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It's a common trope among many guys to claim that they simply don't understand women - whether it is willful ignorance or not is another question, but there seems to be a fashionable yet lazy acceptance that women are a complete mystery so there is no point in trying.

Well, there's no excuse now fellas. Turns out, all we had to do was ask! Women on Twitter have decided to take matters into their own hands with the viral hashtag #WhatMenDontKnowAboutWomen.

While they clearly don't speak for all women, the discussion is incredibly insightful and educational, as posters take turns sharing their experiences and frustrations about the kinds of things that just seem to pass many men by. Have you got your notepad at the ready guys? There are some really important points here (and some funny ones too!).

Scroll down below to check them out for yourself, and let us know your thoughts in the comments.

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Bunzilla
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would say that 90% of women want pockets in our clothes. And for some reason, nobody wants to give us pockets. Either top company execs want to sell handbags, or they just think they know what we want more than us... which would be typical.

CrunChewy McSandybutt
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It may be because putting things in our pockets distracts from the attractiveness of our bodies, and, you know, that is our top priority, right? ◔̯◔

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D. Pitbull
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

REAL pockets - not those "pockets for show" garbage. Why is it a "women's hoodie" can't even fit a cell phone without it half falling out - but I can fit an entire mass market paperback in a guy's hoodie? IT'S A HOODIE - don't tell me it's going to "ruin the lines" - bloody idiots.

tuzdayschild
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do designers even think we don't want pocket? And why, why, WHY do they make those short little useless pockets?

Dave Parker
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because women buy the designs with the short, little, useless pockets. It's all about the demand.

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Jo Choto
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can I tell you where I DON'T want a pocket? Over my boob. Why do people make women's shirts with chest pockets? It makes NO sense.

kasa alex
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know I wanted pockets in my skirts until I got pockets in my skirts. Never going back

Sandra Sanynka
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Skirt with pockets was my best purchase! :)

Lama Lady
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am all about cargo pants and parka jackets - so i ll have 25 pockets :) that with a great hat, lipstick and some sunglasses is a perfect outfit!

Hermalyn Iaukea
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@NG guys, always trying to fix/solve ptoblemas even though we are not the ones broken. Just because we express our thoughts, feelingd, it doesn't mean we need you to fix it, because we already had that part figured out, way ahead of you pal, you still didn't solve nothing because we are not done expressing, but nice try mr. Fix it. You get a big star and a ☺ face next to your name!!!

Anna Salord
Community Member
6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe it's because it would "deform" the female body. When you think about it, men always have bulky pokets full of coins, phones, wallets, and whatnot. If we had those our pants and skirts would look bunky too, and for some "people", not tight enough, rendering our curves. It's just a theory I have, but idk.

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    #2

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    Something
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would anyone think that someone would want an unsolicited pic?

    Bill
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never felt the need to send those , is something wrong with me? Never had a girlfriend complain about not sending them either. Strange

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    Jonathon Smith
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a man and have literally no idea why some people feel the need to do this. Like, has a random d**k pic ever been met with a positive response? Does it feel good just to know a girl you like is looking at your d**k 2nd hand? Is it just misplaced parity ("I would be delighted to receive random pictures of female genitals, so she must be delighted to receive random pictures of male genitals")?

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand this, why would anyone think someone would appreciate an unsolicited d**k pick. If you receive a d**k pic then post it on their Facebook or Instagram page for everyone to see lol. Maybe don’t coz I don’t know the laws regarding that.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or if you receive one, try to see if you can find the guy's mom/dad on Facebook and let them know what their son is doing

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    Andres Tejeda
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for guys who do this here is what is going through their heads. "hey I just met you, this is crazy. So here's my penis. call me baby!"

    knittin' kitten
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wasn't even on a dating site it was a meet and greet a friend site my profile pic was a yellow tshirt sweater and nicely done makeup. It was a pre funeral picture. cousin died and I just liked how I looked so I used it. If I was more covered up I'd be a nun. But apparently looking basic pretty was enough for this ichabod meets troll meets hairy bush pig looking nasty guy to sent full nude of him pleasuring himself, my pic made him do it. Yeah nothing more of a turn on than a pre funeral photo on a meet friends site. It was not even a dating app. It was something like meetup kijiji has (they have a meet people section)

    Dippin Dot
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also don't want to get a DM asking for pictures of my feet, another DM asking if I want a sugar daddy, DM saying that you think I'm sexy and "just want to talk"... (this has all happened, BTW)

    Lorraine R
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the 21st century version of flashers, but now they don't have to leave the comfort of their room over the garage.

    Id row
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be numbers 1, 2 and 3. Guys, women never - and I mean never - want an unsolicited d**k pic. Stop doing it.

    Suzanne Dunne
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don,t want to see anyone,s d**k pics thank you very much, not exactly attractive are tey

    CrunChewy McSandybutt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They know that. They do it as a power play.

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    #3

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    BusLady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is nagging after all? It's asking someone to do the same thing over and over and over again... The first time, it's just a request.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah nagging is usually just a woman frustrated with having to ask a guy to do his share around the house over and over and over

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    giovanna
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also it's not "helping" it's "Sharing a household".

    JP
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That and the other of my big pet-peeves, a guy doesn't 'babysit' his own kids!

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    similarly
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2 bits of advice: If you have sons, teach them how to cook and clean and sew. My Mom taught my brothers and they taught me. Did me no end of good. Second, if your "guy" tries to do housework, let him. I was at a guy's house one time, and while he washed the dishes, his wife stood behind him, criticizing him brutally, non-stop, until she finally pushed him out of the way and said "Forget it. I'll do it." I saw a different guy fold laundry, and as soon as he was done, his wife undid it all and redid it. Now, yes, I can see that maybe a guy should learn how his wife wants her laundry folded or how she wants the dishes washed. I get it. BUT, give a guy some time and space. If you want him to do it, and do it often, take it a bit easy on the critique.

    Carrie de Luka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood why there is 'one correct way' and it must always be done that way. Women like that are being a tad a**l. Unless all they are doing is folding in creases or not cleaning the dishes properly, but then be nice about it, make it a joke and show the person how to do it - male or female. I'm c**p at domestic stuff but my husband tolerates my efforts!

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    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually the nag comes after it's been well established over time that "the thing" won't get done within a year, or unless "the thing" not being done suddenly becomes inconvenient for the other person (example: Kitchen light is busted. I am literally too short, even on a standard step ladder to reach it. Other individual never uses the kitchen - took the other individual 8 months. EIGHT MONTHS to change the light - because other person didn't care, as they do not cook nor clean the kitchen UNTIL... they stubbed their toe on something because they *had* to pass through the kitchen one evening and couldn't see).

    Carrie de Luka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pay an electrician to come and do it and make sure he sees the bill that is paid out of the joint account. It might matter a bit more then. My husband is an electrician and they do get called out for things like that.

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    Robyn Wolf
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't help. F****n do your part.

    Stan Brooks
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been on my own (Sing wht male, 67) since I was 17, and I've never understood the concept of gender differentiation in work F*****g hell, work is work. I've lived alone for long stretches, but when I've shared space with others, be they lovers or roommates, I clean up my s**t because I assume you probably don't want to, nor do I want to clean up your s**t. For dogs sake it really isn't rocket science.

    similarly
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    General advice: teach your kids to take care of themselves, and they'll do a good job taking care of others. Teach your kids to cook, clean, sew, fix stuff. It's really important. Second: when your significant other cooks, or cleans or fixes stuff, go easy on the criticism if you want them to do it again. Not everybody has the same level of experience or expertise, and even experts will do stuff differently. If you over-criticize, or push them out of the way with a "Oh, here, I'll do it!" or come along behind them and redo everything they just did because they didn't do it to your satisfaction, don't be too surprised if they don't jump for joy at the chance to do it next time. So be a little accommodating and show a little appreciation.

