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Man Is At A Loss For Words After Learning Wife Wants To Ignore Son’s Creepy Behavior
Teen son looking out window at night, caught on camera creeping around neighboru2019s yard, dad and wife involved in situation.

Man Is At A Loss For Words After Learning Wife Wants To Ignore Son’s Creepy Behavior

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Teenagers sneaking out of their homes isn’t something that surprising. We see it happening in movies and in real life too — it’s just a typical part of teenagers’ resistance against their parents. When they sneak out, usually they do things that parents don’t allow them to do at home.

So, when the OP noticed his son sneaking out of the home, he probably expected him to do something similar. Yet, he didn’t. Instead, he just creeped out on their neighbors in their backyard, which creeped out the father in return. Then, when he started looking for ways to solve this odd situation, he met unexpected resistance.

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    Usually teenagers sneak out of their homes to have fun with friends, but from time to time, there’s one, who has different plans

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    This time, the teenager turned out to be the author’s son

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    One day, the man noticed his son sneaking out, so he checked to see where he was going

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    He noticed the boy simply snooping in the neighbor’s backyard, which was beyond creepy

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    When he confronted the boy, he lied about his intentions, while his mom didn’t think this behavior was worth that much attention

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    One night the OP heard a strange noise on the side of their house. So, he checks it out and sees his 14-year-old son sneaking out. Teenagers sneaking out isn’t a new occurrence – they have been doing that for generations. Usually, they do that to hang out with their friends, maybe go to parties, engage in activities that parents wouldn’t like such as alcohol, and so on. 

    Yet, in this story, that wasn’t the case. This teenager was sneaking out of his home to snoop on the family’s neighbors. Yes, you read that right. The boy was creeping around the neighbor’s backyard and around their home for 10 minutes or so. 

    The dad could not let this behavior slip; it was beyond creepy, so he confronted his son. The boy started explaining something about looking for their indoor cat, who had run away from home, but this was clearly a lie since the cat was home. 

    What makes matters worse is the fact that it wasn’t the only time the boy did this. His dad checked security cameras and noticed that it had been going on for 3 months, at least two or three times a week. One time was creepy enough, but knowing it’s a reoccurring thing makes it even creepier. 

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    The OP turned to his wife expecting her to chime in on how they can solve this issue of their son violating the privacy of their neighbors. After all, people should be entitled to privacy in their homes, as it’s important for a person’s autonomy, emotional, and mental well-being. And even though these people seem to not know their neighbor boy is watching them, it doesn’t change the creepiness factor. 

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    In fact, if one day they would learn about it, they could easily sue the family for stalking. As we already acknowledged, the boy watching them for some unexplained reason is trespassing on their privacy, which can cause quite a lot of emotional harm when found out, so there are grounds for a lawsuit for sure. 

    Despite all of this, the teenager’s mom wants to ignore this behavior, which flabbergasted the OP. His son’s behavior made him beyond uncomfortable, so he wanted to nip it in the bud with his wife’s help, but she chose to ignore it.

    People online had a similar reaction to the OP – they were perplexed about why the boy’s mom wanted to ignore his trespassing and creepy behavior.

    This made the original poster reveal that in his opinion she might know more than she’s letting on, as she wasn’t particularly surprised upon learning about her son’s behavior. Well, it doesn’t make the situation any better – if she is in the know, is she doing anything to prevent it? Because she should. 

    Either way, besides the doctor’s appointment he already got for his son, the dad cannot do much else now, only wonder what’s actually going on in his home. So, we ask you – what would you have done if you were in his shoes?

    The man had a drastically different opinion than his wife, so he asked for netizens’ takes, who ended up supporting him — the boy was acting creepy and needs help

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    Ugnė Bulotaitė

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    Monika Pašukonytė

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    Paul C
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the sounds of it (the comment about both neighbours having girls roughly his age), he's become a peeping tom. That's bad and needs stopping, but the consequences could be a lot worse if the neighbour feels he's aiming to do harm to his family or property. A gun doesn't try to work out the motive of a person it is being aimed at.

    greenideas
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs to be nipped in the bud before it escalates into something worse.

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    Squirrelly Panda
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best case scenario if the kid keeps peeping is he gets caught and winds up on a sexual predator list, which coukd ruin his life. It just goes downhill from there.

    Wild Cream
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah literally nothing good ever comes from that kind of behaviour

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    Sabrina
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We can't get guns in my country, but we have CCTV or door cam, they will post those videos of him doing it, he will be famous on the internet, people will look at him differently.

    Happy_Pandalover
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where i live people would report him to the police the moment they notice him…

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    Angela Corvaia
    Community Member
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ump, come into my yard and there might be a problem...he might be young but unalived is forever and poor mommie can cry for that long.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear! This boy needs help NOW. Mom is an idiot.

    Kyra Noelle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As much as we feel creeped out by this as women I am surprised the Mom is not worried more. Unless she is just sticking her head in the sand.

