People From Different Professions Are Sharing 30 Things That The General Public Has No Clue About
“What do you do?” is that one little question we all hear on a daily basis. But sometimes it doesn’t end just there. It’s not just about “what?” but also about “but really, what is it like to do your job?” And that’s the point we step over the small talk and get into explaining the complexities of our professions.
What’s interesting is that even the most no-brainer things about our jobs are often far from obvious to the general audience. This thread from Ask Reddit is a great example of it: “What's something that seems obvious within your profession, but the general public doesn't fully understand?” someone asked, and the illuminating responses started rolling in.
Below we selected some of the most interesting ones, so scroll down below and be sure to check out our similar post on more things that people don’t have a clue about when it comes to these common jobs.
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Doctors/healthcare workers use dark humour as a form of resilience not to be callous or flippant.
A lot of traumatic events occur in a hospital on a daily basis. Sometimes a dark joke is the difference between breaking down emotionally or being able to compartmentalise and treat you with all our wits about us.
It shouldn't though. When my house burnt, the firefighters were standing around laughing at how cool all my melted stuff was. I interrupted them to ask if they had found my cats. They stopped, looked irritated I interrupted their good time and said, "Nah, they didn't make it." Then went back to their dark humor and laughing. I'm sorry, but f*ck that. They made the worst night of my life so much worse. I'll never forgive or forget they did that. My tragedy shouldn't be your entertainment.
Load More Replies...I wanna watch it! I see two what year is the one you’re talking about.
Load More Replies...Same thing for some patients. Dark humor got me through cancer/chemo. The most hilarious thing is the people who got offended when i made a dark joke about my own Cancer.
I really feel, based on some studies i do in counseling that doctors need to release their emotions somehow. I really can’t imagine how someone is able to survive in jobs that see suffering and death on a regular basis without debriefing with someone who will listen and cry with you.
This is one reason why not everyone can work in the medical / first responder / law enforcement field. I don't know how to really explain it, but it is just easier for some to be able to do everything you need to do to take care of the patient and/or family, and then when you are done, you let it go from your mind and move on. There are some cases that are really sad, and you feel that, and then there are some cases that definitely hit you hard, and that's when you have a good cry (hopefully after your shift, or on break) and then move on. But part of being a good candidate for this type of work is the ability to separate yourself, or protect yourself from the hard stuff so you can do your job, and that is where dark humor comes in.
Load More Replies...Dark humour should stay out of earshot of patients and their families though..., what you say to each other is not a problem, but if you do it where others can hear you that causes problems.
As a veteran, former medic and chronic pain sufferer, I highly prize my docs that use and/or appreciate dark humor! (In appropriate manners with a patient that's receptive, of course.) It helps as sometimes that's how I process. I Don't appreciate getting the psych questions because I made a dark humor joke based off something I've been stuggling with for a significant time.
Nuclear engineer here, and if you think radiation is the devil incarnate then buckle in for a quick second as I tell you that:
1) No one from Fukushima died from radiation exposure. You saw pictures of the horrific devastation from the earthquake and tsunami. Flooding a nuclear plant doesn't topple buildings.
2) Nuclear is one of the safest, renewable, and cleanest energy sources that exist. Second cleanest only to water (and air if you count that).
3) Unless we start growing energy and picking it off the vine, oil and coal will run out in the very foreseeable future and nuclear is the way to go.
4) You get more radiation from eating a banana than anyone ever did from 3 Mile Island. The most radiation I get everyday is from my morning fruit and I play with radioactive sources and crystals all day.
5) Nuclear is actually really cool and by making it to the bottom of the list you're pretty cool too.
Edit: Woah, my first gold! Thank you kind stranger, you the best!
Edit 2: Double gold! Y'all are spoiling me too much, thanks Reddit!
Curious that he only mentioned Fukushima and Three Mile Island and not, I don't know, one of the biggest nuclear disasters in history. No, flooding a nuclear power plant won't topple buildings, but exploding one certainly might. Nuclear is definitely a comparatively clean fuel, if you are only considering the period being used for energy production. There are still waste products involved that are definitely dirtier than wind, solar, wave, etc. And when it does go wrong (and anyone who thinks that's an unlikely possibly has been living under a rock or on an atoll somewhere) it *really* goes wrong. With a lot of regulations, it's safe - goddess help us if we get some idiot in charge who doesn't believe in regulations...
One major issue is long-term storage of the waste products. There’s research into speeding up the decay and make it safe to store anywhere. But as it stands, you need a place that can be safely assumed to be stable for thousands of years. Exiting nuclear energy in Germany was triggered by Fukushima but there have been decades of discussions and protests against nuclear waste because nobody wants it in their backyard.
How is nuclear energy 'renewable'? Also, anyone who's ever seen an uranium mine would have a hard time calling it 'clean'
How biased is this? Doesn't even mention fusion which if we threw some actual money at would be a great clean solution.
I'm still not fully convinced, as nuclear power plants do produce waste, just not the traditional greenhouse gasses, and it's incredibly dangerous waste that we still don't know what to do with aside from storing it indefinitely. The solution for nuclear waste is literally "Figure it out in 2100". Also the mining of uranium or plutonium is very dirty work, does produce harmful waste AND is an limited resource as is coal and oil. Third, maybe nobody died instantly from radiation exposure, but the number of radiation-induced cancers will increase over the next couple of years or decades in the exposed population. Just because radiation doesn't immediately kill you doesn't mean it's not a huge problem for your health. There's also a huge difference between radiation from general objects, as pointed out in #4, and radiation from nuclear disasters, as is the dose to which you can be exposed. Maybe I'm wrong, I'm no nuclear physicist, but the points mentioned here are too bluntly put in my opinion.
All of the nuclear waste, from all of the US plants, from all of years of service would be smaller than the slag from one coal plant in one year! And remember Uranium, before we mine it, is extremely toxic and dangerous.
Solar power is the safest. If only they researched it to upgrade is as aggressively as iPhones we would have been better off.
That "more radiation from a banana" statement sounds like propaganda.
Libraries are not [vanishing]. The main reason we're suffering is because idiots decide, without doing any research, that libraries are [vanishing], so they cut funding because...why fund something that's dying? It's so circular that it makes my head hurt.
Honestly, I spent entire summers in the library because it had AC and my house didn't!
Load More Replies...So, Bored Panda censored the first two instances of "dying", but forgot to censor the third. Hey, at least it doesn't say "unalived"
One of the most important institutions in our world today, and they always will be
Maybe the censorship think a simple word like 'dying' could offend someone?
This seems like the type of "research" done in Dublin last year where they trialled the pedestrianisation of a street and decided it was a great success. Absolutely no regard to the fact that we were in lockdown at the time and most shops, restaurants and pubs were closed at the time
Like when my school were deciding whether we needed an extra school bus for one route because the bus drivers and students said how overcrowded it was- they sent teachers to count the number of students that were on it everyday for a week, not even thinking about the fact it was the end of the year, so only year 7 & 8 were on it because the higher grades had already finished for the year. It happened multiple years too!
Load More Replies...I just read about police in McFarland, CA wanting to take over the town's only library, which serves a diverse community and helps keep children off the streets, as their headquarters. Which would of course lead to more children getting in trouble and be a good excuse for expanding the police budget and presence. (probably a coincidence, right?) https://www.sfgate.com/centralcoast/article/Police-department-wants-McFarland-library-17159602.php
It's probably replacing a scary word like dying or dead
Load More Replies...REALLY?! "DYING" as a FIGURATIVE term is also OFFENSIVE?! THEN it's NOT censored in the SAME post?!
As a plumber replying to my customer who just hovered over me during the whole repair:
Yes, you could have done this yourself.
Yes, you would have saved 100s of dollars.
No, I can't come down on the price because of how simple it looked to you. We are a business and I gave you the quote before I started.
They also could have just flooded their apartment by trying it themselves like my upstairs neighbors did.
Or fix it so that when you need that thing really fixed it will take an hour instead of a few minutes
Load More Replies...People forget that they are paying not only for time and materials, but also the knowledge and experience that "makes it look easy."
"If you could have done it yourself and saved hundreds of dollars...WHY THE FOQ DIDNT YOU?"
Quite! Brother is an electrician and he gets this a lot 'oh, it isn't' a difficult job and won't take you long' way before he arrives to just take a look to provide a quote! They're never, ever right.
Load More Replies...Every trade has a few secrets that the home handyman doesn't - the right (but very expensive tool), the right glue, the right pipe fitting, the proper cable gauge, the correct technique, etc. that if used will speed up the job and last for years. Omitted by the home handyman, will cause the job to take 10 times as long and last one tenth the time.
I agree completely. YouTube DIY videos make you think that a child could do these things. Bring in the expert and have it done once, done quickly, done right.
Load More Replies...I don't think surgeons use scissors. Perhaps you meant a box cutter? ;oP
Load More Replies...My father-in-law repaired something for us, used the wrong kind of seal, and it burst months later, slightly flooding our basement. Had we used a plumber, this wouldn't have happened.
i was an electrician - there are quite a few times we get paid for what we know vs. what we do.
My go to has always been "its $10 for the actual labor. Its $90 for the knowledge, because you didn't even know the problem until I started".
Graphic Designer here (but this applies to a lot of creative professions). Doing a job faster actually means I need to be paid *more*, not less.
Yeah, this comes from the concept of an hourly rate instead of a per project rate.
Maybe a stress rate bonus would be appropriate. We call it "rush rate"
Load More Replies...Also when a job takes 3 hours, many people don't understand why they get their result in 3 weeks. It's because your project is not their only project and won't be done first.
Media production is this: the most nonsense clients asking for the more weird stuff to yesterday, by one third of the price
Load More Replies...If it’s good and cheap it won’t be fast, if it’s cheap and fast it won’t be good, if it’s fast and good it won’t be cheap.
Thank you for this entry on behalf of creative people everywhere!
The amount of hours it takes for an artist to actually become fast at doing wonderful, professional work is what you're justly paying for.
Also, faster won't always save you money in the long run. The likelihood of rework is much higher when work timelines are compressed
This also applies to construction. Your gonna pay more for a fast job in a remodeling before the holidays.
When you're in a hospital, not every man is a doctor and not every woman is a nurse.
At least half my doctors have been female and half my nurses male in every hospital surgery and stay I have had, never really noticed the difference between them. All professionals, all completely awe inspiring.
Load More Replies...I've tweeted literally those exact words. Also, that's not the only 2 professions making a hospital run. We got radiology techs, lab, respiratory, speech, occupational and physical therapy...
Working in a medical office, I went to book a patient for a follow up appointment when he said "but I haven't seen the doctor yet, I just talked to that nurse for 15 minutes." I was in the room earlier when she came in and introduced herself as a doctor. Some people just hear what the want to hear.
Must admit, I was a bit surprised to see this as potentially something people did still think
Load More Replies...Almost 20 years ago I was ra*p*d and beaten. Due to past trauma I will only see female doctors and female nurses. While in the ER I had both. She wanted me admitted to the gynaecology ward and I said OK. Get to the ward 4 hours later and a male nurse came in and I told him that I would only see a female doctor and female nurse. Female nurse came in and told me she was the only female staff on the ward. 3 male gynaecologists and 4 male nurses. I discharged myself ama. I do not want any man, especially down there after what had happened to me.
Key and Peele did a musical number on their show years ago in the style of a pirate chantey but the catch was that the crew of pirates were feminists. This is one of the verses: "Thar was a lady with a golden eye, And the doctor said she would die, So she emptied her purse to lift the curse, And prayed to stay alive, She awoke the very next day, And in her grave she lay, But the scariest part of the story from the start, Is I bet you assumed the doctor was a man."
Was just there. A woman going to cardiac surgery from my ward asked the tattooed man in scrubs how long he’d take to operate on her. He said “ma’am that’s way above my pay grade. I just push beds”
Wind farms require environmental impact studies that take birds in account. Yes, they do have an impact, but so does the playground in front of your house.
And trust me, if we don't put wind farms up and keep burning coal, it's gonna be worse, even for the birds.
According to studies wind power kills 0.3 birds per GWh, while fossil fuels kills 5,2 birds per GWh
Thanks for that. Gonna go look it up. Good thinking.
Load More Replies...They found out, that by painting one of the blades black the danger of birds crashing into the rotating blades is cut down by ca. 80%!
The leading cause of bird deaths is actually cats, by over 1000x that of wind turbines.
HUMANS are the leading cause of bird deaths! They cut down their trees, and poison their food sources with pesticides!
Load More Replies...Its not an option in all areas, but my area uses hydroelectric. We haven't burned coal for our power in years. And its co-op owned, so the price varies by how lucrative its been. Last year, I got a $100 kickback at the end of the year because they made that much of a profit. Definitely not free power, but it was a pleasant surprise, none the less.
Where I live we are (slowly) closing out coal power stations. We have lots of wind farms (though people still protesting) and some hydro power. Because of the area wind is more effective than hydro.
Load More Replies...Stop with the birds and wind turbines. Yes, a few will die, but if you paint a stripe on just one blade, problem solved. Or have one blade black instead of white. You want hazards? Huge climate change and habitat loss.
Yeah, it's sad to see people fall for propaganda that companies have cooked up. "Oh but the 🐦 :::(((" . They're well f*kd if we DON'T get renewables. Similar propaganda against solar power. "It changes the weather locally! :(((" Not replacing coal, oil and 'natural' gas will and is changing the weather GLOBALLY. Yet you hear idiots parrot these inane ideas and protest against solar power and wind. Some people just love being f*kd over by multi-billion companies...
The "wind farms will wipe out all the birds" propaganda has mostly been heavily promoted by fossil fuel companies and their paid shills, i.e. Republicans.