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree. Another way is to do more tasks together and have a laugh at the same time.

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    Petra Biedermann
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why are men asked to help to clean up the mess they helped making.....

    Pamela24
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always tell my boyfriend - if I'm asking like the third time for something, I directly tell him - "Look, if I'm going to have to ask you one more time I'll get really angry and annoyed." It mostly works and if it doesn't, he knows it's his own fault he didn't do that particular thing.

    Rosie Hamilton
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then what? Immediate cessation of chocolate rations? (For the Blackadder fans amongst us). Genuinely curious.

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    Jonny Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look, if I say I'm going to do something, I will do it. You don't have to remind me every 6 months.

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It takes you years to do something you said you would do?

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    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that the term friend zone even exists just shows that some men think they're entitled sex if they show women basic human decency

    Xavier Wescott
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I as a growing teen don't want sex to be the forefront of my thoughts. I just really want to be a genuine friend, but sometimes I can't help but feel girls shy away from me for this very reason, assuming all I want is sex. I want to have 'girl' friends, and just leave it at that.

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    Full Name
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaaaand.....vice versa. When we say something to you as a stranger, your response doesn't have to be about your "boyfriend". Sometimes we're saying what we're saying it because we mean those words and they aren't code for "Can I get into your pants?".

    Clinton Yew
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you find the boyfriend respond annoying, dude I just wanna tell you you are exactly the person they wanted you to be away.

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    Esca Sav
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was dumbfounded to find out that a guy thought I was interested in him because I used "emojis" in our texts... Are you bloody serious? I literally just wanted one friend in my college class and that wasn't even possible because.of.an.emoji. He stopped talking to me when I kept telling him I wasn't interested...

    deanna woods
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He sounds like a complete idiot. Anyone who thinks you are hitting on them because you used emojis has a screw loose.

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    Master Markus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was going to say "we all know", but evidently there are some A******S in the comments proving me wrong.

    Nicky OldfieldDesciple
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am also sick of egotistical men thinking I am cracking on to them just because I am being friendly to them. They just cannot seem to understand that I am just being friendly because I am a nice person not because I want to sleep with them.

    Kathy Baylis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What’s worse is when they get that idea about you when you’re at work and HAVE to be nice to people because it’s part of your job! Years ago I worked in resort condo rentals, and ended up having to dodge a stalker—-every few months for 3 years until he found out I got married—-because I had to be nice to customers.

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    Claes Gustavsson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get that some men behave like that. I have many female friends, and so does my male friends. Nothing odd, you can still find them attractive, but the very thought of having sex ... that would be awkward.

    Miss Cris
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And we can be friends with people of the same gender! We have friends, too. And we don't hate other women.

    Edwin Lesperance
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have awesome unromantic female friends.

    Christine Temple
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. I have several male friends. Sex with them, no.

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the theory that men and women can't be friends were true, then bisexuals could have no friends at all.

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    Monday
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We do however need to acknowledge that men are not there to pay for our dinners, fix our broken s**t and treat us like princesses either. We all need to be equal.

    sixdeadelves
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree for the most part. But in all things being equal, if a man treats a woman like a princess, she should treat him like a prince.

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    Sarah Kate Lamming
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many defensive men commenting... yes we do know "not all men..." but just because you don't act like that doesn't mean it doesn't happen! Lots of women experience this attitude regularly, we aren't making this up!

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    idiot, this post is literally trying to claim that men don't think women are human beings. and you're getting upset when we point out the easily verifiable fact that that's total b******t? shut up

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    student Valencia Collier
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    #WhatMenDontKnowAboutWomen most of us don't like being called 'females'

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're human beings too, not walking wallets. We're not here to make you feel special. We're not here to be tall, muscular and handsome. We don't have to look "badass". We don't owe you anything just because YOU have a vagina. You're not entitled to our money because of your bodies. WE'RE HUMAN BEINGS.

    Adi Fuchs
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If what you wrote is news to the men inyour life... GTFO of the hell bubble you're in!

    Pug Pug
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some one hangs around the wrong guys. This is common sense stuff here

    Alex Bailey
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That I do think is valid. A lot of the problems start when both genders base everything on looks alone or the most confident.

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    Colin Bayler
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WOW! Somebody has some issues that need resolving.

    KingFisherMacD
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    6 years ago

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    Yeah, too je that's diesn5 feel likely there right category for such a tweet. I'm not devaluing her thoughts. I just think she's overshooting big league.

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    #6

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    Daria B
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is so important. The men who understand this one suffer from much less stress, once they know they don't really need to do anything, besides a hug and consolation.

    sh
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a female with this same problem. I always feel the need to look for a solution - just being there is a tough one for me.

    Kai
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't believe that this is a gender difference but just ppl acting different. In my case, I'm the one that wants to solve issues and cheer up my parter when he is mad/sad, but, when im sad/mad, he will wait until I feel better.

    Carrie de Luka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm the same - people come to me with a problem and I want to help fix it. I find it really hard to just do sympathy.

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    Bob Beltcher
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We can do this and most of us do. But hearing the same complaint for 5 years without you changing anything is frustrating.

    Carrie de Luka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone complaining about something for five years and doing nothing really doesn't deserve sympathy.

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    Full Name
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Took me many years to "get" this one. As a man it's something I'll never truly understand, but I accept it and try to just "be there".

    Laura Pantazis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a woman and I also have a really hard time getting this one too. It is really hard for me to step back and accept that there are some problems I can't fix with friends.

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    William Teach
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but, that's just who we are. Sometimes, it's worth saying "I don't need a solution, just your empathy/sympathy"

    rhyan lumilay
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well what women don't know, we do those things to comfort you and if you don't like that you can just tell us some guys doesn't get the hint so you should say it to us and explain what you really feels. We're always there for you even if you are mad on us. :-)

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, many men itch to immediately do something to fix the situation. Instead of simply asking "Is there something I can do?" More often than not, the answer is "No." But that does not mean your effort is ignored, it's just not a "roll up your sleeves and bring out the tools" kind of situation. Just... sit down with her. Listen. Maybe bring a blanket and hot chocolate.

    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right....Because men work for women....

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    Bunzilla
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The struggle is real. Because just bleeding and cramping weren't bad enough.

    Tamiko
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First day is always worse.. I'm I cramping from period or do I need to poop

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    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have to be ashamed anymore, I'm not the only one! Yayyy! Why don't women talk about this more?

    Demi Zwaan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do? I never do. Guess I'm lucky.

    Paulina Zakrzewska
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never heard about this.. and I'm glad that it's just period. ;) without extra surprise

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    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh definitely, I thought it was just me.

    amandine vion
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ho no, the nice blood/poop mix ... always a plaisure

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    Amberly Middlemiss
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG so glad it's not just me, I always thought I was just extra gross but this makes me feel way better.

    knittin' kitten
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have ibs. Period poops hurt like a second layer of cramps so I get that pain twice its a magical time.

    Lama Lady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! And the week before that there is bloating and farting and pimples and insomnia and headache as well as moodswings :) My male friends all know that already cuz I told them.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS. Period be like: back pain, cramps, overall feeling of "unwellness" aaaand stomach problems. It's like having the flu once a month. So if we lock ourselves into the bathroom, don't worry. It'll pass.

    Mainza Munsanje
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always have all this and every month my legs alternate on which one will be numb for the blessed 5 days. Pure torture

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    Anna Salord
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this one very deeply. And still i'm embarrased to tell my male friends/boyfriend...

    Karin Jansen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait what?? The majority of women? I've literally never heard about this before.

