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Bride Picks Out Dress For Her Friend Who Rocks It So Much That She Gets Uninvited From The Wedding
Even though marriage is not a societal requirement anymore, people that decide to have this commitment ceremony spend months perfecting the event. Which absolutely makes sense – why wouldn’t they? An occasion where two become one should be a special day to remember.
Whether having a wedding is a significant part of one’s culture or religion where the celebration can go on for weeks, or it’s purely done to let the bride and the groom experience their magical day – weddings have an extremely valuable and universal purpose of those spoken promises that will seal people’s love forever.
However, sometimes instead of focusing on the said love and the actual importance of the day, people feverishly concentrate on insignificant things.
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The story of a woman named Alena perfectly suits this kind of category, as she shared her icky story about how one of her closest friends decided to disinvite her from her wedding purely because of the way she looked.
The TikTok that Alena posted went viral with over 7M views and received 10K comments where people expressed their opinions and also debated about this rather ridiculous situation.
A woman claims that she got uninvited from her friend’s wedding because she looked “too good”
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Alena, a German model, took it to TikTok to share the upsetting incident that happened to her and one of her oldest friends, who was about to become a wife. With the wedding date already chosen and the ceremony preparation coming to an end, Alena was excited to be present and to finally support her friend on her magical day.
The wife-to-be decided to go all out and even personally chose the dress for Alena – however, right before the wedding, the OP received some shocking news about being uninvited from the event as she ended up looking “too good”.
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The level of absurdity of the situation where a close friend chooses to push someone away right before their wedding purely because of being potentially outshined is unpleasant enough. But understanding that this happened due to a pre-planned outfit that the bride chose herself is very much shocking.
However, despite this nonsense, Alena didn’t let it upset her and ended up taking some fabulous photos while wearing this beautiful sequin gown.
Image credits: alenayildiz
Image credits: alenayildiz
Toxic wedding culture is unquestionably a thing. People want everything to be unhealthily perfect, which takes all the charm away. The day that was supposed to be special is not so special anymore, as people choose to focus their attention on the visual and materialistic parts. And this kind of mentality often leads to unnecessary troubles, where people can’t enjoy and truly celebrate their love.
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Unfortunately, this is exactly what seemed to have happened in Alena’s story as her friends decided to put their love aside and focus on completely irrelevant things that led them to have this worthless conflict.
Don’t hesitate to comment below if there’s anything you would like to add in regards of this odd situation.
You can watch the video here:
@alenayildiz… #fy#fyp#foryoupage#viral♬ оригинальный звук – делирий.
Many TikTok users supported the OP and showered her with compliments
But some users thought that the bride had a point and that the OP was in the wrong
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K E REILLY 4 years ago
Yeah I call BS on this. No way a bride would pick style dress for a friend to wear at their wedding.. but at least you got the attention you clearly desire 🤣🤣
Cold Contagious 4 years ago
Absolutely! This is not the kind of dress that people wear in weddings unless they're part of a Vegas show and that's the theme of the show.
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Laura Dawson 4 years ago
This didn’t happen. Pretty people who claim to have been uninvited for being too good looking are usually the ones that make it up to inflate their ego & the dimwits out there believe it & fuel their narcissism. All she wants is people to tell her how beautiful she is in the dress. She looks great & … what else does she want? There’s about 10,000 young women on IG alone that look exactly like her.
Alex Babz_90210 4 years ago
Sounds like bullsh*t to me. Fake pity me story on tiktok, next thing you know a modeling agency or something hires her in order to promote their business, then she gets paid and they all go laughing to the bank.
TheDivineMsM 4 years ago
Im not buying it. Why would anyone where that type of dress for a wedding
Devil's Advocate 4 years ago
Doesn't even fit properly, hence her having to hold it in place so you can't see down her top.
Jessie 2 years ago
That just kinda happens with these tops, I’ve worn them a couple times and even if they fit at first at some point it’s somehow no longer fitting.
