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40 Foreigners That Visited The US Reveal What Was The Biggest Culture Shock For Them
Going abroad almost always stuns you when you’re suddenly forced to adapt to an entirely new culture. Not to make it sound too simple but things are different elsewhere. [Gasp.] I know. But we tend to underestimate just how different life really is in other countries. And the experience can be truly jaw-dropping for some.
People who went to the United States reported back the weird and hilarious things that they noticed while there, in response to redditor Daleelab’s thread on r/AskEurope. The redditor from the Netherlands wanted to know what the biggest culture shocks were for their fellow site users. And, wow, did they respond in detail.
Their answers paint a very interesting (not to say comical) picture of the United States, from peculiar bathrooms and mega cars to huge drinks and friendly strangers. Check them out below and upvote the answers that made you smile or chuckle. American Pandas, let us know what you think in the comment section. And we can wait for all the Pandas who’ve been to the US to share their own culture shock moments.
The author of the thread, redditor Daleelab, revealed to Bored Panda more about their first trip to the Western United States back in 2014 that inspired their post in the first place. "I was 13 at the time. I presumed the US to be like Europe only bigger. Then when we arrived, it was nothing like Europe, especially the Netherlands. Somehow, I got reminded of that and I wanted to know other people’s experiences going to the US," they said.
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As a German the patriotism is very scarry. I worked in a camp for kids in the woods of North East and the first thing we did in the morning was to gather at the flag and sing the anthem. Every morning! I can't even remember when I sang the Germany anthem the last time?! One time the boys of my group, who were the oldest group in camp, randomly stud up after lunch and started singing the anthem again. All the kids joined in and after they were finished the chanted "USA USA..." And hit on the tables in rythm. I sat there with a guy from South Africa and we both were paralyzed. I guess for someone with a history that made it necessary to reflect critically on patriotism the American patriotism is super scary.
we have national anthems and pledges recited in schools in India too everyday.. But that's about it!!
Police are the rudest and most aggressive I have experienced anywhere in the world (and I say this as someone who's dealt with some famously prickly regimes). I go up to ask directions and they put their hand on their gun. If I have more than a single question they are basically telling me to back off and move along. I always read about conflicts between American police and citizens; with that attitude, no wonder it's a problem.
I was once in California for New Year's eve and had found a driver's license on the ground, so I approached nearby police officers to give it to them so they can get in touch with its owner. They were completely cordial and friendly, so I guess the whole thing is up to everyone's experience...
I witnessed a mother opening several packs of sugar and sprinkle it in their kids Coca Cola. I’m still speechless.
I also can’t comprehend how people think private health insurance is a threat to their freedom or that private prisons could be a good idea.
Lastly, the gap in the toilet doors. WHY
WTF, there is already s**t loads of sugar in coke. I don't think that is a normal US thing, probably just some idiotic parent trying to give their kids diabetes. But correct me if I'm wrong though.
According to the original poster, Daleelab, the biggest difference between the United States and the Netherlands that they found was how many Americans had an "utter obsession with 'patriotism.'" In the redditor's opinion, too much patriotism can lead to "dangerous nationalism."
They said: "I love the Netherlands and I’m happy to be privileged to live here and to be Dutch. But the nationalism in the US is blinding people to the huge faults in their country anyone could see if not for that nationalism. Another big difference is that almost everyone there is a Christian."
Another thing that Daleelab was shocked to see on their visit to the US was that "people would shoot the 'Welcome to [State]' signs." They also were surprised by the road signs: "Everything on the street was spelled out instead of it being symbols. It’s a sign that says 'one way' while a simple arrow would do fine in Europe."
In an interview with Yale News, Sterling Professor of Political Science, Ian Shapiro, said that the trust in politicians, parties, and democratic institutions has become eroded. The cause of this? The transfer of political power to the grassroots. As such, there has been a rise in divisive and populist politics in the US.
“Many people are concerned about the damage Trump has inflicted on America’s political institutions. What they are missing is that Trump is a product of bad political institutions. The main infirmity is that the United States has very weak political parties. They are weak because they are subject to control by unrepresentative voters on their fringes and those who fund them,” Shapiro said.
Having to say the ”Pledge of allegiance“ every single day, not gonna lie I found that really strange because it kinda gave off North Korea vibes to me, that’s just something that would be unheard of in German schools
I saw more obese and morbidly obese people than I ever had seen before in my life. Literally, before I visited NYC, I think I only once or twice saw a morbidly obese person.
My husband was morbidly obese when we went to Blizzcon in 2010 (a convention for gamers). We saw people who needed TWO chairs to sit down. My husband looked tiny compared to a lot of people there. We went to Walmart (cheap store that sells everything) and they sold XL shirts that were bigger than our 5XL for the same price as M/L clothes here. Same with pants. He got multiple new outfits for normal prices that would've cost a fortune here, simply because 'XL' is quite normal in the US.
