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A lot of us have had the misfortune of dealing with a self-proclaimed “nice guy.” You know the type: someone who makes a big point of being kind and respectful, then gets very annoyed when all that supposed niceness doesn’t earn them the attention they were hoping for. Of course, that particular attitude isn’t exclusive to men.

The r/Nicegirls subreddit collects examples of women showing a similar mix of entitlement and unrealistic expectations, often when dating or dealing with relationships. We’ve rounded up some of the posts shared there below, so scroll down to read them and see what you make of it.

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#1

I Don't Care Anymore. Useless Beggars

A screenshot of a chat where a Nice Girl exhibits delusional and horrible behavior, demanding money.

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3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand people begging or hinting about money from complete strangers online…. I wouldn’t even ask my best friends to borrow money!

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    #2

    I Asked If She Would Split The $350 Sushi Dinner She Wanted For The First Date…

    Text messages revealing a nice girl's delusional and horrible behavior, criticizing a man for his finances on a date.

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    #3

    She Is 41 Btw

    A screenshot of a text conversation showing a Nice Girl's delusional and horrible behavior, mentioning a marine.

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    #4

    That's A First

    Dating app conversation where a 'nice girl' displays horrible behavior, asking about a brother and then settling.

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    StarCrossedFriday
    StarCrossedFriday
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this some kind of 'clever' tactic? Or just proof of a very ignorant and unpleasant personality?

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    #5

    The Bullet That Dodged Itself

    Texts between a 'nice girl' and someone else, revealing delusional behavior as she demands beer.

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    #6

    Matched With Her, Didn’t Respond Immediately, And She Sent This

    A screenshot of a text message where a person is called ugly and fat, showing horrible behavior from a nice girl.

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    #7

    I’m Sure He Fumbled

    A screenshot showing a profile description of a self-proclaimed nice girl with high standards and horrible behavior.

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    cory
    cory
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too much censorship to understand.

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    #8

    Mad At Me For Sleeping

    A screenshot of a WhatsApp conversation revealing a Nice Girl's delusional and horrible behavior, including a missed call.

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    #9

    If Your Parents Are Divorced… Out

    A dating app profile with a long list of dealbreakers, showcasing delusional and horrible behavior from "Nice Girls" online.

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    AtMostAFabulist
    AtMostAFabulist
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    Premium     3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Black licorice IS gross. 🤢

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    #10

    Girl Completely Flips Out On Me For Asking To Split The Bill At Nobu

    A long text message exchange showing a nice girl's picky and horrible behavior when choosing a dinner date, leading to a reality check.

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    StarCrossedFriday
    StarCrossedFriday
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    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idea that *he* was the presumptuous one here is insane.

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    #11

    Can’t Make This Up

    A screenshot of a WhatsApp chat where a Nice Girl shows delusional and horrible behavior, discussing other offers.

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    #12

    I Hate Dating Htx Girls

    A text message displaying horrible behavior, where a high-class girl insults someone for suggesting McDonald's for a third date.

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    Binky Melnik
    Binky Melnik
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She left a word out; pretty sure she meant "high-class CALLgirl," though I seriously doubt the "high-class" part.

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    #13

    Does This Profile Count? LOL

    A dating profile bio reflecting delusional behavior, prioritizing cats, business, and demanding a potential partner fit a specific, rigid lifestyle.

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    #14

    For Your Viewing Pleasure

    Screenshot of a text message showing a delusional woman's horrible behavior, including a passive-aggressive thank you note with a small payment.

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    #15

    Did I Say Something Wrong Here?

    A text message conversation screenshot revealing a woman's horrible behavior and a reality check about her claims.

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    Gadaffi Duck
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    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never had chicken pox and I'm older than the vaccine by a good few years.

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    #16

    She Preaches Love And Kindness, Then Calls Me Meaningless For Not Worshiping Her God

    A text message conversation screenshot illustrating delusional behavior and a reality check regarding differing beliefs.

