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Woman Stressed Out By Son And DIL’s Boundaries, Lies To Avoid Meeting And Gets Caught
Every family has its own way of balancing personalities, but sometimes people’s differences are just too great for compromise.
One American woman on Reddit claims her Cuban mother-in-law turned hostile because she set clear rules around her children, going from eager involvement to cold distance.
After years of ignored birthdays and skipped dinners, the woman says she finally got a chance to confront her about dishonesty, but things didn’t go as planned, and now the tension between them has reached a boiling point.
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But these two haven’t even been talking
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People who read the woman’s story believe she may have omitted certain important details
And many feel that everyone in the family could do a better job of communicating
Some, however, say the woman is the one stirring up the drama
And a few place the blame on the mother-in-law
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KatSaidThat 1 hour ago
MIL made her intentions clear, you wouldn't leave it alone then started drama. Now really leave it alone.
Rika 2 hours ago
How can you even judge if someone is sick or not over the phone ? There have been many times when I turned down invitations saying I was sick. I was still able to happily chat on the phone, but I didn't feel like going out because it's easy to mute the phone for a couple of minutes while I puke, it's not so easy to be subtle in the street or in the middle of a restaurant dinner. OP just sounds like a (racist) b*tch who likes to cause drama and bring her husband into it for her own entertainment.
FranSinclair 27 minutes ago (edited)
Im jumping to conclusions here but if I were a betting woman id put almost all my money on this being primarily the daughter in law. Just how this whole thing was phrased makes it sound like shes pretentious and trying to control everyone in this situation. I have children and my parents were never interested in being involved and I didnt want them to be bc I didnt want my children with people who really didnt want them there. It sounds like MIL excitedly wanted to help as much as possible (no need to point out shes cuban) and was more shut out than necessary for a new mother's comfortable boundaries, that were obviously personalized. MIL saw she was not welcome, upsetting the wife and in turn (i assume) upsetting her son and his marriage, she did the graceful thing that hurt her most and stepped back...but thats not actually what DIL wants bc then you're not getting enough presents. Let the woman be peacefully present in her son and grandchildren lives (go have some me/mom time is you can't coexist) if you want presents.
KatSaidThat 1 hour ago
MIL made her intentions clear, you wouldn't leave it alone then started drama. Now really leave it alone.
Rika 2 hours ago
How can you even judge if someone is sick or not over the phone ? There have been many times when I turned down invitations saying I was sick. I was still able to happily chat on the phone, but I didn't feel like going out because it's easy to mute the phone for a couple of minutes while I puke, it's not so easy to be subtle in the street or in the middle of a restaurant dinner. OP just sounds like a (racist) b*tch who likes to cause drama and bring her husband into it for her own entertainment.
FranSinclair 27 minutes ago (edited)
Im jumping to conclusions here but if I were a betting woman id put almost all my money on this being primarily the daughter in law. Just how this whole thing was phrased makes it sound like shes pretentious and trying to control everyone in this situation. I have children and my parents were never interested in being involved and I didnt want them to be bc I didnt want my children with people who really didnt want them there. It sounds like MIL excitedly wanted to help as much as possible (no need to point out shes cuban) and was more shut out than necessary for a new mother's comfortable boundaries, that were obviously personalized. MIL saw she was not welcome, upsetting the wife and in turn (i assume) upsetting her son and his marriage, she did the graceful thing that hurt her most and stepped back...but thats not actually what DIL wants bc then you're not getting enough presents. Let the woman be peacefully present in her son and grandchildren lives (go have some me/mom time is you can't coexist) if you want presents.
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