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Girl Accuses BF Of Cheating But Tables Turn When They Check Each Other’s Phones
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A relationship without trust is basically impossible. Just like in every friendship, you want to be able to fully trust the person and to avoid overthinking, tension and unnecessary quarrels.
However, in this digital age, trust issues are becoming more and more common. You can never know if your partner is communicating with some other person on the internet. Deleting messages and hiding all the evidence is easier than ever. There are even options where the messages can be deleted automatically after some specific time. Plus, asking your partner if you can check their phone already raises suspicions that may end in a quarrel. And that’s why loyalty and trust are among the most important values in a relationship.
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Man asks if he is wrong for being mad after finding out his girlfriend gave her phone number to a guy
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His girlfriend became suspicious when he was texting a friend so he showed his phone to her to check
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Since she was so skeptical, he asked to see her phone and at first she was hesitant but after a while caved
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He opened Instagram and found messages with one guy who was asking for her number and she gave it to him
A few days ago, one Reddit user shared his story to one of the communities asking its members if he is indeed wrong for being mad and feeling betrayed after finding out that his girlfriend gave her phone number to a guy she met once. The post gained a lot of attention and in just 3 days it reached almost 8K upvotes and more than 2.1K comments.
To begin with, OP shares that he has been with his girlfriend for 5 years. However, one night she got suspicious about who he was chatting with and accused him of texting a girl. He gave his phone to her to see that it was just his male friend. Well, her being so skeptical of him now raised a little suspicion to the author, so he also asked to see her phone. Of course, she was hesitant at first but later on caved.
She immediately opened her messages and gave her phone to the OP. However, when he asked to see Instagram, it was visible that she started becoming nervous. Well, that’s because there were around 10 messages with a guy who she met at a pool with friends and apparently he was looking for some friends. At the end of the conversation, the girlfriend gave this guy her phone number and OP can’t help but feel mad and betrayed.
Community members backed the author up and told him that his reaction is fair, shared their own similar situations and said that this could lead to the girlfriend’s cheating. “Usually the people who are controlling about wanting to see their partners’ phones are the ones doing [it],” one user wrote. “Both of my exes accused me of cheating and demanded to go through my phone to find the ‘proof’. And what do you know? They were both caught cheating on me,” another added.
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Bored Panda got in touch with Susan Winter, who is a bestselling author and relationship expert. She kindly agreed to share her professional insights regarding challenges that technology poses to trust-building, why partners may want to check each other’s phones and consequences of not addressing feelings in a relationship.
“Technology has enabled a new form of infidelity called ‘micro cheating’’, Susan shares. This kind of flirting isn’t physical at first and takes place in the digital sphere. This kind of casual interaction would involve leaving a direct message to a person on a social media profile or ‘liking’ and commenting on a post. Even while it’s less obvious than actual flirting, micro-cheating can easily progress to lengthy conversations and eventually an in-person meeting.
Now, speaking about the feeling of needing to check your partner’s phone or social media, the relationship expert says that this is a sign of trust issues. There is just the only question whether this lack of trust is justified or unjustified.
So to begin with, justified suspicion and lack of trust may come from a history of bad behavior on the part of one’s partner. “They either have a history of lying, cheating, infidelity, or the relationship has never felt solid from the start.”
On the other hand, unjustified suspicion may live within the person who feels suspicious. There is a fundamental wound that has not been cared for. It will eventually undermine a faithful partner’s affection along with the notions that “Everyone cheats,” “No one can be trusted,” and “I need to protect myself.”
And finally, Susan emphasizes that unresolved issues and grievances unaired create long-standing resentments that eventually destroy the relationship. Trust, honesty, and loving behavior support a relationship’s durability.
When one or both individuals stop being open and honest in their communication and dealing with difficulties in life, they will shut down and pull away. “The relationship dies a slow death as resentment builds and neither feels incentivized to ‘try’ to make it better,” she says.
Redditors discussed that the guy’s girlfriend is already cheating or planning to and that the relationship is over
What do you think ?