In the US, wind turbines kill 538,000 birds per year. Skyscrapers kill 1 billion birds per year. Domestic cats kill 1.3 billion to 4 billion birds and 6.3 to 22.3 billion mammals per year. Keep your cats inside. They're not wild animals and they don't need to hunt; they're pets.
Organically grown produce is still grown using pesticides. I stopped arguing with people when I realized the fact that I worked for the EPA and it was literally my job didn't dissuade them from arguing with me.
"the fact that [...] it was literally my job didn't disuade them from arguing with me" is a sentence that explains so much about what is wrong with the world today.
While not what they're likely describing, "It's my/their job, therefore it's right" is literally a logical fallacy (argument from authority). Among other things, I'm a history professor - doesn't mean I'm right about any and all historical claims just because of that. Experts aren't infallible, they're just well informed and experienced. If, for instance, the person's argument was just "It's my job, I know what I'm talking about" that's not actually providing evidence. If they said "It's my job and the pesticides in question are X, Y, and Z - and if you'd like, I can provide documentation" *then* a person is unreasonable to disagree without equivalent counter evidence.
Load More Replies...I'm going to say this again - so many people do not understand what "organic" means. And also mention (again) my anecdote of my ex-inlaws coming to visit and insisting that the vegetables we were eating weren't healthy because they weren't "organic" vegetables purchased from the store... when they were literally fresh picked right from my garden.
Isn't there a difference of degree? Of type? The OP implies there are no differences, or that "using pesticides" is all that matters. I realize organic farms also get contaminated with pesticides from nearby nonorganic farms, but surely there isn't as much when not being directly and intentionally applied? This post frustrates me and reminds me of the arguments about most recycling not getting recycled, which seem to be made to advocate that recycling is a complete waste of time. But isn't some better than none? It seems that when people aren't presented with perfection, they throw up their hands and just do what they want, even in situations where one option is clearly better (like odds of dying from vaccine vs odds of dying from the illness the vaccine targets).
Yes there is a big difference in what and how often they can be used. Organic does not mean pesticude or fertilizer free.
Load More Replies...Isn't there a difference between natural and chemical pesticides? I use pesticides on my flowers and bugs in my house but, they are based on natural oil combinations and have no man made chemicals. They do no harm to the environment, people or pets. As opposed to the ingredients of say, Roundup, whose ingredients have been shown to cause cancer.
Sometimes. Nicotine is a natural pesticide, and so is atropine. Both are natural and potentially more deadly than common man made pesticides. I did pick some extreme examples that I think are only found in nature for this purpose, but does make the point that man made isn't necessarily worse or more deadly than natural
Load More Replies...We used no pesticides, b/c they cost money. But we had to pick off the bugs by hand. So, yeah, there's that...
If there is a traditional crop nearby, yes, there is. I work for agricultural media and all the people I know from the ares says it is basically a scam if the conditions are the described
Load More Replies...It depends on the country. Organilly grown vegetables in Denmark are without pesticides... Thats why we awoid from foreign countries or make special deals! If they wan't our organinilly mark for sale.. No pesticides...
It depends on what you feel counts as a "pesticide." There are quite a few commercially prepared substances which have deleterious properties toward insects when applied to crops, but which are perfectly in compliance with organic practices. B.T. is probably the most common example. It's so non-toxic to mammals that numerous crops have been genetically modified to produce it by themselves, no spraying required.
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Unless it's an actual emergency you'll have to wait in the ER. It sucks, we know, but a suspected heart attack will be treated before a busted knee.
The other thing is your definition of emergency is different to mine. While clearly a suspected heart attack is more important than a broken ankle, the drunk guy with blood pouring down his face getting seen ahead of "maybe appendicitis, maybe gallstones, may even just be gas", because blood, is a level of triage that just won't make sense to many people.
Blood pouring down his face will see you immediately as head traumas are serious. But most people will see a drink guy, who is less needy than their broken ankle, or stomach aches. Concussions can be deadly. Appendicitis, gallstones, will be seen, but generally you are waiting to be sent to scans. Also really important to point out a doctor who can deal with brain bleeds, concussions, might not be able to fix your internal organs or broken bones as they have specialised into different area. I was in hospital for six hours with rectal bleed that didn't have a reason, I got checked by nurses, emergency staff, I was made comfortable because I had to wait for a doctor who specialises in colorectal surgery. Your appendicitis is serious, but you won't want to send in a surgeon who has no experience with that area. In Ireland there's only handful of colorectal surgeons. Unfortunate thing is a lot of people think a doctor does everything, but in reality they must be trained in that area
Load More Replies...Please just stop going for the non emergencies anyways. Your 6 year chronic knee pain can wait until normal office hours.
You obviously don't have chronic pain. When that chronic pain is at its "normal everyday" level no problem, but when it ramps up for whatever reason we need extra help and we need it now, not Monday
Load More Replies...When I was 11 I was hit by a motorcycle, flew about 5 or 6 meters and fell head first on the asphalt. Went to the ER and waited more than 6 hours. My mom was furious and I kept dozing off but she forced me to stay awake. It was hell but at the end I was luckily just very bruised (the left side of my hip and thigh were dark purple, too bad I didn't have a camera phone back then, the colors on the weeks following the accident were beautiful), sore and had one humongous bump on my head. I don't know if they realized I was going to be fine or if it was luck.
Unless it's an actual emergency, you shouldn't even be IN A&E. Buy Lemsip for your sniffles and f**k off home.
Right now, urgent care or your doctor’s office won’t even let you into the building if you have sniffles aka suspected of having Covid. They send you to emerg and right now, some people are dying of those sniffles.
Load More Replies...True story: Patient 1 came in coughing bloody fluid. Patient 2 came in needing stitches. Patient 3 came in unconscious, cyanotic, and seizing. Who goes first? Number 3, then 1, and I'm sorry, 2, but it's stitches, if it's not an arterial spray, you come third. But you will be ahead of patient 4, "My knee hurts".
Same applies by coming in an ambulance, just because you come by ambulance doesn’t mean you get the golden ticket through the door. We get lots of people who call an ambulance just because they think they can get in faster but end up tying up needed emergency services.
Been an EMT for 25+ years, and no…people STILL think asking an ambulance gets them seen faster or means they won’t be put in the waiting room.
Load More Replies...Don't complain about waiting in the ER. It means you're going to live. Those people who get rushed to a room or into the OR might not be so fortunate...
When I got set on fire I didn’t realise how bad it was, then I remember going into the ER no triage and straight through the door and I was like ‘coool, I’m first’ - still unaware of my injuries 😂
As someone in the movie/tv business, most people don't realize that doctoring and altering footage is really really really easy for someone with the right software. I see my old relatives falling for obviously fake footage all the time because they trust all video to be real.
This problem is only going to get worse as the software gets better.
And its getting easier and easier all the time, like products for general public is getting closer to very convincing deep fakes, I think I even read/saw somewhere about rendering face swap deep fake on live video, so throw in bit voice modulating and I could example fake live statement impersonating our president.
google "sassy justice trump" for a fun sample.
Load More Replies...Well worse people already believe anything written that aligns with what they want to hear. Adding the fake video component makes it worse - there is a huge population of people who literally don't care if they're wrong and if they're promoting or listening to fake information. The fact it's what they like to see or hear, that it confirms their biases, is more important to them than whether it's true. Such as, when the Bush government admitted that they had never found any weapons of mass destruction in Iraq most of his supporters apparently just ignored that information or claimed it was fake information being given out by the Democrats - despite directly coming from the Republican people they voted for.
I expect that one day, there will be a fake picture of Mao Se Tung (sp) and Marilyn Monroe in bed together!
In the 80s my Granny was 85. We would watch CHiPs. The next day, she would ask someone if they saw that bad wreck that happened yesterday. Then proceed to describe the scene from the TV show. Also, the brand new TV came with a remote. She was afraid I would break the TV if I changed the channel by touching the TV.
I stopped trusting video along about oh.. Forrest Gump. And those graphics were great and all,but we knew how bad they were then. But the one scene that got me,was Forrest shaking hands with JFK, yeah it's old, but look at it. It's good and they make it look like the zapruder film. Gave me cold shivers.
Half the things on Tik Tok or FB are fake, and I can't believe how many gullible people think it's real.
As your child's teacher, I see them for 53 minutes a day for 180 days of the year. I cannot undo all of the poor habits you've taught/enabled/encourage and "make" your kid successful. I see people post on the book of faces about their child's [lousy] teacher because they won't do "x" or "y" when those things are the responsibility of the parent. Also, my contract says I work until 3. I will not call, text, or meet with you after hours because I need to have my own life separate from my work life which is really hard for parents to understand for some reason.
They whine about demanding ultimate say over how their children are raised then abdicate that responsibility to someone else.
And now conservatives are trying to run the damned curriculum because they don't want their kids to learn about ALL history. Just their favorite white parts.
Load More Replies...Sometimes it’s a lousy parent and sometimes it’s a lousy teacher.
I think over the pandemic and the resulting online teaching have been eye openers for some parents. At how hard it is to teach and what teachers go through trying to get children to listen to them. Then other parents just make it clear that everything is the teachers fault. Kid failing the online class because they don't bother to do it? Definitely the teachers fault. Teachers try to explain that they have absolutely no power to get the children up in the morning and that is the parents job not the teacher. Then the parent complains to the principal that the teacher is saying that they are a bad parent. Principal asks why. Because it's the teachers job to make sure the kid gets up on time to attend school online. Principal says no, the parent is the one responsible for that. And the parent complains higher. It's ridiculous
I've seen both sides of the fence. Most teachers are great! Underpaid, overworked, wearing way more 'hats' than 'just' teacher. As well as some truely assine parents that basically want you to raise their children. BUT there are still way to many teachers out there that should not be teaching. 'Worksheet W***y's', ones who join in on bullying, harrasing students, ect. As well as parents that truely want to be there, that are working 2 jobs, trying to do it all and struggling. Imho, it boils down to 2 things, The system is broken. The world has changed drastically but overall the system for teaching/work/home life hasn't. The other is we tend to 'worship/vilify' entire groups, forgetting that those groups are made up of individuals. Individuals with their own personalities, issues, methods, values, that may or may not be productive to the process. There always is the amazing the good the bad and the ugly in each group. Rather it's the teachers, parents or kids. No one group gold.
"post on the book of faces" 😂😂😂😂😂 im calling it that now and no one can stop me.
I have had the opposite problem, namely that teachers in my experience and in my country (south africa) have tended to be extremely conservative and religious. I have had them explain why they refuse to teach evolution, or why they think black people are inferior. I am therefore very cautious with teachers, and make sure I interview them dilligently when my kid spends time with them. If I detect conservatism I nuke it on the spot, so the teacher knows to not feed that to my kids, because I will hear about it and I will cause trouble. The thing of parents being scared of teachers and deferring to them, in my country, is a thing. I don't. Hence, when I had a choice with my own kid, I chose a school known to have few such teachers. HOWEVER there are still at least two. One of them already met my wrath. She was teaching christianity to my kid. NO. If you want to do that, you better teach Buddishim, Jainism, Taoism, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, AS WELL.
The harsh truth is that children are not a right but a privilege. If you cannot support them financially or give them proper time, then perhaps you should not have any.
Sadly, not everyone has the ability to choose whether or not to have children.
Load More Replies...And guess what? You kid's an assh*le and it's not my job to properly parent him. I am an educator, not a babysitter.
If I cared what teenagers thought of me, I wouldn’t be a high school teacher. No, I don’t go home and drink away their lame insults. They don’t bother me, they’re just hormonal kids, and I love my job.
And some folks, who were the dix from previous years, grow up to be ignorant adults who can't understand that many teachers actually have this ability, so they end up thinking themselves a "King" and make angry posts in the internet.
Teenagers are really funny. I taught them for years. Some of their insults are really creative. I'd usually just laugh. If I could see the verbal abuse was delivered in anger, then I'd speak to the kid aside. But if it was just clowning for kudos from peers, I'd usually just laugh.
As a high school teacher, I was always interested in what they thought of me as a teacher. Right or wrong, it was always useful information and so made my job easier. What they thought of me as a person was sometimes handy to know too.
Teachers should be revered the way athletes & movie stars are, & paid as well as them, too.
A teacher's job is to persevere through raw developing humans and convert them into a promising future.Sometimes that's messy--but worth it.
Great work separating what matter from what does. I loved so many of my high school teachers.
You can be a good teacher that way and you have to be. Same with Therapists, Coaches etc. Without keeping a professional emotional distance (internally) you're prone to ruin your life over the wellbeing of people who are not your friends and not your relatives. There's little to nothing coming back emotionally, you're PAID to do what you're doing. Doesn't mean you can't do a damn good job(!) helping them!
Load More Replies...If you cut off an 18-wheeler, you might die and it will be your fault. The dashcam will show it was your fault, and your family will recieve nothing. Not only will you be dead, but you will probably not leave a corpse that is in fewer than a dozen pieces. 40 tons moving at highway speed does not slow down quickly, and physics doesn't give a s**t that you want to get home two minutes faster. Yes, *literally* 40 tons. That's about 8 elephants. It depends on what kind of elephant.
Thank you. I was going to ask for banana weight but I also happen to be well versed in hobbit measurements
Load More Replies...I hate to see people racing to get in front of a semi when approaching a stoplight, or slowed/stopped traffic. I see it all the time and I'm impressed so many drivers are able to get stopped in time and not kill the people who do this. Makes me cringe. I wish people would be more aware of their surroundings when driving.
