Hey Pandas, What Is Something That People Are Judged For That You Think Is Ridiculous? (Closed)

This. I've been with my partner for almost 11 years. No marriage no kids (he's sterile and I never wanted kids) but oh my the judgement from other people

Oh, yeah. Neighbours, friends, never stop pointing that out. I am 57, my wife is 61. You would think it stops. Not really. We are now the ones who "led an easy life without responsibilities", so we should go the extra mile for others. Mind you. When friends and family had their kids, they told us all the time it is "the best thing ever". Why can they not just leave us alone?

I mean, yeah. If it's not for you, it's not for you. My aunt has never married, and she doesn't have kids. She says she doesn't want to, and I think that's okay. I know I want to get married and have kids, but that's my choice.

Racism, along with Sexism and Homophobia, are all such utter BS that I don't understand. Let people be who they are, they don't exactly have control over the melanin content of their skin.

It's just so stupid. And I can say that as a white person.

YES!!!!!!!!!!! YESYESYESYESYESYES!!!!!

I hate bras, but after figuring out you could see ... everything.... Long story short, I only wear them when I leave the house.

I wish we couldn’t but feel too exposed when going in public without one.

I've always said as long it's consenting adults who cares

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I mean, it's definitely not normal to be with someone of the same gender, but that doesn't mean you judge them for it. My younger sister has a friend with two moms, and from what my mother tells me, they're really nice women.

I volunteer at a Repair Cafe with a man who is dyslexic so left school as early as he could and became a mechanic. He has read very little due to his disability but knows a lot and has taught me a lot, because you need not be stupid because you have no degree.

A friend of mine, who never attended any college, owns a plumbing company. He jokes that he used to be a doctor but it didn't pay enough.

Someone in my old class thought San Marino was the capital of Russia.

Hm. I am a bit conflicted about this one. Because, we do judge the book by its covers. The way you dress and present yourself is part of how you are being judged.

Especially if you're young

You have to feed, house and clothe your children. And when your wife refuses to work, you can't go back to college.

I daydream of being a school janitor or a stripper who maybe sells art on the side when I grow up. Realistic goals.

THIS!!!

i also have adhd, autism, and anxiety. i call em "triple a" for no reason lol

same here OP. I was also recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder as well. I have to be on medication to prevent my mood from going unstable

It's sad how women can wear pants, but men can't wear skirts. Not that I'm complaining about how pants are unisex now, I just wish skirts were too.

Disability can happen to anyone at any time

Apart from religion these are all things that you have no control over, so it is ridiculous to judge people by that. I try to judge only for what they do.

Ha ha, these are 7 separate answers, tickets, topics 😜

Judge the content of character NOT the color of their skin

We are women. We bleed. Get the f**k over it.

Who are we? Women. What do we want? For men to get over this...

Shout it from the mountaintop! You don't know the womb-bearer's situation. Also, I could go on and on and on and on about the sheer hypocrisy of the "pro-life" crusade.

Exactly! People value fetuses more than actual people. It's the woman's choice, not others

Yeah. Men are expected to fullfill their clichee roles as women do. People are... *sigh*

Time and again I read and hear that the majority, maybe the overwhelming majority, of people who receive public assistance have jobs. What with minimum wage hasn't increased in about 15 years, while the price of EVERYTHING has gone up and up, it's harder and harder to put meals on the table and keep up with expenses.

Toxic parents here. Every decade or so I reach out and make another attempt, only to discover that age has not only failed to give them any new perspective, but has in fact only made them more toxic. I just had to explain to my mom way the words "shut up and get over it" are never spoken in a loving family, but my words failed to sink in.

My parents aren't on good terms with most of my mom's side of the family. I'm allowed to see my great-grandmother, a few great-aunts, two or three of my mom's cousins and their families, but not my grandparents, mom's siblings or their kids. One of my mom's cousins named their youngest child the same name as my older cousin, and when mom's cousin pointed this out to his wife, she said "F**k them, I don't care." I would like a relationship with my family, but I know it's just not going to happen right now.

I am not sure this is not mainly American, because in Denmark we mostly don't know how much others earn. It is not polite to ask or talk about such things at least in the circles I move in.

I have 10. 9 are easily covered. It doesn't make me a bad person or stop me from doing my job well.

Both of my parents have tattoos (albeit, my dad only has one, but whatever). Most of my mom's tattoos aren't visible, and my dad's isn't. I know that I want tattoos someday. I truly don't understand why people think people with tattoos are bad.

I love my grandma (dad's mom, nobody has seen my grandfather in years), and her age truly doesn't mean a difference to me or my siblings or my cousins (I have eleven cousins on my dad's side, and four younger siblings). I mean, my aunts definitely say things like she should take it easy (my dad has four sisters. I have three sisters and a brother).

Watch how many downvotes someone gets by saying they like homeopathy or religion. Edit: Took off "It's not just YT, it's also BP (misread the post)

Be careful when you follow the masses - sometimes the "m" is silent.

I think I know why. If you say that you don't like this youtuber that the other people adores it is like you telling them that they are wrong, which nobody likes to hear.

My oldest son used to be a hobo (vs. being homeless); he'd work when he needed money. Now he went back to school, finished HS, got a diploma in aero-spacial mechanic, and he's now working full-time. He was also a druggie, a dealer, and he's full of mental illness. If he can do it, so can? Nope, it all depends on the person. Don't judge someone who can't do it.

I judged my ex-husband for buying halal grape juice with food stamps. We didn't drink that and we needed something better that would be for the good of everyone in our family of three at the time, like bread, legumes, fruits, veggies.

Frankly, my natural instinct is others over myself. Normally, I don't tell people 'no', unless it could hurt someone. I'm truly just a big people-pleaser.