The poverty. I had been to the US a lot, but always along the costal cities. Sure, I saw homeless people around LA and New York, but I’ve seen homeless people in Sweden too and figured it probably had to do with addiction or mental illness. Then a couple of years ago I decided to travel across the US. I started in Los Angeles, then Nevada and then just moved on throughout the southern parts of the country. There were places that looked like a third world country. Homes barely holding together, people with dirty clothes, just horrible horrible poverty that I’ve never ever seen in a developed country before.
The Dutch redditor who created the thread in the first place shared their own experience with going to America for the very first time.
“I went to the US in 2014. We landed in San Francisco and had to rent a car. We thought, ‘We're in America, let's rent a big car.’ So we rented a ‘big’ car. Then we joined the I101 and we were the smallest car on the road... So with our redefined car, we went to the Golden Gate Bridge but we were hungry,” they wrote.
When I was a young child I went on holiday to Florida. I remember going to a museum and seeing a ‘non guns’ sign at the entrance. My mum has to explain to young me that in the US people regularly carried guns around, which blew my mind. Still does today.
The prices. Deals were extreme. Like you would get 12 donuts for the price of 2.5 single ones. I didnt want to overpay for a single donut, but i couldnt eat 12. So i didnt bought anything.
Healthy stuff was 2x-3× the price Im used to. Unhealthy stuff was half the price.
yeah, healthy food is usually more expensive in almost any industrial country. but the price gaps are alot biggere in the us. it makes people with low income buy unhealthy food - exactly what the food industry wants us to do :(... that‘s a problem everywhere though
How hard it is to walk in smaller cities. Everything is designed around cars. Want to go to the mall across the street? There’s a 6 lane road, good luck crossing that! If you somehow manage to do it, you still have to cross a gigantic parking lot that is like 10% full.
My friend from Finland moved to the States and tried to keep up the habit of walking everywhere. She was regularly stopped by the police, or even worse, very dodgy men would stop their car and offer her a ride. Also some nice people stopped as they thought she needed help! I walk 10km per day, I could not imagine being tied to a car...
“So we stopped at a diner. My brother ordered a burger and a small 7 Up. He got a liter of 7 Up. He wasn't even halfway and the waitress came to ask if he'd like a free refill (!). To quantify the bigness would be an insult of the bigly bigness that is the American lifestyle. Certainly a shock for me,” the redditor shared their experience and just how huge everything seemed once they arrived on the West Coast.
Everything is sugary and sweet. I swear even bread was sugary instead of salty.
Any time I’m in the States I’m always shocked by the amount of homeless people. Especially in San Francisco and Los Angeless.
Obligatory (not-really-but-yes-totally-obligatory) tipping
Very obligatory, when I lived there an English friend of ours didn't tip well enough and the waiter followed him out into the street and asked if his service was poor. Can't imagine that happening in England. Friends would carry a tip calculator which would show exactly how much to leave.
Plenty of people have heard a lot about American culture without having delved into the culture firsthand because of how prolific movies, TV shows, books, video games, and other forms of media from the US are. So it’s only natural that some individuals have a skewed understanding of how things in American society work, basing a lot of their knowledge on stereotypes.
I went to Miami for a day when I was 11. I was just so shocked and disgusted by the slums, the country acts like they’re so far ahead but their poverty is indescribable. Every country has their poor and underdeveloped areas, but wow man. Miami gave my system a shock.
So many people have poorly paying jobs, or they are unemployed, or they live on government assistance (which is not enough to live on). Also, this is usually rental housing owned by slumlords who don't keep the property up. I've lived in some awful places, but I'm at a nice place now.
People wear shoes inside their homes. So strange.
Extremely sad to see people freak out about having to get medical attention and/or illness at work. Also going through the trouble of verifying my travel insurance indeed cover me in the states. I have been less concerned going into literal war zones.
My jaw dropped when I first found out you have to pay for an ambulance in the US. Living in the UK we take it for granted that any medical care is free (well we do pay in taxes but way less than the US pay for one procedure)
But in reality, the United States is such a huge country that it wouldn’t be wrong to assume that even Americans can experience culture shock. Somebody going from the West Coast to the East Coast or from Texas to Minnesota might encounter a host of differences. Though one doesn’t have to travel far: just going to a metropolis or visiting the countryside is enough to show you that the way that you live might not be the norm elsewhere.
All the waste and no concern for the environment. It really irks me.
And how the 'greed is good' mantra has taught many people how they shouldn't give a sh*t about others.
The loudspeaker announcements about how much we love the soldiers. What the hell? It sounds so fascist.
As a Soldier, it always made me feel uncomfortable, when people said things like that, or looked at you like you were a hero. It was my profession, and one that I chose, so to be treated like a rock star made me feel very weird and conspicuous. I sometimes felt like it was over compensation for how Vietnam Vets were treated when they came home.
In hotel rooms: We didn't watch a lot of TV, but when we did, I was very taken aback by the amount of commercials. I watched Cartoon Network as a kid and I remember the screen faded to black and immediately back to whatever I watched like every 10 minutes maybe (usually during an exciting part, for dramatic effect). I realized those blackouts were meant for commercials, but my home country didn't do that.
