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Homeowner Dumbfounded By Karen Neighbor’s Entitlement As He Gets The Police Involved: “I Burst Out Laughing”
Two kids on swings, one excited, the other pensive, with a red house in the background. Mom's kids trespass.

Homeowner Dumbfounded By Karen Neighbor’s Entitlement As He Gets The Police Involved: “I Burst Out Laughing”

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Dealing with entitled neighbors can be a losing battle. Sometimes, you will need to take the high road for the sake of keeping the peace. 

Other times, you will need to stand your ground, especially if trespassing is involved. This is what a homeowner did when the kids next door began entering his backyard without permission. What made the situation worse was the children’s mother, who seemed to have no clue about how the law works. 

Unfortunately for the woman, her delusional behavior landed her in legal trouble that lasted for six years. 

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    Trespassing neighbors take entitlement behavior to a whole new level

    Image credits: Skyler Ewing / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    For this homeowner, the problem began when the kids next door began playing in his backyard

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    Image credits: Engin Akyurt / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    The children’s mother made things worse, prompting the man to get the police involved

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    Image credits: Skarmex94

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    The author later clarified some parts of the story

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    Permissive parenting does more harm than good for the child in the long run

    It would be unfair and inaccurate to pin all the blame on the kids in this story. A larger share of the responsibility lies with their parents, who seem to be enabling their behavior. 

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    Clinical psychologist Corrine Masur describes this approach as permissive parenting, which she says may lead to problems when the child grows older. 

    “Adolescents from permissive families report a higher frequency of substance use and school misconduct and are less engaged and less positively oriented to school,” Masur explained

    Experts urge parents to teach their children about boundaries and empathy at a young age. One way to help them understand is to show them that rules are reciprocal. 

    As clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Busman tells the Child Mind Institute, an example would be helping the child realize that something may be fun for them but not for the other person. 

    “A kid might want to jump on their friend’s back because that sounds fun, but if they don’t take time to ask if the friend is okay with that, and don’t make sure they’re ready, someone is likely to end up getting hurt,” she said. 

    Instead, the mom appeared to encourage her children’s misbehavior, which led to bigger legal trouble that she could have avoided to begin with. Unfortunately for her, the neighbor she chose to mess with stood his ground and wouldn’t let her entitlement slide.

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    He also responded to some comments to further add context

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    Meanwhile, readers had honest reactions, with some sharing similar experiences

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    Viktorija Strelciunaite

    Viktorija Strelciunaite

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I work as a list maker at Bored Panda, where my main responsibilities include researching and creating blog articles as well as sometimes helping with covers creation. Searching and creating interesting and viral topics helps me to be up to date with various topics and helping with covers enhances my creativity. In my free time, I like taking and editing aesthetic pictures, being active - walking, running and working out at the gym and playing video games. Also from a young age I love everything from various fantasy worlds - movies, games, tv shows. I really believe in positivity, equality and being kind to each other!

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    Janelle Collard
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    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too bad that mom's 2 brain cells decided not to work together...🤣

    Jo Firth
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Australian here... this never happened.

    Cerulean
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    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Six years sounds VERY odd to me. Esp for a mother with kids.

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    Janelle Collard
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    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too bad that mom's 2 brain cells decided not to work together...🤣

    Jo Firth
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Australian here... this never happened.

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    Cerulean
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    5 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Six years sounds VERY odd to me. Esp for a mother with kids.

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