Load More Replies... Natalia A 4 years ago
oh come on now!!! What bride choose this dress for someone?! And what bride who is supposedly upset about her friend looking this good, upset enough to disinvite her friend, takes such photos of said friend. I smell b&lls***. This is such an obvious 'look at me' story. Why are people willing to believe anything and everything people say online?
Little Miss Killjoy 4 years ago
Honestly, just YOU'RE A F*CKING MODEL, JUST GO TO A F*CKING MODELING AGENCY OR SOMETHING AND GET HIRED, LIKE WHAT'S THE POINT OF MAKING UP A STUPID LIE JUST FOR SOME ATTENTION?!?!?!?!?!??!?!
Neha 4 years ago
This is so weird about western weddings. Only the bride is supposed to look the best. Y’all should check out pictures of Indian weddings. Everyone is supposed to be in their best, can’t even tell who the bride is sometimes. It’s very insulting if you don’t dress up and look a million dollars in someone’s wedding in India. I don’t get the bride being upset if someone else looks better. If/when I get married ( don’t even have a gf. I’m a woman by the way), I would want everyone to shine. It’s so sad that people would rather uninvite friends just cuz they look too nice
Jessie 2 years ago
I don’t think you should call it “western weddings”. My entire family and basically all of my friends are western but all the weddings I’ve been to had a ‘dress to impress’ dresscode where anyone who wanted to could wear their best suit/dress.
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Lillukka79 4 years ago
Just say you bought a new dress, no need to invent a shitty story. Must add, that is one ugly dress.
Kaspar Kristiansen 4 years ago
Lol, was thinking that the TikTok crowd was being quite gullible (go figure), then I saw the fellow Pandas sentiments and lol'ed again. Guess it's quite another user base here:)
Martin Heston 4 years ago
She’s a beautiful model. She’d look good in a burlap sack and her fictitious friend knows this. The whole story is utter nonsense for attention.
Candy corn 4 years ago
I feel like weddings bring out the most self-absorbed sides of people and i really don’t understand it.
Lady Goldberry 3 years ago
Urgh, this is like those BS stories where the woman goes 'guys won't ask me out because they're too intimidated by my looks...' humblebrag humblebrag humblebrag...
Heather G 4 years ago
Ah yes, I totally believe you. You didn't poise in that very specific way to make your stomach and waist smaller while showing off your boobs. You definitely didn't put on a pound of makeup just for your social media "woah is me post" either. Definitely believe you (sarcasm)
Nicholas Yu 4 years ago
Attention whore just wanted views and likes. At least pick a dress that remotely resembles what a bridesmaid WOULD wear.
Katie Morris 4 years ago
Really this is all just for attention and people believe it !!! Every time
Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
That last one was so stupid. "It's her day you shouldn't outshine her" .... bitch what's she supposed to do!? Wear a fucken Halloween mask? Sweats? Gain 300 lbs and purposely give herself acne. How is she supposed to change how beautiful she is? Lol. The bride CHOSE HER DRESS! Lol. But honestly, I think this whole thing was fake as F**k. I've come to the realization only about 5% of tik tok is real. And that's being generous. Tik tok should be called tik toxic.
Faith Hurst-Bilinski 4 years ago
Someone wants to brag about how good they look in a dress. Just put up pictures. Don't make up drama.
Jennifer Germain 4 years ago
that dress is a little over the top for a wedding regardless of who chose it. My daughter was maid of honor at my wedding (second marriage) she looked stunning, wonderful, she is stunning... I got plenty of attention because I was the bride
Iriané Marie Laurentwolff 4 years ago
Someone must teach her the difference between a wedding and a niurka party
Michael Sanders 4 years ago
Probably fake, but if we go along with it I dunno what dress she was going to pic for this woman that she didn’t steal the room. Goodness gracious!
bookshellf 4 years ago
it's a beautiful dress, and it probably would have outdone any other dresses because you carry the dress and colors, embroidery very well. I have never heard of such thing before though, to uninvite someone for a dress you gift them to wear on your day.