And also commercials for booze. And just in general the intensity of them. Some were hilarious though.
And the ads for medication. So weird! Ask your doctor about this medicine! Uhm, no? My doc tells me what I need, not the other way around...
Like other countries, the US is multifaceted. You’re as likely to find someone who’s willing to give you the shirt off their backs as someone who’s rude to you. Incredibly wealthy and startlingly poor? Check. Socially backwards (which can mean drastically different things depending on your point of view, of course) while also incredibly progressive/traditional? Double-check. It’s a country of contrasts. Like most (if not all) nations are.
Said it before, and I’ll say it again. The gaps in toilet stalls.
I’d heard of them before I visited but they still shocked me. Literally like 2cm of space between the partitions, for literally zero reason at all. People can look right into the stall. Goodbye privacy! Why? Whyyyyyy? Baffling.
I grew up in the US and can confirm that this is incredibly awkward. You never get used to it.
I avoid public bathrooms as much as possible. I still remember this vivid nightmare I had as a kid where this guy kept kicking the door back open on me. I hate those gaps.
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that awkward moment when you make eye-contact through the crack...
I remember going to the toilet in a restaurant in Bastogne, Belgium, and as one descended the stairs there was a stone wall against which one could urinate and two stalls at either end of that wall with no ceilings into which one could see. No privacy there either!
I live in Belgium, what you describe doesn't sound familiar. Usually toilets are very clean and have stalls with doors that are 100% closed.
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We have gapped toilet stalls in Canada too. I would hang my jacket or coat on the hook (it was usually by the opening of the stall door), and cover the gap.
DON'T hang your belongings on the bathroom stall door hook, or side wall hook for that matter. While you are sitting with your pants down, a thief who specializes in this type of theft will reach over the top and grab your stuff. In your outraged panic things can get very messy.
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oh, that's supposed to stop me, the gaps aren't the problem, I just don't want to be in those for any longer than I have to
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There is a reason for it -- when I was young, there were almost no stalls like that in the U.S. But over the years, all the businesses started using them, especially after Ronald Reagan destroyed the mental health care system here. They both make people less comfortable so they don't spend as much time in there, and make it easier to see if some mentally ill person is trying to live or shoot up in there.
And restrooms in stores often have gaps to discourage stealing.
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In all my 70 years of using public (OK make that 55 years) I have never had anyone peek in. So what is the big deal?
You just didn't SEE them peeking in. But they were peeking in.
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I honestly have no idea why. I hate it so much! And especially in school bathrooms! We're just minding our own business, taking a dump or whatever, and then some kid walks up to the stall and peeks their eye through the door and stares... not saying anything, just staring... And each time they do talk to you, they say the most awkward things like "Hey, I'm [name] and I'm [age] years old! What about you? And what're you doing in there?" Like bro... I'm pooping, I'm none-of-your-business years old, and have you ever heard of privacy? And don't even get me started on the kids that poke their hands or peek through the huge bottom gaps of the stalls...
It's so you get in and out as fast as possible and not do anything illicit. Some places have toilet seats slanted forward to that your legs will fall asleep if you sit too long.
It's to keep people from having sex or doing drugs in a bathroom stall.
We have stalls where the doors don't go all the way to the ground and personally it never occured to me that someone would just kneel on the floor and watch me do my business. And I don't know anyone who had a different experience. On the other hand lights operated by movement sensor are seriously annoying if you are only 160 cm tall (5,249 ft) and the sensor doesn't see you.
Or toilets without seats…just a mighty cold metal loo! Signatory of Tasmania public toilets
I think that is actually due to the laziness & ineptitude of most workers in the last 20 - 25 years... they have no pride nor care to make a good effort even if they were trained by someone who did. I have anxiety attacks whenever I need anything fixed on my car or in my house since I have to actually know more about the repair than I want to or often the work is not done right. Paying more also doesn't give you any guarantee that the work will be done right either!!
When I went to Parrot school I never took a dump. I would save it and get constipated in the end lol
We don't look at the gaps. Everybody knows what's happening on the toilet, and as long as no one can check out your genitals, what is the big deal?...didn't I read that Europeans were so advanced that seeing body parts wasn't a big deal, or the fact that France has outdoor urinals with zero privacy.
well, obvs...we're encouraging the spirit of togetherness....in the stupidest possible manner. it's the American way, after all...
In another thread I mentioned that one explanation for the gaps is to prevent sex, drug use etc. I believe the sex thing. Who else but some prude American would think of ways to prevent sex from happening?
I always laugh when I see someone's attempt at mitigating the gap. They strategically place long toilet tissue to thwart onlookers. Who wants to look at someone defecating?
In the uk we have gaps in toilet doors. Don’t even get me started on eyes peeping under my door!
Being okay with your body image and being watched by strangers while you s**t are quiteeeeeeee different scenarios
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How religious the US is. Pretty much everyone attended a church and the churches were a big part of everyone's life. Weekly attendance was a thing. One of my teachers was very progressive (gay democrat philosophy phd literature teacher in a Bush worshipping area) and he was asked by his students about which church he attended. I felt that was weird thing to ask in the first place.
