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Hey Pandas, What Is One Thing That You Want And Don’t Want Really Badly?
The love-hate relationship
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#1
Honestly... a baby.
Final score:
8points
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#2
I want to travel the world, long-term, and experience cultures, see historic sights, and continue to learn. But I know I would miss home terribly - espeically my pets.
Final score:
7points
Chani Hunter 2 years ago
That's a hard one. But the world won't run away while your taking care of your pets
#3
To be alone. I want to be independent, live an amazing, single, lifestyle. Lots of traveling, dogs, and art...Hakuna Matata sort of thing. But I'm also constantly terrified of being alone. Scared I'll get depression and have nobody to help me. I'd be a wreck without my family.
Final score:
7points
#4
Go meet my friends but I am scared I will bore them because I am going through some tough time right now
Final score:
5points
#5
i kinda want to have a cat but when i think about it my mind goes back and forth, cats scratch, BUT THEIR CUTE!!!
Final score:
4points
#6
To collect every single Elton John Album on vinyl. It would be amazing and so badass! But, is it really worth all the money? There are so many albums and singles and it would be so expensive. It's just not worth it.
Final score:
4points
#7
to be married. I'm curious what its like to wake up to the same person everyday, but I'm at the point in my life where I'm happy.
Final score:
4points
Chani Hunter 2 years ago
Thats a tough one. Good Luck! But keep in mind there is ALWAYS a way to improve , including your happiness
Lisa Onitnelot (Submission author) 2 years ago
i respectively disagree. marrying won't make my life any happier. it would just give me someone to share my happiness with.
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To fall in love. I had a friend earlier today who had an entire conversation with me about how she really wouldn’t hate being a teen mom but at the same time she doesn’t want to lose her teen years.
Final score:
4points
Chani Hunter 2 years ago
I feel the same about this one. But I'm sure there is someone out there for you! <3
#9
tbh as an aroace ive always wondered what it would be like to have a crush, date, and love somebody. on the other hand being aroace is what i am happy with and it would be weird having those kind of attachments.
Final score:
4points
Bisexual Axolotls 2 years ago
To be honest, it's a double-edged sword. You constantly have to consider another person in your life decisions, and it kind of sucks sometimes. On the other hand, you get someone to spend the rest of your life with in a relationship that is completely different from any other.
X_EwPeople_X (Submission author) 2 years ago
hello guys. i have had a crush. its weird. sadly not aroace anymore. sorta wish i still was. oh well.
HistoryLover 2 years ago
Yup, fellow aroace here. I wonder if I’m missing out on never getting married, but then I remember the reasons I don’t want to get married, but I’m still a little curious what it would be like.
3 Trash Pandas in a Trenchcoat 2 years ago
Same though. Pretty sure I'm just ace, but I totally get where you're coming from.
#10
I really really want a specific type of dress that suits my body type PERFECTLY, but I'm nervous about it falling down during the school dance. Also, there's the whole bit about possibly getting suspended/detention/kicked out because it's strapless and the principal/vice principals are old-fashion pricks.
Final score:
3points
Chani Hunter 2 years ago
I bet it looks great! Those stupid dress codes are the worst! what do they think people are gonna do "LoOk aT tHoSe sExY ShOuLdeRs" smh
#11
To be an adult. I want the freedom, but not the financial burden.
Final score:
3points
#12
Furries aren't automatically pedophiles or zoophiles. They're mostly made up of Millenials and Gen Z.
Final score:
2points
Nevada McKinney (Submission author) 2 years ago (edited)
I DID NOT MEAN TO POST THIS HERE IM SORRY IT WAS A MISCLICK
#13
Theres 2 A job An education
Final score:
2points
#14
To write. I know I should probably keep working on my story, even just one more sentence, but at the same time fbhLbfbfe'ihbd
Final score:
1point
#15
Cat food. Worried about them eating and not having enough in this weather. I wish we had better pet food banks in my area.
Final score:
1point
#16
One thing I desperately want is a huge wedding with a red and black color scheme, with my beautiful boyfriend, but I know I could never invite my parents because they would never accept us.
Final score:
1point
Caligo (Submission author) 2 years ago
YOU LITERALLY HATE MY PARENTS ANYWAYS THO
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I want to be a navel aviator when I’m older, but I know my parents would not approve. I’m also slightly scared of getting into a real war, and having to be on the frontlines of it. Also I want to cut my hair, but I’m terrified that I will look bad. I have had long hair my whole life, and my parents will hate it if I cut it off.
Final score:
1point
#19
To fall in love again… I’m afraid I’ll suffer another broken heart
Final score:
0points
#20
A full head of hair. I started losing my hair in my mid 20s and started shaving my head in my mid 30s (thankfully I really rock the look). I understand it's possible to restore my mane, but I can't justify the time and treasure.
Final score:
0points
#21
As bad as this sounds my ex-wife. I love the person I know that she is when not around her uber religious family. But I hate what she did to me because of them.
Final score:
0points
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