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Pregnant Worker’s Lunch Keeps Getting Stolen, Manager Ends Up Hospitalized In Revenge
Pregnant Worker’s Lunch Keeps Getting Stolen, Manager Ends Up Hospitalized In Revenge
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Pregnant Worker’s Lunch Keeps Getting Stolen, Manager Ends Up Hospitalized In Revenge

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Office employees would know the infuriating feeling of seeing their lunch stolen from the fridge. It can be more frustrating if it’s a repeat offense where you don’t know who the perpetrator is. 

Because HR complaints won’t always suffice, some people take matters into their own hands. Sometimes, it may work in their favor, but for this pregnant employee, it backfired. 

She received a warning from her bosses after her lunch “decoy” sent someone to the hospital, all while her food theft problem remained unaddressed. Read the entire story below. 

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    Having lunch stolen from the office fridge can be utterly frustrating for an employee

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    It was a worse experience for this pregnant woman, who dealt with a repeat offender

    Text about a woman setting a "decoy" lunch trap for a food thief at work, resulting in the manager going to the hospital.

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    Woman eating salad with a puzzled expression, related to a decoy lunch scenario.

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    She took matters into her own hands, only for her actions to backfire big time

    Text about a woman creating a decoy lunch with cayenne pepper for a food thief.

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    Text describing a manager's allergic reaction and being hospitalized after eating a decoy lunch.

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    “Everyone has a rule they feel they can violate”

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    We’ve all violated a rule in some way, whether by running a red light or pocketing a piece of candy from the store. It’s just that some people believe they can get away with such behavior without facing consequences. 

    “Everybody’s got something they do that they can justify and feel is okay,” University of Texas at Austin psychology professor Dr. Art Markman told The Cut. “There’s always some rule that you personally feel you can violate.”

    As Dr. Markman explains, it all comes down to a fundamental attribution error. This cognitive bias leads people to make overblown judgments about other people’s actions while underplaying their own errors. 

    “Most people want to generally go around seeing themselves as being honest, good folks,” he states, adding that when it comes to office lunches, most people resort to whatever is convenient. In the author’s case, her food may have been the most appealing to steal. 

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    However, this doesn’t change the fact that it is thievery, which is never ethical. In such cases, the onus is on human resources to enforce rules and educate employees about possible sanctions. 

    “Make it clear that any theft is a violation of your company’s policy and that disciplinary action will be taken when employees are caught,” HR Knowledge Advisor Victoria Neal wrote in an article for SHRM

    Neal emphasizes that these disciplinary actions also apply to “would-be vigilantes” who engage in food pranks as the author did. Instead, she encourages reporting these incidents to a supervisor or through an anonymous channel. 

    Based on her account, the author didn’t seem like she tried to go through the proper steps by escalating the matter to the people in authority first, perhaps out of sheer frustration. However, her actions would easily have had fatal consequences. 

    If reporting to HR wasn’t an option for her, hiding her food would have been a better, more harmless way to prevent theft. 

    Many commenters didn’t see anything wrong with her actions

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    Comment discussing strategies to prevent a lunch thief at work by using a lockable lunch bag.

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    Comment discussing legal risks of planting decoy lunch for food thief.

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    But there were a few who saw the gravity of the consequences

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    Reddit comment discussing a food theft incident and suggesting a lockable lunchbox to avoid legal issues.

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    sturmwesen
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F off YTAs "murder" ??? how were they supposed to know the thief has allergies?

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This!!! Some people have limited abilities with logic.

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    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Manager put herself in a hospital. Not an OP.

    farbenzirkel
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "tampering with food" and "attempted murder" because of spices? Oof. :D

    Robert T
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of idiot steals unlabelled food when they have food allergies?

    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do you expect in a country that lets burglars sue the burgled people because they hurt themselves burgling.

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Make it a medical issue, eating while pregnant." Now that's a brilliant suggestion, it turns the case into the mangler ... I mean "manager" being accused of causing harm.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Attempted murder" roflcopter. Manager brought this on herself. HR should have been giving manager warning for stealing and particularly stealing a pregnant person's food deliberately.

    Surly Scot
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turn it around. Because the manager stole a pregnant woman's food, she's now going to sue her employer for intentionally attempting to harm her developing fetus. The judge will LOVE that case.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    N to the pathetic YTA TROLLS how is it attempted murder 😂dear god Ali e those idiots worry me totally

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Note this was a "family business". Who thinks the thief of manager has connections to the family?

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People can put whatever they want in their own food. You don't steal, you don't have a problem. Thank god I've never had to deal with that bs...

    Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I the only one who thinks that OP needs to find another job? I mean, it's a family owned company. Of course they'll side with each other. And no, NTA

    Schmebulock
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NEVER admit to what you did or tell some story! You say I made my lunch for me and someone stole it. Then report the manager to HR and start the petty revenge.

