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I guess you could start a conversation about what you both are into in that department and describe what you prefer and don't really like. You would both get the chance to state your preferences, and he would then discover that you don't like his kinks. You may find things that you both like in that department and come to a compromise. Or not find anything you both like but still come to a compromise. I hope this helps.