“I Will Never Get Over That”: 35 People Share The Most Hurtful Words Ever Said To Them

What does it even mean "strong men" or "weak men"? If it's about the physical strength I get it but here? It's just another form of word salad...

I was the cause of my husband crying once. I asked him what was the matter, he told me, and I changed a bad habit. I'm glad he was able to tell me why he was unhappy.

As a very overweight person(6' tall, 315lbs), it is not(with very rare exceptions) a disease. It is an expected consequence of poor choices.

weight gain can be caused by some diseases, but in many cases, obesity is a result of poor life choices. Take the people that let themselves get to the state that you see in that programme with dr now... That just should never be possible. That said, there's obviously a huge difference between morbid obesity and being a little plump. (im a little plump myself, but nothing compared to how I was, i'd say I'm "average plump" if that makes sense. about a size 14-16 (in uk sizes) now compared to the 22-24 i was before )

It's totally ok and normal to be jealous of his long hair. It's not ok to be resentful that he didn't cut/shave his head. How would that have helped your hair or lack thereof? How would that have helped your self esteem? And yes, I have been there, chemo no hair etc. it's hard but a bald husband would not have changed a thing.

How is that supportive? You want the person you love the most to suffer along with you?

Yes, you're absolutely allowed to have valid feelings about it; I hope all is well with you now

I'd be upset if he did!

feelings can be tricky when you're on chemo, i swear it messes with my hormones, I've become a lot more emotional (even tearing up at random tv moments...) so Id say your feelings are valid. Even though I had previously shaved my hair short (started falling out due to fibromyalgia when it was longer e_e) I missed my hair for sure. I really miss having it long now, too. And worse of all, i may no longer be a redhead ;-; but I think in the long run, you shouldn't be too resentful of your husband. None of my family shaved their hair, and I think deep down I wouldn't want them to. Becoming bald is hard, I wouldn't want to force it on others out of pity. But again, everyone feels differently. I hope you get the all clear/remission, anyway. I stopped the full chemo recently, but I'm still on targeted treatment until next year. xP

It helps? Or it is a fashion like fainting husbands during childbirth, who can´t allow to not go? Transfer unnecessary own great discomfort on loved person? Why?

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You shouldn't think like that..

Long hair is so ooo overrated! Give me wash and wear hair styles anytime!

Your feelings are perfectly valid. Most of the people here are WAY over reacting. That or they are simply trolls who enjoy being mean. We see online constant extremes of both caring and not caring. On one hand a husband may grow his hair long and then cut it off to make his wife a wig, on the other he totally abandons her or cheats on her. Want the grand gesture is natural. Getting it is rare. As a man I can tell you that he may literally not thought about it. We are wired to solve problems with solutions but are very poor at emotional awareness. Or he may want to look good for you so you don't lose interest in him. Maybe he is simply vain about his hair and doesn't want to lose it. How does he treat you otherwise? Never be afraid to simply walk up to your husband and say "I'm feeling down/insecure/sad etc. and need some cuddles. Men love this. They love to cuddle with their wives but THEY won't say it because it isn't "manly". But feeling envious is human.

It's allowed. You have to be Alive to be jealous.

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YTA, people have the freedom to do what they want with their hair. (Unless it looks bad, of course.)

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Perhaps you need to shave HIM outta your life...?

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I hope your husband leaves you. Not everyone has to cut their hair when you go bald or has to stop their life just because you’re about to lose yours. Get over yourself, you are the cancer.

Ah yes, sick and entitled. That's a great combination.

In addition to that: We don't "give" someone kids. They're human beings, not objects.

Sadly, too many people still think that

Yes to this 100 x;s over. Neither of my adult children want their own. I assure them I am good with it. Of course if they change their minds I will support them but the FACT is it is their choice. Not mine or my husband's. I am so impressed with this next generation's ability to put a lot of thought into it. Most of us just thought it was the next step.

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Girl, we are made to be mothers. or nothing for Nature.