We used to say "No matter how big you are, madam Physica will win". It is one of the basic rules in historical fencing, when somebody 30 or 50 kilos heavier than you bodychecks you, you will fall down. When somebody is way heavier than you and you jump on his shield, you will (probably) roll over it and hit ground. Kinetic energy is real thing and it hurts.
Load More Replies...Please define "cut off." I was always taught not to pull in front of a semi until I could see the whole front end in my rear view. And I have seen some stupid people pull out from a dead stop in front of a semi doing 110 km/hr on the highway. Bad idea folks.
Good question. Daughter of long-haul truck driver/wife to heavy equipment & dump truck driver, here. The short answer is, it depends. You want to take the truck's rate of speed, type of load, type of truck, road conditions, experience of the driver, what THEY can see (NOT what the other driver can see) into account. A very safe way to tell if you are okay to pass a semi is 1) Use your blinker/signal intent to get in front of them 2) wait for their lights to 'flash', which is them signaling to 'go ahead' 3) if they don't signal/for whatever reason, give them at least the length of 2 truck lengths, while continuing at same rate of speed/faster is better/so they don't have to slow down for you. It takes a lot to get those trucks back up to their rate of speed, so they'll appreciate you not making them break. Also, if you can't see their side-view mirrors, they definitely cannot see you. I guess there is no pat answer, just give those big boys lots of room. They (the trucks) can be killers
Load More Replies...I am not familiar with those scales of measurements... could you please tell me how much 40 tons/8 Elephants would be in Bananas?
In Australia we have a lot of 34-wheeler B-Doubles and that's 56 tonnes. Which equates to about 3,733 drop-bears. So assuming one drop-bear equals about 125 bananas, then one 56 tonne B-Double equates to about 466,625 bananas. Note: assumes bananas are complete with banana-skin.
Load More Replies...You'll never educate people on this, they're too stupid. My husband drove one for years and the amount of people who do this is staggering. No, your car is not going to win against a loaded tractor trailer. You cut one off at your own peril.
My friend is driving teacher and he likes to say "Do not trust trams. They weight 50 tons and are on tracks, they will not stop suddenly and will not turn. And they are made of steel, when they hit you, you will be crushed and it will be your fault." Valuable lesson.
Load More Replies...It's about four-and-a-half times as heavy as a Tyrannosaurus rex The weight of a Tyrannosaurus rex is about 8.80 tonnes.
Yes! I see this all the time! I hate the billboards and commercials against truck drivers! These truckdrivers are working to keep everything, yes everything up and running! Then some idiots don't think about physics, or want a payout. The idiots don't think of how some driver's job could be affected either.
Thank you so much! Trucking co owner here and I literally stress myself sick worrying about what they are now calling "Nuclear Verdicts" against trucking companies and drivers when often its not their fault!!
Load More Replies...Same with trains. You would be surprised to see how many people cut in front of Light rail trains when they are alongside traffic.
**Hotels:** 1) If you can't prove you are allowed to have access to a room, I can't give you keys to the room. That means if you're staying in your brother's room and you get locked out, you're SOL until your brother shows up with his ID. This is to protect you, your family, and your stuff. If you don't like it, you can go suck a lemon. 2) If you call and ask for a person, but don't have their name *and* room number, I can't just say "YUP HERE YA GO" because some people in the hotel might specifically hiding out from someone. I don't know you're not some stalker or jealous ex-lover trying to track a person down by calling every hotel in town and saying "Hey can you transfer me to Jane Smith's room, please?" I have no way of knowing you aren't some phone scammer calling every hotel in town and asking to be connected to random room numbers. 2.5) Even if the name you give me is not a guest at my hotel, I'll still tell you "I'm sorry, I can't acknowledge whether or not someone is here unless you give me name *and* room number." Sorry, Sherlock Holmes, the fact I'm stonewalling you right now doesn't mean that person is staying here. Nice detective work, though. 3) Obviously you can't leave your dog in the room and go out for the day. You're thinking of a kennel. Dogs left alone in strange places howl and bark and p**s and chew up the furniture and dig at the carpet. "But my dog doesn't bark when I'm gone." How the f**k would you know? I've been told that by so many people who are then shocked to learn their dog barked while they were gone. 4) Yes, you need a card for incidentals. No, I don't care if you tell me there aren't going to be any incidentals, I still need the card. 5) Emotional support animals are not service animals and we will charge you full price for them. You can't sue us for it, so if you threaten to we'll just write notes about you and laugh behind your back. 6) Vaping in your hotel room can set off the smoke alarm. Most importantly: 7) Being a bully to the staff might get you some special perks and privileges, but we will remember you. We will do the absolute bare minimum and not go above and beyond anywhere we don't specifically *have to.* We may even go r/maliciouscompliance on your a*s. For example, when a cranky older man tried to bully me into giving him a discount for some petty problem last month (which I'd have been happy to help him with if he hadn't been a d**k), I jacked the rate up on him and took a small percentage off of that. He walked away thinking he had gotten a discount when in actuality, he was paying higher than full price. I think of it as an a*****e tax.
Hell no. Why would anyone want to do you special favours when you just made them hate you?
Load More Replies...As for 2.5, I used to be security at a resort. I was trained in front desk to cover the night person, if they needed to use the restroom or whatever. I had a few calls looking for people. I always declined that they were there, unless there was a note that they were accepting or expecting calls on the reservation notice. As for days, I'd place the caller on hold while I was "searching". During this "search", id call the room and be like "this is front desk. We have a Mr. So-and-so on the line. Would you like to accept the call?" If not, then I'd tell the caller "sorry, we don't have them listed as staying here." It was well known that we did this, because we actually got a lot of people hiding out, usually from abusive situations.
you are a hero. no sarcasm. Protect the weak.
Load More Replies...If ANY hotel, etc... Workers are reading this... The hate and stupidity y'all deal with is terrible. No matter what kind of day I am having, I still make sure to treat you with respect and a happy, and sometimes goofy/humorous interaction. I am SO sorry that you have to deal with horrific folks, probably daily. *big fuzzy hugs*
Confirmed the point 6 when vaping was still really new thing here (like close to 10 years ago) and didnt know any better, was naked and vaped in the bathroom in my hotel room and the hotel phone rang, didnt answer and started to unpack and set up my work laptop, maybe after 1 minute the front desk lady rushes in my room to check if everything is ok, the vapors had triggered some sensor and because I didnt answer the phone, she had to come check I was ok... after that I never vaped indoors while I still vaped. Sorry for her she had to see me naked because of my ignorance :D
Former hotel employee here - Yes, yes, yes, and yes to all. Security is a priority when it comes to your stay. You wouldn't want others accessing your room because they say they belong in there when they don't. If it's not your card, you can't use it. Sorry. The same rules apply to everyone, we're trying to keep you safe, not be a**holes.
What's creepy is hearing how often stalkers and other sorts seem to be able to get all the information they want from hotel staff. It's understandable but scary that hotel staff often get paid very poorly and treated like garbage by their managers and often may not care that the hotel could be put out of business by their irresponsible actions. Probably the only protection you do have is that most of these staff do care about not seeing people get hurt. Most.
I don't understand how people cannot grasp that if a random person showed up and wanted to get into THEIR room, they would not want the Front Desk Staff to just say "go ahead, no problem" so why do they think they can do it the other way around? 🤦♂️
Yes to all the first ones. I always laugh at it when in the movies people just ask the cleaning person to let them in to someone else's room and said cleaning person just complies.
One teacher, plus 32 kids doesn't yield optimum results.
Our son’s second grate year was a wash. Children on the “Bookends” of learning suffer the most, unfortunately. It’s not the teachers’ faults, either. Imagine being just ONE person, in a room of 30, that equates to 20 average learners, 6 exceptional learners, and 4 with challenges. How do you divide your attention? 😥
And it's not just learning issues... you'll have abused kids who didn't eat last night and got no sleep... or couldn't sleep because the rats kept biting them (I've had several of these). The exceptional learner's parents fought all night so they aren't learning anything... I've even had students sent to school with 103 temps... the parents just "didn't notice". The amount of abuse you'll find in an average class is staggering... take it from someone who's taught special ed for over 20 years.
Load More Replies...My daughters school requires 1 additional adult per every 20 kids. So at 1-19 kids, its just the teacher. At 20-39, they get 1 student-teacher. And policy allows some wiggle room towards the positive for special needs kids. So an additional adult (student-teacher, teachers aide, etc) if a handful of the kids are ADHD, or Autistic, etc. All this so the kids get the attention needed. And the really sad part? She goes to a backwoods k-8 school. We have that policy. No other school in our county does.
That's cool, that kind of thing should be policy.
Load More Replies...When I was about 7 or 8, there were 52 (fifty two) kids in my class. 1 full time teacher, 1 part time (3 mornings per week ). We basically got to do whatever we wanted.
Friends daughter always loved to color. All of a sudden, she didn't want to have anything to do with a crayon. Didn't take much to learn the reason. There were so many Mexicans in her class that knew very little English that the teacher was spend all her time working with them and the kids that do speak English were told to just color. So she learned absolutely nothing that year. Not the teachers fault. On the other hand, my son went into 1st grade with beautiful handwriting (script) but because 1st graders are generally learning print, the teacher made him print. Guess who lost that beautiful script forever? That was 100% on the teacher.
The average class number in my grammar school was 32, standard was high, plenty went on to university, etc. but there were a and b classes, grading of a sort I suppose.
I run after-school programs in an at-risk district. We have 2-3 teachers daily with 20 students and that’s STILL not enough. I have no idea how their day school teachers with 30+ students and no other assistance get anything done, ever!
Different artists excel at doing different styles. I work primarily in watercolor, my website and my portfolio are almost entirely watercolor pieces, and yet I regularly field requests from clients asking if I can do oil painting, mural painting, or God Forbid, tattoo them. Just yesterday I had someone ask if I'd give them a tattoo, which I have never done before, have not trained in...
I try to refer people to other artists I know who work in the styles and mediums they're looking for.
"But you make lots of cool things!"
YES. IN WATERCOLOR.
I think this happens in other fields too, because I use computer to do my work I obviously also am IT expert and people ask me how to fix stuff.. depends how well I know the person I might google the answer because apparently that is also too hard for majority of the people. (I have zero training and zero professional experience about computer science)
I'm a programmer. Yes, I can make you a website. No, I probably can't fix a hardware error with your printer.
Load More Replies...Since I’m not an artist in any medium - it might he not occur to me that artists have a more narrow specialty. If I ask if you can do an oil painting and you tell me that you specialize in watercolor - I’ll understand but please don’t be offended if I ask about something I’m not familiar with.
I don't think any artist would be offended. I work with artists on a daily basis. Most of them excel in one or two medias. So it is a common thing.
Load More Replies...Tell them you can create a piece that a tattoo artist can then put on them, but that you aren't comfortable with a vibrating needle in your hand.
Watercolour is a particularly specific medium. It requires a completely different technique than e.g. oil.
Same. I have a Biology degree therefore I should know everything about everything. "What's that bug?" Me: "I dunno. A black bug?" "I thought you knew Biology!"
Just wing it. "Scaraba nigrae wilsonii." See?
Load More Replies...I am a paper artist. I love the medium and have grown and become better at it over years. Most ask questions, why don't you work in other mediums, or have you tried x y and z.
You can always create a watercolor design for them to then have tattooed.
I'm 45 and my mom still tells me to try to sell different kinds of art because it will help me make money. Like one day she's like why don;t you paint pet portraits in oli? Or - why don;t you do abstract art - it sells so well! Thanks mom, but how many times I have to explain that I mainly work in pencil on paper, doing botanical illustration and fantasy? I am not interested in other type of art - nor would I be good at it. It took me years to get where I am with my medium. Other mediums/styles would require as much learning and training, regardless of how good I am at what I do now...
Clip your dogs toe nails. The longer you wait, the less we can clip them because the quick grows out with the nail!
Also: hold the microphone where it’s meant to be held, the handle. When you cup the head it starts to feedback.
I routinely interview animals using a microphone. You don't? It distracts them while their nails are being clipped 😁
Load More Replies...Keeping a dog's nail trimmed prevents them from getting caught and pulling them out or breaking them past the quick. Painful.
The "quick" is the nerves in the nail. In newer parts of the nail it is not present, but it grows out. If cut, it can severely hurt your puppy!
Load More Replies...When a cat meows into a microphone, hold it by the handle to avoid feedback.
Load More Replies...I let my dog's nails grow out a bit because I always quicked her I wanted to get both of use used to a safe clipping. I have now been grinding them back a bit at a time.
And lapel mic's go on the lapel.... like 8-12 inches away from your mouth.... NOT right up by your mouth. You can't understand anyone when they do that!!!
This goes for all microphones, not just standard stick ones. I was in a class once with a girl who had a cochlear implant and a microphone for it that connected directly to her ears, and at one point for a presentation she brought in a pair of headphones to let people hear what she heard when fumbling with the microphone. Just a little motion caused a lot of static. Your headset microphone, phone mic, or stage mic all have the same problem, which I’m sure everyone has noticed in Zoom meetings with bad audio quality. Hands off the mic!
From an ex-nurse. People don't understand there isn't a pill to fix everything and if you don't exercise and eat sensibly you will die younger than you should. Simple.
I was told that live in a 'plus' society. We always expect a doctor to give us something and feel cheated if he actually takes something away - like give up your daily donuts and chocolate or you'll keep on having heart attacks. Whereas here's a pill does - which is part of why the placebo affect happens
My GP in 12 years gave me no medicine. Taking antibiotics for a cold is really irresponsible.
Load More Replies...Conversely, not treating someone because you think they just need to lose weight is even worse. Many doctors will take a look at an overweight person and not even bother examining them. "Lose 30 pounds and you'll be fine."