Dre Mosley 4 years ago (edited)
Not her fault. The bride is insecure. If this actually even happened. You never know these days.
Debbie 4 years ago
The dress wasn't perfect, she needs to hold it to her chest when even bending a little. I'd never pick out a dress with that kind of cleavage for my friends tbh. I wouldn't even pick out a dress. And none of my friends would have such cleavage. Yes, I think the dress is gorgeous but not to my taste for a wedding. But the bride chose it. Wondering what the bride is going to wear - only lingerie? Anyway, stunning lady, great dress, but seems unfomcortable as she's afraid her boobs fall out/nipples are shown. Good dress for a few pictures though.
ForgotMyPWSendHelp 4 years ago (edited)
Just because you'd have a meltdown doesn't mean everyone would lol. If I was her friend and was that worried about being outshone on my wedding day, I'd just pick out a plainer dress that she still liked and agreed to. Simple solution. This comment and you insisting anyone who disagrees with you is lying makes you sound like a drama queen.
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lazy panda 4 years ago
Because women should only wear dresses where they're covered from nose to toe? Good lord.
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K E REILLY 4 years ago
Yeah I call BS on this. No way a bride would pick style dress for a friend to wear at their wedding.. but at least you got the attention you clearly desire 🤣🤣
Cold Contagious 4 years ago
Absolutely! This is not the kind of dress that people wear in weddings unless they're part of a Vegas show and that's the theme of the show.
Load More Replies... Laura Dawson 4 years ago
This didn’t happen. Pretty people who claim to have been uninvited for being too good looking are usually the ones that make it up to inflate their ego & the dimwits out there believe it & fuel their narcissism. All she wants is people to tell her how beautiful she is in the dress. She looks great & … what else does she want? There’s about 10,000 young women on IG alone that look exactly like her.
Alex Babz_90210 4 years ago
Sounds like bullsh*t to me. Fake pity me story on tiktok, next thing you know a modeling agency or something hires her in order to promote their business, then she gets paid and they all go laughing to the bank.
TheDivineMsM 4 years ago
Im not buying it. Why would anyone where that type of dress for a wedding
Devil's Advocate 4 years ago
Doesn't even fit properly, hence her having to hold it in place so you can't see down her top.
Jessie 2 years ago
That just kinda happens with these tops, I’ve worn them a couple times and even if they fit at first at some point it’s somehow no longer fitting.
Load More Replies... Natalia A 4 years ago
oh come on now!!! What bride choose this dress for someone?! And what bride who is supposedly upset about her friend looking this good, upset enough to disinvite her friend, takes such photos of said friend. I smell b&lls***. This is such an obvious 'look at me' story. Why are people willing to believe anything and everything people say online?
Little Miss Killjoy 4 years ago
Honestly, just YOU'RE A F*CKING MODEL, JUST GO TO A F*CKING MODELING AGENCY OR SOMETHING AND GET HIRED, LIKE WHAT'S THE POINT OF MAKING UP A STUPID LIE JUST FOR SOME ATTENTION?!?!?!?!?!??!?!
Neha 4 years ago
This is so weird about western weddings. Only the bride is supposed to look the best. Y’all should check out pictures of Indian weddings. Everyone is supposed to be in their best, can’t even tell who the bride is sometimes. It’s very insulting if you don’t dress up and look a million dollars in someone’s wedding in India. I don’t get the bride being upset if someone else looks better. If/when I get married ( don’t even have a gf. I’m a woman by the way), I would want everyone to shine. It’s so sad that people would rather uninvite friends just cuz they look too nice
Jessie 2 years ago
I don’t think you should call it “western weddings”. My entire family and basically all of my friends are western but all the weddings I’ve been to had a ‘dress to impress’ dresscode where anyone who wanted to could wear their best suit/dress.