Just wait a generation or so. Church membership is dwindling at a pretty good pace, so the old Holy Rollers will go the way of the dinosaurs soon enough.
So many overweight people. I'll see more alarmingly obese people in 15 minutes in an American airport than in a year living in Amsterdam
Nonetheless, there are certain features that make America, well, America. Founded on the ideas of liberty and justice for all, the United States very much values freedom of thought and expression, as well as the drive and ambition to succeed. After all, the pilgrims who were some of the first colonists escaped England because they were persecuted for their religion.
I went to the US in 2014. We landed in San Francisco and had to rent a car. We thought: "we're in america, let's rent a big car" So we rented a "big" car. Then we joined the I101 and we were the smallest car on the road... So with our redefined car we went to the Golden Gate Bridge but we were hungry. So we stopped at a diner. My brother ordered a burger and a small 7up. He got a liter of 7up. He wasn't even halfway and the waitress came to ask if he'd like a free refill (!). To quantify the bigness would be an insult of the bigly bigness that is american lifestyle. Certainly a shock for me.
I gain 25lbs! Everytime I go I prepare for weight gain. Resturant portions can be shared between 2 people per plate! But oh so delicious!
The prices not including tax so you never know how much you're gonna pay because you can't multiply by 1.08875 in your head
This is sooo annoying! And if you are in a restaurant is plus tax plus tip! Ugh!
Swiss are famous for the love of cheese and putting cheese on and in things, but America takes that to another level...even if the cheese is less good tasting. They think they have Swiss cheese, but what they call Swiss like a really sh*t version of Ementaller cheese. They are surprised that we have like 400+ kinds of cheese, none of which we call Swiss.
Emmental is an area in Switzerland and the cheese they make there is called „Emmentaler“ (single L). It’s a trademark and a quality feature. Only the Origin Emmentaler is allowed to be named so. But obviously that’s only in Europe like that. US-Chesse has as much in common with Emmentaler as Trump with a Trumpet. Both can be made out of milk (Emmentaler MUST be made out of Milk) - both makes noises. that’s it.
However, that’s not to say that there’s no conformity in the US. Quite the opposite. It’s a very human part of our nature to seek out those who think like us, so it shouldn’t come as a surprise that in America speaking out (especially on polarizing topics) isn’t always met with respectful listening.
The amount of "fakeness" from people in the service industry: waiters, receptionists, bar staff, store employees etc
Everyone greets you with a fixed totally artificial smile, they speak in standard scripts, everything will be "their pleasure" and they will do it "for you". You just feel they are acting out a part but actually not listening to what you say and they certainly never do any of the things they promise. You just wish (a) they would start acting like human beings rather than pre-programmed service bots and (b) they would treat you like an actual human being rather than a visiting emperor.
Flags. EVERYWHERE.
The portion sizes. The price of petrol is ridiculous.
So many whackos around. People just standing in the middle of the pavement with a huge "Jesus is coming" sign or similar
Friendly yet fierce, incredibly individualistic but still very tribal. That’s the US for you, representing some of the best and some of the worst qualities of the human experience. But what do you think, dear Pandas? What’s your experience with America and Americans been like?
My experience was that Americans act or seem to be more friendly and personal. But it always feels like they don’t actually mean it. Don‘t get me wrong, I met great people in the US. But Europeans, especially Germans, seem to be more reserved at first or second contact.
I thought that. I did live in NYC for a while, not so friendly there, but good people once you get to know them.
How divided everything is. There are only extremes, no in between. I thought this was mostly the case on the internet.
On the drive from the in Florida airport I saw an "the NRA is a terrorist organization" billboard right next to one advertising semi automatic (assault) rifles.
I was also surprised how many churches there were in rural Florida. Most seemed to have advertising unlike anything here in Europe. Some seemed to wage war against each other.
Educational system sucks and is made to print money and throw the youth under the debt bus. Professions that don't make any sense to spend years in uni for (nurse for example) instead of doing an apprenticeship course.
Extremely dirty and old public infrastructure - NY subway feels unsafe to use at times, some of the stations look like they're collapsing any minute now
How difficult it actually is/how much knowledge is required just to not get fat
To be honest, the flag salut in school. I could not comprehend it. I had flashbacks to videos seen in history class.... Made me feel super uncomfortable.
Extreme friendliness to you when you're a customer. Too much in my opinion, it made me feel uneasy
I always remember that. Often I hadn't even had a bite of my food and the the waitress/waiter would be asking how I was enjoying it and chatting when I wanted to eat. It can be a bit overwhelming.
The sheer distance between everything and the fact that most americans consider an 8 hour drive no big deal
On the first night of my first trip to the USA we ended up in a restaurant where pretty much all the customers openly carried handguns. That was quite shock.
The water level in the toilets, I walked into 3 different cubicles in JFK that where all seemingly blocked, until I realised that in the states the water level in the toilets is much higher, like half the bowl, where as here in Europe theres just a bit of water at the bottom.