So true... This is WAY too common, even moreso for women & minorities! 😒
Load More Replies...I still wish there was a pill for everything. Crippling anxiety and chronic pain aren't fun.
Trepiline will fix the anxiety. Chronic pain, no sorry. Nothing really works well without knocking you out.
Load More Replies...No amount of "body positivity" is going to cure your diabetes, or undo the damage done to your heart, and skeleton from being obese. And no, that doesn't make me "fat phobic" it's called facts.
People are aware of the health risks of being overweight. That doesn’t mean they should hate themselves or endure other people’s insensitive comments.
Load More Replies...I have to deal with this at work every single day. A lot of my work as a Physiotherapy involves weight management and nutrition. Whether it is treating someone with heart disease, Arthritis, Diabetes or mobility problems, being overweight and/or having a poor diet is very, very often either the cause of their poor health or making it worse. I always try to be as tactful as I can with patients but there have been times where being tactful isn't working and I have had to basically tell them that if they don't lose weight soon, they are going to die soon. Once the person accepts the facts they need to change things, I can begin to treat them properly. I can then develop exercise regimes and diet plans for them that will work alongside the Physiotherapy treatments I am giving.
I've got to say the MRI give the illusion that you will be cured once it's over.
I still think it's weird (and sad) that all these "fad" diets are still around. Eat less and exercise more. It's really not rocket science.
Same applies for the vet. You'd be surprised how often we get calls requesting medication to fix XYZ what's going on with their pet. "What do you mean they need to have an exam? Isn't there just a medication I can pick-up for them?".
Electricity is dangerous. Yeah getting shocked by an outlet is nothing more then a quick scare when you're dry. But when you're wet it's almost certain death (a painful one at that). And when you get into some larger stuff it will literally vaporize you. If you're untrained, you should leave electrical work to the professionals.
I know someone who works with high-voltage stuff. He says that it is household electricity that scares him because high voltage barks before it bites... household electricity just kills you with no warning
I worked with high voltage for years. I can absolutely verify.
Load More Replies...Yep. We deal with high voltage switch gear where I work (480v to 13000+ v) and we have arc flash PPE that looks one step below a space suit because that stuff'll kill you before you know you're dead.
I've had friends and relatives get mad at me because I wasn't willing to help with house wiring. Hell no you're not even paying me, why am I going to risk my life? Take a crowbar to your wallet and hire somebody who is well practiced at doing that safely and knows all the relevant building codes as well.
I work as a technician for a cable company. We sometimes come across electrical issues when working at someone’s house because even if we don’t normally have voltage on our lines, it can jump onto them when looking for a place to ground. Which basically means something is very wrong and you need to get the power company and/or an electrician out there fast. I recommend the power company first since they’ll usually check their own stuff for free. But god can it really leave me bewildered when I come across not only this situation but a customer who can’t seem to understand that I am NOT an electrician. Most of our techs aren’t. And then they start pitching a fit because I won’t fix it while im there. I DONT KNOW HOW! Like this isnt just for our own safety but for you and your house too! If I unhooked the wrong thing then the next number someones calling could be 911.
our voltage here is 220v, and I've been hit a few times. It's not "just a quick scare", maybe you're talking usa. It hurts and grabs you and it's really not possible to let go without help. I was once hit by a step-up DC transformer. Threw me across a room. Scary africa story follows. TRIGGER WARNING< Gruesome description. So, here we have a problem with cable theft because it's copper and copper is valuable and expensive. So guys try dig up and cut cables. Also, a lot of people can't afford it so they jimmy a wire from their shack to the transformer without a step-down transformer. And so sometimes they bite off more than they can chew. I've seen plenty of photos of guys who were trapped by it. Basically a burnt carcass with smoke coming off it. And an er3ction. That's one of the side effects. Yes, you get to see that because the clothes burnt off. I am shitscared of electricity. If I had to choose an execution method I'd choose anything over The Chair.
Yep, "crispy critters", as emergency personnel call them, aren't a pretty sight. I've seen photos too.
Load More Replies...I have been shocked with 120V several times everything from tickles to burns, 220V once in a damp environment: Knocked on my butt and knocked the wind out of me. 10,000V at 1/4 amp: Knocked me cold, scarring burns to the backs of my hands, memory issues and permanent arrhythmia (at least diagnosed after incident I don't know if it is congenital or not). My shop teacher told us about a mechanic who died because he had wrenches in his chest pockets of his utilities that were soaked with sweat and when he leaned across the battery and hit the terminals it stopped his heart.
My friend is amazing at building things. He can lay bricks, mix concrete, build roof, fix waterpipes,... but he doesn't do electric things, because (as he says) "electricity is not visible". If (when) you make mistake, it can kill you without warning.
Writing code is not really that exciting to watch. It is very unlikely that you will have a lot of cool graphics or special effects on the screen.
Its going to be some slightly color-coded words, and very little else.
And trial and error, and testing, and corrections, and change control, and documentation.
Load More Replies...There's an old legend going back thousands of years that someone once, on the first try, compiled software with no syntax errors that ran successfully.
Load More Replies...Coding for over 30 years and movies make coding look amazing, It's worth it but not very glamorous.
LOL-and too often in real life as well! I worked on code written by someone who thought that comments were a waste of time, since if the code changed they were no longer relevant. OK then. Same code set would have a method named something like "getCurrentTime" with a comment like "This gets the current time". A method with some obscure name wouldn't have a word of comment.
Load More Replies...You just killed decades worth of exciting coding montages from movies LOL. The process really is quite boring to a pure observer. It only gets interesting if you're the one(s) engaged in solving the problem at hand
I still want to see a lot of this reflected in movies. Don't have to make the whole movie about that - but don't have them go clickety clickety click I just hacked the NSA and clickety clickety click I now have a wireframe model of a building that was built in the 1930s and images of where all the people are in the building, without there existing any kind of system set up in the building that would make that even remotely possible. It's about as stupid and unrealistic as Wile E. Coyote stepping off a cliff and not falling until he realizes he did that.
Software developer here. I have a saying: we are only interested in the broken stuff. If it is built, stable and working, we no longer have anything to do with it. If it is missing, works incorrectly or throws a big fat error message, then we're going in. So the job of the software engineer consists of roughly about the following: 25% writing new code or editing existing, 15% tweaking copied code from somewhere else, 20% reading documentation, 20% trying to understand what the hell is going on, and another 20% making sense of other people's work.
The pastures you drive by don't just exist on their own. Grass is an actively managed crop.
Here in Brazil we are developing a kind of grass crop to make the soil better and keep the humidity on the ground even on dry seasons. Once a plague, now a blessing.
Very smart!! Need some of that kind of grass in the growing droughts areas in the USA. California has long history of messing-up water management; they’re looking to decrease plants due to droughts & fires; if they used drought tolerant plants & regenerative practices, to hold water in soil & stop compaction, the droughts could be measurably less.
Load More Replies...Studies have shown that tall and shortgrass prairies are actually better carbon sinks than forests.
hmm this isn't 100% true. The savannah in africa (my home) is naturally as-is. However it tends to be very dry and tall. The only "management" is from animals eating it or fires. I am talking about game reserves however, and verges on long-distance roads. Not inside farms or cities, those are obviously managed, but we don't call them savannah.
Pastures are specific to farming ---- the term isn't synonymous in American English. Naural fields abound, and I at least don't call them pastures. Or prairies (those are, like savannahs, specific types.)
Load More Replies...What would that land have been like if we'd never entered the picture. Not looking for a battle, I just look around where my home is, and wondering the same thing.
Deathcare industry worker here. Embalming a body is a creepy practice and an unnecessary expense.
Death care professional here as well. It is absolutely not an unnecessary expense when, in some circumstances, it is absolutely required or highly recommended (shipouts, waiting for placement in a national cemetery, post mortem pathogens that are easily contractable, but the family needs to see them and they need a complete disinfection, etc.) It's absolutely not required in most circumstances, but sometimes it is necessary. It's sad that a death professional would say it's creepy. Maybe go back to watching forensic files and leave the real death work to the ones that wanna do it. Edit: No, I'm not an embalmer. I had my time doing that. I cremate and do everything else now. Lol.
I appreciate you standing up for your industry. I think it’s important to have all perspectives.
Load More Replies...That’s why we Jews don’t do it! Bury the body AS IS, in a simple, pine box, let it become one with the earth. The soul moves on at death. Why do some people go all out to preserve an empty shell of nothingness? 🤷🏽♀️
It's actually more work than just placing our Jewish decedents into the pine box "as is." It's a very delicate, very tedious procedure dressing an unembalmed body in the Tachrichim. I would encourage anyone to research the literal blood, sweat, and tears we put into our duties.
Load More Replies...And unfortunately, many ways that we deal with corpses is extremely bad for the environment. Embalming chemicals are harmful to ground and water, cremation is terrible for the air, etc. Whenever possible, I think we should return to the earth as much like we came into this world as we can. Give a little something back to the ecosystem that gave you so much. Become nutrients for everything that comes after. It's almost a form of immortality, in a way. Not to get too new-agey :)
There is a new thing where they compost the body. It takes around 6 months or so, and they will return the compost to the family to use in their garden! And there are a few states in the U.S. that allow completely natural burials. That's what I want.
Load More Replies...I never got why people do this but it's also not common where I live. "Before we bury that body to rot, let's make sure it will take much longer despite happening anyway." ?
Funerals are a racket. Do as little as possible to my body and then burn me up. I get nervous keeping raw meat in the refrigerator past a couple days. It’s eerie how you can wait a week to have a funeral.
When I leave this earth, my body will be donated to a medical school so that doctors in training can make their mistakes on me instead of a living person. I will then be cremated and returned to my family. This costs my family nothing. Let them use the money a traditional funeral costs to continue enjoying life. Caveat: You usually have to donate your body while you are alive.
My aunt passed away back in March & she had arranged to donate her body a long time ago due to having Parkinson's. Plus she was a nurse & knew all the details of the funeral industry, & didn't want that.
Load More Replies...I totally agree, cremation for me. I had my husband cremated per his request.
But what are the archaeologists of the future going to study? They need mummies, etc.
I work as deskside IT support for an office.
Anyone could do my job if they knew how to google and read tech forums. Besides, 75% of my job is customer service, 20% knowledge, and 5% politics.
"Knowing how to Google" and "knowing how to read tech forums" are both very much skills - and there are many people who *really* don't have either. "Anyone could do my job if they learn the skills" is both true and kinda meaningless :D Don't sell yourself short just because skills you already know and use seem easy to you.
Also it's a lot more than knowing how to google, it's knowing exactly what to google for and which of the million and one crappy 'carbon copy' blog posts to sift out to get to the REAL solution
Load More Replies...not really. It depends on background knowledge. I might for example google a solution and see one come up FIRST that I know for sure 100% is NOT the one that will work because I've tried it a few times before, etc., so I know to exclude that result. For example, someone might say "my mac can't find its startup disk"... now there might be 3-4 different problems there. The first solution will probably be "zap the pram" but that won't work, and someone who hasn't worked on a mac before, even an IT guy, will then have to google what zapping the pram is, and try it, before realising it makes no difference.
Yup. Being able to look it up is one thing, understanding what you're reading and how it might or might not apply & what it's consequences would be is another.
Load More Replies...websites like quora, reddit and stackoverflow and a bit of googling and youtube videos solve all your tech problems
This is written by someone who is able to absorb a lot of information and has an interest in computerised things. Like me - but I'm also aware that some people have absolutely no tech ability and are unable to work through the troubleshooting steps. It doesn't mean they are dumb, it just means that they are differently skilled. :)
I keep getting told: 'READ THE DIRECTIONS'. Oh, shut up! What if I do and the thing still doesn't work for me? You are the one who ought to know how the thing works, that's why I'm asking.
I really debate this thought sometimes. Because yes 80% of issues can easily be resolved if ppl would jus take the time to google it. But I have also spent 2 hours with a user on how to open chrome download TeamViewer an let me remote in to help them.
The more you know how the Internet really works, the more you're amazed that it still works at all.
especially if your making an app. most of the time you wonder how its functioning
This one I can agree with, I have no idea why you have to have like 20 MB of cruft, libraries, headers, and other garbage before it will even do a helloworld.
Load More Replies...I want to know more! Tell me more, how does the internet really work? What are your secrets?
Nah - I can say SYN/ACK and "network mask" and "TTL" and "SSL" and "RSA256", etc., but I still think it's pretty straightforward.
It's because you understand the language. It would be like me handing you a legal brief that makes perfect sense to me, because I understand legalese, and expecting you to understand it. I, personally, have absolutely no idea what the stuff you referred to in your post mean- I don't know the language.
Load More Replies...That I don't set or control the prices and I can't give random people discounts.
As an ex retail monkey - this. We can't do sh*t about pricing, and discounts needed a proper reason and manager approval.
Also: "Can you order more?" I'm the cashier not the inventory manager.
Load More Replies...Back in the 80's, I was an asst. Mgr at a "Frugal Frank's" shoe store in VA. FF's, one of the divisions of the then mighty Kinney's Shoe empire, was a precursor to Payless Shoes...everything on racks. Anyhoo, one day some older man remarked that there was nothing frugal about the shoe prices. I shot back with a "Sir, the 'frugal' refers to our paychecks, not the shoes." He didn't buy any shoes, but he went away laughing!
God! I worked in thrift store retail for 4 years. If I could count how many times I heard, "I know the tag says $X but can I get it for $Z? I mean, it's donated right?". Or, "You mark your stuff way too high for getting it for free!". It was a daily occurrence. Somethings even hourly.
When I did customer service I just loved how often people would ask me to commit fraud on their behalf, and not even offer any sort of compensation for risking my job and freedom by doing such a criminal act. And of course I was the a*****e for not doing it.
