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Being mean to my cat
This might sound wierd but he was mean to my childhood stuffed animal- like punching it and kicking it around my room. Lost feelings right there and told him to leave.
I lost our baby due to a miscarriage. I told him. He said oh I’m sorry and kept playing PlayStation. He was in his 30s and we were married with a child already. Now I’m happily divorced.
He went out his way to kill grasshopper that wasn’t bothering him 🚩
Came over to my house for the first time and actually yelled at my dog when it barked… like who is you
He told me I’m high maintenance when it was 95 degrees out and I wanted water which was like a dollar
he sent me $20 and said you never had a real man that’ll send you money. mind u he was paying me back…
we were eating in his car, asked if I was done & I said yes & proceeded to throw all the trash outside the car window 😭
he would send me pictures of models he followed on insta and said he wished I looked like that
He said “your best friend has eyes on me, seems like you have competition” i ended it right away
He ate chicken wings and then touched my hair with his fingers
I am a home health CNA and I said that I cook and clean for my patients and he said, “so everything a typical woman should do.” Bye bye
He dated me for 5 years but didn’t come to my mom’s funeral.
He told me his mom was coming over shortly to do his laundry
he told me MY body "belongs" to HIM...
Said “A degree is just a piece of paper” right before my masters program graduation
He brought his mom on the date twice and was 30 years old.
he told me he has never finished reading a book in his life.. he was 32. haven't seen him since.
There could be a reason for this, some people really struggle parsing thoughts through written word. Sentences and even letters can get jumbled up to the point of no comprehension.
I was blonde at the time, he said “you shoULD go back to brunette like my mum, you’d look hotter” BOY BYE
pumping my own gas at 9 months pregnant while he sat in the passenger seat on his phone (:
A few years after my mom died I was having a really bad day were grief was overwhelming. I told my husband "I miss my mom so bad". He responded, "I miss mine too". She lived 25 mins away. I'm now happily divorced.
Asked me if I would ever get the same haircut as his mom.
he ate an entire tub of tiramisu i’d made for my friends when i told him to take ONE portion 😭
Had a full back tattoo of himself as a gladiator.
His mom came in his room to clean it. He’s 24.
He was rude to our waitress and didn’t tip. I went back and tipped her and apologized for his behaviour. That was our first and last date.
Making baby noises when he wanted to cuddle 😂😂😭😭😭
I had a woman start using baby talk while we were in bed. Couldn’t get out of there fast enough.
He opened my fridge on his own accord without asking and started to critique my fridge organisation then started to critique my parking, my clothes, my dishwasher staking ability
He only washed his hair once a month and would ask me to do it for him when he would come over because he just “didn’t know how”
“Our options are to either get engaged and married asap or breakup” absolutely not sir (I was 18 yrs old)
Same. My boyfriend of one year (first love) handed me a ring and said 'Marry me or you'll never see me again.' Wow. I'm still traumatized. And no, I didn't marry him.
My ex used to wipe his teeth with his shirt because he forgot to brush his teeth every day
He said “pweaseeeee” and put his hands like this 🙏. Never felt instant, primal rage like that before
If you're going to say "pweaseeeee" you can ONLY say it in Roger Rabbit's voice.
Anytime he’d mention my apartment he’d say as “ours”.
Tried to control what I posted online, while simultaneously liking photos of women doing the same thing I was doing
Told me he was "so happy to finally be dating someone in his league" because "all his other past crushes were above him"
“Rule number one, stay off your phone” LIKE YES ABSOLUTELY! But who are YOUUUU to tell me what I can and can not do??? Mind you this was the very FIRST day we went on a “date”
when they try to correct you but they're wrong and won't let you explain why because they're convinced YOU'RE wrong.
his mom would come over every week and clean his house and do all his laundry while he gamed, before she left she’d leave a note saying how much she loved him and kiss it with LIPSTICK, he’s 26
He told me he didn’t wash his hands after he took a poo, because it was “not like he got anything on his hands”
called me “expensive” when I ordered a mixed drink…. never ran away so fast!
Expensive?! I’m easy. I’m never cheap. It’s important to have standards
Him telling me to lower my voice when I was just telling him about something I was passionate about.
Spelled beautiful as “beutifal”
I'm a grammar and spelling stickler and ended up marrying someone who can't spell his way out of a paper bag. For example, he writes things like 'supe' on our grocery list. I could have easily written him off, but I'm glad I didn't. He had dyslexia before anybody knew it was a thing!
it was like 3pm i was fully at work and he texted me “goodmorning i just woke up” he had been playing video games all night. instantly blocked
"I know you miss me" I never did, the audacity was too much.
When they send a sad face when I don't respond right away, biggest ick everrr for me
he tries to act “tough” in front of his friends
not knowing how to hold a conversation.
he didn’t remember things i told him over and over again
my fat golden retriever we lovingly called a potato passed away, and the very next day he said he was now a baked potato because he got cremated.
Long nails
spelled “cough” like “colph” and he was in his mid twenties.
Walk into his room and he has 8 Spider-Man posters and a Spider-Man bed spread
Avoidant attachment style 😒
imagine him chasing after a ping pong ball during a game and not being able to pick it up
Didn’t know the different between accept and except
When he told me I paid for dinner last night you pay for breakfast today
Seems reasonable, I like treating my partner, it's unfair to expect men to pay for everything
he did the duke dennis hug not even a week into talking.
I was prepping to go on a date with someone for the first time - someone who really seemed good 'on paper'. Grown man, academic job, intelligent, well spoken. Right before our date I texted to say I was getting ready and would be leaving soon. He made a very vulgar joke (I won't repeat it). I told him that I was not comfortable and would be bowing out of the date. The level of disrespect was just off the charts - I can't imagine that a grown man would think that a woman would find that appealing - the solipsism and lack of awareness of the perceptions of others was mind-boggling.
I honestly wish you'd either share the joke or not share the story at all because we all perceive things differently so vulgar to one is nbd for another. Not saying I wouldn't agree with you on your assessment but when left to the imagination, I can't imagine what he would've said to you. 🤔
Load More Replies...I was prepping to go on a date with someone for the first time - someone who really seemed good 'on paper'. Grown man, academic job, intelligent, well spoken. Right before our date I texted to say I was getting ready and would be leaving soon. He made a very vulgar joke (I won't repeat it). I told him that I was not comfortable and would be bowing out of the date. The level of disrespect was just off the charts - I can't imagine that a grown man would think that a woman would find that appealing - the solipsism and lack of awareness of the perceptions of others was mind-boggling.
I honestly wish you'd either share the joke or not share the story at all because we all perceive things differently so vulgar to one is nbd for another. Not saying I wouldn't agree with you on your assessment but when left to the imagination, I can't imagine what he would've said to you. 🤔
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