie. The OP’s husband, who is often away for work, was concerned. Given that the OP is pregnant and alone some nights, the cameras and motion lights weren’t just for show.

    So when their neighbor popped up again, this time near their bedroom window while the couple was having some private time, the OP went from polite to protective really fast. Instead of confronting her neighbor a third time, the OP called the cops, who warned the lady to stay out of the yard or face trespassing charges.

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    And trespassing is no joke. As much as we all want to be good neighbors, there are some things that require the help of the authorities. So, when should someone actually get the police involved in a dispute with a neighbor? Well, the pros say a good rule of thumb is if a neighbor is trespassing, threatening, or violating your safety or privacy, it’s more than fair to call in the pros.

    So, keep all your receipts, like videos, photos, and notes, as they help build a clear case. And don’t worry about looking petty, because if someone’s peeking into your windows at night, it’s not you being paranoid, it’s them being creepy. Because peeping neighbors aren’t just nosy, they’re potentially breaking the law. There’s a big difference between catching a glimpse of someone watering plants and lurking around their house.

    Most places have laws protecting residents from surveillance, stalking, or recording without consent. Even if someone claims they were “just walking,” if they’re regularly showing up at your home uninvited, especially at night or near private areas like windows or bedrooms, it crosses into privacy invasion territory. I don’t know about you, but I think I’d be lawyering up at this point.

    What do you think of this story? Was the poster wrong for calling the cops on her neighbor? Drop your thoughts and comments below!

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    Monica Selvi

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi! I'm Moni. I’m a globetrotting creative with a camera in one hand and a notebook in the other. I’ve lived in 4 different countries, an visited 17, soaking up inspiration wherever I go. A marketer by trade but a writer at heart, I’ve been crafting stories, poems, and songs, and creating quirky characters since I was 7.

    What do you think ?
    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a gorgeous 1.6 acre property with a perennial brook running through it, forested areas, and small fields of wildflowers. The trespassing is constant, to the extent that I was forced to put up fences. People claimed they thought my driveway was a road, despite the fact there's a prominent mailbox at the end of it. "Oh, I'm not hurting anything." Yeah, you are. My peace of mind. I'm not going to be liable if you hurt yourself or drown.

    Kristen Woehlke
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My now ex and I moved into a house and the neighborhood seemed nice. One night, we woke up to some guys outside of our bedroom window, near the AC unit. Ex said, "don't worry about it. Just some guys walking around at night". At 1am?!? Oh hell no! I reached under the bed and got my shotgun, went to the front door and was combat loading that thing as I walked around the house. I confronted two guys with a loaded Remington and they took off! And ex was former military!! By the Gods, I wish this was a made up story... That man was such a damned p***y a*s b***h!

    Annabelle
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, those people giving them looks are also nosy, intrusive neighbors.

    Hoodoo
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A neighbor trespassing & peeping is creepy at best. Regardless of her motive/ mental status, her behavior is alarming & OP has every right to get authorities involved. Sounds like the other neighbors are a pack of hyenas & I'd avoid them as well. I'd build a high fence or consider moving.

    CatWoman1014
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have mental health issues, but I’ve never peeked through anyone’s windows….that seems like something else deeply disturbing is going on

    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it’s mental health problems or maybe she’s looking for something to steal.

    J R
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so creepy! If she truly has mental health issues, I hope she gets help. But calling the police was absolutely necessary. I'd be worried she was planning either a robbery or an a*****t. And with OP being pregnant and home alone, the risk is higher.

    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My lovely neighbours rented a room in their house. Early one morning around 5 a.m. I looked out of my back window to see this woman crawling along the garden walls. Very odd. Watched for a minute or two but she started moving towards my house. I rapped sharply on my window. She looked up startled but couldn't work out where the noise came from. Thankfully she decided discretion was the greater part of valour and turned tail. Told Michael (her landlord) what I'd seen. She moved out not long after.

    BrownEyedPanda
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP made the right decision to call the police. That neighbor wouldn't have stopped until she actually entered the house; who knows what would have happened after that. If that neighbor tried that when my father was alive, she wouldn't be. The last thing she would have heard was "click-click, BOOM!" In an unincorporated part of town, firearms are allowed.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a gorgeous 1.6 acre property with a perennial brook running through it, forested areas, and small fields of wildflowers. The trespassing is constant, to the extent that I was forced to put up fences. People claimed they thought my driveway was a road, despite the fact there's a prominent mailbox at the end of it. "Oh, I'm not hurting anything." Yeah, you are. My peace of mind. I'm not going to be liable if you hurt yourself or drown.

    Kristen Woehlke
    Community Member
    4 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My now ex and I moved into a house and the neighborhood seemed nice. One night, we woke up to some guys outside of our bedroom window, near the AC unit. Ex said, "don't worry about it. Just some guys walking around at night". At 1am?!? Oh hell no! I reached under the bed and got my shotgun, went to the front door and was combat loading that thing as I walked around the house. I confronted two guys with a loaded Remington and they took off! And ex was former military!! By the Gods, I wish this was a made up story... That man was such a damned p***y a*s b***h!

    Annabelle
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, those people giving them looks are also nosy, intrusive neighbors.

    Hoodoo
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A neighbor trespassing & peeping is creepy at best. Regardless of her motive/ mental status, her behavior is alarming & OP has every right to get authorities involved. Sounds like the other neighbors are a pack of hyenas & I'd avoid them as well. I'd build a high fence or consider moving.

    CatWoman1014
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have mental health issues, but I’ve never peeked through anyone’s windows….that seems like something else deeply disturbing is going on

    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it’s mental health problems or maybe she’s looking for something to steal.

    J R
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's so creepy! If she truly has mental health issues, I hope she gets help. But calling the police was absolutely necessary. I'd be worried she was planning either a robbery or an a*****t. And with OP being pregnant and home alone, the risk is higher.

    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My lovely neighbours rented a room in their house. Early one morning around 5 a.m. I looked out of my back window to see this woman crawling along the garden walls. Very odd. Watched for a minute or two but she started moving towards my house. I rapped sharply on my window. She looked up startled but couldn't work out where the noise came from. Thankfully she decided discretion was the greater part of valour and turned tail. Told Michael (her landlord) what I'd seen. She moved out not long after.

    BrownEyedPanda
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP made the right decision to call the police. That neighbor wouldn't have stopped until she actually entered the house; who knows what would have happened after that. If that neighbor tried that when my father was alive, she wouldn't be. The last thing she would have heard was "click-click, BOOM!" In an unincorporated part of town, firearms are allowed.

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