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Woman Asks Someone To Have Sex With Her To Get Over Her Ex, And This Man’s Response Blew Her Away
When a 19 year-old girl from Sydney, Australia recently used a messenger app to announce that she was looking for somebody to sleep with her to help her get over a recent break-up, she probably wasn’t expecting this kind of response.
See the full conversation below, which was recently uploaded by a user named murphyman09.
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Brigitte 8 years ago
Okay, the internet really needs to stop labeling everything as "groundbreaking", "brutally honest", "incredible" and other superlatives.
Julian Ertelt 8 years ago
Thank you for that brutally honest comment. You're incredible!
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Cristoforo Punk 8 years ago
Hahaha I guess not, clearly the girl likes bad guys lol. Meh! I don't think the story is even real...
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Franziska G. 8 years ago
"I don't call it abuse anymore, I call it trauma" - YES. Get to a therapist. You're showing signs of PTSD. You're lucky you met a amateur therapist out there, but believe me, that's just a start, get a real one.
Jace 8 years ago
Agreed. She's headed for a life of BPD. Every borderline personality I've met has been a victim of either physical or emotional abuse or BOTH. Often it started with the family. Such people devalue them selves so much because that's what they've been trained to do, that they invest themselves in awful people because they think they don't deserve more than a fixer-upper. Then they get so traumatized that they can only EXPECT the next trauma. When it isn't forthcoming (maybe because they're in a healthy situation), they can't stand the stress of waiting for it, so they bring it on by themselves, sabotaging a healthy situation. It's a lifetime of struggle and it usually leads to premature marriage, children at too young an age for wise parenting, self-abuse...
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Shana Frazier 8 years ago
While I never reached out for random sex, I've been in her shoes. To have someone talk to me like that would have been nice...still would be.
Jace 8 years ago
This kind of person is out there. They're less common than people like Shaun below, but they do exist. Look out for the thoughtful people and be cautious of the exciting people ;-)
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Neeraj Jha 8 years ago
I read this whole thing instead of my CFA curriculum. And I'm not regretting it. :)
Jade 8 years ago
Haha, this was a sweet thing to do to cheer the person up. It's not mindblowing, but it's somebody being nice. I like it. We should all try to help others.
Jace 8 years ago
Yeah, it really SHOULDN'T be mind-blowing. It should be NORMAL and COMMON!
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Satyaki Mandal 8 years ago
seriously!???? expected some good one liners and a touch of affection. instead got a jar full of philosophy, no ground broken, no mid blown. in real life scenario, a person would stop talking to such philosophy addicts. it does not make any sense. just to divert people into clicking onto the page for views, putting up an awesome headline to the post actually seems to work. that part is mind blowing. judging book by it's cover it is. cheers to the guy or gal who came up with the idea.
Jace 8 years ago
This wasn't too long to read, FFS. It was making me anxious, though. I thought it would end up being some kind of recruitment process for a religious cult (and i consider all religions "cults"). I can tolerate Buddhism, but it's still far too often oversimplified by philosophy majors who don't yet realize that there needs to be more to philosophy than the meandering impossibility of meaning. Then i was anxious that he would still try to hook up with her in some way. We have no idea where this went after that, do we? Ultimately, i hope he's just like myself: an empathetic person who tried to be helpful to another human being in pain. It seems rare and surprising when people behave this way. That says a lot about how s****y and unhealthy human civilization is. So, until further information, i will presume this was just a decent human being and hope that the young woman attained a step forward in her life toward healthy relationships and self-respect.
Brigitte 8 years ago
Okay, the internet really needs to stop labeling everything as "groundbreaking", "brutally honest", "incredible" and other superlatives.
Julian Ertelt 8 years ago
Thank you for that brutally honest comment. You're incredible!
Load More Replies... Cristoforo Punk 8 years ago
Hahaha I guess not, clearly the girl likes bad guys lol. Meh! I don't think the story is even real...
Load More Replies... Franziska G. 8 years ago
"I don't call it abuse anymore, I call it trauma" - YES. Get to a therapist. You're showing signs of PTSD. You're lucky you met a amateur therapist out there, but believe me, that's just a start, get a real one.
Jace 8 years ago
Agreed. She's headed for a life of BPD. Every borderline personality I've met has been a victim of either physical or emotional abuse or BOTH. Often it started with the family. Such people devalue them selves so much because that's what they've been trained to do, that they invest themselves in awful people because they think they don't deserve more than a fixer-upper. Then they get so traumatized that they can only EXPECT the next trauma. When it isn't forthcoming (maybe because they're in a healthy situation), they can't stand the stress of waiting for it, so they bring it on by themselves, sabotaging a healthy situation. It's a lifetime of struggle and it usually leads to premature marriage, children at too young an age for wise parenting, self-abuse...
Load More Replies... Shana Frazier 8 years ago
While I never reached out for random sex, I've been in her shoes. To have someone talk to me like that would have been nice...still would be.
Jace 8 years ago
This kind of person is out there. They're less common than people like Shaun below, but they do exist. Look out for the thoughtful people and be cautious of the exciting people ;-)
Load More Replies... Neeraj Jha 8 years ago
I read this whole thing instead of my CFA curriculum. And I'm not regretting it. :)
Jade 8 years ago
Haha, this was a sweet thing to do to cheer the person up. It's not mindblowing, but it's somebody being nice. I like it. We should all try to help others.
Jace 8 years ago
Yeah, it really SHOULDN'T be mind-blowing. It should be NORMAL and COMMON!
Load More Replies... Satyaki Mandal 8 years ago
seriously!???? expected some good one liners and a touch of affection. instead got a jar full of philosophy, no ground broken, no mid blown. in real life scenario, a person would stop talking to such philosophy addicts. it does not make any sense. just to divert people into clicking onto the page for views, putting up an awesome headline to the post actually seems to work. that part is mind blowing. judging book by it's cover it is. cheers to the guy or gal who came up with the idea.
Jace 8 years ago
This wasn't too long to read, FFS. It was making me anxious, though. I thought it would end up being some kind of recruitment process for a religious cult (and i consider all religions "cults"). I can tolerate Buddhism, but it's still far too often oversimplified by philosophy majors who don't yet realize that there needs to be more to philosophy than the meandering impossibility of meaning. Then i was anxious that he would still try to hook up with her in some way. We have no idea where this went after that, do we? Ultimately, i hope he's just like myself: an empathetic person who tried to be helpful to another human being in pain. It seems rare and surprising when people behave this way. That says a lot about how s****y and unhealthy human civilization is. So, until further information, i will presume this was just a decent human being and hope that the young woman attained a step forward in her life toward healthy relationships and self-respect.
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