Can someone tell my mom !! She actually still manages to get discounts all the time ! Especially when I’m with her telling her she’s not going to get a discount !
Yes, that’s so…but more in big chain stores. The smaller community stores though, can often do on-the-spot discounts, & respond better if customer comes in to report that stores “too high” prices. I shop a ReStore (Habitat for Humanity), for much stuff needed for repairs/renos. They get donations (free stuff). Saw a floor lamp that matched one of ours, & I wanted a match, but, the lamp they had, tho used, was tagged at high retail price. I mentioned that to staff. They lowered the price. Goodwill is a bigger chain tho, & they haggle shoppers into submission to hold the prices the tiggers put on items, even if prices are erratic for same items. They usually refuse to lower a price that seems high. That certainly holds for HomeDepot, Lowes, etc. big chain stores.
Right? I saw someone b*tching out the produce guy at the grocery store because of the price of avocados, I think. The produce guy was pretty chill about it and just told the lady he had nothing to do with how pricing works. Like he had personally gone out of his way to inconvenience her.
Hmm which industry? Retail or self-employed? Asking for a discount at a non-retail store is highly unethical, yet people still do it. Pay self-employed people what they ask.
Just because someone was doing a bad thing doesn't mean its bad when they are trying to make themselves better. Getting healthy shouldn't be looked down upon. I work in compliance for an addiction recovery company and it's part of my job to tell people to go away when they want to use our patients recovery against them.
What does that even mean? Do people just come in the facility to point and laugh at an addict for needing to get help in the first place?
Discouraging comments. Like "when you where high you did this or that" rather than saying "back then you hurt me and i needed to let you know" so the healing processes can begin. It's complicated as f*****g hell man. But yeah I would never talk to my husband the way I've heard his father talk to him. He has been clean for 7 years now and his dad is still an a*s hat about it.
Load More Replies...I come from a family of addicts. Everything from nicotine to alcohol to meth (my worst is caffeine and nicotine. Stupid, I know). And I can't count the number of times I've heard things like "but you've recovered, so just 1 drink with us won't matter". Like, no. They're recovering. And they won't ever be fully recovered. The temptation will ALWAYS be there. That 1 drink could send them down another spiral.
I will be a recovering alcoholic for the rest of my life. I have to talk myself through every single day of my nearly 3yr sobriety. My husband does not understand this. It's hard to talk to him about it. I got invited to a winery for a girls night. I'm not going. Praying my friend will understand.
Congratulations — (almost) 3yrs is an amazing accomplishment! It may always be a struggle at times, but the longer you're at it, the more/better coping skills you'll have & the easier it becomes to deal with. Eventually you'll go from every day to every other day to a few times a week, etc, just as you've gone from every minute to every hour to every few hours to every day. And a true friend would never want you to do anything that might threaten your sobriety, even if they don't entirely understand it. Hang in there, you're doing a fantastic job & I don't need to know you to be proud of you!
Load More Replies...Until OP mentioned "addiction", I assumed this was a gym employee talking about people who hadn't been taking care of themselves previously. I have mad respect for anyone overweight, or underweight, trying to turn a corner. It's an extremely difficult time, and a big part of that is how they are treated.
A bit like "the prodigal son" I think it's a sign of someone's strength that they can come back from a bad thing like an addiction and build their life back up.
I need details to troubleshoot your website problems.
"The website isn't working, can you fix it?"
What isn't working?? What page, what section of the page, what is it doing that it's not supposed to be doing, what is it supposed to be doing instead? What device, browser are you using? What were you doing before it happened? Give me *something* to work with here. Even if words aren't your forte and it's just a cell phone picture you took of your monitor, I need details. The more you give, the faster your issue will get fixed.
My favourite error report of all time: Client: "My document is gone!!!" huffing and puffing and outraged nasal snorting. "Where is it???" Me: "I don't know. Did you save it?" Client: "Yes I am not stupid!" Me: "OK what did you save it as?" Client: "What do you mean? It was in the microsoft!!!" Me: "OK word, excel, powerpoint... what?" Client: "I'm not the support technician! I demand you find my document!" Me: "OK can you maybe tell me what the document was *About*? " Client: "That's private." .... cue wishes for death, thoughts of suicide, thoughts of murder, etc.
So many women are clueless about insurance, hubby handles it. If he croaks she has no idea what to do. Ladies, call your agent and ask for a review and ask lots of questions.
Honestly the problem is we have no idea what the relevant details are that you would need. If there were some sort of questionnaire that would be helpful
And what changes were made between when it was working versus when it did not? It is broke, fix it is not helpful.
I used to manage a 9 person Help Desk. Some of the questions were real screamers. But other than basic customer service skills, the one absolutely essential attribute a helpdesk agent can have is to be a good diagnostician. Ask the right questions in the right order, and you will get more 1st-call resolutions that anyone else.
Public Spending on construction projects. What do you MEAN building this new road will cost $100 Million Dollars ?!? Why does the Govt. take so much money for themselves ?! Not understanding that it’s $50 Million Dollars in materials and another $50 million in labor instantly injected into the *local* economy (obviously its not 50/50 but for the sake of this post)
Do not understand why so many b***h and moan about paying taxes. Sure no body likes them but you want roads? Fire departments? Parks? bridges? rec centres? etc? Or would you rather just have bake sales everytime something is needed?
You don't understand? Really? Look at the US, nearly every bridge, rail line, subway, dam, electrical grid, and water system is CRUMBLING. The majority of bridges are DECADES past their point of safe operation. Fire departments are mostly volunteer, a non zero percent of police officers should never have access to a firearm, or be allowed to interact with anyone from a position of authority. That the government has allowed repairs to be ignored for so long in all area's of infrastructure means that repairs will cost in excess of $10 trillion. Meanwhile, the defense budget eeks ever closer to $1 trillion every year. People b***h about paying taxes, because their taxes don't actually go towards what they should, schools, infrastructure and social programs. The problem is that no one wants to acknowledge that part of the problem is also that no one pays enough taxes, and because the government squanders what they get, no one is ever going to accept paying more.
Load More Replies...BS. It's $20 million in materials, $20 million in wages, and $60 million to the CEO and owners of the construction company, which coincidentally donates $10 million to the re-election campaign of whichever politician gave them the contract.
The roads in my state are awful. A few years ago they tried to pass a tax for car owners that would help fix things and there was such an uproar about how it was unfair to the poor that they dropped it. This horrible tax? FIVE DOLLARS A YEAR. Not even a pack of cigarettes. People are ridiculous.
we have tolls on our roads now in South Africa, specifically our economic hub, Gauteng province. They instituted them like 9 years ago. So far the project is just running on debt because people bluntly do not pay. Anyone you ask is like, "What, they going to put 5 million car owners in jail? not likely." It's a fact. They do not have the court capacity, jail capacity, or police capacity, to enforce it. So they just live with like 5% paying the fees. And the fees are a bit high. I usually have to pay like $10-20 per month. What I do is ignore it till it gets to like $60 or so.
Load More Replies...I believe the majority of people would be happy to pay taxes if there were: 1) more fairness in tax law and collections 2) effective transparency 3) better stewardship of tax dollars all around 4) at least some opportunity for citizens to direct a small portion of their taxes toward general (broad) funding categories — even if it's just a tiny percentage. Does that make sense or do you think I'm misguided? Am I missing anything critical?
Indeed, this is why I always argue that we need transparency in government spending, it's not just good for the people to be able to see where their money is going, it's good for the government to be able to silence criticisers by simply pointing them to an expenses sheet. (of course, the really corrupt ones still manage to work the books, but this improves the chances of spotting them).
It's not, necessarily, injected into the local economy though. For any particular project there a materials that can't be had locally. Depending on how the bidding process is handled, the work force may very well come from out of state. I was a PM on a project while I was in the Air Guard in Wyoming and the prime contractor was out of Florida and their subcontractor was out of Washington State.
If you vote for a right wing, ‘small state’ government your taxes will go down… and there will be less money to fund public utilities. Pay higher taxes - more available to public services. I can’t understand why people can’t connect the dots!
Because our country doesn't spend our tax dollars mostly on public services!
Load More Replies...I'm from Scotland, and it *really* bothers me that local government can splash out hundreds of thousands of pounds for weird looking sculptures that nobody asked for (to the best of my knowledge), and yet if we ask them nicely to fill a few pot holes they immediately plead poverty.
I don't have a problem with paying taxes for reasonable things like parks or roads, but I hate that when any administrative work has to be done, I have to go to five different offices to get all stamps on paper when it can be easily done on computer, get send to all those people and have it in a day, instead of waiting for some pencil pusher monkey to find it in the pile after five months and then getting another vacation day to take the paper and bring it to another one. A lot changed during corona, but it is still 30 years behind technology
You cannot check-in to a hotel without giving us a deposit or a working credit card to protect us from possible damages.
"There aren't gonna be any damages."
OH OK, I GUESS WE DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT IT THEN
Yes u can. I work at a quality inn. We don't take deposits. If u pay cash that's all u pay.
Your Quality inn is not following the chain policies then, or they are overcharging cash payers because Quality Inn as a brand absolutely DOES take deposits, either in cash form or a credit card hold.
Load More Replies...Once had a plane divert and the airline put us up in a hotel. I was 18 and didn’t have a credit or debit card - the hotel staff tried to get me to hand one over and I had to repeatedly tell them that I really truly didn’t have a card to hand them. They finally just gave me a key card.
Can you name some? I can't think of any, except maybe the pay-by-the-hour types.
Load More Replies...Some hotel chains (I'm looking at you, Hyatt Place) go beyond this. They insist on a credit card "for incidentals" and then - without telling you - put a $15 charge on the card for nothing at all. Later they take it off. They won't explain why, saying mysteriously "It's in case you buy something." If I go into a department store, do they immediately charge my credit card a random amount in case I buy something while I'm there?
I think they do that to make sure the credit card is valid and won't be rejected if a charge is put on there. I had one hotel tell me my card was rejected when I knew I had over a $100 min available.
Load More Replies...My impression is the "deposit" tends to not be required by sketchy motels, everyone else wants it.
A significant portion of active duty military personnel (in the U.S., at least) spend a majority of their time sitting at a desk doing basic administration work.
I'm technically trained in my job speciality, but since I'm not exactly in a combat zone when not deployed, I spend most days at a computer answering e-mails and s**t.
The majority of the personal in armed forces isn't there for fighting - logistics, maintenance and administration are the biggest sections in any army
For every soldier with a gun, you've got 1 making sure he has ammo, 2, making sure he's got a uniform, 3 making sure he's got travel, 4, making sure he's fed, and 5 making sure he's paid. And let's not forget the 6 who ensures he actually has the other supplies the base needs.
Load More Replies...Which is why it ticks me off when people act like, if you didn't see combat then you are irrelevant and/or less deseving of help. Yes combat soilders/veterans deserve massive respect, that doesn't mean the non-combat soilders/veterans haven't sacrificed, been injured, had traumatic events, ect... or are any less deserving. 🙄
To be honest I’d rather you were at a desk. Swords into ploughshares and all…
I found out my grandfather was deployed during the Korean War, and when I mentioned the dangers involved I was told "well he was with the communications corps, so he didn't actually see much action". Just as well, because he didn't sire his youngest child until he came home and that child became my dad!
Police officers care about you, they save countless lives, no one publicises that because it's part of the job, and they let loads of people off with a talking to when they do dumb stuff. Driving drunks home etc.
Police officers care about you, they save more lives, and let so many people off with a talking to when they do dumb stuff.
Working at a dental office I see A LOT of people who are surprised when we tell them they need a filling or root canal after not brushing twice a day or never flossing... Alot of people blame their bad oral hygiene on "genetics" I hear it all the time as a very bad excuse . Most of the time it's just poor oral hygiene that runs in the family. The parent not enforcing brushing/flossing =dentures or lots of dental work for next said generations and so on. 1. Rinse with Listerine to kill all the bacteria 2.Brush twice a day for 2 minutes each time (not skipping any surface of the tooth, roof of mouth or tongue)3. Floss properly every single night! Food sitting between your teeth=plaque/bacteria= CAVITIES 4. Use a fluoride rinse at night to strengthen your enamel.
Yep. Was a solider for 3 years. I was a programmer. I sat an office and built website and infrastructure. Yet every time I mention to an American I was in the army, they suddenly think I'm Rambo. Yes, even after I'm telling them what I did or the fact that I shot a rifle only once a year in mandatory practice - and was terrible at it.
95% of worker's comp claims are completely legitimate. Everyone assumes that WC is the biggest scam and people falsify injuries to have time off with pay. It's not even close.
That's because of the 5% that end up on the news, or in those dreadful "human interest" programs on Channel 5, making it appear more common than it is because they're the ones getting the attention. Genuine claims aren't interesting, so people don't pay attention - like everything else in life, when it goes right no one noticed, so when it goes wrong, it's all people remember.
I've had this recently. I got into an argument with someone who insisted that the fraud rate for disability benefits was way too high and that's why the government changed it from Disability Living Allowance to Personal Independent Payment. Absolute nonsense. The fraud rate was found to be 0.6% of all claims. DLA/PIP is notoriously difficult to get but this person consumed a lot of their media from the red top newspaper and daily mail and saw only when it goes wrong.
Load More Replies...If you assume everyone is trying to cheat, that tells me you probably cheat yourself. People tend to assume that everyone thinks the same way they do. Or, they justify it as "fighting fire with fire".
