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Woman Gets Pregnant Just Months After Giving Birth, The Reason Leaves Her Horrified
A thoughtful woman with long blonde hair, holding a pregnancy test, realizing a mother-in-law's diabolical act.

Woman Gets Pregnant Just Months After Giving Birth, The Reason Leaves Her Horrified

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After someone becomes a parent, they usually need some time to adjust to their new “job.” After all, it’s one thing to read about how to feed and change a baby, but another to actually do it on little to no sleep.

However, one young mom—whose first child, a beautiful baby girl, was just a few months old—recently learned she was pregnant again. The news was a complete shock, since she and her husband had been strictly using birth control. That is, until they discovered a horrifying truth: his mother was so disappointed with the gender of her new grandchild that she took matters into her own hands to force a male “heir.”

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    This woman learned she was pregnant just a few months after giving birth to her first child

    Image credits: itovailona/Envato (not the actual photo)

    And as it turns out, it was all because of her mother-in-law

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    The lady was desperate for a male “heir” to “secure” her family’s bloodline

    Image credits:  MaplesImages/Envato (not the actual photo)

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    The young woman clarified a few important details

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    She also answered some of the people’s biggest questions

    This sickening story illustrates a broader societal problem

    Different places may have different figures, but in the United Kingdom, one poll found that reproductive coercion—a form of exploitation in which someone controls an individual’s reproductive choices—has affected 50% of women aged 18–44.

    Commissioned by the BBC, the study included input from 1,000 women. Of these, one-third said they had experienced pressure to have sex without contraception, and 15% reported experiencing pressure to terminate a pregnancy when they did not want to.

    While our story may sound unbelievable to those who still have an ounce of decency left, the disturbing truth is that such scenarios are not that rare. One in ten women in the BBC survey said they had experienced someone hiding, withholding, or even damaging their contraception—for example, by deliberately poking holes in a condom.

    Image credits: Atlantic Ambience/Pexels (not the actual photo)

    And rather than supporting women, their families sometimes contribute to it

    In a 2019 narrative review published in the BMJ Sexual & Reproductive Health, Professor Sam Rowlands, who specializes in sexual and reproductive health and rights, and Dr. Susan Walker, whose research focuses on sociology and health, explained that reproductive coercion is employed not only by romantic partners but also by members of women’s wider familial circles.

    According to Rowlands and Walker’s review, one in four women of reproductive age who attend sexual health clinics reported experiencing some form of reproductive coercion, with younger women more likely to be affected.

    They noted that, as in this case, some people may not be aware that they are being subjected to this form of abuse—especially if no physical or sexual violence is present.

    To address this issue, they suggested that healthcare professionals should be better equipped to identify and prevent such mistreatment. They also called for more international research to help guide this process.

    “In particular, more research is needed on the non-physical elements of abusive relationships and how coercive control can be resisted,” they explained.

    Those who read the woman’s story were absolutely appalled by her mother-in-law’s behavior

    Eventually, the woman released an update on her difficult situation

    Image credits: Matilda Wormwood/Pexels (not the actual photo)

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    B Parke
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    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think changing the last name is an amazing scorched earth thing to do. Eff your last name, MIL!

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be hilarious if this second baby was also a girl. As an aside, I'm not going to judge OP for deciding to keep both children at a very young age, but I admit I did chuckle a little when I read how angry OP reacted when someone called her 18 years old and she replied "I am 20, not 18!" That.. is not that far off from 18 in terms of maturity and life prep/savings XD

    Bonesko
    Community Member
    5 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There definitely isn't. When I was 20 I probably thought there was. But now I'm 40 and anyone in their early 20's or younger is basically a kid to me. But after all this with OPs MIL, I think it would be better if her husband and baby changed his name to her last name instead. Even if they have a boy the family name the ILs are so worried about is gone forever! 🤪

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    Fellfromthemoon
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    8 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I clicked on the Reddit link, and still don't know whether the second child was born or not. (When a pregnancy follows the previous one within 6 months, the risk of miscarriage is high.) But I learnt that in OP's house wasn't everything hunky dory, she felt no bond with the new fetus, her husband underperformed at the household chores and baby care, and she basically threatened him by stating "this is why people shake their babies".

    Bookworm
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief. I feel sorry for the kid(s). All the adults suck.

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    B Parke
    Community Member
    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think changing the last name is an amazing scorched earth thing to do. Eff your last name, MIL!

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    10 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be hilarious if this second baby was also a girl. As an aside, I'm not going to judge OP for deciding to keep both children at a very young age, but I admit I did chuckle a little when I read how angry OP reacted when someone called her 18 years old and she replied "I am 20, not 18!" That.. is not that far off from 18 in terms of maturity and life prep/savings XD

    Bonesko
    Community Member
    5 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There definitely isn't. When I was 20 I probably thought there was. But now I'm 40 and anyone in their early 20's or younger is basically a kid to me. But after all this with OPs MIL, I think it would be better if her husband and baby changed his name to her last name instead. Even if they have a boy the family name the ILs are so worried about is gone forever! 🤪

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    Fellfromthemoon
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    8 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I clicked on the Reddit link, and still don't know whether the second child was born or not. (When a pregnancy follows the previous one within 6 months, the risk of miscarriage is high.) But I learnt that in OP's house wasn't everything hunky dory, she felt no bond with the new fetus, her husband underperformed at the household chores and baby care, and she basically threatened him by stating "this is why people shake their babies".

    Bookworm
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief. I feel sorry for the kid(s). All the adults suck.

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