Homeless and drugs ins the street, it is incredible.
I feel like this is a deeply splitted society, either you serve or you are served. Or you die in the street.
Strangers talked to me for no reason. I could be walking on the street and a total stranger would come up to me and say "nice jacket" or something similar.
I went for the first time in 1999, to Washington DC, it was the first time I had ever seen truly obese people, I grew up in Ireland and yes we had some overweight people but nothing comparable.
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Is it just me or is “How shocked people are by America/Americans” becoming a bi-monthly feature here on BP?
It seems weekly now, getting real old. We're too patriotic, our toilet stalls have gaps, we're fat, stupid, we all need cars...there saved everyone 5 minutes.
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Yay!!! Another America bashing post. Just what I've been waiting for!
YAY!!!! Your daily dose of "Amerians are stupid and fat!!!!" I don't even have to read this crap to know exactly what's on this list. Americans eat too much. Tipping is terrible. We're too friendly and the country is big. YAWN.
you forgot "...and if you survive getting shot by either a psycho or the police , you'll die homeless on the street after not being able to pay the hospital $2.000.000 for saving your life"
Load More Replies... HAHAHA America bad funni!!1!1!1!1!!!1 Jesus Christ I’m so tired of these posts, it’s like a broken record. BP staff if you’re reading this, just stop these. They’re consistently xenophobic and repetitive.
We get it: The US is full of fat, stupid, ugly, ignorant jerks who are utterly unlike the fat, stupid, ugly and ignorant jerks in the rest of the world. *yawn*
Flags everywhere, huge portion sizes, no universal health care, we’re all fat, we make you tip on everything. Saved you a click.
Again with these posts? We get it Americans like everything big, their flag is everywhere, they love sugar, and their care system sucks. All countries have their own bad things. Please BP stop focusing on the bad, and always Americans. We don't care about their bad crap!
I'll add a couple of positive ones from the UK. 1) People are generally inquisitive about foreigners, I guess a lot of Americans outside the cities don't get to meet many. 2) The idea there's nothing old in America is a ridiculous myth- in the original 13 states you can find some amazing built heritage dating back to the 17th century. 3) The ease in which you can access some genuine mind-blowingly empty wilderness is great. There are empty spaces bigger than many small European countries.
For that last one, It is true. I live in a regular old suberb and we have a forest right behind our house. On our 2 hour drive to my grandmother's house, we drive by cliffs, forests, lakes, rivers, and plains. It's also absolutly beautiful in the fall :)
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Bored Panda, please stop the America sucks posts. I know we have problems, but please stop reminding us
I like to focus on the positive habits in certain countries. Sure, the US system has a lot of flaws and it‘s surely not the most advanced country in the world anymore. But i love the fact, that the general public has a habit of being friendly to strangers and being helpful has well - as in talking to conplete strangers etc. That‘s a nice thing, especially when you‘re travelling alone. Also service for products etc. is superb in the US. Usually you‘ll get great customer service there. I live in Germany and customer service etc. used to be crap. It‘s because of the US standards that it has gotten alot better in the past 10-20 years.
Americans tend to be fascinated by people from other countries, and their accents. Many of us have never even been to a foreign country. We want people to feel welcome.
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Bored Panda: guardian of antiracism, anti hate speech, anti xenophobia, anti this, anti that .... with a small exception of United States. What is with this US bashing every second day or so? It is really weird.
Bored Panda is anything BUT antixenophobia. This is one of the most xenophobic sites I've ever visited.
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The thing about these posts is that they act like this stuff doesn't happen anywhere else and is somehow unique to America. I've been to my fair share of places overseas. Want to see people with guns? Go to Israel. (they require citizens to serve the military after high school and it's very visible) Want to see out of control tipping? Go to Egypt. Want to see fat people? Go just about anywhere, especially England and Europe. The horrors of being too friendly as if the rudeness of other places is somehow better, and I'm open for ideas to get around such an enormous area with a low population density without a car. Don't get me started on racism, which (gasp!) happens outside of the US.
I'd like to see a "what's good about living in the US". And the answer being given by both natives/immigrants "I love my country because..." and foreign visitors "I had the best holidays there because...". Just for a change.
Or posts of people who are actually doing something about some of the problems in whatever small ways, regardless where these problems arise so we can actively be inspired to change our behaviour for the better. (Not a US citizen)
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One thing I would like to say while we’re on the topic of ‘America sucks’ is please don’t paint all Americans with the same brush. Not every American is loud, overly friendly, rude, or obese.
Dear Europeans visiting the US: yes, our way of being with others is different from yours. Yes, people in the US tend to be open and friendly and smile a lot. Instead of complaining that people from another culture are different than the people in your culture, why not try to understand it? The United States is by it's very nature and design a country made up of immigrants from every country on earth. Even among Americans of European origin, they represent immigrants from every country in Europe, and Russia. All of those countries and cultures have different etiquettes and ways of relating to strangers. To ensure that misunderstandings don't occur, Americans adapted long ago to be outwardly friendly and open to ensure that people who may not share the same background understand that they don't mean them any harm. That's why Americans manners are what they are. They not inferior to the manners of people from countries that are historically homogenous, just different.
