Oh, that lovey-dovey feeling and the butterflies... Having butterflies in your stomach feels like you are on top of the world, doesn't it? Or that you are about to throw up. Either of the two. Especially when you are prepping to go on a first date with that special someone. What do I ask them? What if I say something stupid? While it would be ideal for the conversation to just flow and for there to be no awkward silent pauses, that only happens in movies. In reality, it's not all smooth like butter. Well, unless you have crazy chemistry going on. But assuming you are on the lookout for questions to ask your crush, you need a little prep me up ahead of your date.
However, doing a little homework beforehand ain't never hurt nobody. There are many foolproof questions to ask to get to know someone that will liven up the conversation. After all, questions are always good conversation starters as you show interest in the person you are talking to. Yet, starting off with flirty questions to ask your crush might not be the best way to strike up the conversation, as you might appear too pushy. Yes, by that, I mean asking whether they would like to Netflix and chill at your place. That's a no-go.
However, there are plenty of conversation starters and good questions to ask your crush that will keep the conversation going. To put in my twopence from the journalistic experience, the best way to get the dialogue flowing is to ask open-ended questions. That's a foolproof way not to run into a brick wall. And another good way to prevent the conversation from coming to a dead end is to simply ask: why? Pluck up details you learned from the conversation and the answers they gave you and expand on them.
Below, we've compiled some interesting questions to ask and deep conversation starters for when you really want to get to know the person. And don't worry, "What's your favorite color" is not one of them. Nevertheless, if the chemistry is just not there and you feel you have to push through the conversation, maybe they are not the one. Remember that the effort must come from both sides. And hey, good luck! We are rooting for you!
Is there a tried-and-tested question to ask your crush that has worked like a charm for you? Share it with others!
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If you were arrested for something, what would your family and friends assume it would be?
What question do you hate being asked?
What’s the quality you admire the most in the person that you dislike the most?
What food do you want to be served as your very last meal?
What is something that people usually misunderstand about you?
What popular personality from the past do you think would be Instagram famous today?
If you could find out how you would die, would you want to know?
How would you spend an ideal fake sick day?
What’s a relationship dealbreaker for you?
What is one thing that you swore you’d never do again?
Thing? Susanne Murphy. Thanks so much for reminding me of that night.
Would you rather choose love or money?
What’s the worst thing you have experienced so far?
If you could go back in time, what would you do differently?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
Wiped my butt with Mr Clean disinfectant wipes. (they looked like baby wipes)
Do you like adventure?
If peanut butter wasn’t called peanut butter, what would it be called?
How funny was your first-ever email address or username? Do you mind telling it to me?
If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do with your life?
What’s the worst date you’ve ever had?
The world is ending in 24 hours. How do you spend the rest of your time in this world?
Which website do you waste most of your time in?
If you were to write a book, what would it be about?
If you could pick a day to relive over and over, what day would it be and why?
What are you proud of right now?
What’s your go-to karaoke song?
What’s something you consider a guilty pleasure?
What's something weird that you find attractive?
What is the worst possible name you might give your child?
What are some of your favorite places to be with your partner?
What’s the first thing that came to your mind when you first saw me?
Do you have any ambitions?
Is there anything you would like to change about yourself?
Do you like to spend time in nature?
What is the one thing you spend money on even though you know you shouldn’t?
What’s your favorite thing to do on the Internet?
If you had a plane ticket that can take you anywhere you want in the world, where would you go?
What’s the pettiest thing you’ve ever done in your life?
Which is more important to you: platonic friendships or romantic relationships?
Is your best friend male or female?
Would you rather be able to fly or teleport?
Oh that's a good one! I think I would enjoy flying. But teleporting? Man that would be awesome. No more one hour commute on three different subway lines. And there is no restriction of the distance. You can teleport just about anywhere. With flying there is only so far you can go.
What takes most of your time in your everyday life?
How many ducks can you defeat if they all came at you at once?
What’s the most interesting question you can ask someone in order to get to know them?
What’s the weirdest animal you would want as a pet?
Choose one: Bulbasaur, Squirtle, or Charmander?
Would you rather your loved ones always be truthful with you or tell you lies to protect your feelings?