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    #8

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    D. Pitbull
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... and that doesn't mean "I was nice to you all week. You OWE me." - that does not make us feel secure, respected or loved. We don't OWE you for temporary niceness.

    Monica Michelle
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women are not machines that kindness coins put in and sex falls out

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    Christina Dudley
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a myth that all men want sex all of the time and women don't. It's just not true. It's not a gender thing, it's drive and hormones.

    Ivy D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, the respective male and female hormones do have a lot to do with sex drive, with testosterone being more active on that and estrogen more passive. So yes, in general men have a more sensitive sex drive than women.

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    Mimi M
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corrolary: Lots of women (just over half, according to some studies) don't get sexually turned on during a casual hook-up. Not everybody talks about this.

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ignoring us for any length.of.time and then we go out to dinner or something fun together does not equal we owe you nookie time either.

    Silviu Leibovici
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, and women don't go out, get drunk and hit on "the nice looking guy" just to get a quicky, forgetting to use protection, having crazy times and then complaining to that man for taking advantage of her state ?

    Carlos Vargas
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Feminism will never succeed as long as “some” people think one “gender” should be getting anything in exchange for sex. So basic.

    Roberto Durante
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    exactly, a sexual satisfy woman is the best lover you can imagine in your relationship with a lot of fun.

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    #9

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    Be_loved_Freak Report

    Martha Meyer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The women who don't dare go out without a ton if makeup on? They don't do it for themselves. They do it because they've been made insecure about how they look.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Different people, different reasons. But, yes, these poor women do it for others, you're right. I just want to add that, sadly, men are not the only ones to blame. In fact, females can be very brutally harsh too. I just want to remind all of you fellow sisters that you're amazing and beautiful WITH AND WITHOUT make up. And if you do make up, please, have fun.

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    Random Panda
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman, I wonder how many women would wear make-up daily if our culture didn't put unrealistic beauty standards on a pedestal. The idea that women wear make-up just for themselves never rang particularly true to me. One may not necessarily wear make-up to impress men, but surely the piles of make-up-caked, often photoshopped, models in ever type of media we are surrounded with has some kind of effect on a woman's psyche.

    Martha Meyer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. The “I wear it for myself“ thing is nothibg but a defense and lying to themselves.

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    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to many of the other posts, men don't care what you wear.

    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know I would wear it far *less frequently*. Once in a blue moon - I do look at all my make up and go "Ooh. Time to see what I can do with this stuff" and it really has nothing to do with how others will see me - my nails... I do them purely to please myself. I like looking at them, they're pretty.

    Laura Primus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true for me. Sometimes I do dress for him because I love him and want him to like what I'm wearing. And makeup is pretty much always for him! Not me!

    knittin' kitten
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I weir makeup to cover my sad acne (vicious cycle I know makeup causes zits which causes me to put makeup on) but I dont do it for men. I do it because (being one too) girls mentally judge other girls harshly on how they look and I have been judged before (I can hear you whisper to your friend in line I'm I'm a pizza not deaf) and my already shot self esteem (high school was rough) I wear it to not be judged

    Chris Jones
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Myth - make up doesn't cause acne at all. Hormones are far more likely to be the cause. Azelaic Acid - game changer for me with my acne. Google it. Some of the creams/gels available are not expensive.

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    Kalaih Zora
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of the times, when men compliment a woman is because they would love to be complimented when they look good. Just, it doesn't happen normally. And no, sometimes we only want to be complimented for the sake of it, not because we want sex.

    Kalaih Zora
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are human too. Don't let the rotten apples be the norm.

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    Antenor
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wearing clothes is a way of expression yourself. It creates a certain social image about you. By wearing different clothes you may appear rebellious, elegant, charming, professional,... Wearing clothes is all about how others will see you. You won't wear a dress while sleeping and you won't wear pajamas when going to prom, or job interview, or night out in the club.

    Silviu Leibovici
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never hated the make-up until it became so heavy on women. Is like seeing 2 differently people. I'm not even going to mention here alphabet people (I'm not differentiate as human between them, they're who they are), but as for me, I can choose what attracts me as man and probably won't be happy to be misleaded by makeup. So yeah, whatever makes you happy...

    Mark Patterson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... until you are dating. Then the cost of that requires that the man pay for the date.

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    #10

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    sgtcurrypants Report

    BusLady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she's not obligated to go out with you just because you asked.

    Teri Donovan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and she's not obligated to have sex with you just because she went out with you......

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    Ozacoter
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And dont say 'women can get sex/a date when they want' meaning 'extremely hot women'. As you guys, unatractive o shy women exist. Dont tell us that we dont count.

    Hugo Raible
    Community Member
    6 years ago

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    Women don't need to put any effort into getting sex. Even the ugly ones usually have one or even more sex partners. It's enough to just be there. Or go on Tinder or so.

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    LRevello
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if she says she doesn't want to date you, it does NOT entitle you to verbally attack or belittle her. You don't need to say negative comments about her after the fact or get aggressive.

    LRevello
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the fact that that comment got downvoted? Really? You think you have the RIGHT to harass someone who told you no? Are you a toddler?

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    Jonathon Smith
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been knocked back many more times than I've been accepted. And my word it feels awful. But I've never once felt angry with the woman in question. I just don't get the guys who rage on rejection.

    Liam Walsh
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are so many things going on in people's lives that you can never know why you are said no to. It is often not about the man asking but about the circumstances the woman is currently in. Your attitude does you credit though.

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    Danielle Holder
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't give you men the right to rape/murder her when she says no either!!

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago

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    liam walsh what mental disorder do you have? I'm just wondering because i'm trying to figure out what mental illness causes people to think your behavior is somehow rational or that what you typed is a valid response to my criticism.

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    Jane Alexander
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One night I got into my car to find a dead possum tied spread-eagle to my steering wheel. Ran to the bar (like a communal living room in our small town) for a hero to get rid of it for me. Months or years later a little creep stopped me on the street, told me he'd been the one to put it there because he wasn't getting any attention from me. He did not get the attention he deserved; He deserved the attention of the police!

    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    & Him not dating you is not a personal attack. We get rejected, too.

    Aunt Messy
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leo....no one asks YOU out because you're a pig.

    deanna woods
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood people getting mad because someone doesn't want to date them. No one is obligated to date anyone else. If someone doesn't want you, move on.

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Start learning to spot the gentlemen forehand. Remember, it's the female that always chooses. You have no right to rant if you choose badly because of your s****y social skills based on shallow interests.

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    #11

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    QueenKyTaylor Report

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, lucky for anyone who only has periods for 3 days, I can only dream lol.

    Thyamath
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I would add a day or two, if I could skip the bleeding-like-the-victoria-and-niagara-falls-combined part...

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    xolitaire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THREE DAYS?! Who are the lucky women who only have to go through this for 3 days? F all of you, thats not fair

    Valerie Lessard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worse for women who have endometriosis. It's never, ever "just a period", the pain and discomfort is there even when not bleeding, it even worsens or causes symptoms of GORD and IBS

    EJ Bratcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most men don’t understand this concept. They, apparently, have never really listened to their woman or don’t care about her pain and discomfort-periods can be pure hell for any woman!

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had period pain that hurt more than labor or a blinding migraine or a root canal. Now in peri menopause and mostly pain is less but duration, frequency and volume has increased. I'm just waiting for this to be over.

    Oak Middleman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't envy any woman. Periods are ridiculously unfair.

    Anita Bailey
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait till you’re menopausal......

    Chaviva Berman
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My period is usually 7-16 days :-(

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    #12

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    scifichick25 Report

    Daria B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never understood the logic behind this mentality - instead of being glad to having encountered a fellow geek, you blame her (or him) of fakery? Was this ever supposed to be a competition? See, this is why you have no friends.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some men can't comprehend the fact that women don't do things just to attract them. That women don't wear clothes to attract them, that women don't choose hobbies to attract them.

