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The fact that people share an idealized version of themselves on social media, cherry-picking only the best images, thoughts, and experiences isn't new. But the lengths they go to marketing themselves keep surprising even the ones who think they've seen it all.

I'm talking about r/Instagramreality. It's a subreddit whose members strip down the glamor of make-up, flattering poses, and all kinds of photo editing, and expose the truth behind the facade. It's been around since 2017, and we've written about it numerous times (here, here, and here), but even these folks still get baffled at how absurd some of these manipulations are. Here are a few reasons why.

#1

Must Be Her Sister In The Car

Must Be Her Sister In The Car

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    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

    A Fairly Popular Local Influencer Recently Made An Appearance On TV. A Lot Of Her Fans Apparently Had Trouble Recognizing Her At First

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    Klaatu Verrata (Cough)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yikes. Filler is expensive. Always amazes me how much vain people will pay to turn themselves into literal caricatures of themselves.

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    In an earlier piece on r/InstagramRealityBored Panda spoke to Siobhan Ward, a primary therapist at Life Works, a rehabilitation center that provides treatment for addictions and eating disorders, about the scope of social media addiction in the United Kingdom.

    "If you broke 'social media addiction' down into categories, it would encompass other process or behavioral addictions such as porn and gambling, as well as eating disorders, especially predominant with the likes of Instagram," Ward explained. "It may be that the addiction is not with the social media itself, but the social media has become a tool of other addictions."

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    The therapist thinks people can't stop faking and editing their Instagram photos (even when it's an obvious lie) because of brain chemistry. "Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that comes into play with the addict — it is what tells us that we enjoy something and therefore need to do it again as it gives us pleasure."

    "If the person is taking a lot of selfies that have to be 'perfect', then maybe they are not addicts. Instead, this could be a sign of a possible narcissistic personality disorder. Also, if someone is posting pictures to get as many likes as possible, they may not be getting certain needs met in their life. They may not have the love, support, or even safety that they need now or that they needed when they grew up and therefore have had to find another way to fill that hole," Ward said.

    #3

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

    A Man, For A Change. Not Sure If Satire Or For Real. Behold, The Wall-Bending Biceps And Butt

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    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looks like he has balloons in his trousers and shirt

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    #4

    Skipped Leg Day, Forever

    Skipped Leg Day, Forever

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    #5

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

    This Is Funny And All But It’s Getting Out Of Hand

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    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm getting the feeling that I'm probably going to make more Slender Man jokes.

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    #6

    Found In The Wild On Instagram

    Found In The Wild On Instagram

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    Interestingly, being reminded that social media is fake can also 'fill' us. In a 2019 study, researchers decided to investigate the effect 'Instagram vs. Reality' pictures (the ones containing side-by-side photographs of the same woman, one an idealized depiction and the other a more natural depiction) have on body image.

    They got together 305 women aged between 18 and 30 years, the largest demographic group of Instagram users. The sample had a mean age of 25.34 years, and their mean body mass index (BMI) was 26.98, indicating a slightly overweight sample. The majority of participants identified as Caucasian (69.2%), followed by Latino/Hispanic (11.8%), African American (10.2%), Asian (6.6%), Native American (0.3%), and 'other' (2.0%). The participants were randomly assigned to view one of three sets of Instagram images over a period of time: 'Instagram vs. reality" images, the 'ideal' side alone, or the 'real' side alone.

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    #7

    Blended The Fence Into Her Face

    Blended The Fence Into Her Face

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    #8

    Be You!

    Be You!

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    #9

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

    In Reality, Birds Flap Their Wings When They Fly

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    Pungent Sauce
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And gulls! They would be savaging your lunch.

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    #10

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

    Unfortunately Did Not Pass Her Photoshop Class Though

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    "[The study found that] viewing the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images resulted in decreased body dissatisfaction relative to the ideal images," the researchers wrote. "Furthermore, the detrimental effects of appearance comparison were much less marked for the 'Instagram vs. reality' and real images than for the ideal images. It was concluded that 'Instagram vs. reality' and real posts have the potential to bolster women's body satisfaction, but more research is needed to assess their longer-term impact."

    Siobhan Ward said that we need to become aware of what we believe we are getting from the Internet in order to start resisting its temptation. "By understanding why [we] turn to the Internet, [we] can start to think about healthier ways to meet these needs."

    #11

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

    This Guy Popped Up In My Feed As A Sponsored Story

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    adiiantryx
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does everyone here look like characters from the sims

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    #12

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

    Yes, The Giant Feet Syndrome, More And Coomon These Days

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    Nugua
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The feet are not the problem here...

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    #13

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

    We’ve Seen Tiny Heads…now Get Ready For Giant Feet!

