So I'm in 7th grade and starting last year I've been wearing bucket hats ever since I cut my hair very short. Lots of my "friends" and other random people in the hallway took my hat and threw it on the ground, or refused to give it back to me. I've told them all to stop multiple times and they never do. I come home crying every day and this year I don't want to start any arguments with anybody because all it does is make me anxious and depressed. Any advice?
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Unfortunately this will always be an issue. Down the road at some point people will wear these hats and it will be super cool! Your hat is cute and you are untitled to your own style. When I was in middle school I had my nose pierced and everyone thought it was disgusting, my teacher made me take it out. The next year everyone had theirs pierced. But I wasn't popular so it didn't matter. I'm in my 30s and my friends still dis what I wear. I don't say anything because like you I aso get anxiety and struggle with the depression. I always have worried about what others thought. I've changed my diet and my "friend" says things like, "oh yea, I forgot your skinny now, you don't eat that!" Or things like, "oh you're too skinny to go out" "your on that crackhead diet" bullyinis everywhere and it
Bullying is everywhere, it doesn't end. Life's too short. Wear what you want. Do what makes you happy!!!
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Hope this matter gets sorted out and that you dont EVER feel ashamed to be urself and wear wut u like
Everyone says that you should just ignore them but I think that's b******t. you should tell a teacher and be a snitch, they'll be angry but stop. I hope you feel better, I also struggle with anxiety and depression
I keep telling my teachers and friends but the people taking my hat never stop. At this point I've given up.
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Its ur hat and its beautiful... u shouldnt feel forced to change just cause a bunch of jerks dont like it.... here are my suggestions 1- tell and adult that u trust will help solve the matterz... 2 - ignore them, and if they do take ur hat or anything be sure to run right to an adult... 3 - know that u r not alone, i am in 11th grade and i wear things that others dont like but i luv it and thats wut matters.... 🙂
Its ur hat and its beautiful... u shouldnt feel forced to change just cause a bunch of jerks dont like it.... here are my suggestions 1- tell and adult that u trust will help solve the matterz... 2 - ignore them, and if they do take ur hat or anything be sure to run right to an adult... 3 - know that u r not alone, i am in 11th grade and i wear things that others dont like but i luv it and thats wut matters.... 🙂