Load More Replies... Lillukka79 4 years ago
Just say you bought a new dress, no need to invent a shitty story. Must add, that is one ugly dress.
Kaspar Kristiansen 4 years ago
Lol, was thinking that the TikTok crowd was being quite gullible (go figure), then I saw the fellow Pandas sentiments and lol'ed again. Guess it's quite another user base here:)
Martin Heston 4 years ago
She’s a beautiful model. She’d look good in a burlap sack and her fictitious friend knows this. The whole story is utter nonsense for attention.
Candy corn 4 years ago
I feel like weddings bring out the most self-absorbed sides of people and i really don’t understand it.
Lady Goldberry 3 years ago
Urgh, this is like those BS stories where the woman goes 'guys won't ask me out because they're too intimidated by my looks...' humblebrag humblebrag humblebrag...
Heather G 4 years ago
Ah yes, I totally believe you. You didn't poise in that very specific way to make your stomach and waist smaller while showing off your boobs. You definitely didn't put on a pound of makeup just for your social media "woah is me post" either. Definitely believe you (sarcasm)
Nicholas Yu 4 years ago
Attention whore just wanted views and likes. At least pick a dress that remotely resembles what a bridesmaid WOULD wear.
Katie Morris 4 years ago
Really this is all just for attention and people believe it !!! Every time
Imogene Cargeaux 4 years ago
That last one was so stupid. "It's her day you shouldn't outshine her" .... bitch what's she supposed to do!? Wear a fucken Halloween mask? Sweats? Gain 300 lbs and purposely give herself acne. How is she supposed to change how beautiful she is? Lol. The bride CHOSE HER DRESS! Lol. But honestly, I think this whole thing was fake as F**k. I've come to the realization only about 5% of tik tok is real. And that's being generous. Tik tok should be called tik toxic.
Faith Hurst-Bilinski 4 years ago
Someone wants to brag about how good they look in a dress. Just put up pictures. Don't make up drama.
Jennifer Germain 4 years ago
that dress is a little over the top for a wedding regardless of who chose it. My daughter was maid of honor at my wedding (second marriage) she looked stunning, wonderful, she is stunning... I got plenty of attention because I was the bride
Iriané Marie Laurentwolff 4 years ago
Someone must teach her the difference between a wedding and a niurka party
Michael Sanders 4 years ago
Probably fake, but if we go along with it I dunno what dress she was going to pic for this woman that she didn’t steal the room. Goodness gracious!
bookshellf 4 years ago
it's a beautiful dress, and it probably would have outdone any other dresses because you carry the dress and colors, embroidery very well. I have never heard of such thing before though, to uninvite someone for a dress you gift them to wear on your day.
Dre Mosley 4 years ago (edited)
Not her fault. The bride is insecure. If this actually even happened. You never know these days.
Debbie 4 years ago
The dress wasn't perfect, she needs to hold it to her chest when even bending a little. I'd never pick out a dress with that kind of cleavage for my friends tbh. I wouldn't even pick out a dress. And none of my friends would have such cleavage. Yes, I think the dress is gorgeous but not to my taste for a wedding. But the bride chose it. Wondering what the bride is going to wear - only lingerie? Anyway, stunning lady, great dress, but seems unfomcortable as she's afraid her boobs fall out/nipples are shown. Good dress for a few pictures though.
ForgotMyPWSendHelp 4 years ago (edited)
Just because you'd have a meltdown doesn't mean everyone would lol. If I was her friend and was that worried about being outshone on my wedding day, I'd just pick out a plainer dress that she still liked and agreed to. Simple solution. This comment and you insisting anyone who disagrees with you is lying makes you sound like a drama queen.
Load More Replies... lazy panda 4 years ago
Because women should only wear dresses where they're covered from nose to toe? Good lord.
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