    Kelbers11
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how a lot of serial killers start out. Not to mention, they say they’re in Florida. That state is FULL of crazy people, and they all have guns. Kid’s gonna get shot.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly OP is the stepfather so mom is always going to win here. "you're not my father"... Hopefully they go to the appointment and it is drilled into the kid why this is 50 shades of f****d up

    W. 5
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched a documentary about a child doing exactly this without anyone realising which led to his first brutal murder. He wasn't trying to be a "peeping tom", he was in his fantasies of murdering the people he watched, stalking them made him feel steong and powerful. I think he m******d 2 elder folks very, very brutally.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a retired LCSW child, adolescent, and family therapist. I worked primarily with adolescent and adult s*x offenders. EVERYONE OF THEM STARTED THEIR S*X OFFENDING CAREER BY PEEPING! Get help NOW from an expert in the field. The average therapist is NOT equipped to treat a budding s*x offender. The National Adolescent Perpetrator Network is a network of treatment professionals.

    J R
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank God the guy got his son help! This is the behavior you read about when people are convicted of r**e or murder and then everyone wonders why no one saw it as a worrisome sign.

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid's just lucky none of the parents of the girls he's peeping on caught him doing this, *especially* if they have firearms.

    Eliza
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry your wife is such a stupid b***h. That boy will get hurt, or shot. Please update us with the help you got for your son.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m a step mother three times over n if any of my step son or even my own son had done this I’d be fuming and I’d be marching em down to the police station my self end off this is not right at all , he’s stalking n if left this could evolve in to something even worse ! if he lives that long I’m in uk but in USA they known for shoot first ask questions later ! and as a parent if I can’t anyone doing this to my daughter or kids I’d go mama bear even at my age ! I’m so glad you’re taking it seriously, maybe your wife is either ignoring it cos her precious angel wouldn’t do that ! Or she’s at a loss as to how to sort it out , so you need to take control of this for his sake as much as others x

    Paul C
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From the sounds of it (the comment about both neighbours having girls roughly his age), he's become a peeping tom. That's bad and needs stopping, but the consequences could be a lot worse if the neighbour feels he's aiming to do harm to his family or property. A gun doesn't try to work out the motive of a person it is being aimed at.

    greenideas
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs to be nipped in the bud before it escalates into something worse.

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    Squirrelly Panda
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best case scenario if the kid keeps peeping is he gets caught and winds up on a sexual predator list, which coukd ruin his life. It just goes downhill from there.

    Wild Cream
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah literally nothing good ever comes from that kind of behaviour

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    Sabrina
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We can't get guns in my country, but we have CCTV or door cam, they will post those videos of him doing it, he will be famous on the internet, people will look at him differently.

    Happy_Pandalover
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where i live people would report him to the police the moment they notice him…

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    Angela Corvaia
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ump, come into my yard and there might be a problem...he might be young but unalived is forever and poor mommie can cry for that long.

    Robin Roper
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear! This boy needs help NOW. Mom is an idiot.

    Kyra Noelle
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As much as we feel creeped out by this as women I am surprised the Mom is not worried more. Unless she is just sticking her head in the sand.

    Kelbers11
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how a lot of serial killers start out. Not to mention, they say they’re in Florida. That state is FULL of crazy people, and they all have guns. Kid’s gonna get shot.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly OP is the stepfather so mom is always going to win here. "you're not my father"... Hopefully they go to the appointment and it is drilled into the kid why this is 50 shades of f****d up

    W. 5
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I watched a documentary about a child doing exactly this without anyone realising which led to his first brutal murder. He wasn't trying to be a "peeping tom", he was in his fantasies of murdering the people he watched, stalking them made him feel steong and powerful. I think he m******d 2 elder folks very, very brutally.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a retired LCSW child, adolescent, and family therapist. I worked primarily with adolescent and adult s*x offenders. EVERYONE OF THEM STARTED THEIR S*X OFFENDING CAREER BY PEEPING! Get help NOW from an expert in the field. The average therapist is NOT equipped to treat a budding s*x offender. The National Adolescent Perpetrator Network is a network of treatment professionals.

    J R
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank God the guy got his son help! This is the behavior you read about when people are convicted of r**e or murder and then everyone wonders why no one saw it as a worrisome sign.

    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid's just lucky none of the parents of the girls he's peeping on caught him doing this, *especially* if they have firearms.

    Eliza
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry your wife is such a stupid b***h. That boy will get hurt, or shot. Please update us with the help you got for your son.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m a step mother three times over n if any of my step son or even my own son had done this I’d be fuming and I’d be marching em down to the police station my self end off this is not right at all , he’s stalking n if left this could evolve in to something even worse ! if he lives that long I’m in uk but in USA they known for shoot first ask questions later ! and as a parent if I can’t anyone doing this to my daughter or kids I’d go mama bear even at my age ! I’m so glad you’re taking it seriously, maybe your wife is either ignoring it cos her precious angel wouldn’t do that ! Or she’s at a loss as to how to sort it out , so you need to take control of this for his sake as much as others x

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