There's a vested interest in maintaining the lie that the only reason poor people are poor is something other than "Massive systematic inequality hard wired into every aspect of our society and economy." You're not poor because hedge fund billionaires are plundering companies, it's immigrants. Or welfare cheats. Or insurance fraud. Or affirmative action. Or whatever else we can come up with - the important thing is that it's *THEIR* fault, and once you get rid of *THEM*, you'll be rich like you deserve.
Worker's Comp DOES NOT work for you. They actively try to prove you are scamming them and try to find any way they can to weasel out of paying benefits you are entitled to. Worker's Comp is insurance you paid for.
Yep, had an accident at work some years ago and the guy lost an arm. Insurance followed him around for over a year getting a vast number of photos and movie footage of him walking to the shops, weeding his garden, pruning his shrubs, washing his windows, etc. Went to court and tried to prove he wasn't disabled because he could still do all these tasks. Case failed thank goodness.
Load More Replies...I had a job interview and they asked about my workers comp - (some random meth head set me on fire at work with petrol ), they were worried if I was someone who went workplace to workplace seeking claims - I remember answering back along the lines of, “yeah I totally covered myself in petrol and set myself on fire for some cash and time off “😂 like for real ?!?
I'm so sorry you went through that! Burns are excruciating and can take years of medical care and physical therapy to recover from. I hope you're doing well now!
Load More Replies...I can guarantee you nobody(well 97%) at my work wants workman comp. They would get fired for failing a drug test.
I worked for OSHA and the fraud percentage is low because people have gamed the system to get an "authentic" claim but it's still BS many of the times. Someone hurt their back lifting boxes in the warehouse I was investigating that put them on full disability per a physician. When you look at the cameras, he lifted appropriately and the box weighed less than 22lbs. How did his back get so damaged that he's on full disability? No one knows...except some of his coworkers who said he crashed his 4 wheeler a few months back. Now bc his injury happened on sight and has a physician backing up his injury and there is no proof outside of hear say from coworkers, he gets full coverage. Insurance for businesses allocate almost 18% of all work based injuries as being "legitimate" but know those injuries happened somewhere outside work. So add in actual fraud on the job and that's way more than 5%. https://www.osha.gov/pls/imis/establishment.html. This pulls up soft claims. Paid but fake.
It also goes in the business that if someone gets "injured" on the job and it gets approved, we know that there will be at least a 10-20% in injury claims from co-workers with similar injuries. Happens every time, someone will get hurt legitimately let's say but the injury isn't really that bad but will put them on light duty and a reduced work week for a while paid...within 24-48 hours you will see 10-20% more claims within that time depending on how big your team is, claiming the same injury or something very similar. Now they got all the steps to make it approved from their legit coworker and they want an easy couple weeks so they claim the same. It's fraud but it's done so all the boxes check out ok.
Load More Replies...Child care workers get paid close to nothing. Benefits not included with most jobs. Turnover rate is extremely high. The ones that honestly care about their job, try to continue schooling and go to public schools systems as soon as possible for pay/benefits/time off. This leaves our infants and toddlers in the care of people who despise their jobs. The most important years of brain development are left in the hands with overworked, underpaid and under appreciated adults with little to no early childhood education. Not saying that all child care centers are like this, but a lot.
I worked in childcare, and yep the pay was lousy, and no-one stayed for very long. In fact I became noteworthy purely because I stayed in the job for about six years (I outlasted more supervisors than I can count) so the kids got to know me and in some cases knew me all the way from Kindergarten to Year 6 (the final year of primary school here in Australia). The people who got the supervisor role always got it because they were studying for some sort of qualification such as teaching, so of course as soon as they got their degrees off they went.
It's a vicious cycle. The parents who most need childcare can't afford a proper wage for a carer. So they have to go with places that do bulk care where the per-cost goes down. But it's bleeding edge already since those parents can't afford a lot, so those places can't pay a living wage and so rarely attract high quality carers & get high turnover. Which results in lower quality overall, which results in less demand for the place and less ability to charge more that average parents can't afford anyway.
Stay at home moms are also overworked and underpaid and they still care deeply…the difference is it’s their own kids, plus managing everything else about our lives and household without help or recognition. I would think most of the overworked daycare workers are people who love children (even if not their own) and will still put in all the effort including the emotional effort-like a mom does. It’s not exactly the same (the big responsibility will still fall on the parents but during the day, daycare workers are there to love the kids and help them develop) I don’t think it’s fair to assume that low pay always means people won’t care about their work. Some people are like that, but not most. Its unfair they don’t get paid well. Caring for children is thankless…but you do get emotional rewards. Still, people who are caring for children who are not their own should be paid much more because their job isn’t easy and they have to deal with kids with all kinds of parents and all kinds of households…you can’t fix other people’s parenting and you have to deal with the behavioral results all day.
Totally true here in Africa, most children are left with either unemployed grandmothers, older siblings who are skipping school because they HAVE no parents anymore (HIV orphans), or, in the case of upper classes, the maid, who invariably just chucks the child into the blanket on her back, same as she'd do for her own kid. The thing of sitting and showing the child puzzles and playing mozart etc., that's really for upper-upper class.
In my country ALLof the childcare workers have to have special school diplomas to work in childcare. Included baby childcare workers as well as carers for toddlers up to age 6, when they go to school
How far it takes a heavy vehicle to stop. Any heavy vehicle. Don't get in front of it.
And safe stopping distance more often than not depends more on the cargo than the vehicle.
This is why drivers should leave more space between cars. Every vehicle is a heavy vehicle.
It's simple. P=mv. you can work out quite precisely how far your car will fly when it is hit.
Also, each time you double the mass you actually square the force of the impact. Which is exactly why I don't ski.
Might be a bit late but the reason you see railway workers standing around and on their phone when your train goes past is because if they were working that same train would HIT THEM.
I think anybody with even the lowest ability to use logic does know this
Person on train: "hey, why are all the railroad workers standing and not working?" Railroad workers: standing out of the way of the oncoming train
Load More Replies...Railway worker here in the UK. Can confirm this happens very often especially at stations. Oh you'd like me and my group to be changing sleepers whilst a train is coming to us at 125mph. Yeah not going to happen. As soon as we are aware of any oncoming traffic we stand in a position of safety and raise our hand to acknowledge the driver.
In the US, you don't jump tax brackets and then pay that rate for all of your income. You fill each bucket and pay the higher tax rate only on the income you have above the limit on each lower bracket.
Good one, that's a special zero-rated tax bracket, along with churches.
Load More Replies...and put a little effort into calculating your taxes. Don't use the IRS as a savings account. Get your money back regularly and use it to pay off debt, improve your home, etc... That big refund at the end of the year is just free money for the government in the form of interest. The smaller the refund at the end of the year means more income on payday.
I don't know about you, but all the jobs *I've* worked have all just had income tax come out of the paycheck with nothing for leeway. I can't tell them "hey take out less tax because I'll be getting a refund in april." And I'm fine with the govt getting a little interest, I just wish they'd use it better.
Load More Replies...Every behavior exists for a reason. If someone is doing something, there is something that is reinforcing it. People don’t do things “for no reason”. If you want to stop someone’s [poor] behavior, figure out what is reinforcing it.
Every behaviour exists for a reason, and sometimes that reason is stupidity. Never underestimate stupidity. That and greed have brought our species straight to an ecological disaster despite all warnings.
Again (not to over quote "ST: Discovery) reasons DO matter... but consequences do too.
Solving IT problems usually is done with efficient google searches, reading support articles, and checking out forums. Very little of the information I use for fixing computers was obtained organically (trial-and-error, or training, etc). IT people just google. They consider us wizards but really we just know how to search well.
Indeed, over the years I have solved many of my PC problems at home by googling... though sometimes the solution is very hard to find and takes hours of digging (stubbornness too).
i go to forums. i ask and 1 day later i get an answer and then i respond if that if that worked. takes a few days but there are folks out there that will help. computerhelp.com - free
Load More Replies...I help my grandma with her computer. Half the time its literally copy from a forum, paste into DOS, and somehow its fixed.
Yup! The art lies in knowing what exactly to Google aka getting as close as possible to the root of the problem before googling.
Once you know how to ask the question, it mainly comes down to how to sort through dozens of potential answers to what might work for you, what doesn't apply, and what will cause other problems down the road.
Load More Replies...I Googled how to fix a computer problem but I didn't want to touch any code. I brought it to a computer guy and showed him the fix. He learned something new and I didn't bust my laptop. Paid a little bit but I was very happy.
Knowing how to search is an important IT job skill. My wife can never get the results she needs from Siri because she never phrases her questions accurately enough.
I learnt a useful parameter for google a few months ago which I'll share with yall. "Before: DD-MM-YYYY" and "After: DD-MM-YYYY". Disclaimer i am not sure if google is smart enough to change it to the incorrect MM-DD-YYYY format when inside that special-case country.
how DARE google use the most common date formatting >:(
Load More Replies...Cats--even indoor cats--require annual veterinary visits and vaccines. Cats are stoic. By the time your cat begins to exhibit symptoms of illness she's almost always been sick for a while. Annual exams catch issues like thyroid disease, diabetes, stomatitis, obesity, etc. early when they're most treatable and before kitty experiences more extreme discomfort. And it should really go without saying that even indoor cats are at risk for rabies. It's incredibly common for bats to get *into* the house and when you find one there's no way to tell if it's bitten your cat or not (most bats' teeth are so small they don't leave a mark). ​ Edit: spelling. ​
This is why I've told my mom that we need to take my cat to the vet. Firstly, because she needs a yearly check up like a human does (not sure she's even been in the last five years), and secondly because she has allergies or something (which my mom insists is herpes). Well, maybe we could solve that argument if she'd TAKE HER TO THE VET. Maybe they could also give her some meds to help with the sneezing and the runny eyes, but instead, my mother's just letting it be.
I completely agree... but (there's always a but) vet visits are too expensive for a lot of people to spend on "an animal". Not everyone thinks about their pets as family. If it's a choice of putting gas in your car of taking an animal to the vet, I'd have to choose gas. It's the same with human doctors and the medical profession in general in the US. Free or low cost rabies clinics were a life saver when I was much younger (and poorer).
I work at a vet and you'd be surprised how many people only bring their animals in when they are sick. Otherwise only come in for rabies only tech appointments(it's required by our county). It's sad to meet those poor babies when they are that sick 😿.
Yes to all of the above! (Except the bats thing for NYC apartments… 😉)
Weddings.cost.money. The more people you invite, the more expensive it gets. Stop asking your wedding planner/caterer to give you the world but still work within your $5/person budget, its not possible. Let it go.
Tell planner/caterer its a family reunion and it will cost 1/2 as much.
The Justice of the Peace in Connecticut, (before it was legal for us to get hitched in NYC), was the cost of the train from NYC to CT, and the cost of the license, and the cost of the Justice of the Peace. Whole thing was under $200!
These days you couldn't cater a party at the golden arches for £5 a person. What fantasy land are these brides (and let's face it, it's going to be the brides, or possibly their mothers) living in?
Have you never heard of a wedding tax? Five dollars is unreasonable, absolutely. But if you ask for what you need before disclosing that it's for a wedding, you will often get a much cheaper price.
Load More Replies...It's sad how many still go for expensive gowns and events then struggle for years when they could've had a simple wedding for closest family and a friends and used that money for important things. Knew a girl that spent $3k on the ugliest dress I've ever seen (just plain white cloth, no frill, no lace, just plain) and the marriage only lasted a few years. A complete waste.
Multiple chefs have touched one or more ingredients of what you're eating with their bare hands. For you germaphobes out there, welcome to reality. For the occasional person who requests a shot of pickle juice, almost every single chef had their hands in that water when they grab pickles for whatever burger or sandwich. We do wash our hands. But if you think your food was created magically specially for you with everyone wearing fresh gloves for each order and freshly polished tongs and ladels, better off cooking for yourself at home. The waitress who you think is flirting with you, it's her job to be friendly and she gets the majority of her pay from tips. You might think that tipping her a lot will impress her so much that she will eventually want to sleep with you, but guess what she's nice to everyone and you probably seem like a pathetic target in their eyes. Also after working in restaurant kitchens for a good amount of time, everyone else in the public world seems to move slow as hell with no awareness of their surroundings.
Assuming anything is 100% sterile is silly. Especially not things that people have been near. As long as I don't get sick from the food I eat, I assume it's been clean enough.
My son was very immuno-compromised for years through no fault of his own, and when he wanted to eat (which was sadly very seldom) and wanted take-out from a restaurant, he just wanted to do so with a reasonable expectation that he wouldn't die from it. If you can't grasp that, Maybe you should find a line of work more suited to you. (btw, he's doing much better now).
Again, tell the restaurant what is going on so they can "try" to accommodate you... but it's been said, they are a public business and if you want to know it is completely safe, make it at home where you can control the environment.
Load More Replies...In my state, gloves are required and touching ready-to-eat food with bare hands is prohibited. I don't have time to check the health codes of the other 49 states because I'm busy living my life, but I'll bet most or all of them have the same regulation. If you refuse to follow health codes, you should be shut down. Welcome to reality.
But that doesn't stop them touching the container, utensils etc with their bare hands. Even the health inspector will touch things with their bare hands during their inspection. I know, I dated one. It's called cross contamination. Mostly not a problem as cooking takes care of it, but if you think a kitchen is sterile you've got a lot to learn. If you knew everything that went on behind the scenes, you'ld never eat again except maybe something you grew yourself.
Load More Replies...We "germaphobes" are aware and know that those people have washed their hands. Either way, don't be such an ar*ehole to people who are dealing with a mental illness. If we're in a restaurant, we're clearly trying to get better, being a d*ckhead to the ill doesn't magically make them better.
Also some people have allergies that can be set off by someone touching something they are allergic to before touching our food so if we ask about the kitchen handling process we're not being difficult, we're trying not to get sick.
