ill try to reply to some of you!
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Mental health and how difficult it is to get the needed help when you cant afford it
My 20 year old cat, Thomas hasn't eaten in 3 days so we are bringing him to vet today. he has also been in hiding and wont urinate or poop. im scared they are gonna wanna give him the shot. but i don't know where he's just fur and bones. i don't want him to die because he was with me my whole life since im 11. and im very stressed i don't want to loose my boy. 😭😇🐱😿🙀
I know it's hard, and I am so sorry that this is happening to you and your pets.
I need to talk about how incredibly cruel qnd ableist governments are.
I am a very ill woman who has multiple diseases (5). They are all invisible diseases which means that most people do not see how ill I am and dont believe me. I am so weak that last month I needed to walk 1km between the parking and the bank and I spent the next 4 days in severe pain. I am basically a prisoner in my home with no opportunities to have a normal enjoyable life.
I have been fighting with several government agencies (in my country Spain and in Belgium where I live) for the last three years and all I got was threats (deportation which is illegal), lies and indifference. I asked for economical help (since we have only one salary) but also other kinds, like legal adice or help for my mobility problems. I have been told today that definitely I wont even get any kind of help even if they aknowledge that I am disabled. They rejected goving me a document to prove that I am disabled so I can ask for a wheelchair in public spaces (I do not look sick so they wont give it to me if I simply ask for a chair). And they wont give me a disabled parking card so I can park near the centrum and dont need to walk 1km and can have a easier life. My partner has payed half of his salary in taxes for more than a decade just to be told that when we need help they wont give us anything.
I am done. I do not know why I expected people to care about disabled citizens and least about disabled migrants. I learned my lesson, we are on our own and nobody will ever help me.
I needed to share it with somebody and I dont have people here to talk to besides my partner (and he is at work).
How tired I am of people telling me excuses. I have a couple of “friends” (we used to be super close) that keep making excuses to not meet. It is fine if they are too busy or uninterested but then don’t come fake crying “I am sorry that we couldn’t meet”. If you are unable to skip the gym when I am in town twice a year to visit all of you that is fine. You have your priorities. But don’t come crying about how sorry you are.
I have a friend who will abandon me one day and then reach out the next and I don't know what to do. I don't know if she is just haning out with me the days she does because she pitys me
I need to talk about how I am sad about my friend that I moved away from 2-3 years ago. My sadness started a few months ago. I've been sad because sometimes I wish that he was here in my life at a specified moment. We were such good friends in California in 3rd and 4th grade. But, when a new student came to my school, he went with the new kid and didn't include me. I don't know why I'm sad because he did this to me, but I'm sad anyway. I wish that I had talked to him and told him how I was feeling that he was basically ditching me. I've researched online and found his potential address. He was such a great friend, and we shared a lot of memories. And, that makes it super hard. To people who want to know more, I will tell you his name and his potential address. Also there is a super small chance that he is right here, on BP. If you made it all the way here, I really appreciate you. Thx.
