Person Questions Why Tampons Are Seen As Cool And Pads Aren’t, Someone Explains How It Happened
Feminine hygiene is a super subjective business that really comes down to every single individual. However, some people have noted that there exists a kind of product hierarchy that puts tampons above pads.
In order to find out what’s going on with the war between pads and tampons, one Tumblr user posed the question: “Why is it that people who wear tampons are seen as ‘strong’ and ‘cool’” while those who wear pads aren’t? And one woman took a stand and shared an educated explanation on the origins of the ongoing pads vs. tampons war.
It turns out, she wrote a whole PhD paper on the subject matter, which left her “four male classmates and one male professor in varying shades of paleness.” So, let’s see what she is talking about right down below.
This Tumblr user decided to find out why there’s stigma against wearing pads
Bored Panda reached out to Jennifer Weiss-Wolf, a leading voice for equitable menstrual policy in America, a co-founder of Period Equity, and the author of the book “Periods Gone Public: Taking a Stand for Menstrual Equity.”
Jennifer agreed to comment on period stigma and tampon bias: “Throwing it back to when I was a teenager (and I’m proud Gen X!), I definitely felt a pro-tampon bias.” The menstrual activist said that she’d “attribute much of that perception to the blizzard of advertising from the big brands.”
Jennifer explained: “Tampon ads came across as edgy and sophisticated, while pads were presented in a stodgier way, often soaked in blue liquid. Before her rise to ‘Friends’ fame, a sporty, feather-haired Courteney Cox was the first to use the word ‘period’ on national TV in a 1985 commercial for Tampax—cementing the cool factor for millions of teens.”
And this woman came with an informative explanation
Image credits: lady-byleth
But Jennifer notes that in many cultures and communities around the world, tampons are viewed with suspicion because of their internal usage. “The biological function of menstruation gets conflated with sexualization, and tampons are very much embedded in that stigma. For example, there’s a commonly held fear that tampons will compromise a girl’s virginity.”
As it comes to the broader stigma and secrecy toward periods, we’ve seen more change towards demystifying periods in recent years. “Activists around the world are breaking barriers by fighting for menstrual equity policies—from eliminating the ‘tampon tax,’ to ensuring transparency in menstrual product labeling, to advocating for accurate health and sex ed, to addressing needs of trans and non-binary people who also have periods,” explained Jennifer.
There’s still some way to go, but even across social media and mainstream news, periods are now in headlines and hashtags, showing they’re finally becoming public.
And this is what people had to say about it
I must be living under a rock coz I have never heard of people thinking using tampons are some how more superior to women who wear pads etc. I was terrified of tampons when I was younger coz I was worried it would get stuck, get TSS and the thought of sticking it in disgusted me. That was until I unexpectedly got my periods as I was on my way to work. As I was transferring from one bus to another I had to run to the shops and get some supplies. Unfortunately I had zero money so I had to make the awful decision to steal a box of tampons. They were small and discreet so easier to hide than a pack of pads. I had never stolen before so I was absolutely s******g myself that I would get busted. Not just for stealing but for stealing a pack of tampons.
Actually, me neither, but I DID notice the tendency to talk about menstrual hygiene as if tampons were all there is that's available out there.
Load More Replies...I know that's right. Literally all the products suck and/or cause me pain .
Load More Replies...Okay, this was interesting. It explains a bunch of different things too, such as the white clothes (I thought it was merely to tell you don't need to care about leaks). Now, my next question. Why were those guys described in her post so pale? Don't males know about biology? Duh.... (No, but seriously, I thank and appreciate all of you guys out there who don't make any big deal out of something so mundane and ordinary, but for those of you who do, it really makes you look.... not so smart, sorry. But the good news is, you can still improve.)
Also, up until the 80s or 90s, pads were very thick and were very inconvenient to wear. That's why tampons played the "easy to move freely" card
I posted that I had a real-life encounter with TSS as a t-user, and BP wouldn't let me post it b/c they said it was too similar to stories that were reported. So, who is reporting tales of women having complications related to menstruation and its products? B/c TSS is real. The abrasions (even microscopic) from insertion and removal can allow bacteria to enter the bloodstream, causing shock, infection, etc. Been there, done that. So here we go again, and I challenge BP to tell me I cannot post that, yes, tampon ads are designed to lure you into thinking it's all good, but it IS a risk.
As a man, the personal feelings of having a period are a complete mystery to me, but I have always been curious about the squeamishness that is evident in one particular aspect and not limited, it would seem, to just the men! So, please explain, why does no one ever mention blood? It's not 'liquid' and it's certainly not blue! Or is this the last taboo?
