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As many of you probably know, men are definitely from Mars and women are from Venus. Even if you have not read the book of the same name, it is already clear to everyone that male and female types of thinking are quite different, while each of the genders has its own specific features and behaviors.
Any communication with another person is a continuous process of study, analysis and simple curiosity (unless, of course, we are so selfish that we always listen only to our feelings and reactions). And so, in the process of such a study, even the most sophisticated people sometimes discover incredible interesting facts about others, which can be especially interesting if these facts concern another gender.
Recently, a question was asked in the AskReddit community on exactly this topic, addressed exclusively to women. It sounded like: "Women, what is a surprising fact you discovered about men?" We are not at all sure that among the people who wrote over 8.8K comments in just under two weeks were exclusively women, however, the resulting thread has already gained about 9.3K upvotes, and there are really a lot of different interesting discoveries.
Bored Panda has compiled for you a selection of the most unexpected, discouraging, funny and simply the most popular comments from the original thread, so now please feel free to scroll to the very end of this list, mark the submissions that are most interesting to you, and of course, share your own discoveries - if you're a woman. If a man - well, introspection can also bring a lot of great things, while comments are always welcome.
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#1
Many men get an erection in the morning. Morning moves around the globe every 24 hours. This means that there is an erection wave that has been going around the globe without end since the beginning of any species with which this started.
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#2
That men rarely ever receive compliments in their lives. I purposely go out of my way to express even the smallest compliments in case they haven’t heard one for a long time.
#3
That they suffer from gender stereotyping too.
Stealthzilla 3 years ago
Yes, I’m working on explaining that to a friend, big feminist, she thinks it the opposite of sexism if someone doesn’t like men and doesn’t understand that that is still sexism
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Laura Brown 3 years ago
That's where the whole idea of males not being "real men" if they're sensitive to the needs of their partners or if they enjoy art and literature, they must be gay...it can be as miserable as stereotyping for women...wrong, unfair, and antiquated thinking, but the kind of people who think this way are narrow minded and shallow.
Toothpaste guy 3 years ago (edited)
Exactly! And from my experience a lot of these preconceptions are reinforced by women. I swear I've had so many more girls stereotype/make assumptions about me than guys have.
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Harlan Bleiler 3 years ago
Why can’t I like pink? Like to cook instead of k ow how to fix a car? Like Pokémon or other “childish” things? I’ve slowly grown to not care but has taken 36 years to even get to this point and I still have thoughts once in a while if I will look/come across “silly”
Luna Crow 3 years ago
Dude, do what you like, and f**k what anyone else thinks. I realize this is made difficult due to toxic masculinity, but I think we're starting to wake up to that and move away from it. The more folks who are open about contradicting the stereotypes, the faster we can tear them down
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Jose Gonzalez 3 years ago
Yep, that's toxic masculinity. It's very strange that the stereotypes of men are never questioned or looked at as bad. But that's the whole problem, it's never viewed as if men have any problems. Yes we have a lot of societal benefits, cuz men, but those also have put restrictions on us doing things that aren't "manly". Everything is messed up for all genders.
DAN13LG 3 years ago
Yea lots of societal benefits... Getting to be the first to die, always the ones to stand and fight, Taking on the most dangerous jobs, working 3 times as much over a lifetime, getting 10x harsher sentences for the same crimes. Automatically guilty in any he said she said altercation, always paying for everything... I could go on for days, women especially in America are put on a pedestal and raised to all think they're princesses Sorry kid but it sounds like you don't wanna be a man, you don't want that responsibility. you'll eventually see the real world is far different than all the male feminist nonsense you're spewing.
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Felipe Souza 3 years ago
Yes, of course it's a privilege compared to what women must live up with, but gender unequality Is bad for all the society
Jennifer Biness 3 years ago
of course they do, "The patriarchy/Toxic masculinity" hurts EVERYONE
Flokati91 3 years ago (edited)
I'm strong and kind of big in a horizonal kind of meaning (whide shoulders). But I'm short and not as ripped as I should be according to a lot of people of both/most genders. And casual jokes about short d***s hurt cause I'm extremly insecure about that.
Yupper 3 years ago
Long and thin may get you in but short and fat is were it's at
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Miles Mawyer 3 years ago
Hah, I was scrolling down to see if anyone said it first. I saw the pic and said "Hey! It's Gun Jesus!"