Load More Replies...I was surprised how many people thought everyone wore gloves in a kitchen 😂 I think it’s hilarious, imagine doing a 10-14 hour shift in latex gloves whilst using industrial deep fryers and the grills/ovens (some kitchens have gotten up to 55-60•c on summer days I’ve worked in) 😂 some people are pretty dumb. And for people who are scared or handled food, we do wash our hands A LOT. so much so we all laughed at the covid sheets we received in the kitchen because we were like, ‘ sooooo the government wants us to wash our hands like normal at work 😆 thanks brah’. And 100% stake my life on this, our kitchens are usually more clean than any household kitchen by miles (especially people who don’t work kitchens’ kitchens).
my son the chef. he has expressed to me the last paragraph more than once. and you gotta' say "heard" if he say's something whether it requires a response or not.
If you're hiring a musician to an event you pay us for playing ofc, AND for the time it takes to rehearse and arrange the songs or pieces you want us to play.
You're also paying for us to pack, transport, unpack, and set up our equipment, then reverse the process at the end of the gig.
Also you should additionally pay for their food and drink during your event.
And don’t expect a musician to perform for free because it’s “good exposure.”
I have enormous respect for small bands in bars. They have no fame to ride on. They have to cover shitty songs from 30 years ago very accurately or else the patrons at the bar will complain that the song doesn't "go like that". Whereas the original artist can go on stage, be out of breath, do a lousy version of the song, waste lots of stage time on "You ready to ruck norleans??" and c**p like that. I mean really, this takes years of talent and practice. If you want to see an AWESOME cover artist, look up radio tapok on youtube. The guy is insane. He even gets the voice right. Also frogleapstudios. He's great as well.
Libraries have a lot of materials on hand but you are not the only person clever enough to want to watch Christmas movies on December 23rd so don't be surprised when all of our Christmas DVDs are checked out and have waiting lists stretching into January.
People still get movies from libraries? I know this is an extremely basic question but, really?
The do for the same reason anyone gets anything from libraries, they don't cost money.
Load More Replies...Speaking of Christmas movies. I have my own collection so I've never had reason to notice until this past year when we spend nearly all of our time at my moms after she broke her hip. Almost none of the providers had Christmas movies available. They didn't show up until February and not a single one shows the Peanuts anymore for any season. So glad I have my own collection.
Hmmm. "DVD"...DVD"...DVD"...What is this "DVD" you speak of? Is it like, a betamax, or something?
Studying a degree, even part time, is a hell of a lot of work. It's great you want a degree, but just because "I'm an adult", it does not mean you can half-a**e your way into a qualification whilst working full time, you are most likely massively underestimating how hard students work.
Its more about how unrealistic teachers are, expecting your whole world to be their one class. Not to mention paying thousands of dollars for electives thay have nothing to do with what theyre going to school for. And some of these people have more than one job and are doing all this work and paying the school system to give them a piece of paper that may or may not make them a winner in society.
1000% agree on useless electives. I have a compSci degree and I will never figure out why organic chem or natural science would be a required elective. And basic English comp classes...high school writing all over again!
Load More Replies...This goes for technical certification schools too. They cram alot in, in a years time for you to learn. It's hard, but keep on trucking peeps. You got this!
Yep, took me like 25 years to get my 5 or so degrees... average of 5 each, because I tried working at the same time.
When a charity does a matching gift challenge, they already got the money from the matching gift donor. It’s literally a trick to get you to feel like your gift is more valuable. And holy c**p that trick works every single time.
not all arrhythmias are shockable with a defibrillator
That drives me nuts in movies and tv shows - I’m always yelling “You can’t shock a flatline!!”
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Research chemists spend the vast majority of their time readings journal article PDFs at 2:30 AM and generally don't pour vials of liquids into each other regularly.
Oh, Stock photos of white lab coat pouring water into food-colored-other-water… 🤣🤦🏽♀️
there is a difference between a statistical model and a crystal ball. I'm not a magician, I just use big words to explain my guesses.
As any poker player can tell you, even a situation where one outcome is 83% likely, that remaining outcome comes *plenty* often. At the same time, if one outcome is 83% likely while the other is only 17% likely, you should put your even money on the 83% one every time because in the long run, that's the winner. (Btw, 83% is your likelihood of winning if you get it all in, heads up with pocket aces vs. an underpair - it's one of the best preflop situations you can possibly have, but those mf-ing aces still get cracked about 1 of every 6 times or so).
Texas holdem rules it sounds like, based on the verbiage. Not a big fan of the format personally but they play it up and make it interesting to watch because they always put those percentages on the side for viewers. But it's not as fun to play imo.
Load More Replies...There are a lot of issues with Microsoft operating systems and software. Microsoft is fully aware of these issues, and generally doesn't do anything to fix them. One example: Windows will drop network credentials from credential manager like they never existed.
I'm getting "all big operating systems have hideous security problems that their manufacturers are ignoring" getting shouted at me across the room. Not Windows exclusive apparently, certainly wouldn't surprise me.
lol no it's mostly windows. Our DOJ got ransomwared. The ENTIRE DOJ. (S.Africa).
Load More Replies...All operating systems have a lot of issues. It doesn't make them bad or good, it makes them marketable. If you want a perfect OS, go write it yourself... by the time you're done you'll have to start over again because the technology will have changed since you started. If that doesn't appeal to you, use the one you like the best and stay up to date with updates... esp security updates.
OS's are written by humans so if you think they're perfect and infallible, you're crazy. In the end, most problems are caused by the user. Opening emails that are clearly BS, surfing sites such as FB which are loaded with all sorts of undesirables, installing questionable software etc.
Linux or Mac guys, please. Windows is not worth it, unless you desperately desperately want to play a 3d shooter game. Source: doing IT support for all three platforms since 1993.
Mac OS is awful for security holes, there are just less people using it so less malware made to exploit it. Less visible /= more secure. Source: Husband is a cyber security engineer.
Load More Replies...A large majority of semi trucks have speed governors that vary between company to company. We're not intentionally trying to block your path when passing another truck. We simply cannot go any faster than what the limiter is set at. Also, if you're driving a car next to us; please don't linger next to our trailer. High winds can make the trailer sway out of our lane without us moving the truck. I'm not a fan of getting in an accident with you because as far as the law is concerned, it's **always** the truck's fault.
I try to keep a large distance around trucks, and when I plan to pass, I wait until there is a very large gap and I make sure they can see me. I’m not a truck driver, but I would think it should be logical to most people that in a big truck it’s harder to see, and slower to stop. But…I think most people don’t care if they kill others on the road…you can be driving a mini van with family stickers and “baby on board” decals and people will still be reckless around your vehicle with your kids inside. I think most people are just dumb about driving, whether around trucks or mini vans full of babies. If I was in a big heavy truck, I’d be driving slow too and would want everyone to keep a good distance.
If you know you can only go 2mph faster than the truck you're trying to pass, then you are intentionally blocking my path. Get TF back in the right lane.
Because YOU have every right to want to hurry and not have to follow someone going slower than you want to but truck drivers have NO right to try to pass when they are forced to actually go 10 mph slower bc they have to keep a reasonable distance and multiple cars always cut in between anyway??
Load More Replies...Crazy idea: if your truck has a speed limiter of say 50, don't overtake if the vehicle in front is doing 45 in a 70 zone.
Another crazy idea. These trucks bring you everything you buy. Including that car you're driving. Have a little patience. That 45 seconds you had to wait isn't gonna kill you.
Load More Replies...What most people also don't understand is ANY incident involving a CDL vehicle, goes against the driver even if not his fault. This usually means they can't get a job with another company for years. Think about your worst job. How would you like it if you couldn't switch companies for 3 years because of what someone else did?
If you can't pass the truck in the right lane in a decent amount of time, and can only go 2 mph faster than that truck, maybe don't pass them and block everyone else from moving for 30 minutes? Literally happened yesterday. Obnoxious.
90% of back pain does not need any imaging. Yes it hurts, yes it is scary, yes it is normal. The pain medication will not fix anything, the pain medication is to allow you to move.
And if you could make that into an over-the-counter, Flintstone's Chewable Morphine at low prices with store points, that would be great.
I was told for several years that my increasing mobility issues were just because I was overweight and out of shape. To move more and I'd be fine. Nope. Ok, yes I get my weight wasn't helping anything, but imaging showed stenosis in my lower back, a disk that slips and a cyst. None of which will be healed by losing weight. Look at surgery now. Grateful for the doctor who was willing to look for a cause for my pain.
You might be amazed at how effective performing simple back stretches every day will be on your back pain
And NEVER, EVER let a doctor talk you into surgery because of 1 x-ray and never take one doctors word for it, go to another doctor at another facility for a second opinion. Spines move. Just because you have a curve today, doesn't mean it's permanent or an issue. My ex not knowing better let a quack operate on hers. His crappy work led to 3 surgeries before it was over and in the end a surgeon asked why she had the first one. She said because of a 23 degree curve. He told her that 1) that was no reason, he has patients that would kill for a mere 23 degrees and 2) (pops x-ray taken the day of surgery and asks) What curve? There was no curve the day the quack cut her open. Also he did anterior approach instead of posterior and nearly killed her. Quacks surgery also caused other health issues which stemmed from the surgeries and general invasion of the torso.
90% of back pain is because you are not sitting facing your computer but are at a funny angle, OR you stood for too long, OR your chair back does not provide support at the right angle.
When your town spends money to fix the road down the street from you but not your road, it's not out of spite.
It's often about taxes and who is paying more. Did my city prioritize the light rail expansion in the area that used it the most? Nope. The area that was wealthier got it first :-/
welcome to capitalism. If you don't like it, vote for social democrats.
Load More Replies...I dated a grator operator for roads - they do the roster up for which roads need repairs yearly, th en the budget may not cover some by half way through, so like the post above only one street got done. Could also be the one that was repaired had been on the list as priority for a year or two already and was waiting for a budget to cover it and the road that wasn’t fixed was only put on the list recently if reported at all to the road workers etc
We are not in the habit of intentionally hurting children.
It makes me absolutely insane when a new parent asks, about everything, if it's safe for the baby.
Guys. I'm assuming you came to the hospital because you decided it was the safest place to deliver a baby. Why not trust us once you get here?
New parents worry about everything. Give them a break - you deal with this every day on a constant basis having gone through years of training and exams. This is a Brand. New. Experience to them and they're having to learn pretty bloody quickly.
That's kind of the point. Doctors deal with it EVERY DAY, and have years of training and exams. New parents....don't know anything. That isn't the problem being presented here, nor is anyone arguing that they have to "learn quickly" the issue is that these ignorant people, devoid of any practical knowledge or experience come to a hospital because they know it's the safest place to deliver a baby.....and than proceed to argue, ignore, dismiss or simply question. Every. Little. Thing. Why? Because they read a book. Or a facebook post. Or they watch fox news. Or they just "have a feelin'" Placating these kinds of people is why we have anti-vaxxers. They don't deserve a break, the doctors do. When you're dealing with trained experts, in any field that you are largely ignorant, your opinion, your fears, your nagging doubts aren't really worth wasting time on. If you can't trust your doctor and do what you're told, go finda doula, burn some sage and stay at home in the bathtub.
Load More Replies...I'm an ER and L&D nurse and have seen some seriously raggedy nurses say parents are being dramatic when im fact something really is going on with baby. Some nurses treat people and their families that they deem dirty, crazy, drug addicts or whatever other bias they have as not emergent. I have also been on the other side of nurses and doctors treating me or my family bad due to their bias. I will not ever be one of those nurses.
As someone with a chronic illness that sends me to to the ER, I thank you for your compassion. It's rare.
Load More Replies...We called our pediatrician a MILLION times a weeks when our eldest was wee. Because we had NO CLUE WHAT WAS GOING ON! So YES, we trusted those that did. And with the second one? 🤣 Good thing it’s the same pediatrician, because she’d ask us how he’s doing! 🤣
My water broke and I went into labor at 28 weeks and the doc admitted me for hospital monitored bedrest. She also ordered an ultrasound. Nurse tells me not to move until they come get me for the ultrasound. A nurses aid comes to bring me to the ultrasound but hasn’t been told anything else about my condition and has me walk to radiology. Normal for a random laboring women - but dangerous for a preterm labor. I didn’t know any better either and just trusted her. The Doc was furious when she found out I wasn’t wheeled down. So yes - always ask!
Because infant mortality is a thing, this is their first child and they don't want it to die because Suzy the Wonder-Scrubs Wearer thinks a common, perfectly reasonable concern is stupid and we should just trust her at 3:55 am when her shift is over in 5 minutes and she just wants to get home and let the next shift get in, bedraggled and barely awake, trying to figure out what's going on in the ward.
I was going to respond to the OP, but I think RJ here has summed it up very nicely.
Load More Replies...totally fair, and I agree 99%. The only thing is when my son was born I probably heard from 10 different medical professionals about if I wanted to circumcise my son. They said there was no medical reason, but damn they were pushing hard on it. I did not, there is not a good enough reason.
