Grandma Purposely Tries To Ruin Grandkid's Christmas By Aggravating Her Grief, Dad Has Kid's Back

The holiday season is supposed to be about joy, love, and kindness, but sometimes, toxic family members may see it as an opportunity to get their way. That’s why people need to set boundaries with such rude or manipulative relatives so that they can truly have a peaceful holiday.

This is what a man did when his malicious mother-in-law decided to prey on his daughter’s grief by bringing up her beloved dog. The grandma’s glee at her grandkid’s pain was enough to send the man over the edge, and he finally blew up at her.

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Losing a pet is a difficult experience, but, unfortunately, some people don’t seem to realize how painful it can be

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The poster shared that his 19-year-old daughter, who was devastated by the loss of their dog, was in quite a fragile state

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To protect his daughter’s feelings from his toxic mother-in-law, he made sure to let his wife’s parents know that they shouldn’t bring up the dog during Christmas dinner

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Despite being warned not to upset her granddaughter, the rude grandma gleefully mentioned her dog, leaving the teen in tears

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The poster threatened to throw his toxic mother-in-law out over her behavior, and his confrontation was enough to keep her from coming over for holiday dinners again

The man explained that he and his family had lost their dog to pneumonia just two weeks shy of Christmas, and that his daughter was struggling to cope with the situation. Since the teen was also very empathetic and cared so much for her dog, she was in quite a fragile state and needed extra support.

According to mental health experts, the grief over a pet might be one of the first times a child experiences such strong emotions, which is why it can be very tough to deal with. That’s why it’s important for parents to take their kids’ feelings seriously, instead of brushing them off, and give them space to talk about their pet.

That’s exactly what the OP did for his daughter by respecting her feelings, giving her space to grieve, and trying to protect her from his toxic mother-in-law. He knew that the older woman would try to stir things up at their Christmas dinner just for the sake of getting attention or causing drama.

In order to protect the young girl from her malicious grandma, the man made sure that his wife called her parents ahead and warned them not to speak of the dog. Even research states that kids need to be given freedom to mourn in their own way and shouldn’t be belittled for their feelings, which is probably what the OP was afraid his mother-in-law would do.

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Right when Christmas dinner rolled around, the mean grandma did exactly what the poster had warned her not to and launched into a discussion about her grandkid’s dog. She even began smirking when the teen burst into tears, which shows that she was getting enjoyment from causing pain.

It’s incredibly difficult to deal with toxic family members because their actions can often stir up a lot of strong emotions. That’s why psychologists state that it’s better to choose your battles instead of giving in to every disagreement, as this might only end up affecting your mental peace.

As the dad mentioned, his mother-in-law had pulled a lot of similar stunts before, but he finally decided to confront her because of how much pain his daughter was in. That’s why he took the bull by its horns and threatened to kick the older woman out if she kept speaking about the teen’s dog.

This sudden confrontation must have left the mother-in-law shell-shocked because she didn’t utter another word about the animal, and also never came back for any holiday dinners. That must have definitely made the man feel glad about speaking up and having his daughter’s back.

What do you think about the OP’s actions, and what would you have done differently if you were in his place? Let us know what you think about this story.

Folks were shocked by the grandma’s behavior and were proud of the poster for shutting her down

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