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    #14

    Legs For Dayyyyys

    Legs For Dayyyyys

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    #15

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

    "The Model Has Achieved This By Chewing On A Plastic-Looking Contraption"

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    #16

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

    Photoshopped Herself Into Oblivion, Grandpa Can Stay Lookin Old Af

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    #17

    Organs Are For The Weak!

    Organs Are For The Weak!

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    #18

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

    From Her Profile vs. Tagged

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    Sarcastic Cow
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you photoshoped yourself hard enough to be Kate Siegel. Good job.

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    #19

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

    Reminder: This Is Not How These Women Look In Real Life

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    #20

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

    Internal Organs? Never Heard Of Them

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    #21

    Reminds Me Of That Scene In Beetlejuice (Little Head)

    Reminds Me Of That Scene In Beetlejuice (Little Head)

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    #22

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

    What The Model Posted vs. Photographer

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    lenka
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they are both hideously unrealistic

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    #23

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

    She Was On A Popular Reality Show. I'll Never Understand Why They Do This When We've All Seen What They Really Look Like!

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    Monday
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why accept the reality show invite if you've modified your online image this much is what I don't understand. You KNOW you don't look like your pictures, so why expose yourself? [Why change yourself this much is a question for another day]

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    #24

    One I Found In The Wild

    One I Found In The Wild

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    #25

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

    Arms So Big They Warp The Plane Seats?

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    #26

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

    This Cannot Be Real! Inhumanly Possible To Look Like This

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    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is the guy from TOWIE (UK reality TV show) and he is dangerously thin at the moment

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    #27

    I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

    I Was Startled By This While Scrolling

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    #28

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

    Girl I Go To Uni With Always Edits Her Photos Like This.. The Second Pic Is How She Actually Looks

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    ElenaK
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she looks great! These individuals have serious issues!

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    #29

    4 Out Of 5 Dentists Approved

    4 Out Of 5 Dentists Approved

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    #30

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

    Her Index Finger Seems To Be Melting Down Her Bum

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    #31

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

    Her Gravitational Pull Is So Strong It Distorts Everything Around Her Waist

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    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this whole page could just have a picture of Thanos after he gets the reality stone with caption now reality can be whatever i want

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    #32

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

    Two Of Her Fingers Are Thicker Than Her Wrist, Wtf

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    Tobias Rieper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    looks like one of the Strigoi from the Strain Tv show

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    #33

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

    Repeat Offender. This Girl Has No Shame

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    #34

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

    Even The Poor Headless Mannequin Can't Live Up To Ig Standards

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    #35

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

    When The Very Thing You Rely On Betrays You Lol

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    ElenaK
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is better in reality. Can't she see it?

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    #36

    Copy + Paste Cleavage?

    Copy + Paste Cleavage?

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    #37

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

    The Face!!! And This Was A Sponsored Post

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    Oopsydaisy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When your dead sister turns up in your selfies.

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    #38

    And The Knees?

    And The Knees?

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    #39

    The Coveted Thigh Gap

    The Coveted Thigh Gap

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    SlartyBlartFast
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not how human body works

    Andy Acceber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or physics. I'm no physicist, but even I know particles aren't solid from one perspective and gaseous from another.

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    Anita Pickle
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She only wants a thigh gap from the front?

    Robert Martens
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ridiculous, she's not a real sailor.

    ChickenNugget
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but they're so beautiful without editing!

    MysteriousLegBruise
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! She looks gorgeous without the unnecessary Photoshop

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    MysteriousLegBruise
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Screw a thigh gap! If it weren't for my thunder thighs, my phone would have ended up in the toilet idk how many times! I'm proud of my thighs and everyone should be proud of what they have as well

    Sinkvenice
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    I have a thigh gap, quite a prominent one. I'm very skinny as I've been really ill my whole life and I try very hard but really struggle to gain weight, even with the help of doctors and nutritionists. You said everyone should be proud of what they have but your comment opener was "Screw a thigh gap!" Do you mean everyone should be proud, except those people with thigh gaps?

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    Sinkvenice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's quite the description! I guess I have the mullet of lower bodies then. I don't know whether to be utterly ashamed or to totally embrace it. That's a great profile name by the way.

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    SydneyP
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Listen..as a woman and a lesbian I feel like I can say this..ladies no man or woman cares about your thigh gap. They/we don’t care if your thighs rub together so hard when you walk it causes smoke to roll off them. You’re fine the way you are. Perfect even. 🙂

    Robert T
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Donkey foot, the opposite of camel toe. LOL

    Lissy 🤘
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still looks good though

    LeeAnne B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thigh gaps are for flamingos.

    Mike Beck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do have a gap at my "correct" weight. It definitely doesn't look natural, much less attractive.

    Cybele Spanjaard
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh .. Ok.. Oh I have that ( bends to look ) and I am no skinny minny or even idealistic curvy lovely.