    Orysha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Work as little as possible and shame tthe manager and company anonymously online for stealing food and not punising the thief. Or ask yourr friendsto do that.

    Len Hill
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst part of this story is that OP is working, but can't afford replacement food! And no one has commented on it, like it's a perfectly normal thing!

    Linda Chandler
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like a possible lawsuit, directed at your employer. They are not protecting employees and their property while on company time. If they won't say anything to the thief because she's a manager, it could be argued as collusion. An employee, especially a pregnant employee, needs nutrition for herself and her unborn child to be a healthy and functional person, future mother and employee. Her workplace is culpable in preventing that from happening.

    Glasofruix
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like it's time to build a spice tolerance.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So amazed at the amount of times I hear this story. Like, why do adults act like children that haven't been taught that stealing is wrong? Also, how does OPs workplace not know that cayenne pepper could be a pregnancy craving? I craved hot stuff while pregnant, more so than I normally would. If there is no HR department, there may be the option to go to a labor board or get an employment attorney involved, but only in cases where guilt wasn't admitted to. Stealing is a crime. Or maybe small claims court? I dunno what would work in this scenario. Anyway, such a stupid move to steal others' food when you have food allergies, and no one should have to lock up their lunches. Workplaces should be disciplining and firing thieves. OP should look for a better job.

    Hope Cook
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would add a small Amount of cayenne in everything. Not so much it's too hot for you but since she allergic,

    Susanna
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never happened to me but I suggest to leave the lunchbox in the office if you have one. I never put mine in the fridge at work (can’t be bothered) and it’s fine to leave it outside for a few hours

    Nizumi
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a family business. There is no HR. There is nowhere to file a complaint. Only thing to do is keep your lunch at your desk and a cooler lunch bag. In over 20 years of doing this, my lunch being out of a the fridge for half a day has never resulted in something going bad, not even yogurt (though I will say warm yogurt is gross). Having my lunch stolen twice was enough for me. Also - eating the exact same thing every single day helps. Everyone knows my lunch. Me and my lunch are an office joke. That's fine. No one steals my lunch.

    George D
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always think of causality. She had an allergic reaction, but how? Because she stole someone else's food. Repeatedly. F*ck that manager. Find another job because this person is a thief and not even embarrassed of the fact.

    H. B. Nielsen
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Maliciously tamper" with your own property. Asinine. Also, the company obviously knew and admitted to it that what happened to OP was wrong or she would've gotten more than a verbal. Manager FAFO.

    Ian Cummings
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She needs to go to management, and request compensation for her stolen lunches. It might also be worth pointing out to them that if the manager is stooping so low as to steal a pregnant woman’s lunches, what, and how much of it, is she stealing from the company directly? Has the amount of paper being used in the firm going up? Or biros? Or staplers? Or anything that is increasing in replacement numbers, she is probably stealing!

    jmdirks
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The yta that claimed it was attempted murder is an idiot. That's like saying the theif that stole a car and crashed it was the victim of attempted murder. Totally unhinged.

    Larry Truelove
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn’t do anything to endanger the health of someone. Give them nausea or diarrhea? Yeah, I might.

    Xeba
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is honestly the best way to do it. It's better than putting something bad or unedible that could make you responsible. At least it's only a spice

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What sort of nutter steals someone else's food?

    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think all of the folks getting their lunches stolen just need a padlock on the zippers of their lunch bags / boxes!

    Sarah K
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shouldn't have to though!!

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well the moral of the story is if it ain’t yours DINT F*****G TOUCH IT , n that means food as well her problem n your NTA but I wouldn’t have said oh yes I put that in it deliberately lol noooooo a yes it was mine she STOLE YET AGAIN , how is it my fault im pregnant n I crave cayenne pepper at min lol no. Y freaking fault you have a thief on your staff now is it ! N while your on maternity leave do some job hunting lol blessed be

    sturmwesen
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F off YTAs "murder" ??? how were they supposed to know the thief has allergies?

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This!!! Some people have limited abilities with logic.

    Load More Replies...
    Miki
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Manager put herself in a hospital. Not an OP.

    farbenzirkel
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "tampering with food" and "attempted murder" because of spices? Oof. :D

    Robert T
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of idiot steals unlabelled food when they have food allergies?

    SirWriteALot
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do you expect in a country that lets burglars sue the burgled people because they hurt themselves burgling.

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Make it a medical issue, eating while pregnant." Now that's a brilliant suggestion, it turns the case into the mangler ... I mean "manager" being accused of causing harm.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Attempted murder" roflcopter. Manager brought this on herself. HR should have been giving manager warning for stealing and particularly stealing a pregnant person's food deliberately.