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    #17

    All Because I Didnt Respond For 2 Hours

    A screenshot of a text message conversation showing a woman's horrible behavior, leading to a reality check online.

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    #18

    I Dated This Woman For 9 Days. The Selfishness She Speaks Of Was My Monthly Date Budget Being “Only” $400

    A split screenshot of text messages, one showing a person missing someone, the other showing a nice girl's delusional, materialistic, and horrible behavior.

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    #19

    Am I Crazy Here?

    A series of text messages revealing a nice girl's delusional and horrible behavior in casual dating interactions.

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    #20

    Just Got Her Number An Hour Ago And We Haven't Talked And Got To Know Each Other At All

    A text message conversation where a nice girl is given a reality check for her delusional behavior and lack of seriousness.

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    #21

    Messaging On Work Number After I Blocked Her

    A screenshot of a text message from a Nice Girl, apologizing for her delusional and horrible behavior.

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    #22

    She Regularly Posts Trash Like This On Her Story, With A Good Combination Of "Men Are Trash" + "Why Am I Single "

    A list of part-time boyfriend requirements from a nice girl, illustrating delusional and horrible behavior.

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    Wagner
    Wagner
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    31 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think her male friend is her main boyfriend.

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    #23

    Was Her Opening Message Btw

    Screenshots of text messages showing a nice girl being delusional and having horrible behavior after initially flirting.

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    #24

    Not The First Time I’ve Come Across “I’ll Probably Hurt Your Feelings”

    A dating profile of a nice girl who is high maintenance and previously married, displaying delusional behavior.

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    Wagner
    Wagner
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    30 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    high maintenance and 99 miles away. Naw, I'll stay home and spoil my cat.

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    #25

    Welp, It Finally Happened

    A text message conversation showing horrible behavior, where one person insults another after being unmatched for perceived inconsistency.

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    #26

    Girl Wants Me To Join Her Discord Right As We Start Talking. Flips Out When I Say No

    A screenshot of a conversation displaying horrible behavior, with one user angrily reacting to a Discord server limit.

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    StarCrossedFriday
    StarCrossedFriday
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    3 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fascinating priorities - mostly her Discord demand, but also people who apparently spend an amazing amount of time on Discord and/or Reddit.

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    #27

    This Isn’t A Dating Bio, It’s A Hostage Agreement

    A dating app bio showcasing delusional behavior, demanding a loner, homebody, clingy partner with a car and instant commitment.

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    #28

    Just Your Normal 1st Chat Questions

    Dating app conversation revealing a Nice Girl's horrible behavior with invasive questions, demonstrating delusional behavior and a reality check.

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    #29

    I Simply Respected Her Rejection

    Text messages depicting a Nice Girl's delusional behavior expecting a connection after being politely rejected, highlighting horrible behavior.

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    #30

    Dating Is Exhausting

    Text messages revealing a Nice Girl's horrible behavior and reality check after being rejected from a date, showcasing delusional behavior.

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    #31

    Is It Time To Breakup With My Girlfriend?

    Text messages showing a Nice Girl expecting someone to pay for a purse instead of her mom's medicine, highlighting delusional behavior.

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    #32

    I Kindly Told Her In Person I Wasn't Romantically Interested After 1st Date

    A Nice Girl's lengthy text explaining her horrible behavior after a night out, followed by a harsh reality check.

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    #33

    She Told Me She Didn’t Care About Money But Quality Time. I Thought She Was A Good Catch Until…

    A text message conversation showing a Nice Girl's delusional behavior leading to a breakup due to impatience.

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    #34

    Woman Freaked Out When I Wouldn’t Give Her $200

    A screenshot of a text conversation showing a Nice Girl's horrible behavior after receiving a reality check about money.

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    #35

    That Was An Easy Left Swipe For The “Tough Girl”

    A dating profile of a Nice Girl detailing her horrible behavior, including making racist jokes and being a handful.

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    #36

    Greet With The Wrong Name? Must Be Gay

    A screenshot of a text conversation where a Nice Girl gets a reality check for her delusional behavior by misgendering someone.

