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I have done this project completely based on my feelings. About my depression. At first, I thought I would do a self-portrait series but due to the nature of the Bangladeshi culture, I could not gather the courage to do that. In this society, depression is seen as attention or sympathy seeking. That is why I used different models to bring out the different sides of depression.

Many people around us are depressed. Those who are the most depressed prefer to talk less and we tend to distance ourselves from them. We don’t want to invite a depressed person to hangouts. We don't even ask them their reasons for being depressed. Instead, we mock them for being quiet and think that they are boring. We don't bring them close to us because we think "the person is depressed; how will that person make us feel happy?" But we don't understand that if they get a little love and care, they may be able to pull themselves out of their depression. It may be that the only cure for someone's depression is some caring and mental support. But most of us don't think like this.

When someone posts something on social media about their depression, people make fun of them. When a celebrity shares their experiences with depression or commits suicide because of it, we call that depression; but when people around us talk about their depression, we don't take it seriously. When someone who is not famous commits suicide because of depression, we call them cowards. By no means do I feel that suicide is the right way but we can love and support a depressed person and try to bring them away from such drastic measures.

I am defining various photographs with their captions. I think that there should be at least one chapter in Bangladeshi textbooks about depression. Otherwise, our younger generation will remain unaware of the detrimental impacts of depression.

All the images taken are staged photos. No person's personal lives are portrayed through these pictures. I have just utilized them as characters for the part.

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Depression

Sometimes depression is not the end of the story. Depression can lead to many other related diseases such as anxiety and, ultimately, phobia. The fear of not being able to do something or delusions cause people with depression to constantly feel suffocated and trapped even in a situation that may seem like a regular everyday occurrence to someone who does not suffer from depression.

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pusheen buttercup
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

pretty accurate. 'cept maybe stick a smiley face sticker on the outside

Dawn Soehren
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah those of us who are depressed try and hide it.

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Donna Leistner
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So good to know others feel the same, stunning photo

BusLady
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6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can relate to that feeling of not being able to move or to breathe.

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    #2

    Depression

    It's not that all depressed people are sad and cry all the time. Some depressed people are brilliant actors. They socialize like everyone else. They laugh and make others laugh. Only when they come home and close their doors, do they reveal their true faces.

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    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a song out right now that says "Maybe it's Okay not to be Okay". You feel the societal pressure to pretend that everything is fine. Many people use humor as a tool to deal with suffering.

    Ronnel Samonte
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been wearing invisible mask to cover up my depression and still fighting :)

    Donna Leistner
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's true, it is easier to pretend everything is O.K.

    George Hudacko
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And are sure there is no one here inside like 'normal' folk.

    Devin Carlson
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right now I am happy when others are and it's a awesome thing to see.

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    #3

    Depression

    Men have a more difficult time expressing their depressed emotions to others. Sometimes the only place they can express their depression is in the bathroom. And often, all the taps are turned on so that no one can hear them cry.

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    Anna Salord
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    S**t, I'm a woman and I've been doing this since I was five. I thought I was so clever...

    George Hudacko
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the s**t never comes out for relief!

    Devin Carlson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cry in my room hopping one day someone will understand my story...

    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done this. I get in the shower.

    #4

    Depression

    In this society, the depressed cry into a pillow because no one cares about their depression. If someone is found crying due to depression, they are often labeled as 'crazy', made fun of or become the center of amusement. But hardly anyone ever tries to find out their reasons for crying or to help them get out of depression.

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    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You feel ashamed to be caught crying, because it's seen as a sign of weakness.

    George Hudacko
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone wants to 'fix it' too terrified to ID with the magnitude of the real imbalance that leaves you helpless exhausted yet knowing you aren't really crazy!

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    #5

    Depression

    Sometimes we are so depressed that we hide behind closed doors, lie in our beds and cry out silent tears so that those on the other side of the door cannot hear us.

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    Theory Buchannon
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just go to the bathroom and lie down on the floor and sob because no one really cares.

    Tia Hansen
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    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t really like showing my emotions, I always have a blank face. People either think that I don’t like them or that I’m just sad. The either stay away from me or ask if I’m ok. I don’t like crying in front of anyone and I don’t like smiling in front of anyone now. Some days i feel like I’m just not there, my friends forget I’m in the room constantly. I don’t really care if i am not there anymore.

    PyroKitty
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I completely understand and feel the same way. You are not alone in this, don't give up. Maybe try therapy or a support group, or even just some random people you feel comfortable talking to about this. I hope this doesn't offend you, but I'll be praying for you. <3

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    Kate Kyffin
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sending out big love - you are all of value x

    Aidyn06
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have to climb the mountain to reach the valley :)

    Devin Carlson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you need a friend I'm here no matter what!

    BusLady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes, I just want to hide in my room and forget that the rest of the world exists.

    Ronnel Samonte
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reflects my life story :(

    Natalie Rose
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My walls are very thin. People can hear through easily. It is hard to cry quietly. I can’t draw attention to myself because then people will ask what’s wrong when in reality I am tired and beaten up inside and I can’t say anything because people judge me.

    Karly Codr
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just take a shower and just stand there and sob because in reality do people actually care??? In the point in life that I am at, the only reason I'm still going is music and my friends.

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    #6

    Depression

    With this image, I actually intended to highlight 2 things. First, the Bangladeshi job market and graduate students. The number of people who graduate and the number of jobs available are unbalanced. Just due to unemployment, many young men and women in Bangladesh are falling into depression and committing suicide. Secondly, many women in Bangladesh do not get permission from their in-laws to get a job after marriage. But many women graduate after a lot of sweat and tears with a dream of working for a good organization or becoming businesswomen. Due to marriage, many women's dreams remain unfulfilled and they become dependent on others which becomes a reason for their depression.

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    BusLady
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not being able to get a job can make you feel hopeless, with no future. Being dependant on others makes you feel insecure. That person could leave your life at any time. That's a frightening thought.

    George Hudacko
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Education is/can/often is just business that lesser folk use to play with those who really wish to learn.

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    #7

    Depression

    Education in Bangladesh can become a burden on students. Students become depressed because society forces them to perform well in academic activities. The same old criteria where CGPA matters and one mistake leads to unemployment. The constant pressure of studying and taking exams is a major cause of anxiety and depression among students.

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    George Hudacko
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes cuze the brain and it''s knowing does not have all the answers that STUPID un EDUCATED folks think/want learning to assure!

    #8

    Depression

    We often think that money can cure anything and those with money do not suffer from things like depression. This perception is completely inaccurate. Sometimes all the money in the world can't bring you happiness. If you have a terminal illness, no money can cure you. You may fall into depression at that point.

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    George Hudacko
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't love accept yourself you are TERMINAL!

    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easy for poor people to believe that wealthier people don't have serious problems. A lot of poor people have a view of life as: If I just had more money, my life would be much easier/ perfect.

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    #9

    Depression

    Due to depression and insomnia, many of us are left with dark circles under our eyes. But people often don't understand that this not an easy issue to fix. Many people advise to just sleep or to practice sleeping at the right time. But no one understands that this sleeplessness cannot be solved just like that.

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    Mary Stiles
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me all the way, I wish I could sleep, but that's not really possible with anxiety.

    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes, you are afraid to go to sleep, for fear of having nightmares.

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    #10

    Depression

    The doorknob is correlated to depression. Depressed people are like ghosts behind closed doors. Just like we cannot see what a ghost is doing right in front of our eyes, we cannot see what a depressed person is doing behind closed doors.

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    BusLady
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The vibrant blue colour in this photo just grabs me. The term "Blue" is used to describe low moods.

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