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Gigi 3 years ago
unfortunately, there are very few of the type of man in the picture. the decline begins with the cutting off of long hair, though you'd be surprised how many women consider this to be truly masculine. throughout history, men only wore short hairstyles for short periods of time, and not by accidentally
Luna Crow 3 years ago
Maybe this is a regional thing? There are plenty of long haired men where I'm at. I love it!
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David Force 3 years ago
As a stay at home Dad years ago and as the “room mom” when my daughter was in elementary school so my “manhood” was questioned. When I asked the school principal if I could start a Dads Club she said no because “men have to work” so they won’t come. One day I was vacuuming and a neighbor nicknamed me Trixie because only women did housework. I’ve also been teased that I may be gay because I am “thin, neat and well dressed”. First of all being “accused” of being gay I don’t take as insult at all. By the way I have been happily married for 36 years and am proud to be a very involved father even if some people see that as motherly.
Ian B 3 years ago
This is also the same for being white. You can also also be discriminated against for being white.
Rostit . 3 years ago
Yeah no. That's a leap and a jump. The discrimination from white folks far outweighs that. Only foolish white supremacists care about that.
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Michael Travis Risner 3 years ago
Yes, and double standards. It seems perfectly all right to objectify men like Henry Cavill and Jason Momoa and Chris Hemsworth online if you're a woman. A thirst-trap pic of a muscular, handsome man can be posted and everyone is all right with it, but the second a man puts up a picture of a beautiful woman in a bathing suit...FOUL!!!
Jessica J. 3 years ago (edited)
Duh. Consider how much worse it can be for a man who wears a dress, than for a woman wearing pants...at least in the U.S.
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago
Right? Being confident & assertive makes a woman a b*tch, same attributes in a man and he's a born leader.
Jaran “Party Bottom” Evans 2 years ago (edited)
We do wake up with a hardon! Hmph...never had any complaints from the guy next to me in the bed.
Alana Voeks 3 years ago
Yep, because society sucks the life and fun out of everything for everyone.
#4
That they are not criticizing women’s bodies as much as women are led to believe (maybe by themselves or whomever is driving this culture). They are far more acceptant of how women look like naturally than women themselves. This was such a game changer for me.
Luke T 3 years ago
Well, growing up in a southern country town here in the U.S. A lot of my female friends never wore makeup and were more interested in shooting sports. They were always the most beautiful when they were just doing what they wanted and not focusing on their appearance. We had beauty pagents and stuff, high school girls that were obsessed with looks and all, but I never saw the appeal of that. They looked much better natural with the confidence that they were more than their appearance.
#5
Most men don’t actually know how to fix things. They just pull it apart and put it back together again and hope for the best.
Hypoxia Smurf 3 years ago
Fix-it-ability, like any other skill, requires training. It's not instinctual.
#6
At my first job, I used to work mostly with women, then switched to IT and now it’s mostly men. I was surprised to learn that guys don’t hold a grudge as much as the women I worked with did. We’d have an argument on Friday, I was worked up about it all weekend and worried how it would affect our future relationship, then come Monday and boom…nothing. They genuinely seemed like they let it go. It’s a pretty sweet thing.
Hugh Cookson 3 years ago
Most times it's easier just to let it go ..... No drama. Failing that a good fist fight solves most petty squabbles.
#7
That they want to be loved as badly as we do and they’re also mushy gushy
Doctor Strange 3 years ago
I make no secret about this. My greatest dream has always been to have someone to share my life with.
#9
Not surprising but i’m shocked that some women genuinely don’t think men suffer from mental health problems. I’ve heard “he’s lazy” or “he expects the woman to do everything” when 60% of the time it’s just him being depressed as s**t.
DennyS (denzoren) 3 years ago
I can confirm. Sometimes you just don't want to get out of bed or do something because you just can't.
#10
The fact that men really are physically stronger. I always assumed this was purely based on size but I'm a woman who works out every day (lifts weights, yoga, jogging/peloton.) My older brother doesn't exercise outside of an occasional hike. He's 4inches taller than me and 10 lbs lighter than I am (I'm a dress size 0 or 2.) He's faster than me on a hike (including backpacking) and can lift up heavier things. It makes me SO angry.