Yes. In general, we never see menstruation or lactancy in art, for example, as not concerning to men every female question has been hidden or considered boring, unuseful and finnally taboo. It's not your fault but patriarchy.
Load More Replies...first, it's about damn time periods become an issue that isn't shamed, hidden, etc. it's not gross, not disgusting; it's a natural function. need to teach this to boys/men, too. i can remember when tampons weren't that common (yes, i am an old fart). we had those funky elastic belts that pads had to be tied/connected to & heaven help us if it wasn't secure. or if you weren't stick thin. results were messy and/or recurring blister on your fupa. had hysterectomy due to cancer; miss my ovaries, not the periods
I am old enough to remember that - but like many ladies - switched to a cup and some washable panty liners for the first days and it is AMAZING. No TSS, you can put it in when you expect your period that day, no worries, no pain, no damage, take out, rinse out, after period, boil out with vinegar and DONE. You save so much money too!
The no tss has not been fully researched yet!
Load More Replies..."a whole PhD paper" is really misleading because it sounds like you mean she wrote her thesis on it. She made it her subject for a paper she wrote in the course of ONE WEEK. Edit: I mean she still knows much more than most people do, but it's absolutely not a thesis.
You missed it when she wrote, “We had to write a short paper each week and present them conference-style”.
Load More Replies...I must be living under a rock coz I have never heard of people thinking using tampons are some how more superior to women who wear pads etc. I was terrified of tampons when I was younger coz I was worried it would get stuck, get TSS and the thought of sticking it in disgusted me. That was until I unexpectedly got my periods as I was on my way to work. As I was transferring from one bus to another I had to run to the shops and get some supplies. Unfortunately I had zero money so I had to make the awful decision to steal a box of tampons. They were small and discreet so easier to hide than a pack of pads. I had never stolen before so I was absolutely s******g myself that I would get busted. Not just for stealing but for stealing a pack of tampons.
Actually, me neither, but I DID notice the tendency to talk about menstrual hygiene as if tampons were all there is that's available out there.
Load More Replies...I know that's right. Literally all the products suck and/or cause me pain .
Load More Replies...Okay, this was interesting. It explains a bunch of different things too, such as the white clothes (I thought it was merely to tell you don't need to care about leaks). Now, my next question. Why were those guys described in her post so pale? Don't males know about biology? Duh.... (No, but seriously, I thank and appreciate all of you guys out there who don't make any big deal out of something so mundane and ordinary, but for those of you who do, it really makes you look.... not so smart, sorry. But the good news is, you can still improve.)
Also, up until the 80s or 90s, pads were very thick and were very inconvenient to wear. That's why tampons played the "easy to move freely" card
I posted that I had a real-life encounter with TSS as a t-user, and BP wouldn't let me post it b/c they said it was too similar to stories that were reported. So, who is reporting tales of women having complications related to menstruation and its products? B/c TSS is real. The abrasions (even microscopic) from insertion and removal can allow bacteria to enter the bloodstream, causing shock, infection, etc. Been there, done that. So here we go again, and I challenge BP to tell me I cannot post that, yes, tampon ads are designed to lure you into thinking it's all good, but it IS a risk.
As a man, the personal feelings of having a period are a complete mystery to me, but I have always been curious about the squeamishness that is evident in one particular aspect and not limited, it would seem, to just the men! So, please explain, why does no one ever mention blood? It's not 'liquid' and it's certainly not blue! Or is this the last taboo?
Yes. In general, we never see menstruation or lactancy in art, for example, as not concerning to men every female question has been hidden or considered boring, unuseful and finnally taboo. It's not your fault but patriarchy.
Load More Replies...first, it's about damn time periods become an issue that isn't shamed, hidden, etc. it's not gross, not disgusting; it's a natural function. need to teach this to boys/men, too. i can remember when tampons weren't that common (yes, i am an old fart). we had those funky elastic belts that pads had to be tied/connected to & heaven help us if it wasn't secure. or if you weren't stick thin. results were messy and/or recurring blister on your fupa. had hysterectomy due to cancer; miss my ovaries, not the periods
I am old enough to remember that - but like many ladies - switched to a cup and some washable panty liners for the first days and it is AMAZING. No TSS, you can put it in when you expect your period that day, no worries, no pain, no damage, take out, rinse out, after period, boil out with vinegar and DONE. You save so much money too!
The no tss has not been fully researched yet!
Load More Replies..."a whole PhD paper" is really misleading because it sounds like you mean she wrote her thesis on it. She made it her subject for a paper she wrote in the course of ONE WEEK. Edit: I mean she still knows much more than most people do, but it's absolutely not a thesis.
You missed it when she wrote, “We had to write a short paper each week and present them conference-style”.
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