Ima Manimal 2 years ago
Sometimes an accusation is a disguised confession. Hopefully he cut his losses.
Spocks's Mom 2 years ago (edited)
Correct. My aunt used to always think I was trying to steal her c**p. Not only did she have nothing I wanted, I simply don't take things that don't belong to me. That b***h took so much of my s**t. Some of it she took just out of spite.
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Molly Whuppie 2 years ago
I mean there is nothing wrong with having friends of a different gender, and OP implies that there was no flirting on his GFs side, however, the huge red flag imo is that she kept it secret from OP. There's no reason to do that if the other guy was just looking for friends and its just a group friend thing.
Ruthven Elara 1 month ago
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ConstantlyJon 2 years ago
yikes! If she's nervous too she's not ignorant. It's not like she thought it was a casual conversation and didn't realize he was flirting. She knew exactly how that would look because she was *at best* emotionally cheating there for sure. Bye girl.
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Ima Manimal 2 years ago
Sometimes an accusation is a disguised confession. Hopefully he cut his losses.
Spocks's Mom 2 years ago (edited)
Correct. My aunt used to always think I was trying to steal her c**p. Not only did she have nothing I wanted, I simply don't take things that don't belong to me. That b***h took so much of my s**t. Some of it she took just out of spite.
Load More Replies... Molly Whuppie 2 years ago
I mean there is nothing wrong with having friends of a different gender, and OP implies that there was no flirting on his GFs side, however, the huge red flag imo is that she kept it secret from OP. There's no reason to do that if the other guy was just looking for friends and its just a group friend thing.
Ruthven Elara 1 month ago
I was cleaning my boyfriend’s room yesterday after I got back from a trip so I decided to tidy the room and I found a female under wear under the bed which was not mine, I didn’t ask him about it till I was sure of breaking into his phone remotely, I was referred to hackerspytech @ gmail com as the best hacker and indeed I got the best services. I was able to go through my boyfriend’s phone remotely, from his Whats App, text messages, Instagram, and snap chat. Going through his snap chat alone showed me how much I have been dating a chronic cheat. Thank you so much hackerspytech
ConstantlyJon 2 years ago
yikes! If she's nervous too she's not ignorant. It's not like she thought it was a casual conversation and didn't realize he was flirting. She knew exactly how that would look because she was *at best* emotionally cheating there for sure. Bye girl.
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HOW TO HACK CHEATING SPOUSE CELL PHONE // WEB BAILIFF CONTRACTOR Relationships can indeed be very fragile and sensitive in nature. The slightest movement of straying or cheating, even if that seems inconsequential to shatter the relation that was developed over months and years of shared moments or mutual trust. From the ease with which it has been in our modern times, ample opportunities and cheating on someone one loves or actually cares about have abounded, waiting for us online and offline, through various forms. Probably because of these, I am never really surprised whenever most people who mean serious business get down to wanting to spy on partners whom they suspect could be cheating on them. If you have ever been in this kind of dire need, then you would know quite vividly how hard it can be. Indeed, it truly is a tough task to pull through. But let me let you in on what I later learned: it actually is much easier than you would otherwise think, especially if one should chanc
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From Darkness to Clarity: How Web Bailiff Contractor Illuminated My Partner's Infidelity. What began as a nagging suspicion soon spiraled into a harrowing journey of uncovering the truth. When the signs of my partner's unfaithfulness first emerged, I found myself consumed by a cloud of doubt and uncertainty. The telltale signs were there – the secretive phone calls, the unexplained absences, the subtle shifts in behavior. Yet I clung to the hope that my mind was merely playing tricks, that the foundations of our relationship remained solid. That was, until I stumbled upon Web Bailiff Contractor, a service that would prove to be the key that unlocked the door to the painful reality I had been evading. With a few clicks, this digital investigative tool granted me access to a trove of digital breadcrumbs my partner had left behind – a trail of deleted messages, hidden browser histories, and incriminating email exchanges. As I delved deeper into this trove of digital evidence, the veil of
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