#11
That most men don’t care that your stomach isn’t flat.
#12
When they say they don't know why they feel a certain way they ACTUALLY don't know. I find it crazy and I couldn't trust it the first times.
Con O Cuinn 3 years ago
Well we're told to "man up" or whatever from such a young age, it's not even not knowing why we feel a certain way. It's not even understanding what we're feeling.
#13
That if you show them exactly how much you appreciate them they are more likely to be motivated to complete a task than if you nag them.
#14
They only pretend to not like gentle affection. Lay your head in my lap and let me pet you you know you like it you fall asleep within minutes.
Donkey boi 3 years ago
We're like dogs really! We'd like nothing more than to curl up on the sofa, head on your lap, and get stroked while we doze.
#15
that they have a whole set of unsaid rules about where to pee in public bathrooms
#16
I am constantly floored by how little some men know about their close friends’ lives! I know multiple men who speak to their best friends super regularly, but could not say with certainty if they’re single, what kind of work they do/where they work, etc. I don’t understand it at all, but I just keep meeting men like this.
#17
Some actually want a real relationship and not just f**k
Hugh Cookson 3 years ago
Actually, most of us chaps who managed to get to being a grown up (at whatever age) want precisely that, some of us are actually an ickle bit romantic too x
#18
That 80% of the time they concretely mean exactly what they say, which is why only 20% of the time they understand what I’m saying.
Arcady Royzen 3 years ago
So, knowing this, why wouldn't you (a woman) say what you mean? why play games? why want them to read your mind? why getting pissed at them for something you saw in your sleep? And after all, complain about not having proper communication... This is not always the case, but i have seen it over and over between many couples
#20
when they wake up, they just sit down and stare at nothing for a good 5 minutes...
#21
That when a guy is invested in a girl they are oblivious to other flirting women.
When my husband and I were still dating I saw women hitting on him so bad and he not realizing these women were hitting on him was jaw dropping.
Me: what do those 2 girls wanted? (All dresse up with drinks in their hand)
Edit2: girls were all smiling, giggling and doing the hair thing. And I kept an eye on those 2... they did not go to the restroom after talking to him.
My husband: they wanted to know where the bathrooms were.
Me: dude, these women knew where the bathrooms are, they just wanted to make small talk with you.
My husband: nah, i told the the bathrooms were over there.
Me: 🤯
Con O Cuinn 3 years ago
He was being nice. He realises. And it's weird, because the minute you're in a relationship as a guy, it seems women start throwing themselves at you. Whether it's because without the nerves of chatting up you notice signals more, or that being in a relationship makes you more attractive to women, I really have no idea.
#22
You guys really can love and be faithful
Considering the environment I grew up, that’s surprising
DennyS (denzoren) 3 years ago
We can, more than we're given credit for actually lol (I do acknowledge however that it's not all of us).
#23
Men like things that women seem to be insecure about
kitten levels tokyo 3 years ago
The man in the photo is leading the woman up to the edge of an erupting volcano. We do that stuff all the time.
#24
how much they touch you
my boyfriend won’t let me sit away from him when we’re together (long distance pain :,) and he’d be touching me in some way- hand on my leg, twisting my hair with his fingers, holding my wrist while he scrolls on his phone or looming over my shoulders while I eat and on. I find it funny when while standing he absent-mindedly holds my waist instead of keeping his hand on his xD
#25
Sometimes its good to just "fade out" you know. Let the brain go on autopilot and not think about anything "important".
Hypoxia Smurf 3 years ago
ProTip: take heed of surroundings -- do not stumble over walkway obstructions.
#26
It took me way too long to notice public bathrooms don't keep toilet paper near urinals and the implications of that scar me to this day.
What do you think ?
Kyndal T 3 years ago
I learned something! Men prefer oval shaped toilets over round so they have somewhere to put their dangly bits! I had no clue round toilets caused squishing before we bought a new toilet. Husband hasn't shut up about how much roomier it is. Might have something to do with how hilarious the convos get though!
Deborah Harris2 3 years ago
Is Bored Panda part of the Reddit Company? I've also seen shared posts on the Chive Nation from here too and Vice Versa. Are all media outlets merging? It's so boring seeing the same posts on different media platforms ...
censorshipsucks 3 years ago
they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...
