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Husband Asks His Friend To Leave So His Worn-Out Wife That Works In Healthcare Can Rest, Friend Lashes Out
Everyone knows that there are a few things in life that a person absolutely must have – well, having a secure and healthy friendship is one of them. Our peers help us grow into these outstanding individuals, and with them, we’re much closer to living that stress-free life that everybody yearns to have.
Of course, finding that strong connection can sometimes feel like a rocky journey. We’re all different people with contrasting mindsets, and there’s a big chance that your once dearest friend will turn into an individual that doesn’t hold the same values anymore. Growing together doesn’t always result in an everlasting bond, but what’s crucial is for you to remember to put your well-being first, even if it means cutting off a friend or two.
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This online user took his concern to one of the most popular online communities to discuss his somewhat absurd situation. “AITA for kicking my friend out of my bedroom so my wife could take a nap?” A fight provoked by a simple request bothered the author enough to seek help from fellow Reddit users, as he wanted to find out whether he’s indeed the villain of the story. The post received over 20K upvotes and 2.5K worth of comments discussing his friend’s toxic approach.
Redditor wondered if he’s indeed a jerk for asking his friend to leave as his overworked wife wanted to rest after her nursing shift
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The author of the post began his story with an introduction; he’s a 28-year-old husband to his 27-year-old partner who is a certified nursing assistant. The wife works day and night and is also attending school to become an autopsy technician, so the woman often comes back home quite exhausted.
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The man revealed that his significant other constantly picks up extra shifts, works doubles and even triples, and due to such a busy lifestyle, she frequently takes a nap once she comes back home from her duties.
However, a rather unpleasant situation occurred one day involving the OP’s friend. The author shared that his wife and the friend do not get along as he tends to make the woman uncomfortable, yet they’ve agreed not to stand in between their friendships just because one of them doesn’t get along with someone. Well, the friend was over at their house, playing video games with the OP when his wife called to let him know that she was on her way home. The man disclosed that the woman sounded pretty exhausted, and he even asked her if she would be okay driving or if he should come and pick her up.
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The woman said that she was fine to drive and that she’d see the OP later. The guy also decided to reveal that the only TV they have is located in their bedroom, where he and his friend were playing the aforementioned video games. A couple of minutes later, the author’s wife came back home and he went to greet her.
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The poor woman then practically collapsed into her husband’s arms and said that she could really use a nap. The OP took her to their bedroom and politely told the friend that it was time for him to leave, as his wife needed to rest. The friend then began to talk back and asked these unnecessary questions, suggesting that the woman could just sleep there while they were playing, yet the author explained that the silly game could wait as his wife’s needs always come first.
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The friend then asked another question and wondered why the OP’s wife couldn’t just crash on the couch; the man says that he wasn’t going to make his overworked wife sleep on their sofa just because he wanted to keep playing the video games. As expected, the overly audacious friend decided to cause a scene, so he slammed down his controller and went to leave – however, before he did, he turned to the woman and told her “I bet you’re happy he always feels like he has to pick you over anyone”.
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Later on, the OP’s friends bombarded his phone, basically saying that what he did was against the infamous “bro” protocol and that it was rude to kick the friend out just so that his wife could sleep. On the other hand, the man revealed that all of his married friends are totally on his side, so, perhaps this situation is a matter of maturity.
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Twodogsandapicnictable 3 years ago
I'm 47 with a mortgage and full time job and have a friend thats been on disability or workers comp or something for his entire adult life because of a car accident. Recently texted me that I'm a piece of s**t friend because I don't "hang out" anymore. Sometimes you gotta just tell somebody to f@#$ off and get their own life.
GirlFriday 3 years ago
I would give your comment 1000 upvotes if I could. You are spot on.
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Powerful Katrinka 3 years ago
I think he should have asked his "friend" to leave BEFORE his wife got home. She didn't need to hear that bullsh*t.
Gary Harkins 3 years ago
Maybe he should have but let's not forget he's 27. He's still young and he did the right thing by sending him on his way when he did. A lot of other guys that age would not have. He did right by his wife! And to the person that said he should demand an apology and cut off anyone who wouldn't, sorry but you are wrong! He shouldn't even give them the opportunity to apologize!! Just straight cut them off! It's one thing to be immature, but at 27 saying something so absurd is just down right disrespectful and will probably never change!
