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I Photographed The Love Story Of An Old Vietnamese Couple That Has Been Together Since The 30s (15 Pics)
I Photographed The Love Story Of An Old Vietnamese Couple That Has Been Together Since The 30s (15 Pics)
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I Photographed The Love Story Of An Old Vietnamese Couple That Has Been Together Since The 30s (15 Pics)

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Mr. Le Van Se (96 years old) and his wife, Ms. Nguyen Thi Loi (88 years old), live in Hoi An, Vietnam.

They fell in love with each other in the 30s and got married after 10 years. Soon after their wedding, the country fell into war again. Mr. Se joined the army and was captured by the enemy during the war. With longing and pain piling up, his wife stayed at home, waiting every day for her lost husband. In 1954, Mr. Se came home from the battlefield and the couple reunited after so many years of separation. Since then, they built a life together.

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    The couple has 5 children and lived with them in a small village in the outskirts of Hoi An, Quang Nam. The village is called Tra Que, famous for growing vegetables to supply to Hoi An and the surrounding areas.

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    It’s easy to see that they were a rare couple. They lived happily together until they grew old. With the power of love, they overcame all difficulties in life and marriage. They cared for each other and enjoyed happiness together.

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    I met them nearly 10 years ago—at that time, the husband was still in good health. Every afternoon, he carried buckets of water to water the vegetables while she sat next to him and picked them. They made each other laugh and shared many conversations.

    With those beautiful images, the news about Mr. and Mrs. Se spread everywhere. Visitors visiting the ancient town of Hoi An also took some time to visit them and take photos.

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    One day, Ms. Nguyen Thi Loi slipped and broke her leg. She just laid in one place because she couldn’t move. Mr. Se took care of Ms. Loi and their children. Sadly, because of her old age and the pain of the broken leg, she passed away at the age of 88.

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    With the loss of his wife, his life-time partner, Mr. Se was in deep pain and sadness. His health diminished, making it difficult for him to move around, but he still took care of her memorial altar every day and always talked to her in front of it.

    Tourists and photographers were visiting less and less due to the death of his wife. The perfect couple was no longer together for their perfect photos and they gradually moved away from him, leaving him with sadness and memories as he kept whispering about his past, the joys that he used to feel.

    A great love that few people will ever achieve in their lifetime. They lived to love each other for the rest of their lives, still feeling like they were as young and in love as the day they first met.

    Happy Valentine’s Day 2020.

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    VogueGal84
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful story, it sure does remind me of my grandparents. They've been together since they were in their teens, never broken up, now they're in their 80s and still bickering like crazy! ❤️

    Marnie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely beautiful story. We need more of these in life. My parents were married for 58 years when my Mom died. The never understood each other, but loved each other dearly. I never thought my Dad could survive without my Mom. He did survive for two years, but I think that was mainly because he took in a feral cat and felt responsible. They did still bicker :-) It was always something innocuous like, "No you have to turn right there!" "No, it's a left, Don, it's a left." They would get out the map and magnifying glass and resolve it. Big fight, let me tell you ;-)

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    Mark Serbian
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so much beauty. Such perfect smiles.

    Night Owl
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a beautiful story and so heartbreaking that he lost her

    Jennie-Lind Normand
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My heart! Such a beautiful story It reminds me of my great grandparents, always together, they were each other's best friends and did everything together

    Bean59
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my heart just melted all over my desk. omg that was so cute!

    NQ L
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breaks my heart to see that he lost his soulmate

    Alain Siodlowski
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sad to hear about Ms. Nguyen Thi Loik’s passing away. We met them in March 2018 while on a bicycle tour through the rice fields outside of Hoi An. They were such a joyous couple! Great photos Phuoc, you’ve captured their love and spirit.

    ERIN W.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an extraordinary, sweet and sad, love story with equally extraordinary pictures! Just in time for Valentine's day! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE!

    LetsGoSomewhereElse
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met this gentleman while visiting their village just last year. He's such a happy soul!

    Zelda Blue
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This gave me love and sadness at the same time.

    RitaGG
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How absolutely lovely. I would give my left arm to find a relationship as wonderful as this.

    Gina
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her smile is so genuine. Warms my ❤️

    LetsGoSomewhereElse
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met this gentleman while in Vietnam just last year! He's such a happy, incredible soul!

    Deep Sarkar
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Invisible User
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They must be getting on for 37 years old now.

    Jessica
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally want to see a version in color the b&w almost gives it a horror vibe

    Ervin Olive
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    5 years ago (edited)

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    Charlese Bonca
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time I checked this wasn't a marketplace. Go join Facebook or something.

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    VogueGal84
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful story, it sure does remind me of my grandparents. They've been together since they were in their teens, never broken up, now they're in their 80s and still bickering like crazy! ❤️

    Marnie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely beautiful story. We need more of these in life. My parents were married for 58 years when my Mom died. The never understood each other, but loved each other dearly. I never thought my Dad could survive without my Mom. He did survive for two years, but I think that was mainly because he took in a feral cat and felt responsible. They did still bicker :-) It was always something innocuous like, "No you have to turn right there!" "No, it's a left, Don, it's a left." They would get out the map and magnifying glass and resolve it. Big fight, let me tell you ;-)

    Load More Replies...
    Mark Serbian
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so much beauty. Such perfect smiles.

    Night Owl
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a beautiful story and so heartbreaking that he lost her

    Jennie-Lind Normand
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My heart! Such a beautiful story It reminds me of my great grandparents, always together, they were each other's best friends and did everything together

    Bean59
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my heart just melted all over my desk. omg that was so cute!

    NQ L
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breaks my heart to see that he lost his soulmate

    Alain Siodlowski
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sad to hear about Ms. Nguyen Thi Loik’s passing away. We met them in March 2018 while on a bicycle tour through the rice fields outside of Hoi An. They were such a joyous couple! Great photos Phuoc, you’ve captured their love and spirit.

    ERIN W.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an extraordinary, sweet and sad, love story with equally extraordinary pictures! Just in time for Valentine's day! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE!

    LetsGoSomewhereElse
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met this gentleman while visiting their village just last year. He's such a happy soul!

    Zelda Blue
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This gave me love and sadness at the same time.

    RitaGG
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How absolutely lovely. I would give my left arm to find a relationship as wonderful as this.

    Gina
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her smile is so genuine. Warms my ❤️

    LetsGoSomewhereElse
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've met this gentleman while in Vietnam just last year! He's such a happy, incredible soul!

    Deep Sarkar
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Invisible User
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They must be getting on for 37 years old now.

    Jessica
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally want to see a version in color the b&w almost gives it a horror vibe

    Ervin Olive
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited)

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    my friend's sister is dropping 12 kilos each 3 weeks. She has been over weight however final month she commenced out to take those new nutritional nutritional dietary supplements and she has out of place 40 pounds so far. check the internet website on-line proper right here>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> 2­C­a­s­h­b­a­g­.­c­o­m

    Charlese Bonca
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time I checked this wasn't a marketplace. Go join Facebook or something.

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