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    #37

    Sometimes You Just Gotta Dish It Back

    A screenshot of a dating app conversation about a beard, showing delusional behavior from a nice girl.

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    #38

    Idk You Tell Me

    A screenshot of a dating app conversation where a woman expresses disgust towards men, showcasing horrible behavior.

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    #39

    Why Even Ask What I'm Looking For If You Assume I'm Immediately Lying?

    A screenshot of a dating app conversation about looking for something serious, with a person expressing delusional behavior.

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    #40

    Known Each Other For A Week With Dry Convos To Boot

    A screenshot of a text conversation where a person asks for money and says they are hot, showing delusional behavior.

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    #41

    Brotherrr, I Was Just Making Fun Of Myself

    Long texts from a 'nice girl' exhibiting delusional behavior, responding to a comment about shuffle skills with insults and blocking threats.

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    #42

    Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture

    A 'nice girl' texts, explaining delusional and horrible behavior about date expectations, demanding an expensive dinner.

    I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.

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    #43

    I Cant Believe She Posted This And Thought She Was In The Right

    Screenshot of texts showing a 'nice girl' exhibiting horrible behavior, attempting to guilt-trip someone.

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    #44

    20 Minutes Is Too Long For A Response Apparently

    A phone screen displaying text messages where a "Nice Girl" exhibits delusional and horrible behavior, highlighted by a reality check online.

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    #45

    Literally Nothing I Can Say Except That’s Crazy

    A series of text messages showing a conversation with delusional and horrible behavior from one of the "Nice Girls" getting a reality check online.

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    #46

    This Is What Peak Delusion Looks Like

    Screenshot of a dating app profile displaying a woman's horrible behavior and delusional expectations, demanding money and specific treatment.

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    #47

    When Your Dating Bio Hands Men A Job Description

    A dating app profile of a nice girl expressing Aries energy, seeking a man to court her, implying delusional behavior.

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    #48

    This Girl Added Me On Instagram Randomly. I've Known Her For About A Week, And Told Her Today I'd Be Busy (She Didn't Acknowledge It) And Because I Wasn't Responding, Had This To Say

    A text message from a nice girl displaying horrible behavior, demanding respect and attention from a partner.

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    #49

    Taking A Week To Respond Just To Be Rude Is A Different Level Of Audacity

    A text message from a nice girl getting a reality check online for her delusional behavior after an uninteresting conversation.

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    #50

    "My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Sa Him. Wtf???"

    A nice girl complains about her boyfriend breaking up with her, getting a reality check online for her horrible behavior.

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    #51

    Her Answer After Months Of Ghosting Me

    A text message from a nice girl explaining that she needs an expensive person because she can't relax around an unsafe person.

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    #52

    Was Having A Nice Chat About Our Travels And Then I Asked Her Out In A “Non-Assertive” Way

    A chat conversation where a "Nice Girl" reveals delusional and horrible behavior through a dismissive and demanding response, receiving a reality check.

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    #53

    The Warmth Exudes From This Beautiful Soul

    A dating app profile of a "Nice Girl" outlining strict and unreasonable demands, illustrating delusional and horrible behavior online.

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    #54

    I Come Across Some Of The Best (Worst) Profiles

    A dating app bio showcasing a woman's horrible behavior and delusional sense of entitlement, specifying race and financial status for partners.

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    #55

    Risky First Message. Glad She Didn't Overreact

    A text message conversation showing a nice girl's horrible behavior after being asked about her dog, responding rudely and defensively.

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    #56

    Finally Found The One

    Text messages from a nice girl showing delusional and horrible behavior, requesting location and making unusual statements.

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    #57

    Jesus, What Did I Do Wrong?

    Dating app messages showing a Nice Girl's horrible behavior with a sarcastic response about her past actions, a clear reality check.

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    #58

    10 Min Girl

    Screenshot of a text message exchange demonstrating a woman's delusional and horrible behavior, demanding payment to free up her schedule for a date.

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