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    Giovanni
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idea that there are true and fake geeks, even between men, has to die, i can casually like Star Trek, i don't need to speak klingon to be considered a true fan.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men like to "test" women by asking them questions about the nerdy thing they like to see if the woman is a true fan or not. I'm here to tell you that no one needs to know every single thing about a show or movie or game or book in order to be a true fan!

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    Anna Salord
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the metal music comunity is even worse... "You like this genere of metal? Really? Name three bands. Name all their songs." I don't need to prove sh*t to you

    Noodles
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same mentality as the " no girls allowed" written on the tree house.

    Mini Shnauzer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a HUGE Star Wars nerd. Yes, it's nice if you have that in common. No, I didn't see every Star Wars movie/TV show for YOU. I actually REALLY, REALLY like it.

    Bored Moogle
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Knee-high to a grasshopper" lol. You Southern too?

    Jess 💖 Yass
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I love video games, cars and horses! I was never really into makeup and stuff like that. but i respect other people who do. but its annoying to men and women look at you like you are some type of foreign entity or judge you when you talk in detail of the things you love....

    The Girl on Fire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The amount of fake geek girl claims annoys me constantly." This. This is part of the problem.

    The Girl on Fire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can't we just like whatever thing and not judge others and their like of the SAME THING.

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    Kai
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yessssssss, thank you.

    Rhonda Sisco-Cleveland
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who says they are fake? I hid how nerdy I was for a loooooong time. Just because I’m “pretty” or “cool” doesn’t mean I didn’t grow up loving Star Wars, StarTrek, Battlestar Galactica, reading ALL the time, and have a crazy IQ I hid, so people would be friends with me.... who’s to judge a geek?

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    #13

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    tgshepherdvan Report

    Eirik Johnsbråten
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wholeheartedly agree that swearing is a bodily function.

    Helen Haley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any idea how many times I've been told not to swear because I'm female? I've been told it isn't cute, it isn't lady like, etc etc. Super annoying.

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    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true, I get toilet shy because there is a stupid notion that women don’t poop, fart etc and if they do it comes out smelling like roses. Even though logically people know the truth the fact of the matter is people still seem to get offended by a women’s fart, burp, poops etc.

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *clutches pearls* someone fetch me my smelling salts!

    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes to all if it. Commercialism has conditioned society to different norms. Just look at like in the late 1800s. There was no makeup, no one shaved or used razors meaning women had leg hair and arm pit hair. All clothes and items were ment for function and only the rich cared about fashion. Businesses changed all of this just to earn a higher profit.

    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this one a lot! Women have just as many hormones and urges and feelings and thoughts as men, and the illusion that we are fundamentally different in those regards is silly.

    Isabel London
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And there is nothing inherently more disgusting about a woman's body than a man's. If it is not unhygienic for a man to have hair under his arms, then it's not for a woman either.

    Cindy Snow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We might like sex more of men didn't just use us to get off. How many decent lovers have you had? I guess I've been unlucky...mine have sucked.

    Carrie de Luka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Surely if they are sucking they are at least trying?

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    Hard 2 Guess
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I personally don't mind anyone burping or cursing as long as they aren't cursing at me. Studies have shown that cursing reduces stress. Just google it you'll see. Now for farting it depends on whether it smells. If I hear farting I'd just start laughing, can't help it my mind is childlike for me farts are never unfunny.

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes there's a specific reason sometimes it's just because that's how we are. Example: my daughter used to shave her arms, legs and underarms. Now just legs sporadically, arms never and underarms never. If how she is comfortable and her underarms would get clogged ducts or something and she had to go to the Dr for help on multiple occasions. Antibiotics and pain meds and told finally just to not bother. She could trim but not shave so why bother, she's not a wookie

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    #14

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    Roxanne18888374 Report

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, my hubby and I use the same shampoo, conditioner and body wash so this doesn’t bother me at all.

    Monday
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the issue here is sharing...I think the issue is that someone actually seems to use her shampoo to wash their whole body...that's a bit weird....unless they're cousin IT or something

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    Ivy D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it shouldn't be expensive. There's something called a dollar store and all brands are pretty much the same.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this is a no-brainer. Do the men in your life not have their own soap or body wash? Or if you share, certainly he can use the common soap or body wash?

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe he ran out of body wash so used the shampoo instead. 🤷‍♀️

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    Rebecca Rogers
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh! My ex used some of my face oil to masturbate because we were out of lube. I was PISSED!

    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After decades of men being told to take better care of ourselves, companies start making stuff for men. And what happens? My wife uses it because it smells good. I want my own s**t too after years of being told I need my own s**t.

    Frankenfrog
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then go buy your own s**t? Don't use hers

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    CrunChewy McSandybutt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use cheaper shampoo as a body wash so the spousal unit can use it, too. I keep my expensive stuff in my bath bag. Besides, it's infused with purple dye, so he probably doesn't want to use it anyway.

    Ryo Bakura
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? I get a 2-in-1 shampoo/conditioner, and a separate shower gel for around £5 (whatever that is in $). If you're spending more than that on shampoo alone, that's on you. You don't need anything special. It all does the same job.

    Craig Reynolds
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Body wash! What's wrong with a quality bar soap like Dove or Olay?

    Hugh Walter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try using your body wash as shampoo and save a fortune!

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    #15

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    thoughtfloss Report

    John Louis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you honestly believe men fail to grasp this? A small minority of men do, butthe vast majority are well aware of this (I'm not wrong here)!

    Penny Flowers
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    John, most men I've come across believe poking their penis in and out a vagina causes us to orgasm! You're a diamond and very sadly in the minority. Most men haven't got a clue that our clitoris needs to be stimulated and that's the way we climax.

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    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'm dating someone, I couldn't give a diddly damn whether they have a penis or vagina, I'm dating them as a person and not their genitals

    Veee V
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kinda reminds me of the Cher video I watched...Men are like desserts, not the main course....desserts are good to have...not need to have :D

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is the point nice to have and not a necessity or nice to have but our bodies work in many ways and penetration doesn't get the job done for some ever others sometimes and still others it is just part of "the dance". Companionship and love without s*x is fine for some or fine sometimes. S*x without love and companionship is more of a guy thing. Most men don't need any other part of their body involved not true of most women.

    Jim Kang
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey now, look, you're going to far with this one. Pretty sure I need mine.😂😂😂😂

    Robin Ajay
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you live without one,I wonder .are you a saint.

    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    & we don't live for your vagina. Stop being so narcissistic.

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    #16

    Things-Men-Dont-Know-About-Women

    justme41767 Report

    Helen Haley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being reliable and noticing/doing the mundane things, waaaay more sexy than ignoring it all and throwing in the occasional grand gesture.

    Full Name
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men, pay attention to this one. You'll be glad you did.

    CrunChewy McSandybutt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a case by case basis. Some people love this kind of thing. I would rather you not text me unless its important.

    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FYI, we appreciate this too. Men also have feelings and the desire ro be loved an wanted. This is why the male suicide rate is three times higher than females. We need love and support, but society tells us to suck it up because we're men. We're not allowed to have feelings because women don't like weakness.

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly, couldn’t have said it better.

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    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely, the little things showing that you are thought of can certainly make my day.

    Vex Boxx
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But not that late night "U up?" booty call text.

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you appreciate the big things more. Like cars, nice houses...

    Alex Call
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd do that, but then she'd ghost me cuz that would be creepy cuz we're not even dating.

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    think most men know this too, but hey its the 17th time ive had to say this on this bored panda page so something tells me you just aren't ever going to get that

    - kool -
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're on every post complaining. Are you really that threatened and insecure about being a man or are you just an incel?

