I am married to a man who is not close to being a husband
He has never helped me with the children even when they were younger.
He worked kept his earnings and would laugh when I am crying because he did not care always letting me know he did not care.
The children are now grown and now that is retired he spends his time traveling to his homeland, rebuilt his mother’s house for himself and his sister bought her a car and lives in the house with his sister his sister even when he is home he visits his friends and comes home to sleep.
We have children between the two of us.
My daughter died a year ago today he never said a kind word to me. He did attend the funeral left before me.
Today is my daughter’s anniversary of her death. I am crying he gets dressed in his finest clothes and left.
It was too much pressure so I called him he said he is at his friend’s house on a Sunday.
When I met him he had children the youngest being months old the oldest daughter’s living with his mother who was struggling. I ended up with the children eventually.
The children are now all grown and he still acting the same way.
His pension by the way he refuses to give me money as it is his money.
I am now on social security and managing on $9oo per month and still will not help with any bills
I cannot take any more.
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Share on FacebookThis woman sounds like she is in a lot of pain. So she just posted on here for some support. Seems like she should have left him decades ago, but maybe that seemed impossible to do in her culture? Now she is old and dependent. I wonder if any of the children will help her? I know we are only getting one side of the story here, but she seems so sad and lost. I hope she can find emotional strength and support in a local church, or perhaps a women's group. Even someone at a local Senior Center might help with counseling.
to clarify, I mean: she doesn't ask too much, dear husband gives way too little.
Load More Replies...This woman sounds like she is in a lot of pain. So she just posted on here for some support. Seems like she should have left him decades ago, but maybe that seemed impossible to do in her culture? Now she is old and dependent. I wonder if any of the children will help her? I know we are only getting one side of the story here, but she seems so sad and lost. I hope she can find emotional strength and support in a local church, or perhaps a women's group. Even someone at a local Senior Center might help with counseling.
to clarify, I mean: she doesn't ask too much, dear husband gives way too little.
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