    Surly Scot
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turn it around. Because the manager stole a pregnant woman's food, she's now going to sue her employer for intentionally attempting to harm her developing fetus. The judge will LOVE that case.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    N to the pathetic YTA TROLLS how is it attempted murder 😂dear god Ali e those idiots worry me totally

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Note this was a "family business". Who thinks the thief of manager has connections to the family?

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People can put whatever they want in their own food. You don't steal, you don't have a problem. Thank god I've never had to deal with that bs...

    Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I the only one who thinks that OP needs to find another job? I mean, it's a family owned company. Of course they'll side with each other. And no, NTA

    Schmebulock
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NEVER admit to what you did or tell some story! You say I made my lunch for me and someone stole it. Then report the manager to HR and start the petty revenge.

    Orysha
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Work as little as possible and shame tthe manager and company anonymously online for stealing food and not punising the thief. Or ask yourr friendsto do that.

    Len Hill
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst part of this story is that OP is working, but can't afford replacement food! And no one has commented on it, like it's a perfectly normal thing!

    Linda Chandler
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like a possible lawsuit, directed at your employer. They are not protecting employees and their property while on company time. If they won't say anything to the thief because she's a manager, it could be argued as collusion. An employee, especially a pregnant employee, needs nutrition for herself and her unborn child to be a healthy and functional person, future mother and employee. Her workplace is culpable in preventing that from happening.

    Glasofruix
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like it's time to build a spice tolerance.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So amazed at the amount of times I hear this story. Like, why do adults act like children that haven't been taught that stealing is wrong? Also, how does OPs workplace not know that cayenne pepper could be a pregnancy craving? I craved hot stuff while pregnant, more so than I normally would. If there is no HR department, there may be the option to go to a labor board or get an employment attorney involved, but only in cases where guilt wasn't admitted to. Stealing is a crime. Or maybe small claims court? I dunno what would work in this scenario. Anyway, such a stupid move to steal others' food when you have food allergies, and no one should have to lock up their lunches. Workplaces should be disciplining and firing thieves. OP should look for a better job.

    Hope Cook
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would add a small Amount of cayenne in everything. Not so much it's too hot for you but since she allergic,

    Susanna
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never happened to me but I suggest to leave the lunchbox in the office if you have one. I never put mine in the fridge at work (can’t be bothered) and it’s fine to leave it outside for a few hours

    Nizumi
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a family business. There is no HR. There is nowhere to file a complaint. Only thing to do is keep your lunch at your desk and a cooler lunch bag. In over 20 years of doing this, my lunch being out of a the fridge for half a day has never resulted in something going bad, not even yogurt (though I will say warm yogurt is gross). Having my lunch stolen twice was enough for me. Also - eating the exact same thing every single day helps. Everyone knows my lunch. Me and my lunch are an office joke. That's fine. No one steals my lunch.

    George D
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always think of causality. She had an allergic reaction, but how? Because she stole someone else's food. Repeatedly. F*ck that manager. Find another job because this person is a thief and not even embarrassed of the fact.

    H. B. Nielsen
    Community Member
    9 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Maliciously tamper" with your own property. Asinine. Also, the company obviously knew and admitted to it that what happened to OP was wrong or she would've gotten more than a verbal. Manager FAFO.

    Ian Cummings
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She needs to go to management, and request compensation for her stolen lunches. It might also be worth pointing out to them that if the manager is stooping so low as to steal a pregnant woman’s lunches, what, and how much of it, is she stealing from the company directly? Has the amount of paper being used in the firm going up? Or biros? Or staplers? Or anything that is increasing in replacement numbers, she is probably stealing!

    jmdirks
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The yta that claimed it was attempted murder is an idiot. That's like saying the theif that stole a car and crashed it was the victim of attempted murder. Totally unhinged.

    Larry Truelove
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn’t do anything to endanger the health of someone. Give them nausea or diarrhea? Yeah, I might.

    Xeba
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is honestly the best way to do it. It's better than putting something bad or unedible that could make you responsible. At least it's only a spice

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What sort of nutter steals someone else's food?

    Shelli Aderman
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think all of the folks getting their lunches stolen just need a padlock on the zippers of their lunch bags / boxes!

    Sarah K
    Community Member
    Premium
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shouldn't have to though!!

    Load More Replies...
    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well the moral of the story is if it ain’t yours DINT F*****G TOUCH IT , n that means food as well her problem n your NTA but I wouldn’t have said oh yes I put that in it deliberately lol noooooo a yes it was mine she STOLE YET AGAIN , how is it my fault im pregnant n I crave cayenne pepper at min lol no. Y freaking fault you have a thief on your staff now is it ! N while your on maternity leave do some job hunting lol blessed be

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