This is getting boring at this point. You're living up to the "bored" in bored panda.
Do we need to say it louder BP? Everyone is tired of these anti American posts, even the non Americans.
Am I the only now who is tired of these stupid "people were shocked by America/americans articles?
not to say this post reeks of fat phobia along with xenophobia but yeah it does tho
Bingo! I got a line across with: - Portion sizes - Patriotism - Tipping culture - Bathroom door gaps - Fat people Almost had an "x" with sugar-in-the-bread, the pledge, and lots of water in the toilet, but you didn't call out prescription drug commercials. You can crap on us all you want - that's fine. We can take it. But please be more creative than just printing the same article every two weeks.
My friend and I went for dinner in New York. We roughly worked out the tip (before phones had calculators and we were terrible at maths, we also wanted to be nice) and left $10 more in case it wasn't enough, then left. The waitress ran out of the restaurant and down the street to tell us we hadn't left enough. I was astounded. We were in too much shock to refuse so gave her another $10. So she got about $40 for a $60 meal. She must've had a nice little racket going with poor unsuspecting and should be better at maths tourists. That was 15 years ago and it still bothers me.
If it was 15 years ago, I recommend finding a way of moving on. Maybe therapy.
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So many of these are broad generalizations seemingly made after a single, specific experience. "I saw fat people at an American airport therefore all the people in the airport are Americans, who are all also fat." "The people or place i experienced was religious therefore all Americans are religious!" The US is vast nation with a diverse population. I wouldnt go to Paris and then state France was dirty AF. In California alone, we have beach towns, major cities, suburbs, mountains, deserts, farmland, etc. Maybe visit more places before being so judgmental.
So, sighs we just look forward to the weekly hate-on-America set now?
Ahhh yes, it is time for BoredPanda's weekly country bashing post. Yes, we get it. You don't have to beat us over the head with a crowbar every week. Americans are uncultured, unwashed, obese swine that wallow in their patriotism and Europeans (that's me!) are their vastly superior, highly-intelligent, and culturally superior counterparts. For Pete's sake, BoredPanda, I'm saying this as a non-American, please stop posts like this. They are immature and make you look like a cheap version of Buzzfeed, which this site is sadly becoming. Posts like this are flat-out xenophobic and just mean spirited. What happened to all the wonderful art posts you used to post? If you want click-bait articles to define your site, go work for Buzzfeed!
I have been to America multiple times, and I can verify that all of these are extremely exaggerated, if not entirely false.
Heather, I'm totally with you! Sick and tired of all the different "why we hate __________" posts. Always pitting Millenials against Boomers, Gen Z against Millenials, Americans against the rest of the world. I saw more homeless people when I lived in Paris, France than I have EVER seen in the US ... but don't find anyone encouraging ME to go online and say sh***y things about France. Enough already.
all of these rants about well-discussed observations of American differences are cliche. This same article comes up once or twice a year.
No one out of 40 people had something nice to say? No one!?
i think their federalism that gives to much power to states, and lone wolfers, combined to an insane, and uncomplexed talking of God in public is just the perfect fertilizer for division. they have great men, and women there too. but they also have a tremendous amount of mentally ill folks who think they are perfectly sane. I hope them to fix this s.. soon, because they are a great country, it's undeniable
one sec i will be back soon with all the xenobhobic posts from lets say the past month
Again, why are people coming to visit America in the first place. Do they not read about us in their own countries. How awful it is here. How awful the people are here. How expensive it is here. How everything is NOT free and/or tax free? Stay home!
As an American I can say sometimes I too get annoyed at my fellow Americans behave. Mostly just how loud and rude some are. Yes, it may seem we are all fat, loud, gun-toting, wasteful, litterbugs, but that is no more true than any other generalization that can be made about any group of people. I doubt we have the market cornered on being asshats.
Wait...someone things spending a few years at university to be a nurse makes zero sense? Do they think it's a waste of time becoming a nurse, or do they genuinely just think that medical nursing should be able to be completed under a 6 month training course?
I think the Euros hate us because we had to save their continent* from committing suicide not once, but twice. Churchill’s entire strategy was “get the Americans involved”. * Actually, according to geographers, Europe is NOT actually a continent, it’s a peninsula off the continent of Asia.
So this entire post is basically telling me *checks notes* "GET THE HELL OUT OF AMERICA AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!"
Oh my gosh, I have seen the error of my ways! I too wish to complain about this post! It's an anti-American conspiracy by Bored Panda probably! In fact -- all you silent watchers out there, don't you want to open a Bored Panda account so you can complain too? It's easy and free! Don't let them get away with their anti-American propaganda!
