“AITA For Not Telling My Friend She Was Getting Fired Which Led To Her Getting Super Fired?”

It’s not unusual to leave a job during your probationary period. In fact, many people choose to exit of their own accord. According to a survey from Jobvite, three in ten new hires leave within the first 90 days. Other times, however, they are let go by the company.

One woman was fired because she didn’t fit in with the team. Her friend, who vouched for her during her hiring, tried to salvage her position, but was unable to because “she alienated everyone.” But how was she supposed to know her behavior was putting everyone off if no manager ever told her?

A woman got fired from a job her BF’s friend set her up for

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But when she didn’t mesh well with the team, instead of telling her to improve, the company decided to let her go

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If a company often fires a lot of people, that might be a sign of bad culture

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Fitting in with the team is an important part of being a good employee. Some people just might not be meant to work in a particular place with a particular team, and that’s okay.

But, like some commenters pointed out, this particular workplace might have put too much pressure on new hires to figure out for themselves how to fit in with the team.

“Jobsite feedback is a normal part of the process,” netizen u/RedShirtDecoy wrote in a comment. “If this is real, you all are operating a toxic workplace if [that’s] how things work.”

Many pointed out how the company might not be communicating with employees well, and that is why its turnover rate was so high.

In their post, the author mentioned how the company often lays off new hires. “We regularly hire a bunch of people and keep the good ones and dismiss the ones that can’t cut it or aren’t a good fit. We actually were getting rid of over a dozen people that day.”

“High employee turnover is a symptom of a much larger problem, and leaders must explore the root cause,” JC Glick of Prodromos Leadership told Forbes. “The worst problem you can have, and what the highest turnover can be attributed to, is a bad culture.”

Managers need to communicate effectively with employees about what they’re doing wrong

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Not getting along with your colleagues is not ideal, but it happens quite often. According to a 2016 study by HR Acuity, at least 200 employees in organizations with over 1,000 workers will complain about others’ behavior.

While it’s worth celebrating that people are not willing to put up with toxic behaviors, there is often a conundrum. Having a “bad attitude” or “terrible personality” isn’t very specific, is it?

While it’s not as important when it’s a new hire who’s still on their probationary period, firing an employee because of someone being grumpy or a cynic would warrant a wrongful termination lawsuit.

That’s why the experts at HR Acuity recommend documenting every bad behavior with precision. “If an employee rolls his eyes every time you start a team building activity, be prepared to document it and discuss with the employee the impact to the rest of the team.”

“If the employee repeatedly cuts you off when you start to discuss a new way of doing something, explain why it is counter-productive, not to mention disrespectful.”

But it’s very important to raise these concerns to the employee and let them know what exactly they’re doing wrong. The employee might not be responsive to criticism or choose to quit, but a manager’s job to discuss bad behavior with the worker objectively and hear their side of the story.

“It’s possible that the alleged ‘negative’ employee doesn’t mean to be negative at all,” the experts at HR Acuity point out. “Or that they even understands that it’s perceived that way.” They believe that companies and managers can avoid losing employees by simply engaging in an open dialogue.

The friend clarified they weren’t the manager, just a team lead

Some people thought the woman brought this on herself by acting like a jerk

Others thought the manager and the friend could’ve sat with her and explained what she’s doing wrong instead of sacking her

But the majority sided with the woman: “It’s actually your JOB to warn her”

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