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    Leo H
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    6 years ago

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    And the diamond ring..and the nice house and fancy suv that she drives..women never date down

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I met my hubby I was earning more than him and he was 18 and I was 16. We don’t own a house, I have diamonds in my engagement and wedding rings but they are the size of pin heads (literally). I love my rings (I chose them) and paid $250 for the two piece set. Diamonds are overrated anyway. most of our furniture is second hand or given to us by family and I don’t drive so don’t have a car. So tell me again how women never date down. I also don’t see myself as dating down because I am married to an amazing guy. Don’t care if we don’t have the new phone, or other gadgets. Hell my phone is dinosaur style, no internet and not touch screen and that is by choice.

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    #17

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    Kaisu
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    However, this can be abusive too. Men, you don't have to let a woman you're dating to invade your privacy and show her your texts etc! You're entitled to not show them. And if she looks at your phone without your consent, then it's a big red flag.

    Monday
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire attitude described in this one is a big red flag....if we trust our partners we don't need to find out everything...so if a partner is super obsessed with finding out everything they're probably trying to hide something.

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    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right...Because women never do anything they don't want men to know about.

    Valerie Lessard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah no. This is a breach of privacy. Not every single thing has to be shared with each other. If you can't conduct a mature relationship without snooping into someones phone or what have you, you need to see someone because your insecurity is getting in the way

    Craig Reynolds
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saying you find out everything sounds like you're insecure and need to spy/stalk the man you are with. That's unhealthy.

    CrunChewy McSandybutt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't snoop on my spouse. Jealousy is exhausting and I don't have time for it.

    Lama Lady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I d say do whatever you want, but if you do sth bad, don't tell me. Cuz you gotta live with the guilt, and I don't wanna upset myself :) so yeah, feel free. Just no double standards please :)

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, no. You only find out if he's stupid or a bad strategist.

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    #18

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    eliana
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bUt hAvE yOu bEeN kIcKeD iN tHe BalLs

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it so much when I'm complaining about cramps and some guy is like "lol you don't know pain until you've been kicked in the balls". Like dude, it's not the same unless you're getting kicked in the balls several hours a day while also bleeding and being bloated.

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    Renee Robinson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a man try to give me advice on the climate in the Philippines after he just told me he had never been there and I had just said I was BORN there!

    Beh Pnkt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    mansplaining is not a real thing. It's a feminist construct to put men down. wait...did I just mansplain? XD nevermind then...

    LRevello
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also I love how men are literally arguing under each comment that they know better or have a different opinion to almost ALL of the things in this list. Really, sir? Please, do go on.

    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are we arguing or pointing out the stereotypes just like women hate to be stereotyped? Not all men are the same just as not all women are. Equality runs both ways and having any articles like this about race, sex, culture or anything is detrimental to moving forward in society.

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    Christian Redlich
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What noticed is, that all men are mansplaining men and all other people, who doesn't care. As a male being, I have to apologize, I don't do this, bc I think other people are dumb. I am just excited about the topic and want to show the whole topic with all relations and want to discuss it. For me it is not men explaining everything to women, it is just men explaining everything to everyone, bc (my opinion) we're fascinated and want to show it to y'all and speak about it. So the point, why I'm telling u this is, what would you think should men do, to not seem like a total a*****e implicitly calling other people dumb and seem more like 'hey, that dude wants to talk with me about this topic and wants to involve me'?

    Jonathon Smith
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very much in agreement. Men explain, its what we do. That's literally our interactions if you watch a group of us, a series of non-sequitur explanations of vaguely related points. However, the bit that really pisses the women in my life off is if a man interrupts them to explain something that didn't need explaining, or if they assume the woman in question has less knowledge on a given area by virtue of her sex. I work with women in architecture and they say they are constantly having male clients, who hired them as consultants, try to explain basic, year-one aspects of architecture. I can see how that would p**s them of.

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    LRevello
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOVE how my previous comment - pointing out how the majority of MEN that are offended & commenting as such on these posts - has been reported & removed. Please, continue telling us what thoughts & feelings women should have, clearly ya'll know better. ::insert eyeroll here::

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using sexist terms like "mansplaining" is also a turnoff.

    Mark Johanen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, compare to #11. A man trying to explain to a woman why something is a good idea is out of line, but a woman demanding that a man do what she says is reasonable and natural.

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    just standard leftist double standards as usual. i noticed they even downvoted you too. remember any time someone posts something true here it automatically gets downvoted. only incorrect opinions from uneducated preteens are allowed. facts and logic are banned here

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    Leo H
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a sexist term...

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    did anyone else not bother reading nirity's text wall after seeing the first few words in the first sentence? I know I did

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    Dave Parker
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don't know your level of understanding in a particular subject, such as auto repair. That's why we give you a thorough explanation. Why do you tell us irrelevant details when you are telling us a story about your day? We could just as easily do without the pointless details that are of no interest to us.

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    #19

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    Johnny
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not falling for that one again! Now I've learned to say "Sorry honey, you know I don't know a thing about style, I think you look cute in anything, here, let me text a picture of it to your best friend, she'll let you know how it really looks".

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're not comfortable commenting on how someone looks, then this is a good reply!

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    Kalaih Zora
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pro tip, most of us men don't know s**t about women clothing. I'm tired of being asked and not knowing WTF to answer. Is like asking a blind person if they like more pink or orange.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, it depends on how long you have known each other. If same brand shiny new boyfriend tells you your outfit looks "meh", look in the mirror and decide for yourself. If your SO of many years tells you that the outfit looks s**t, try something else.

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. My hubby will be honest and I would rather that than go out looking like s**t.

    Dave Parker
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we do tell you the truth, you are more than likely to start a fight. You will look good in a lot more outfits if you would just slim down.

    Shauna Clodfelter
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. I don't ask my husband how an outfit looks. I ask my girlfriends or I wear what I like. If I think I look good, I look good. Period.

    Mike Procaccini
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO WAY!!! " YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH"!

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    #20

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    D. Pitbull
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes... please... just... listen. That means literally *listen*... then... *comprehend*. Not "I hear words, and I am going to make some assumptions and fill in blanks to what *I* think the problem is and try to solve THAT. 'cuz That's me being awesome" - no... we literally mean "Listen to what *I* am saying. Do not interpret it yourself, then try to fix something that wasn't being said, then get mad because you think we weren't being straight with you... you actually... were not... listening and you don't want to admit it now.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a colleague like this at work. I crossed him off my trust list.

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    tuzdayschild
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda side with the guys on this one. I totally get the need to fix things. If you tell me your problem and I care about you, it then becomes my problem too. And I personally have a deep-seated need to fix things. I cannot turn this off.

    Lillukka79
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the same, so me and my friends start with I need to rant so the other one knows to commiserate.

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    Meyer Weinstock
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us guys want the same thing... *smh*

    Dave Parker
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What we don't understand is why you want to tell us a problem and continue to let it exist. We want to end your problems so that you will be happy.

    Mark Patterson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not possible. You talk too much. Information cannot be processed that fast to be properly understood.

    Xihrzah Zé
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "want you to listen, understand me and give me your shoulder to cry".. then i go f**k the jerk who beats me all the time, cause youre too good friend for me

    Teri Donovan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even give a s**t if they understand. I want them to just LISTEN.

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if we don't do s**t to show that we actually care you think we're insensitive. I've been with women who were very different when it came to this.

    Isabel Care
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes we just need to vent

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    #21

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    Christina Dudley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this a dangerous thing to say. Some people choose clothes for themselves and not because they want sex. You will only truly know if someone wants sex by asking them. Clue, if they say yes, you're in

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. I think that was a terrible thing to say.

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    Mimi M
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like that 'get her undressed'. Sounds a bit pushy.

    knittin' kitten
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My bra and underwear match because they came in sets that match and my OCD makes sure they match.