    CrunChewy McSandybutt
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the obsession with thigh gap. I have never, not even during my scrawny years, have had thigh gap.

    Devil's Advocate
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having a thigh gap looks weird IMO anyway

    SFox
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh hey. Interesting to see one of my own pics here! This wasn't done as a serious thing guys and Laura Lee is correct, I was standing feet apart with my lower half tilted back and those briefs are tight as hell which creates a gap. I don't have one when my legs are together. This was just me editing my hallway out (badly) and tracing around my body (badly) to make a mock up of those Cheesecake Pin Up drawings. For those asking about pointy thighs, my thighs bulge that way because I lost 90lbs and it's the remaining loose skin and pockets of fat. You can see it by my armpit as well

    Mona
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's a curvy woman. The thigh gap doesn't look right. She looks fine without it.

    DKS 001
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    front thin, back not so thin, make up your mind

    OctoPaige
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could be a skeleton and my thighs would still cling to each other for dear life.

    Ryan Deschanel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would anyone edit a fake thigh gap? I mean, it is more comfortable because there is no friction, but it is irrelevant looks-wise.

    Shane S
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Virtual footbinding. The size they are aspiring to is not natural.

    laura lee
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She can have upper thigh "gap" like that. Legs are apart, bottoms are tight so it lifts the fat, then hangs in a weird sag midway bc lack of muscle. Plus she's standing leaning forward, thrusting her butt out behind her. Chubby girl tricks

    Me
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I'm not fully convinced the front photo was photoshopped.

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    Frank C
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    3 years ago

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    Andrea Careless
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thigh gap at the front. No thigh gap at the back. Hmmm

    stacey knutson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will say again, I am so glad I grew up in the 70's. I was actually fine with myself. Social media just needs to go away. Everyone's head would explode but, I'm fine with that.

    David Leick
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey look! It's Pam's canal! 🥁

    Imogene Cargeaux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why though? Her curves are beautiful!!! She reminds me of a real pinup girl from the 50s! Thigh gaps aren't cute. I'm a petite woman. 8 work out but not a lot. I take okay care of myself. But I'm pretty small. I don't have a thigh gap.. I weight less than 120 lbs... I'm just over 5ft 4in.... I couldn't have a thigh gap unless I just stopped eating altogether. That shits not normal

    Dodo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're gonna be body positive, you can't turn around and do this s**t. You're just making things worse.

    Debbie Burns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much better WITHOUT PHOTO SHOP. UGH STOP ALREADY

    Bsully3
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    3 years ago

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    Sinkvenice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a really wide thigh gap. I'm 35 and I weigh 7 stone because I've been incredibly ill my whole life. I've always hated how I look because people like you say things like this. For some reason body positivity only applies to overweight women. Well what about underweight women? Women who are so ill that no matter how hard they try under the guidance of more than one nutritionist, fail to gain weight. So thank you. Thank you for helping to make me feel disgusting, unattractive and totally undesirable.

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    Nazda Pokmov
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plump ready to pluck is more like it

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    #40

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

    And She Would Have Gotten Away With It Too, If It Weren’t For Those Meddling Straps!

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    I like cats
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Srsly...You don't need to change your body to be truly appealing.

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    #41

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

    Subtle.... Her Poor Nose

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    a_smol_berry
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sure she looked wonderful before photo shop.

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    #42

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

    I Honestly Don’t Know Where To Start

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    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The background has the telltale stretch marks of Google Street View. Nice.

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    #43

    I’m Sorry… What?

    I’m Sorry… What?

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    #44

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

    Reality TV Influencer Edits Her Photos To Change Her Skin Colour

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    Rose Golden
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's gorgeous irl though! Why change that!

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    #45

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

    Famous Youtube Prankster Editing Girls’ Bodies In Video Previews. Lost Some Respect For Him For Perpetuating Those Harmful Standards

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    A B C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And he's bad at it, too. What a douche.

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    #46

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

    Core So Strong It Bends Everything Around It

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    ShriSha Kamboj
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's like the sea waves......on the floor...... with the tiles

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    #47

    So Much Brightness

    So Much Brightness

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    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wham! Looking happy because they had yet to give their love away at Christmas.

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    #48

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

    Found One In The Wild, Totally Natural Looking Face

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    #49

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

    Online Shopping And.. I Literally Have No Idea What’s Happening Here

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    Troux
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are those legs on backwards?

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    #50

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

    Seen In Strasbourg. Influencer Pretends To Use A Selfie Stick As Entourage Shoots. They Were There For At Least 30 Minutes. Best Was Seeing Her Smoke After In A Winter Coat ‘Cuz It Was Chilly Af

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    Scagsy
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Somebody had their picture taken, then had a cigarette. The rest of this story shall remain a mystery evermore.

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