Is that sarcasm, I genuinely can't tell? Just curious, it could be ppl think it is, and that's why they are downvoting? I feel like ur not being sarcastic tho but I could be wrong. Upvoting anyway
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I won't argue against any of the entries, but please; don't consider yourself the next Alexis de Tocqueville just because you saw a real life Honey Boo-Boo while changing planes at O'Hare.
Is it just me or is “How shocked people are by America/Americans” becoming a bi-monthly feature here on BP?
It seems weekly now, getting real old. We're too patriotic, our toilet stalls have gaps, we're fat, stupid, we all need cars...there saved everyone 5 minutes.
Load More Replies... Yay!!! Another America bashing post. Just what I've been waiting for!
YAY!!!! Your daily dose of "Amerians are stupid and fat!!!!" I don't even have to read this crap to know exactly what's on this list. Americans eat too much. Tipping is terrible. We're too friendly and the country is big. YAWN.
you forgot "...and if you survive getting shot by either a psycho or the police , you'll die homeless on the street after not being able to pay the hospital $2.000.000 for saving your life"
Load More Replies... HAHAHA America bad funni!!1!1!1!1!!!1 Jesus Christ I’m so tired of these posts, it’s like a broken record. BP staff if you’re reading this, just stop these. They’re consistently xenophobic and repetitive.
We get it: The US is full of fat, stupid, ugly, ignorant jerks who are utterly unlike the fat, stupid, ugly and ignorant jerks in the rest of the world. *yawn*
Flags everywhere, huge portion sizes, no universal health care, we’re all fat, we make you tip on everything. Saved you a click.
Again with these posts? We get it Americans like everything big, their flag is everywhere, they love sugar, and their care system sucks. All countries have their own bad things. Please BP stop focusing on the bad, and always Americans. We don't care about their bad crap!
I'll add a couple of positive ones from the UK. 1) People are generally inquisitive about foreigners, I guess a lot of Americans outside the cities don't get to meet many. 2) The idea there's nothing old in America is a ridiculous myth- in the original 13 states you can find some amazing built heritage dating back to the 17th century. 3) The ease in which you can access some genuine mind-blowingly empty wilderness is great. There are empty spaces bigger than many small European countries.
For that last one, It is true. I live in a regular old suberb and we have a forest right behind our house. On our 2 hour drive to my grandmother's house, we drive by cliffs, forests, lakes, rivers, and plains. It's also absolutly beautiful in the fall :)
Load More Replies... Bored Panda, please stop the America sucks posts. I know we have problems, but please stop reminding us
I like to focus on the positive habits in certain countries. Sure, the US system has a lot of flaws and it‘s surely not the most advanced country in the world anymore. But i love the fact, that the general public has a habit of being friendly to strangers and being helpful has well - as in talking to conplete strangers etc. That‘s a nice thing, especially when you‘re travelling alone. Also service for products etc. is superb in the US. Usually you‘ll get great customer service there. I live in Germany and customer service etc. used to be crap. It‘s because of the US standards that it has gotten alot better in the past 10-20 years.
Americans tend to be fascinated by people from other countries, and their accents. Many of us have never even been to a foreign country. We want people to feel welcome.
Load More Replies... Bored Panda: guardian of antiracism, anti hate speech, anti xenophobia, anti this, anti that .... with a small exception of United States. What is with this US bashing every second day or so? It is really weird.
Bored Panda is anything BUT antixenophobia. This is one of the most xenophobic sites I've ever visited.
Load More Replies... The thing about these posts is that they act like this stuff doesn't happen anywhere else and is somehow unique to America. I've been to my fair share of places overseas. Want to see people with guns? Go to Israel. (they require citizens to serve the military after high school and it's very visible) Want to see out of control tipping? Go to Egypt. Want to see fat people? Go just about anywhere, especially England and Europe. The horrors of being too friendly as if the rudeness of other places is somehow better, and I'm open for ideas to get around such an enormous area with a low population density without a car. Don't get me started on racism, which (gasp!) happens outside of the US.
I'd like to see a "what's good about living in the US". And the answer being given by both natives/immigrants "I love my country because..." and foreign visitors "I had the best holidays there because...". Just for a change.
Or posts of people who are actually doing something about some of the problems in whatever small ways, regardless where these problems arise so we can actively be inspired to change our behaviour for the better. (Not a US citizen)
Load More Replies... One thing I would like to say while we’re on the topic of ‘America sucks’ is please don’t paint all Americans with the same brush. Not every American is loud, overly friendly, rude, or obese.
Dear Europeans visiting the US: yes, our way of being with others is different from yours. Yes, people in the US tend to be open and friendly and smile a lot. Instead of complaining that people from another culture are different than the people in your culture, why not try to understand it? The United States is by it's very nature and design a country made up of immigrants from every country on earth. Even among Americans of European origin, they represent immigrants from every country in Europe, and Russia. All of those countries and cultures have different etiquettes and ways of relating to strangers. To ensure that misunderstandings don't occur, Americans adapted long ago to be outwardly friendly and open to ensure that people who may not share the same background understand that they don't mean them any harm. That's why Americans manners are what they are. They not inferior to the manners of people from countries that are historically homogenous, just different.
