Hi, I'm new to this and I'm pretty sure no one reads this but, I ask this question because I want to know how you found out and how you reacted.
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i found my ex lover kissing a girl i didn't know. And when I confronted him about it, we got into a huge fight and he ended the relationship.
I'm 1000 years old and it only happened twice. Having a sixth sense about those things I "just knew" STRONGLY something was off. The first dingdong decided to tell me. I told him I knew. He asked who told me and I said nobody, I just knew. The second dingdong drank too much imo and would occasionally have some...let's say...arousal issues...which I found odd. I was at one of his family gatherings (we got along well) but again, something was off that day with their behavior. I mentioned it later to a friend of his and he spilled the beans. So that was that. Cheating is ALWAYS a deal breaker for me...period. Over time I just got better at sensing who showed those tendencies before getting very involved with them and I've been good ever since! It's not really a trust issue with that person but rather a trust issue with yourself. I can't always say I knew who things would work out with but I damn skippy knew who they wouldn't work out with. Trust your gut and never look back.
Yes! My first serious boyfriend “cheated” on me constantly when he went on church trips with our youth group. I was 3 years older so I had aged out of the group but a*****e still went out of town with them. I found out later he was holding down girls and trying to sexually assault them. The girls were afraid to tell me because they thought I would be mad at them and not believe it. To the survivors of this ordeal, I am so sorry you all went through this.I broke up with him to date my guy best friend for a while and to eventually live happily ever after with my now husband and my dog.
(The worst part was finding out he was a virgin also after we slept together. He didn’t tell me until the day I broke up with him. I wasted my v card on him.)