    Gabrielle Daylano
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like it when things match. My bedcovers, socks, color cap with the same color shoes and my underwear. Specifically my underwear, it makes me feel feminine when I wear nice underwear. Even when no one is going to see them.

    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I've ever owned a bra and panties set. No one ever seemed to mind, though!

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not true. Sometimes they'll match because I dress for myself, and I want them to coordinate, or don't want to split the set. Sometimes they won't match because a particular top needs a particular style of bra, and the skirt or trousers needs a particular style of coincidentally non-matching panties. Eg, needing skin-toned seamless shorts with the white skirt, but needing the black bra under the black singlet top. It usually has more to do with VPL than our plans for sex.

    EHops
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just impressive to have a matching set. This post can be dangerous maybe she plans her outfits, not for you to assume.

    Rhonda Sisco-Cleveland
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she’s WILLINGLY letting him undress her, HOPEFULLY, it’s all good, & fun will be had by all. Having said that, if a woman/girl tries to push your hands away from her boobs, snaps/buttons, or bra catch, BACK THE EFF OFF GUYS! Don’t keep trying to touch us/undress us.

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    Honey
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to match, but that's just for me. And I feel that women overthink this rather than men. When the top layer comes off, I don't think the guy generally cares. They just know it's leading somewhere good.

    Beh Pnkt
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my last girlfriend hat a thing for lingerie. Everything matched and everything looked like she was about to plan sex every day. she just liked it and felt pretty. The only time, when she didnt wear those sexy things was, when she was at home. But even her comfy stuff was sexy AF. so...yeah...not necessarily...

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    #22

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    Leo H
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men say the same thing..so please let us have me time to just veg

    Pug Pug
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES. if it looks like we are doing nothing, that means we are decompressing so none around us ends up dead.

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    Colin Bayler
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you feel that way when he wants just "me time", or do you complain that he's shutting you out or not spending enough time with you?

    EHops
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been with my husband for 11 years and us having our own time is so important. He has his 'me time's and I have my own it's healthy and when we do spend time together it brings us closer 😊

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    Dave Parker
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do so many women refuse to let a man have 'me time'? Why do you always get upset if we don't drop everything we enjoy doing, just to pander to your selfishness?

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t stay home when I am having “me time”. I have days off where every 6-8 weeks I will have a day or night to myself. I usually do something with my mum or bestie.

    Fish Boden
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well Foxxy, as a massive introvert I just have a different idea of Me Time. So when you say: That’s why I don’t stay home when I am having “me time”, I am just saying I totally would. Time spent socialising is great, but different. I absolutely have no wish to dictate how you spend your time, Foxxy. Its is indeed your time to "time to do what I want". All good?

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    Pamela24
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    6 years ago

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    What else should/could it be?

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    lol bored panda deleted my comment again simply stating that "men already actually do know this" again... lol

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda hasn’t deleted your numerous comments you keep claiming are missing, I can see them all clear as day.

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    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    uhm, again, what makes you think most men don't already know this? this whole bored panda page is full of this s**t. tons and tons of posts about stuff that most men obviously know claiming that we don't know it. what the f**k?

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    #23

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    LRevello
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is a man literally trying to refute every one of the points in this post in one of the comments? Not the point of the article, fam.

    Dave Parker
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you are not afraid to eat alone, then why do so many of you go out with a guy with the express intent of mooching a free meal off of him? Why do you complain in anger that passport bros go overseas looking for traditional minded women? If American women were more respectful and loving, then guys would date them and marry them.

    Christopher Beckford
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm genuinely confused as to what this means?

    Mark Patterson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it is up to the man to decide if what you bring to the table matters. So, eat alone if you don't have what he wants.

    Richard Willis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always say, we eat two or three meals a day, but a snack in between is often welcome.

    Veee V
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I liked it!! will someday make it my status somewhere on social media!

    Mike Procaccini
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing Dana eats alone a lot!

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    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah guys should just say if they want just sex instead of stringing a woman along and lying to them. The same goes both ways!

    Dave Parker
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women should always tell us they are only going out with us because they want a free meal instead of just stringing us along.

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    Foxxy
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry I am a woman and I disagree with this. Women play more mind games than men, sending mixed messages like “I want nothing for my birthday” and when they get nothing they get s****y, fake orgasms, saying “I’m fine”, when you are clearly not, asking for an opinion about what they are wearing and gets angry when they don’t get the response they want etc. Men often can’t win when it comes to us women. I’m not surprised, I sometimes don’t understand myself let alone someone else understanding me. Of course men do it too but from experience, movies, witnessing it etc it seems to be women who are the main ones to play games. Men and women listen up, say what you mean and mean what you say. None of this skipping around the bushes b******t.

    Virgil Blue
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since I'm kind of an aspie I never got all those subtle hints, body language and mixed messages. Only heard some girls I knew at school were trying to flirt with me at a reunion years later. Was kind of bummed they thought I wasnt interested because I could not decipher the hints.

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    Xavier Wescott
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really wish I could read subtle hints :(. More often than not I have no idea what I'm doing, and I don't know how to tell people how I feel at the right moment. I just wish it was simpler.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand that it's difficult sometimes! The easiest thing is to just ask if you don't know, ask what the other person wants out of the relationship; do they want just sex, or do they want to date

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    Sandra Culpepper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s all about the conquest for men and absolutely disgusting how these grown men, men with mothers, sisters, daughter don’t stop to think how this mentally screws a girl up. Their actions is why we build walls and men call us crazy. No, your the one who made me crazy because you can’t be honest and just go to tinder.

    Miguel Rosas
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep she wants that Benjamin $100

    Alex Call
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny cuz I can count on one hand how many women can be 100% straightforward with yours truly (no mind games, no nothing)... and they're taken.

    Bogdan Constantin Dinu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except when you want something different. That's when men become either pigs or desperate(from your pov)

    April Simnel
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some men will just pick the wrong woman until he gets his s**t together. The universe will bring you the same lesson repeatedly until you learn it. But then there are some men... Some men who repeatedly are like, "I dOn'T kNoW, mAn, ShE's CrAzY!" who behave that way to be able to do that. The game players enjoy the game, and enjoy the drama, that's why they do it. They depend on other people, men and women, to believe the stereotypes about "rational, non-drama-seeking" men vs. "emotional drama queen" women to do their dirt. Some men LOOOOVE making a woman believe that he cares about them, and then will spurn and laugh at them after they've had sex. Such men deeply loathe women for whatever reason, and they will take this above request with rather less than a grain of salt.

    Iris Engler
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I 100% agree in that; plus you never know how it cans affect somebody when you play with his/her feelings just because you are too cowardly to say you just look for some fun without obligation. And sure enough that counts for both sexs

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    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know my hubby has my back and I have his too. That’s one thing that is involved in a partnership.

    Johnny
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh, if only this one were universally true.... or I'd settle for at least knowing when it's not.

    Teri Donovan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing will kill a marriage (or relationship) faster than NOT having their 6. My ex not only did not back me up, he would deliberately say things to p**s me off. When I finally got tired of it and stopped always backing him up when he was wrong (or lying) guess who was the bad guy??

    Mark Patterson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, women can be treacherous when another guy has stolen their heart.

    Elicio Ember
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahhh.... yeah, I wish. Maybe I have had bad luck, but I have never, ever been unfaithful or deceitful... and I have been cheated upon, gaslighted, betrayed on times of need... you name it. Woman say they want a loyal man...but more often than not they just dont appreciate it when they have one that is. And I am no teen. I am on my mid 40s. This patter I have seen my whoooole life, not just with me.

    Elicio Ember
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Addendum: I am in no way saying that all women are like the poor partners I might have chosen. But by no means all women will have your back, just as not all men will have his partner's.