No choice bc of c sec…I trust the surgeons w surgery. I trust nurses if they understand breastfeeding-IBCLCs or bf their own or at least respectful of bf. Expecting #5 and I’ve become MORE vigilant bc of experiences w my first 2 which were the nurse’s fault. I had an older non bf nurse scare me into believing I was starving baby…bc she was “dehydrated” (IBCLC confirmed later what happened was normal/expected and bf was going well) while having just colostrum the first 2 days. I’ve had nurses push formula because my babies fed frequently. One told me “feed every 4 hrs” instead of on-demand, no schedule. Insist repeatedly I give formula after I said no…gave a bottle after I said no then said “Whats the big deal?” No respect of parent decisions-Old nurse swaddled w TWO blankets in warm room which was dangerous…reprimanded me for removing 2nd one every time she left the room-don’t want baby to die overheated! Other nurses used 1 but most of time, baby was skin 2 skin bc breastfed
The answer is that mom has been listening Karen on facebook's podcasts about how essential oils can give you a pain-free delivery because they are natural, and science and medicine are unnatural (bad). Therefore, since a hospital doesn't give you essential oils for delivery... mom is scared. She heard hospitals are bad unnatural places, out of touch with Mother Nature and Chi and crystal energies and such. How do I know ? Personal direct experience.
I work in a meat shop, and some people seem to have no understanding that there is only so much meat on an animal. People will purchase a side of beef and give us a list of the cuts that they want. We have to explain to them that, “no, you can’t have a 6lb prime rib roast AND a dozen prime rib steaks, there just isn’t that much prime rib on a side of beef.” You would think that if a person was investing hundreds of dollars on quality beef, they’d do a bit of research on how the animal can be cut before giving us their cut list.
I may be wrong about this... but isn't there more than one cow in the world?
Yes, there are many cows. But a "side" of beef is literally half of a cow that's been cut length wise. So there is only so much of any one part.
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95% of the stuff you want to tell your lawyer before arraignment is irrelevant. I know you're scared because s**t is getting real and you're being charged with a crime, and I know you see everything going on as one big interconnected tangle that has to be straightened out once and for all, but all that happens at arraignment of any consequence is the probable cause determination and conditions of release. I'm not ignoring you, I know I only have about ten minutes I can spend with you before we go in front of the judge, but ten minutes is about twice what I'd need if we stayed on topic. All the rest of that stuff I'd be happy to take the time to carefully comb through with you in my office between now and your first pretrial.
Detective here: I hear you on this one, same thing in an investigation. You could be mother teresa but when there is an investigation, the only thing that matters is whether or not elements of a crime were or were not met.
OP: Great advice I hope I never need! Agron54: Another BP post showed how Mother Teresa was NOT the Saint we thought!
Load More Replies...You are not my only client. I am trying my best to juggle a lot of people and sometimes something slips through cracks. I'm sorry!
So much this. I do 3D printing as a side hobby and trying to explain that I do jobs in the order they were received seems to escape some people. You wanna skip to the head of the line? Then pay up.
This and the one above it re: not all accountants do taxes are hilarious when combined. My father is a corporate accountant who has more or less done payroll processing for large corporations for 45 years. He has 2 tshirts specifically pertaining to his profession. One says "Everyone stay calm, I'm an accountant" and the other says "Let me drop everything and work on YOUR problem" 🤣
If something slips through the cracks, then you need a better system of accountability, and I won’t be your client for much longer…
The way it works in real life, shelli, is that people who pay up-front or who pay on-time and are known to do so, with minimum complaining, get prioritised. Simple. So anyone who gives attitude or is known to not pay on time, or worse, haggle the invoice, .... they get deprioritised.
Load More Replies...Things cost money
Would You be surprised to know that common sense is a misnomer cause it isn't common. 😜
Load More Replies...My brother used to be a tailor and people would often ask for their fixtures to be free because it’s only a small job 🤦♂️
Unless you live in California. You can just walk in and take things for free now.
How electricity works and how you use it in your home. At this point, I don't even try to explain it to people because their faces just glaze over almost immediately.
i know all about that stuff - it ain't their fault they never been taught.
what ya' downvoting me for? i just stated a fact. i know a lot but someone or a book had to teach me.
Load More Replies...Sports writers do not give a s**t if your team wins or loses. We just want the f*****g game to end so we can write and go home.
Yeah but do you care which team wins and which losses?
Load More Replies...A hand grenade will not destroy a city block....and most bombs are trivial to disarm.
Someone here has obviously watched too many michael bay movies and wants to set the record straight.
I work at Staples, and people seem to think the cheapest ink cartridge will do the trick, not the one compatible with their printer. Customer: “Hey I need to recycle this ink and get some more! ^_^” Me: “Great, I can help you with that.” C: “I’ve been using HP 64, but my neighbor said she uses Canon 281, and the cartridges are much cheaper so I’ll get those! ^_^” Me: “... those aren’t the same manufacturer, they won’t work.” C: “Thanks for your help! I’m glad I came in and am saving money! ^_^” Me: “Have a great rest of your day! (Don’t come back asking for a refund)” Smh people
Buying compatible ink cartridges is indeed a must. Buying them FROM STAPLES will cost you far more than it needs to though. Buy the correct ink cartridges from a place with lower prices.
The prices are essentially the same regardless of where you buy them, at least for my HP.
Load More Replies...Printer ink is one of the biggest legal scams that the world has ever seen.
Printer manufacturers are basically ink companies. The printers they sell as cheap as possible.
Load More Replies...You cannot translate literally.
And don’t count on Google Translate for an accurate translation. It’ll translate literally and make very little sense.
In Hebrew, it’s, “ מִלָה בְּמִלָה” AKA, “literally, ‘Word for word…’” 😉
Latin: Litter- (letters, literature), -al (old english: adjective marker), -ly (old english: -lic- meaning "like). Translation: like letters, like literature, like truth.
Tiny nitpick, but "bonjour" actually literally translates as "good day" (bon = good, jour = day" - same roots as bon giorno and for the same reason). The rest of it matches
Load More Replies...Not always you mean. I translate songs and even here I'm able to translate literally in some parts.
You’re deductible and out of pocket max are two very different things. Just because your deductible is met, does not mean the rest of your healthcare that year is covered 100%. That’s true for about 90% of people with insurance, and understood by about 5% in my experience.
Very sad healthcare in the USA. In Sweden I pay a maximum amount for medication of $268 in a 12 month period. I reached the max in 3 months and for the remaining 9 months my meds are free. Same with healthcare. Pay a maximum per 12 month period of $120 for healthcare and the rest of the 12 month period is free. It costs $10 per night at the hospital, which includes care, bed, breakfast and meds. I just don't understand why you don't want the same in the US
Many and possibly most of us do want that in the US. Unfortunately corporate interests take precedence over human suffering in this country.
Load More Replies...To clarify the difference a little bit, for US healthcare: you pay the deductible *fully* first, then you have a copay or coinsurance for each visit until you reach an out of pocket maximum. This typically resets each year. Most people never reach the maximum and will pay copays on every visit. (This is in contrast to other insurance, like property insurance where there is no maximum and you pay the whole deductible for every occurrence)
Commercial airplanes are crazy safe.
Having spent 10+ years working in an aerospace shop making parts for all the big names in aviation, you couldn't pay me to get on a plane. The amount of damaged, defective, obstructed parts that get by teams of quality inspectors is disturbing. And per aerospace specs, large orders say over 100 pieces, only 10% of them are even required to be inspected at all. The rest never even get looked at before being shipped off to the customer. Maybe that customer will catch the defects, maybe they won't. I guess you'll find out in the air.
Former Military guy here. The amount of times I’ve flown in broken military planes is unreal. There is more duct tape in a plane than you’d care to know.
Load More Replies...And yet statistically still safer than driving your SUV to the store.
Load More Replies...Not all accountants do taxes
Some people think only a CPA can do their taxes when in reality only certain organizations actually have to use a CPA. Most people don't understand that most CPA's do not go to tax school every year to stay on top of the changes. Tax pros are pros for a reason and the big box tax companies aren't pros. Yes they have a few pros in their organization but most of the preparers have have a very basic crash course in "fill in the blanks' and charger by the page. It is always cheaper and better to go to a private preparer that goes through IRS training every year.
You can't fix potholes in the winter. ​
The & # X 200 B is an invisible space. No idea why the person felt it was so important to put it in their post though
what, you mean in USA? Florida? Or Minnesota? Or what? In our country you definitely can. Our day peak temp is 25C or so.
That, yes, it is in fact what usually causes the things.
Load More Replies...On a golf course, other people do, in fact, exist. I know... hard to believe, isn't it? You'd be shocked at how many guys in their 20s will play the championship tees and they can't advance it more than 200 yards without introducing 50+ yard dispersion. It slows everyone up behind them while they get drunk and spend 10 minutes on each hole searching for their ball. If I had a dollar for every time I had to yell at backwards hat bud light bros trying to break 120 from the tips in 6 hours, I'd have enough for my wife and I to actually eat at five guys. Unfortunately, the golf business doesn't pay well, so that's a pipe dream.
Nobody should be playing the Pro tees unless they have a legitimate handicap that's under 10. So many guys think they have to play the Pro tees because it's "manly" and they are hackers who have no business on those tees. They suck so much they should be playing the senior tees if we're being honest.
Being Honest--They Should Be Playing A "Putt Putt" Course
Load More Replies...Golf is the only sport where someone will repeatedly spend $5K on new clubs to try and knock two strokes off their score.
It's, as far as I know, the only sport where personal equipment significantly affects performance, though I agree it's a bit ludicrous.
Load More Replies...I clearly do not understand golf because I have no idea what the above means.
it is fine on my android, it may be because I use the online version though
Load More Replies...Psychotherapist: If someone claims to have been told by their therapist to leave his/ her (non abusive or so) partner, chances are that in reality they just didn´t want to take the blame and went on and on at their therapist complaining about their relationship, while not giving valid reasons to continue (although repeatedly asked by the therapist), till the therapist said something along the line of: "Well if you really got all those reasons to end it and all the reason you find to continue is not wanting to hurt your partner [f..e.] ,then maybe you should end it - or what do you think? "
Psychologist: If you’re a college student and became convinced you have ADHD because you can no longer put off your work until the last minute, or you’re easily distracted, you likely don’t actually have ADHD. I’ve tested around 45 people for ADHD in the past few years and literally 3 actually met criteria for it. Most peoples’ attention issues are due to depression and anxiety.
When the order taker on drive thru says "One moment please" that does NOT mean start ordering
Just let me know when you’re ready. I’m trying to be respectful of your time so please be respectful of mine. I had a “one moment please” the other day and waited 5 minutes before I finally said “ready when you are” to which the immediately confirmed they had been waiting.
Load More Replies...Please check your alarm systems keypad to see if there is a trouble on it BEFORE you call your alarm company and scream at them because your smoke detector is beeping. 7 out of 10 times the culprit is either a store bought battery operated smoke or a high voltage smoke that is tied to your homes electricity. Can we fix that? NO. We are low voltage. Thanks.
Another hotel one: NO we cannot just take a credit card over the phone. NO I don't care if your parents booked the reservation with their card, I have to have the card physically present, in front of me, and being swiped by the named owner, whom I have confirmed and identified with photo ID. That person not there? You are giving me YOUR card to charge. The only way around this is through a 3rd party, pre-paid booking systems, like Orbitz (which is a nightmare if you ever have to cancel), or with a credit card authorization on file, which is a bunch of paperwork. You'll probably need a fax machine to complete it, because this computer system is 20 years old. Of course, if you don't show, we will charge the no-show fee to the credit card on file without you there.
Please bring your insurance card and picture i.d. to your doctor visits. Every. time.
Universal Healthcare and Medicare-for-All aren’t the same thing. Universal Healthcare means everyone is covered by some type of coverage-whether it be private or govt. Medicare for all, means everyone has Medicare. You can argue for one or the other. I just wanted to point out that the concepts are not synonyms.
it is fine on my android, it may be because I use the online version though
Load More Replies...Psychotherapist: If someone claims to have been told by their therapist to leave his/ her (non abusive or so) partner, chances are that in reality they just didn´t want to take the blame and went on and on at their therapist complaining about their relationship, while not giving valid reasons to continue (although repeatedly asked by the therapist), till the therapist said something along the line of: "Well if you really got all those reasons to end it and all the reason you find to continue is not wanting to hurt your partner [f..e.] ,then maybe you should end it - or what do you think? "
Psychologist: If you’re a college student and became convinced you have ADHD because you can no longer put off your work until the last minute, or you’re easily distracted, you likely don’t actually have ADHD. I’ve tested around 45 people for ADHD in the past few years and literally 3 actually met criteria for it. Most peoples’ attention issues are due to depression and anxiety.
When the order taker on drive thru says "One moment please" that does NOT mean start ordering
Just let me know when you’re ready. I’m trying to be respectful of your time so please be respectful of mine. I had a “one moment please” the other day and waited 5 minutes before I finally said “ready when you are” to which the immediately confirmed they had been waiting.
Load More Replies...Please check your alarm systems keypad to see if there is a trouble on it BEFORE you call your alarm company and scream at them because your smoke detector is beeping. 7 out of 10 times the culprit is either a store bought battery operated smoke or a high voltage smoke that is tied to your homes electricity. Can we fix that? NO. We are low voltage. Thanks.
Another hotel one: NO we cannot just take a credit card over the phone. NO I don't care if your parents booked the reservation with their card, I have to have the card physically present, in front of me, and being swiped by the named owner, whom I have confirmed and identified with photo ID. That person not there? You are giving me YOUR card to charge. The only way around this is through a 3rd party, pre-paid booking systems, like Orbitz (which is a nightmare if you ever have to cancel), or with a credit card authorization on file, which is a bunch of paperwork. You'll probably need a fax machine to complete it, because this computer system is 20 years old. Of course, if you don't show, we will charge the no-show fee to the credit card on file without you there.
Please bring your insurance card and picture i.d. to your doctor visits. Every. time.
Universal Healthcare and Medicare-for-All aren’t the same thing. Universal Healthcare means everyone is covered by some type of coverage-whether it be private or govt. Medicare for all, means everyone has Medicare. You can argue for one or the other. I just wanted to point out that the concepts are not synonyms.