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Kusotare 3 years ago
Is it any wonder that all the "bro" friends are single, while all the married friends get it? E, and all his bros, are AHs. Let them be incels without you. This may be the very first time I've ever quoted the Bible, but "when I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: But when I became a man, I put away childish things."
Stefi Stoyanova 3 years ago
Well said. OP needs to ditch the single assholes he calls friends. And give E the finger.
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Casey McAlister 3 years ago
WTF? If you are being a guest in somebody's house and they tell you it's time to leave, you don't question it. You don't own their house, don't pay the rent. you have absolutely no right to demand anything and tell them they should sleep on the couch because you aren't done in their bedroom. The audacity.
Inclusion2020 3 years ago
My fiancé wouldn’t have someone over to the house that made me feel uncomfortable. This dude sounds like a good guy, but he really needs to drop his idiot friends. This should really be a wake up call for him. His wife felt bad for wanting to sleep in her own bed? Clearly his rude friends have made her feel second class in her own relationship. No wonder these guys make her uncomfortable.
Nubis Knight 3 years ago
"Bros before h**s"? How old are they? Your family and wife (and real friends) come before people using such terms!
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
If people are intimating that you're wife is a whore, even in jest, they're not your friends. If that one "friend" is angry that your wife wants to use her bed in her home, and you support her, he's not your friend either.
Mary Jeffries 3 years ago
People in healthcare often develop a good sense for others. I’d say if she didn’t like him in the first place, there is a good reason. He just showed you how right she was.
Twodogsandapicnictable 3 years ago
I'm 47 with a mortgage and full time job and have a friend thats been on disability or workers comp or something for his entire adult life because of a car accident. Recently texted me that I'm a piece of s**t friend because I don't "hang out" anymore. Sometimes you gotta just tell somebody to f@#$ off and get their own life.
GirlFriday 3 years ago
I would give your comment 1000 upvotes if I could. You are spot on.
Load More Replies... Powerful Katrinka 3 years ago
I think he should have asked his "friend" to leave BEFORE his wife got home. She didn't need to hear that bullsh*t.
Gary Harkins 3 years ago
Maybe he should have but let's not forget he's 27. He's still young and he did the right thing by sending him on his way when he did. A lot of other guys that age would not have. He did right by his wife! And to the person that said he should demand an apology and cut off anyone who wouldn't, sorry but you are wrong! He shouldn't even give them the opportunity to apologize!! Just straight cut them off! It's one thing to be immature, but at 27 saying something so absurd is just down right disrespectful and will probably never change!
Load More Replies... Kusotare 3 years ago
Is it any wonder that all the "bro" friends are single, while all the married friends get it? E, and all his bros, are AHs. Let them be incels without you. This may be the very first time I've ever quoted the Bible, but "when I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: But when I became a man, I put away childish things."
Stefi Stoyanova 3 years ago
Well said. OP needs to ditch the single assholes he calls friends. And give E the finger.
Load More Replies... Casey McAlister 3 years ago
WTF? If you are being a guest in somebody's house and they tell you it's time to leave, you don't question it. You don't own their house, don't pay the rent. you have absolutely no right to demand anything and tell them they should sleep on the couch because you aren't done in their bedroom. The audacity.
Inclusion2020 3 years ago
My fiancé wouldn’t have someone over to the house that made me feel uncomfortable. This dude sounds like a good guy, but he really needs to drop his idiot friends. This should really be a wake up call for him. His wife felt bad for wanting to sleep in her own bed? Clearly his rude friends have made her feel second class in her own relationship. No wonder these guys make her uncomfortable.
Nubis Knight 3 years ago
"Bros before h**s"? How old are they? Your family and wife (and real friends) come before people using such terms!
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
If people are intimating that you're wife is a whore, even in jest, they're not your friends. If that one "friend" is angry that your wife wants to use her bed in her home, and you support her, he's not your friend either.
Mary Jeffries 3 years ago
People in healthcare often develop a good sense for others. I’d say if she didn’t like him in the first place, there is a good reason. He just showed you how right she was.
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