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    MOSTAFA SADMAN
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    6 years ago

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    that's the UNIVERSAL LIE!!

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    again you idiots keep speaking with authority when you don't actually have any authority to speak on that. you can't speak for everyone. you can only speak for yourself. there are plenty of women who won't have a man's back no matter how much he has theirs. can you just shut the f**k up with these dumb a*s generalization posts?

    Dave G.
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    6 years ago

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    lol another batshit 3rd waver downvoted my 100% factual comment because the truth hurts their feelings. absolutely unhinged.

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    Leo H
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    6 years ago

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    Unless your getting divorced then she will lie her a*s off

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    #26

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    Noez 🇸🇪
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't watch porn. It bores me because of the bad acting and same old story line. I have my porn in my head 😎

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also like to read porn because then I don't have to deal with the terrible acting

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    Monica Michelle
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watch porn that does not rely on demeaning my gender or using reluctance as excitement. Enthusiastic consent is hot.

    Jim Kang
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know some men that shouldn't be classified as human. Just sayin'.

    NotMe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite thing is men pondering whether women watch gay porn because they as men like girl on girl action, lol. Obviously haven't heard of fujoshis.

    Valerie Lessard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't watch porn because it's sick. Im not trying to normalise it. Dont lump me in with this s**t.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To get a little graphic on everyone (this is a warning: any sensitive individuals look away now) I also wish *people* knew not to compete with sex toys or masturbation or porn. They'll all great, and all different. There is no "better". No one is inferior here. Entitle women to their porn or their right(left?) hand and maybe they might let you have yours.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another thing I wish BOTH men and women knew... is that you're not either "a s**t or a prude". Any one factor by itself does not make ANYONE either of those. We should all quit judging human desires... There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. And there's nothing wrong with not being one. There's nothing wrong with how many/few you date, as long as you know your safety, and how many of those dates you do/or do not sleep with. Since when is it anyone else's business but yours?

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hentai. There are women who like Hentai too

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some acts that appear in almost every movie I have ever seen and personally it is a big turn off for me. I go long stretches of not watching any x movies because apparently all men must like (fill in the blank). Perhaps if there was a better level of movies available. I also don't get swept up in whatever is most popular at any given moment. I think if you like watching a stepson and mom or stepbrother and sister (I know they are not really and just acting) good for you but no thank you. No kink shame but I'd rather read something smutty and use my imagination. Personally I'm not visual. Reading something or hearing something dirty does more for me than watching p**n. It's always big fake t**s, too much makeup, uncomfortable clothes and shoes on the same (looking) women and a wide variety of men with different body types and ages. Often the men are overweight or even ugly but the women look like different versions of the same person. Rather read

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    #27

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    ToriRenee20 Report

    Melissa Beth
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 100% certain that if you could pan down, that ape is wearing socks.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry. Apparently you did it for yourself! :D

    Douglas Campbell
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shorter: women sexy & smart, men dumb ugly apes.

    Valerie Lessard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    doesn't make sense. the make up is gonna look nasty after the act is done. the hair will be frazzled the lingerie will be thrown on the floor

    Tee Rexx
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Socks with Crocs. Also I have never seen the point in all that. If you are a woman that likes makeup and getting your hair done and wearing uncomfortable clothes and high heels, good for you. Just understand that both men and women shouldn't be pigeon holed into some arbitrary beauty standards. I'm kinda tomboy but rarely wear girly clothes. It should be about the 2 people and expressing their feelings not looking a certain way while doing so. Wear an oversized Tshirt or go bucknaked, wear heels that look s**y or slippers that cradle your tired feet. One side shouldn't EXPECT the other to always wear anything specific.

    Sadie Jayne
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't laughed so hard in years!!!!!

    Adrian Alexe
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is just a meme. Take it as it is ffs.

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    #28

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    dirtroaddiva1 Report

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This woman is not a nice person. She sounds psychologically abusive.

    Bob Beltcher
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you asking then? What's your true motive? If the answer in your head is that your ugly and we tell you otherwise; are you just going to dismiss us as if we know nothing about women's fashion?

    Mark Johanen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you asking if you already know the answer? Are you just testing a man to see if he will tell you the truth? So ... you don't trust him and find it necessary to test him, but he's supposed to be completely open and trusting with you?

    John Louis
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then why ask the question. That is manipulative. Is the poster saying all men do this?

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the woman is giving the man a chance to be straight with her.

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. I've caught women thinking they could lie to me when I already had them hook, line, and sinker. Don't try it.

    David tamplin
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes your b**t looks big in that dress always goes down well.

    David tamplin
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes your b**t dose look big in that dress always goes down well.

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    #29

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    2626Brooklyn Report

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women aren't complicated if you just take a second to listen

    My O My
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if you don't comprehend feel free to ask for an explanation

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    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman I disagree.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean... humans are complicated.

    Stan Hansen
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Complicated? 34 Hashtags on just this internet piece! Come on!!!

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "women aren't complicated" they say on the page with 20+ posts about stuff that men (supposedly) don't know about women, including posts that say stuff like "no means yes", etc. yeah. ok.

    Annett Vikstrand
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Was thinking that too. But then some of the points of this post seems to be "Women are just like other humans, and many men do not seem to be aware of this. This is another way that women are just like men."

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    Sarah Panhorst
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a girl. I feel that I am complicated and I can see how sometimes guys may not understand.

    similarly
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    #31 says "fine" is the opposite of fine, so does that mean ...

    Bill
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither is Calculus to some people. But the rules of Calculus don't change

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    #30

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    Morena__x Report

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think this one is necessary. Just stick with size doesn’t matter. How would some women feel if a man said the breasts are a nice size but the sagginess is no good.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it is. Lots of men think a woman wants a long penis, when only a certain amount of it can fit inside anyway.

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    Kaisu
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Body shaming guys for the size/shape of their penis is not good

    Aunt Messy
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    Then it's a good think no one's doing that.

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    Nikki D
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No need to body shame anyone.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be quite a penis, no? At that point it seems more unwieldy than anything.

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    Sardonic Scribe
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a load of horse s**t. Do you know how many women I have met throughout the course of my life who claimed that "size doesn't matter", only to show up at the adult store I used to work at and scoff at the "little" 6 inch dildos & leave with the gigantor 12 inch dongs? Show me a woman who claims to love a 4 inch d**k & I'll show you a liar. Size matters. What size is dependent on the individual woman.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree that what a woman wants is very dependent on personal opinion, however, "picking out sex toys" is also a lot different from "having sex with a guy who you have an emotional relationship with". Like, there are a lot of fetish-based dildos and just because someone buys one based on a tentacle or horse d**k or something doesn't mean they want to have sex with an ACTUAL octopus or horse.

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    Full Name
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh great, now I feel inadequate TWO ways.

    Keley Babs
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um... no. We're all different, and SOME OF US (speaking for a friend...of course) fear a girthy dong cos it's gonna HURT. I think it's more important for dudes to understand that not all women want the same thing sexually and just not to assume that they already know exactly what we want/need in the bedroom. An overconfident dude who doesn't listen or take feedback in the bedroom is SUCH a turn off, literally and figuratively!

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hate to break it, but a big d**k is nice (as long as it's attached to someone nice)...

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hey bob i think your mom's panties are on you a little too tight, you might want to try swapping those for a pair of boxers or something and let them 'nads breathe

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    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not bad for personal preference, but it doesn't count for everyone... Some of us ladies are totally fine without *any* d**k whatsoever. Some of us (straight or no) also prefer to orgasm purely through the nipples or kissing. *shrug* I think the only required thing is knowing you are safe. :)

    Bored Bitch
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this pisses me off if we don't body shame you don't body shame us Jesus Christ

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    dirtroaddiva1 Report

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood this one. I detest myself but I absolutely love my hubby, kids, family and friends etc. So I do not agree.