This is getting boring at this point. You're living up to the "bored" in bored panda.
Do we need to say it louder BP? Everyone is tired of these anti American posts, even the non Americans.
Am I the only now who is tired of these stupid "people were shocked by America/americans articles?
not to say this post reeks of fat phobia along with xenophobia but yeah it does tho
Bingo! I got a line across with: - Portion sizes - Patriotism - Tipping culture - Bathroom door gaps - Fat people Almost had an "x" with sugar-in-the-bread, the pledge, and lots of water in the toilet, but you didn't call out prescription drug commercials. You can crap on us all you want - that's fine. We can take it. But please be more creative than just printing the same article every two weeks.
My friend and I went for dinner in New York. We roughly worked out the tip (before phones had calculators and we were terrible at maths, we also wanted to be nice) and left $10 more in case it wasn't enough, then left. The waitress ran out of the restaurant and down the street to tell us we hadn't left enough. I was astounded. We were in too much shock to refuse so gave her another $10. So she got about $40 for a $60 meal. She must've had a nice little racket going with poor unsuspecting and should be better at maths tourists. That was 15 years ago and it still bothers me.
If it was 15 years ago, I recommend finding a way of moving on. Maybe therapy.
Load More Replies... So many of these are broad generalizations seemingly made after a single, specific experience. "I saw fat people at an American airport therefore all the people in the airport are Americans, who are all also fat." "The people or place i experienced was religious therefore all Americans are religious!" The US is vast nation with a diverse population. I wouldnt go to Paris and then state France was dirty AF. In California alone, we have beach towns, major cities, suburbs, mountains, deserts, farmland, etc. Maybe visit more places before being so judgmental.
So, sighs we just look forward to the weekly hate-on-America set now?
Ahhh yes, it is time for BoredPanda's weekly country bashing post. Yes, we get it. You don't have to beat us over the head with a crowbar every week. Americans are uncultured, unwashed, obese swine that wallow in their patriotism and Europeans (that's me!) are their vastly superior, highly-intelligent, and culturally superior counterparts. For Pete's sake, BoredPanda, I'm saying this as a non-American, please stop posts like this. They are immature and make you look like a cheap version of Buzzfeed, which this site is sadly becoming. Posts like this are flat-out xenophobic and just mean spirited. What happened to all the wonderful art posts you used to post? If you want click-bait articles to define your site, go work for Buzzfeed!
I have been to America multiple times, and I can verify that all of these are extremely exaggerated, if not entirely false.
Heather, I'm totally with you! Sick and tired of all the different "why we hate __________" posts. Always pitting Millenials against Boomers, Gen Z against Millenials, Americans against the rest of the world. I saw more homeless people when I lived in Paris, France than I have EVER seen in the US ... but don't find anyone encouraging ME to go online and say sh***y things about France. Enough already.
all of these rants about well-discussed observations of American differences are cliche. This same article comes up once or twice a year.
No one out of 40 people had something nice to say? No one!?
i think their federalism that gives to much power to states, and lone wolfers, combined to an insane, and uncomplexed talking of God in public is just the perfect fertilizer for division. they have great men, and women there too. but they also have a tremendous amount of mentally ill folks who think they are perfectly sane. I hope them to fix this s.. soon, because they are a great country, it's undeniable
one sec i will be back soon with all the xenobhobic posts from lets say the past month
Again, why are people coming to visit America in the first place. Do they not read about us in their own countries. How awful it is here. How awful the people are here. How expensive it is here. How everything is NOT free and/or tax free? Stay home!
As an American I can say sometimes I too get annoyed at my fellow Americans behave. Mostly just how loud and rude some are. Yes, it may seem we are all fat, loud, gun-toting, wasteful, litterbugs, but that is no more true than any other generalization that can be made about any group of people. I doubt we have the market cornered on being asshats.
Wait...someone things spending a few years at university to be a nurse makes zero sense? Do they think it's a waste of time becoming a nurse, or do they genuinely just think that medical nursing should be able to be completed under a 6 month training course?
I think the Euros hate us because we had to save their continent* from committing suicide not once, but twice. Churchill’s entire strategy was “get the Americans involved”. * Actually, according to geographers, Europe is NOT actually a continent, it’s a peninsula off the continent of Asia.
So this entire post is basically telling me *checks notes* "GET THE HELL OUT OF AMERICA AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!"
Oh my gosh, I have seen the error of my ways! I too wish to complain about this post! It's an anti-American conspiracy by Bored Panda probably! In fact -- all you silent watchers out there, don't you want to open a Bored Panda account so you can complain too? It's easy and free! Don't let them get away with their anti-American propaganda!
Is that sarcasm, I genuinely can't tell? Just curious, it could be ppl think it is, and that's why they are downvoting? I feel like ur not being sarcastic tho but I could be wrong. Upvoting anyway
Load More Replies... I won't argue against any of the entries, but please; don't consider yourself the next Alexis de Tocqueville just because you saw a real life Honey Boo-Boo while changing planes at O'Hare.
