Ah, the holidays. It’s a time when families come together, lost connections are reignited, and siblings report what they’ve accomplished thus far to their eager parents. If you’re ‘that sibling,’ the one who can only get a “that’s nice, dear” out of mom, this post is about to be more relatable than you can probably handle.

Twitter user Emily Seawright recently posted her family’s Christmas card for this year, and it’s as savage as it is hilarious. One of her sisters? Engaged. The other? Expecting. Her? Well, there was really only word to describe it, and we’re guessing it made her parents a lot less ‘excited’ than the other two. Sometimes, you’re just too damn you to ever match up to your siblings. Sorry, mom and dad.

The seasonal card has gone massively viral, so now you’re pretty much obliged to scroll down and see what all 317 thousand people who liked it are laughing about, and why everyone is now tweeting ‘I am Emily’ in response. If you, yourself, ‘are’ Emily as well, or have had a similar experience with your family over the holidays, tell us in the comments below.

This is Emily Seawright, and she’s… Well, Emily. Keep scrolling and we promise it will all make sense

Emily recently shared her family’s Christmas card for this year, and when you see it you’ll start laughing

People found the post shockingly relatable…

And some revealed that they had even done the same thing with their families

Are you Emily? Have you had this experience with your family around the holidays? Tell us below!