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Hey Trans Pandas, What’s Your Way Of Dealing With Gender Dysphoria?
Gender dysphoria sucks. I'm trying to learn how to help other people, and also how to help myself :(
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Suicide
not because of SOCALLED "gender "dysphiria"" !!
because of society not allowing us to be free to finally be happy for the first time to have our operation
treating us like diseases
and again, leaving us there in body our holding cell being unhappy and sad all the time missing every opportunity in life having to painfully pretend being happy and being 'normal' not to be commited; until we finally off ourselves taking care of the transexual problem !
better ways? did you listen; no there is not I have tried but society people are against me people HAVE even told be to kill myself for being transexual :( I just wish I could be reborn as a biological MAN T-T ____ there is no way for transexuals here..
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Hey, I want you to listen to me. Suicide is not a solution. From what I’ve read things don’t seem great for you right now. People are suggesting to live for your loved ones and for you that doesn’t seem like it would work. So my advice is that you should live for yourself and what your life will one day be. Things can’t always suck and one day you’ll find people who get it and accept you. I know it might be hard but if you ever need help just come to Bored Panda. There’s the occasional jerk but a lot of people here really want to help, me included.
😡😡DON'T ACT AS IF SUICIDE IS THE PROBLEM THE PROBLEM IS THAT I AM SAD AND UNCOMFORTABLE EVERY MINUTE OF MY LIFE THAT I AM MISSING EVERY GOOD THING IN LIFE BECAUSE PEOPLE DONt4 ALLOW ME TO BE FREE EVEN IN MY OWN BODY IF I KILL THIS BODY I WILL BE FREE FROM IT IF BEING TRANSEXUAL WAS ALLOWED I'D JUST BE A NORMAL PERSON...AND LIVE ! I'M NOT GONNA WHAT DECADE MAYBE HOPING MAYBE SOMEONE MAYBE ONE DAY MIGHT ACCEPT ME AND A LAW WHERE PEOPLE HAVE AUTONOMY ON THEIR BODY AND PEOPLE ACCEPT CONSENNT MAYBE MAY PASS!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You are not alone and do not have to feel this way. I am not trans, but I am a person that never wants anyone to feel like suicide is the answer. If you need to talk like this post and I will reach out. People care and this person cares.
what the hell??! this person is talking about how society is unaccepting and cruel, driving transexual people to suicide and you think it’s a troll?! you don’t even know this person so how can you just decide whether they’re transexual or not.
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Honestly.
Getting off of social media. It'll only fuel the self-hate, it's a dangerous downwards spiral. Surround yourself with positive people and good intentions, it's cheesy, but it works.
Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and safe!
You don’t have to buy insanely expensive clothes to bind your chest ( you can if you want to!) a simple hoodie or a beanie hat will do. If you ever feel hair dysmorphia try styling it in a hat!
Choosing a new name may also help!
masks!
i know a lot of people hate masks. i personally love them. they help with my gender dysphoria a lot. i dont know whether its just that i like the look of them, or the fact they hide my face, but it helps a lot
I don't really know man, I just kind of tough my way through it. Try not to look at my body too much and let it pass. Vent to my friends. Wear baggy clothes. Spend time around people who support your identity. Breathe, and remember that you are valid no matter what, and you are you are, and you love who you love. (i'm biologically female and i might be getting a binder soon so that actually helps a lot! if you're gender nonconforming afab and you run into the b00b problem, try to get a good binder if you are able to. if not i will legit buy you one even tho i'm broke af.)
Yeah I agree! Hoodies are amazing for the chest dysphoria and I wear them quite a bit :)
Does it count if I’m omnigender?
I try to find aspects of myself that match the gender I want to be, and try to focus on those.
Please I'm just trying to learn what's the difference between Omnigender and gender non-conforming? I googled it but got some unhelpful answers.
ever heard of blanket hoodies? they hide hips, they hide chest and they are just sooo warm and cozy (transmasc enby here)
i suppose what helps me is associating yourself with a gender. finding and recognising your gender is very important because you know your pronouns etc and it can help with gender dysphoria.
there’s a website here with a list of genders: https://www.healthline.com/health/different-genders#a-d
also realising that you are valid
I think hoodies work wonders no matter what your agab is! They’re androgynous and hide things nicely, plus they have a kangaroo pouch! lol
Hopefully this helps, I’m transmasc agender and I totally feel ya! Dysphoria sucks. :(
1) Attitude. I don't give a rat's ass what other people think. I'm gonna do me and if you don't like it I'm not going to thing twice about it. I will move on as if everything is normal, because it is.
2) What was hard for me was having a period. I HATE everything about it, having it, talking about it, the products, the reminder that I could grow a human *shudders*. When I got an IUD my periods stopped and I finally felt like me. I am lucky there was a simple solution.
I plan to get tubes tied, or something similar. No one can tell me that I "might want kids later one" cause I do not. Kids are gross.
Honestly.
Getting off of social media. It'll only fuel the self-hate, it's a dangerous downwards spiral. Surround yourself with positive people and good intentions, it's cheesy, but it works.
'Doing the next best thing.' That said, before I could transition, I imagined my 'real' (whole) self as being locked in a coal cellar. I'm a lot older, and many of us who transitioned later in life have whole different stories from 'you kids'. And we hope to see you all be able to be your true selves as soon as it's safe. At least the knowledge is out there now. Make haste slowly is what we had to do, to drag our loved ones along with us, as they usually had no clue.
I have a question...I'm not being a smart a$$ I really mean this respectfully. If you use the pronoun They is it ok to use y'all? I was raised in the south and I habitually say it so I wondered if it would be disrespectful. To be honest I've never met anyone I could ask.
If you're talking to a single person, no, cause they would use they as the singular form and y'all is used for plural (is it? I grew up with the idea that it is lol). If you use y'all as a singular term then I think so.
Load More Replies... I have a question...I'm not being a smart a$$ I really mean this respectfully. If you use the pronoun They is it ok to use y'all? I was raised in the south and I habitually say it so I wondered if it would be disrespectful. To be honest I've never met anyone I could ask.
If you're talking to a single person, no, cause they would use they as the singular form and y'all is used for plural (is it? I grew up with the idea that it is lol). If you use y'all as a singular term then I think so.
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