I think I’m bi, but I don’t know if I really am. I’m scared that coming out. I might not be bi so how did you figure it out?
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Don't stress over it. Only you can answer the question. You'll figure it out eventually.
I'm straight but my a few of my friends in my generation had used the 'Bi-curious' label. I like it because it didn't tie them into anything they were not sure of.
Once they figured out who they were they changed their label to match. 2 Bi, 1 Gay and 2 straight. But they found the answer themselves.
Oh, and you don't have to match a letter to be part of the community. That's the best thing about inclusivity!
I am a man. I am physically attracted to other men but indifferent towards women. So... Yeah, totally gay.
You never really know. It's more of an "I'm feeling like this..." thing than a sudden epiphany. You don't really KNOW until you find yourself in love with someone anyway.
Random note: I have never been in a relationship, and somehow give good love advice. Confusing? Yes. Useful? Definitely.
I'm a chick. I knew I was bi the second I saw Sara Lance doing the salmon ladder on The Arrow.
I was always a bit different from all the girls in my class I was more masculine sometimes or more feminine and I found a label that fit me. Genderfluid!!
I'm queer. I'm stuck. Just like you, I think I'm bi, but I dont know. I'm just giving my own decision time and taking it slow, and just watching my actions towards my female crush. And eventually, hopefully, I'll find out.
When I had a crush on a female classmate. (I'm a girl btw) For me it was kinda like 'welp, i'm not straight. huh.' XD
*sees boy*:cute *sees girl*:also cute *three days later* Why is everyone so pretty?!
When a girl asked me out and I processed it and i was like "oh shoot what if im gay" and now that ive come out as lesbian i have learned about a lot more identities and got even more gay it was great
I’m a lesbian. After I came out my friend was having a gender identity crisis. I told them: “Stop trying to put yourself into labels already defined. You be you and let the rest of society catch up, not trying to fit yourself into boxes that don’t work.”
I'm queer. I'm stuck. Just like you, I think I'm bi, but I dont know. I'm just giving my own decision time and taking it slow, and just watching my actions towards my female crush. And eventually, hopefully, I'll find out.
When I had a crush on a female classmate. (I'm a girl btw) For me it was kinda like 'welp, i'm not straight. huh.' XD
*sees boy*:cute *sees girl*:also cute *three days later* Why is everyone so pretty?!
When a girl asked me out and I processed it and i was like "oh shoot what if im gay" and now that ive come out as lesbian i have learned about a lot more identities and got even more gay it was great
I’m a lesbian. After I came out my friend was having a gender identity crisis. I told them: “Stop trying to put yourself into labels already defined. You be you and let the rest of society catch up, not trying to fit yourself into boxes that don’t work.”