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I Have Christian Grandparents And Don’t Know How To Come Out To Them!
Any ideas?
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Wait untilltheir about to die thenin thre final seconds tell them.
Hi Dylan, why do you feel the need to come out to them? You say that you are gender fluid, so you are as yet undecided or not comfortable in affixing a definitive gender, which is perfectly natural but can be hard to explain, especially to the older generation! As for how, just be honest, take someone with you for support, decide what your going to say and practice before hand and sadly prepare for varying degrees of rejection (it can take time for people to come to terms with this). Good luck!
I understand, I have christian grandparents aswell. Are they homophobic? If not, then it's probably fine to just tell them you identify with the LGBTQ+ community. If they are, either wait a bit and drop hints every here and there until it comes up, or straight up tell them and accept whatever they say. If you don't know, just casually try to bring up their opinions on lgbtq and then you'll know. Hope this helps!
My grandparents are most likely homophobic. Overall i might just not tell them. Thanks for the advice!
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Why tell them? What good would it do. It would likely just upset them. I never told my grandmother about my womanizing. She wouldn't have been impressed.
I understand, I have christian grandparents aswell. Are they homophobic? If not, then it's probably fine to just tell them you identify with the LGBTQ+ community. If they are, either wait a bit and drop hints every here and there until it comes up, or straight up tell them and accept whatever they say. If you don't know, just casually try to bring up their opinions on lgbtq and then you'll know. Hope this helps!
My grandparents are most likely homophobic. Overall i might just not tell them. Thanks for the advice!
Load More Replies... Why tell them? What good would it do. It would likely just upset them. I never told my grandmother about my womanizing. She wouldn't have been impressed.