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Ace Girl 3 years ago
I concur with the frustration of how men are so often naturally physically gifted. I also lift weights, work out, do strong girl things, but can't hold a candle compared to even skinny dudes! It's really annoying. I can still win arm wrestling contests against my 9yo son but I know even those days are numbered!
Cookie 3 years ago
This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.
Load More Replies... Frando Bone 3 years ago
As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway
Duke Ferris 3 years ago
Ay other men out there dislike for women to wear high heels? Or just not care? You couldn't design a dumber, barely functional shoe. Yet I get told all the time how men love them, but I have always suspected it is more of a competition among women.
William Smith 3 years ago
Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.
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UpQuarkDownQuark 3 years ago
It’s nice to see more mention of men being able to be emotionally honest and loving. I know that growing up in the 80s as someone who wore their emotions on their sleeve, who liked tenderness, and who eschewed violence and braggadocio I was often ridiculed my most other boys, most men, and quite a few girls, too, as a “wimp” “p***y” f*****t” etc. I think this is changing, and men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings, not just stifled bags of anger and frustration. I see more and more men that are much more masculine than me, with typical “manly” interests, that can freely express themselves with their partners, their children and their animals. I love seeing some big ol’ bearded biker doting on his little Frenchie in a doggie sweater! That WOULD NOT have happened 40 years ago!
William Smith 3 years ago
"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.
Load More Replies... Luna Crow 3 years ago
It was quite refreshing to read a post about things women learned about men, after seeing so many vice versa. I'd say we need more of these, but really a lot of the items in either apply to humans in general, not necessarily by gender
Jorts Valjorts 3 years ago
Nonsense. You're gonna give a medal to Bored Panda for asking about the experience of being male in a male-dominated world? While we're at it, let's ask Sauron about the trials of being an omniscient force of malevolence in a world he has made in his own image. Stop acting like the oppressor's story is as compelling as that of the people they oppress.
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Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 3 years ago
And another round of stereotypes and general assumptions, this time about men. Come on, people are super different, men are much more diverse than the hypothetical "average man". The average man or the average woman does not exist IRL. You really need to look at the person before you.
XenoMurph 3 years ago
True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.
Load More Replies... Jennifer Biness 3 years ago
Yeah, none of this is surprising, y'all just live in your own little worlds, don't you? The only thing that is surprising (though I've heard it many times), is the whole "not thinking about anything" thing, I just can't wrap my head around that. Like I already have heard about it a ton, so the fact that it's a thing for guys isn't surprising, but the ability to do that is surprising, I just can't see it
Jorts Valjorts 3 years ago
Sorry - what is this for? To cuddle up to the "unseen" trials that men experience? Honey, yall boys got nobody to blame but the patriarchy. THIS IS WHAT WE'RE SAYING. Capitalism, colonialism, slavery - the psychology of these things CANNOT EXIST without the psychology of the patriarchy - the notion that some humans are made for success, while others are made for servitude. It's a lot easier to see a tribe of people as "less than" when you've already made that distinction in your own wife. Barbarism begins at home, kids. You don't like it? Cede power. We're not making these requirements of you. Nobody relates to the "hero" who faces no hardship. If you want anyone to sing when you're winning, they have to see how you behave when you lose. I really don't want to hear about the "unseen" troubles of men when we live in a world where the #1 killer of women is femicide. We are not equal, as men have made abundantly clear. Neither are men's struggles equal to those of the women they dominate.
Oscar Turing 2 years ago (edited)
So when a woman says on TV that women are unfit to be President, who would be at fault for that? If it's her, that would mean women DO contribute to preservation of the patriarchy. I can easily imagine someone saying, "She was indoctrinated by the patriarchy!" Fair enough, but why is indoctrination only a valid excuse for women? Have men NOT been indoctrinated by the patriarchy? Isn't criticizing men for a bad thing and then tolerating the same bad thing from women kind of like holding women to a LOWER standard than men?
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Kyndal T 3 years ago
I learned something! Men prefer oval shaped toilets over round so they have somewhere to put their dangly bits! I had no clue round toilets caused squishing before we bought a new toilet. Husband hasn't shut up about how much roomier it is. Might have something to do with how hilarious the convos get though!
