Woman Laughs In Husband’s Face When He Regrets Forcing To Sign Her A Prenup 6 Years Ago After He Finds Out She Now Makes 3x More Than Him

Wait, there's still a prenup, so does it matter if you file for divorce in your own? He doesn't have to sign, it just takes longer to get it granted. Since there's no shared monies, this doesn't seem like a big deal. Do use your high priced lawyer as much as you can.

The difference an Audi can make...this story would make a great commercial! I love the part where he thinks he should be able to quit his job and chase his dreams of being a professional gambler...LMAO...Girl, congrats on the car, discovering the truth, and saving your future. And definitely thank god for not having a kid with him!

You did not over react. That's probably the best decision you'll ever make in terms of your marriage!

I think it’s hilarious that he had her sign a prenup and now it comes back to bite him in the behind. I hope she realizes that she was married to a narcissist. She needs to lose this dude and block any contact with any of his family if they harass her. She is a self sufficient, self made woman and owes that loser and his family nothing. And for God’s sake, be more careful in choosing your next life partner if you even want one.

Oh my, he sold his house and you didn't even know? Serious lack of communication and partnership there. Whilst on the face of it you're acting in haste after an argument, you certainly have enough grounds so maybe it's just your inner voice speaking up at last.

I think he's dreaming if he thinks that not signing the divorce papers means she can never divorce him. Divorce does not have to be a mutual decision.

How can anyone think it's a normal relationship if you keep your finances so separated that you don't even know how much the other makes or how much they save? I mean, I know people keep their money on separate accounts, which already weirds me out, but not even knowing what the other one makes is just insane. Glad she got the wake up call and is divorcing him.

Totally didn't overreact. It took a while, but he finally showed his true colors and they are ugly.

It wasn't fast. Her subconscious knew this was coming for a long time. Spouses who respond to trouble by refusing therapy and telling their SO that they are lucky to have them are just so awful. She will be so much happier after this is all over.

Well.... What a mess.

Oh gosh I really hope she doesn't think she overreacted. He had a gambling addiction and refused counseling .... Among other things...Not marriage material, because it's all about him and he's too adversarial. Maybe one day he'll sort himself out but even if he gets into therapy, I wouldn't hold my breath.

My comment didn't go through, here I go again: This isn't a marriage, it's a roomate situation with benefits. I totally understand having separate finances, but come on, a couple needs to know the finantial situation of the other. Also, he didn't help you back when you were struggling, and now he expects you to do it for him? What an A$$! Besides, is it just me, or it has INFIDELITY written all over???? I hope she does not back down from the divorce (the pre-nup is a blessing for her), if he doesn't sign the papers, a judge eventually will. And I hope she block him, his family and go see a therapist ASAP.

Gosh, I don't understand people who hide and don't talk about money with their partner ... Even when I was an intern and was just dating my husband back then, I used to know his monthly income and he used to know mine ... he used to pay all in his credit card and then used to split the expenses we did together... then ... when we got married it stopped... it is all in one ... we plan together, spend together and most import , we save money together ... the gifts he buys me , I pay for it at the very end ... and the vice verse ...

One of the most bizarre stories I have ever read. Seriously. It would appear they share a house and nothing else. How do you get 6 years into a marriage and not have a clue on really quite important subjects about the other spouse? Christ wept, he sold a house and they don't even know the approximate of what the other earns! How do you plan for anything in life as a married couple with this level of unawareness . Should have had the "what do you want out of life" chat when they started to get serious. It's lucky they don't have children, get the divorce asap and be happy again.

Yeah, all this doesn't really sound like they'll be together much longer...

Another weird couple who apparently went ok until this point which usually is known or non important when reached that event.

This isn't the 1920s, and you can get a divorce without his consent or agreement.

Make a career as a professional gambler after losing money bigtime as an amateur. That sounds about as sensible as becoming a chef when all your kitchen experience consists of producing hockey puck pancakes, crunchy scrambled eggs and soaked cereals.

You go and Girl. No kids involve, get out of there

Well that...escalated...

Ask your good lawyer how to protect your identity as well. His next step is to forge your signature to try to get credit or money to cover his debts. Be careful.

And then everyone clapped. Seriously peo0le, like most AITA threads this never happened or at least not in the way it’s been presented.

He provided you with nothing while you were school?

Where is the love in this marriage? All I see is greed, secrecy and tantrums. There is no his hers or mine in marriage, only ours. If you both truly loved one another you would have one bank account and share in each other's success.

He thought he was protecting himself, but it rebounded on him, soooo funny. I'm glad she came out the winner!

What a screwed up relationship to begin with...

I do not believe that...stories stories and more stories but this one esspecially is BS!

Thank God the prenup protects you from the grifter. Run.

This is not a marriage, it's a roomate situation where s*x was involved. I am baffled that this relashionship lastaed that long. I bet if she dug deeper, she would find proof of infidelity as well. He could't support her when she was borke and now he expects her to do it for him? Do not back down, divorce his A$$. If he doesn't sign it, fine, the judge eventually will and the prenup will protect your assets. And do yourself 2 favors: 1) block him and his relatives. 2) Go to therapy ASAP.

How the hell do people not know or ask how much their partner earns? Obviously with everyone else it's none of their business and it's a touchy subject for some, but in a serious relationship and not knowing I just find odd.

Run for the hills woman and don't look back.

what kind of relationship do these people have to not know how much money their spouse earns?

This sounds like a marriage of convenience from the start for both parties.

WTF? No, this was not an overreaction. He showed you who you have actually married and now it's time to get him out of your life. He's a gambling addict and you make way more money, what do think he's gonna do when his gambling debts start piling up?

So she unwittingly married a male chauvinist child? Thank the stars fir that prenup, it’ll get her out in one piece with exactly what she’s earned and is fully entitled to. That prenup appears to be his only positive contribution. PS supporting a ‘professional’ gambler isn’t a thing, you become a pro by being a successful amateur, no one supports you, if you are good enough then you turn pro with the money you’ve won, if you’ve not won enough then you deserve nothing, you are just good at losing money.

I really hope she doesn’t go back to him

Whoa-kay. OP is making a FANTASTIC decision by filing for divorce. Her soon-to-be ex husband is NUTSO.

EVEN if he won't sign divorce papers make sure you notify the courts, and financial institutions YOU ARE SEPARATED. Make an announcement in the local paper YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS DEBTS. I am sure the divorce attorney you have has told you thing IN the meantime, sever all ties as fast as possible or you may actually be held liable for any debts he accrued.

Made up story? Prenup, don't discuss work at home... what kind of relationship is this?

Why is no one questioning the authenticity of this post to begin with? For a CRNA, this person sounds terribly uneducated---look at the writing style, the terrible spelling, constant misuse of syntax and punctuation, and the ridiculously teenager-type use of certain terms and phrases. I don't think this person is what they purport to be---anyone can make themselves to be anything on the Internet, after all---and it sounds as if someone is having fun at all your expenses.

I think your husband's greed and secrecy have worked in your favor. I assume he expected to be the next big thing in the gambling world and he didn't want you to benefit from it. It sounds more like you were sharing a house more than being married. I hope his family and friends are willing to support him now. After all, they stood up for him before. Go, be free, enjoy the money you worked so hard for.