    Cindy Snow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of self loathing people have destructive behaviors. Maybe you dont. Don't hate yourself.

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    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is wrong, the notion that you can't have insecurities and that you can't be mentally ill when you love someone else is b******t! You can love other people so much even if you can't really love yourself!

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is b******t and confuses "loving yourself" with empathy. You can be totally unsatisfied with yourself and still love someone else unconditionally. Get rid of this postcard wisdom already.

    Valerie Lessard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is some facebooky reductionist b******t. Many people are depressed and have extremely low self esteem and self worth and are very capable of loving others deeply. A mother who doesn't love herself can still love her children. A suicidal teenager can still love their parents and siblings

    Reilly Beryll
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is all sorts of wrong. The whole idea of “you can’t love someone if you don’t love yourself” is completely off and incorrect.

    Alex Call
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard this a million times when I had depression. I couldn't but think that this reinforced the idea that I wasn't worthy of ANYBODY's love because "there's something wrong with you since you don't love yourself. "

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I seem to be doomed then! Good to know!

    ZombieGirl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always hated this phrase. It isn't true.

    Kizzy Kizzy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it would be more of thanking people for loving you when you can't even love yourself but yes you can be very unhappy with yourself and still love someone so

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    Halloweeja Report

    Demi Zwaan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh great. So 'no' is the opposite of no? STOP SAYING THINGS YOU DON'T MEAN! That is what confuses other people and keeps perpetuating the stereotype of women saying no when they mean yes. What a rotten advice this is.

    Lama Lady
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed! But this behaviour is derived from years and years of wrong education that most women go thru. My mother used to tell me to always pretend everything is ok when i had cramps and was bleeding. She told me to "forget about the man" who sexually abused me when I was 5 yrs old. Men usually are encouraged to fight for themselves. Women are told to hold still, agree all the time and smile. Since life is no picnic, women learn early to perform a role, to act and pretend and lie for the benefit of men (and they are told that if it benefits the guy it also benefits herself LOL).women are trained to endure and lie even when they feel like s**t inside. So no wonder after a few decades it turns into manipulative behavior. Stop educating women the wrong way. Start telling them to stand up for themselves!

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    Chess
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is some advice I'd ignore. No one is a mind reader. When I say 'fine', it is either the truth or I don't want to talk about it anyway and I will be fine eventually.

    Pamela24
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. This is a dangerous stereotype that I'm actively trying to get rid of. When I get the urge to say "Fine" in the stereotypical way, I say instead: "No, it's not fine but I don't want to talk further,". I want men to believe us that no means no and this is connected with it.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just saw the "we are not that complicated" and now this? Hmmm.

    Fish Boden
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, this is terrible advice. If your partner is pulling this guessing game s**t, you've got problems.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is down to women being socialized to be conciliatory. Women should come out and say. 'It's not fine. I'm upset/angry/resentful/disappointed/hurt.' But the other side of the coin is that men often don't want to hear or deal with these emotions, and would rather hear 'fine'.

    Brodie
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like peopl have to stop doing stuff like that. Be upfront and don’t say “I’m fine” then be pissed when they believe you or don’t keep asking you.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So the guy has to be 100% upfront, but the woman is allowed to keep her thoughts secret. K...

    Monday
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not true.....if I say everything is "fine" then I mean there's nothing good and nothing bad. Nothing interesting to mention. You know...the whole definition of being fine thing.

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you look closely you'll notice that 99% of the posts on this bored panda page are not true

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    Alira
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just then, #29 we aren't that complicated. #30 just tell us the truth, and now #31 we tell obvious-to-only-me lies.

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    Me75AndBoo09 Report

    Biljana Malesevic
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why fake it? You get nothing from it and he thinks he is doing great.

    Carra McClelland
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This this this! He can never improve as a partner if you fake it.

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    anarkzie
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good sex is based off of communication, if your partner is not getting genuine feedback then in the long run you're doing yourself a disservice.

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you fake it then the other person will think your enjoying what they are doing and continue to do so creating a cycle of unpleasant sex. Communicate your likes and dislikes, trust me it will benefit both of you. 😉

    Something
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is the purpose of faking it?

    Becky Samuel
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes you just want to get it over with without having to prop up a bruised ego.

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    Jo Choto
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better to communicate and both learn how to please each other than to fake it.

    Anna Salord
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Girl I don't have time to give men a fake orgasm if they're doing s****y in bed. Tell them what you want/need or leave.

    Kaisu
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yesssss! Instead of faking an orgasm, tell them what they could do better, or put an end to it

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    Madzdad the bard
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why fake it? A good guy wants to make you feel great and we don't mind constructive criticism to learn new and better ways to make sex great and enjoyable for you, it makes us happy too.

    A. D.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Faking it when it is bad is stupid. And you are totally right, a good man will ask, listen, try, etc.. until you both enjoying it. My SO did the same and learned to make me come usually during the foreplay. However, the actual intercourse (even with clit action) is often not enough to get me there... So what is better? Faking or rather exaggerating some moans to show him I'm still enjoying it, or staying silent and making him feel bad even if he did his best and I am generally satisfied?

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    Melissa Beth
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody else is concerned about whether or not you should fake orgasms. I'm concerned about the fact that the screenshot is not from the scene where Meg Ryan fakes the orgasm.

    Parmeisan
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe the number of women on here saying that they do this. Learn to talk to your partner. If you don't want to keep going until you orgasm, then just don't. Let him finish if you like, but then explain that you're done now. This is not a white lie, this is hurting both of you. I think maybe you don't know what you're missing. Sex doesn't have to be so goal-focussed, and when it's not, you probably won't feel tempted to fake it any more because you'll be enjoying yourself so much.

    Berry Muhl
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Certain physiological symptoms cannot be faked, at least not easily. That sudden breakout of sweat on the back? Vaginal contractions? A pretty good sign that it's the real thing.

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    starrizborn Report

    Lama Lady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the gist of this comment is that most women fear getting killed and raped. Noone talks about this, but the french writer Virginie Despentes summed it up real nicely: most women calculate the risk of being raped everyday. EVERYDAY they leave the house, when they check their outfits, when they think about the time they ll come home, when they ll think about the route they ll take to work, from work, etc. It means sth that most men are not aware of; women are scared to get killed by men. Every date, every conversation in every interacting moment a woman has with a guy she needs to be on guard constantly, because he *could* rape an kill her. It happens 24/7 in life. Like its "normal, biologically explainable" etc. So there you have it, thats why she does background checks. Of course its offensive to the guy if he means her well. But what if he does not? Who is gonna care for the girl who lies dead in the dumpster? Ppl will shake heads and keep reading about tesla and global warming

    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s just creepy, I would actually be hesitant to have anything to do with you for being so paranoid, creepy, and have no trust. Trust is extremely important in relationships and friendships.

    Leah Rother
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i do background checks. The one time i didn't i regretted it. Please be smart ladies.

    Monday
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    RED FLAG! RED FLAG! RUN AWAY! THIS ONE'S A CRAZY!

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of men do the same. It's too easy not to.

    Maya Baggins
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about "Get to know the guy as a friend before asking him to date you"?

    Dave G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    except you don't always know the answers, and background checks won't always reveal anything. i know for a fact that if you ran a background check on me, absolutely nothing would come up. I am completely off the grid

    K New
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would absolutely do a background check on someone I am letting into my personal life. And I wouldn't have a problem if they did one on me. However, to use that information to play games with people...that is just juvenile and not worth any of my time. If there is questionable info, I'll ask for an explanation. If I am not satisfied, I'll move along.

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