Deborah Harris2 3 years ago
Is Bored Panda part of the Reddit Company? I've also seen shared posts on the Chive Nation from here too and Vice Versa. Are all media outlets merging? It's so boring seeing the same posts on different media platforms ...
censorshipsucks 3 years ago
they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...
Load More Replies... Ace Girl 3 years ago
I concur with the frustration of how men are so often naturally physically gifted. I also lift weights, work out, do strong girl things, but can't hold a candle compared to even skinny dudes! It's really annoying. I can still win arm wrestling contests against my 9yo son but I know even those days are numbered!
Cookie 3 years ago
This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.
Load More Replies... Frando Bone 3 years ago
As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway
Duke Ferris 3 years ago
Ay other men out there dislike for women to wear high heels? Or just not care? You couldn't design a dumber, barely functional shoe. Yet I get told all the time how men love them, but I have always suspected it is more of a competition among women.
William Smith 3 years ago
Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.
Load More Replies... UpQuarkDownQuark 3 years ago
It’s nice to see more mention of men being able to be emotionally honest and loving. I know that growing up in the 80s as someone who wore their emotions on their sleeve, who liked tenderness, and who eschewed violence and braggadocio I was often ridiculed my most other boys, most men, and quite a few girls, too, as a “wimp” “p***y” f*****t” etc. I think this is changing, and men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings, not just stifled bags of anger and frustration. I see more and more men that are much more masculine than me, with typical “manly” interests, that can freely express themselves with their partners, their children and their animals. I love seeing some big ol’ bearded biker doting on his little Frenchie in a doggie sweater! That WOULD NOT have happened 40 years ago!
William Smith 3 years ago
"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.
Load More Replies... Luna Crow 3 years ago
It was quite refreshing to read a post about things women learned about men, after seeing so many vice versa. I'd say we need more of these, but really a lot of the items in either apply to humans in general, not necessarily by gender
Jorts Valjorts 3 years ago
Nonsense. You're gonna give a medal to Bored Panda for asking about the experience of being male in a male-dominated world? While we're at it, let's ask Sauron about the trials of being an omniscient force of malevolence in a world he has made in his own image. Stop acting like the oppressor's story is as compelling as that of the people they oppress.
Load More Replies... Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 3 years ago
And another round of stereotypes and general assumptions, this time about men. Come on, people are super different, men are much more diverse than the hypothetical "average man". The average man or the average woman does not exist IRL. You really need to look at the person before you.
XenoMurph 3 years ago
True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.
Load More Replies... Jennifer Biness 3 years ago
Yeah, none of this is surprising, y'all just live in your own little worlds, don't you? The only thing that is surprising (though I've heard it many times), is the whole "not thinking about anything" thing, I just can't wrap my head around that. Like I already have heard about it a ton, so the fact that it's a thing for guys isn't surprising, but the ability to do that is surprising, I just can't see it
Jorts Valjorts 3 years ago
Sorry - what is this for? To cuddle up to the "unseen" trials that men experience? Honey, yall boys got nobody to blame but the patriarchy. THIS IS WHAT WE'RE SAYING. Capitalism, colonialism, slavery - the psychology of these things CANNOT EXIST without the psychology of the patriarchy - the notion that some humans are made for success, while others are made for servitude. It's a lot easier to see a tribe of people as "less than" when you've already made that distinction in your own wife. Barbarism begins at home, kids. You don't like it? Cede power. We're not making these requirements of you. Nobody relates to the "hero" who faces no hardship. If you want anyone to sing when you're winning, they have to see how you behave when you lose. I really don't want to hear about the "unseen" troubles of men when we live in a world where the #1 killer of women is femicide. We are not equal, as men have made abundantly clear. Neither are men's struggles equal to those of the women they dominate.
Oscar Turing 2 years ago (edited)
So when a woman says on TV that women are unfit to be President, who would be at fault for that? If it's her, that would mean women DO contribute to preservation of the patriarchy. I can easily imagine someone saying, "She was indoctrinated by the patriarchy!" Fair enough, but why is indoctrination only a valid excuse for women? Have men NOT been indoctrinated by the patriarchy? Isn't criticizing men for a bad thing and then tolerating the same bad thing from women kind of like holding women to a LOWER standard than men?
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