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Woman Would Rather Cancel Her Birthday Than Accommodate Friend’s Dietary Restrictions Again
Young woman looking tired and frustrated while holding a phone, dealing with friendu2019s strict diet enforcement at home.

Woman Would Rather Cancel Her Birthday Than Accommodate Friend’s Dietary Restrictions Again

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There’s an unwritten rule that when it’s someone’s birthday, they get dibs on how and where to celebrate. If you’re lucky enough to be invited, you’re expected to go with the flow (within reason) or politely opt out. But it seems a certain someone missed that memo…

A woman says she’s considering canceling her birthday dinner all because of one entitled friend who keeps shoving her food preferences and dietary restrictions down everyone else’s throat. Said friend has a long list of things she doesn’t eat and a very short list of stuff she does. Basically, her go-to is burgers and fries or steak and potatoes. The birthday girl wants something a little more exciting this year but her friend is having none of it.

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    Woman looking tired and frustrated while holding a phone, reflecting fatigue from friend’s strict diet enforcement.

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    But one entitled friend is insisting, yet again, that they do burgers and chips and expects everyone to agree

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    Woman tired of friend’s strict diet enforcement, especially being forced to follow it on her birthday celebration.

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    Text showing frustration over strict diet enforcement on birthday, expressing a wish to cancel and celebrate alone instead.

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    Three gourmet burgers with fries and sauces on a rustic table, highlighting strict diet challenges among friends.

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    The woman decided to have a heart-to-heart with her friend and shared the outcome

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    She later explained why her friend can’t eat certain foods

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    Many people felt the woman’s pain but didn’t think she should cancel her plans

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    Netizens came forward to share their own similar stories

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    A few called out both the woman and the friend for their immature behavior

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    “Grow up”: some felt the birthday girl should do some introspection

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    6 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the hell needs months to plan a birthday dinner at a restaurant with a visit to a bookstore after, which even takes place every year???

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone who also would rather cancel their birthday than just say they're picking the restaurant lolol.

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    (Drop)Bear Snuggles
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the 'friend' can't have certain spices. That still leaves the door wide open for a whole range of foods that don't have to be burgers/steak! Plain grilled chicken or fish comes to mind, plus veggies, steamed rice, even a good grilled cheese sandwich. But the thought of forcing people to conform to your own batshit boring palate is just insane!

    Asri
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm allergic to onions. EVERYTHING has onions on it or has cross-contamination on the grill or on utensils. Yes, restaurants will lie. Especially at mid-range restaurants, because TBF those folks are running their butts off. It may be not so much the exact foods she wants, but the restaurant. Even so, her friend should still shut up and either meet them later or go and not eat. I mean I've never been to a restaurant where I couldn't eat dessert.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, I have worked in restaurants, there is no way the typical kitchen can't manage scrambled eggs or a sandwich.

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    6 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the hell needs months to plan a birthday dinner at a restaurant with a visit to a bookstore after, which even takes place every year???

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    3 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone who also would rather cancel their birthday than just say they're picking the restaurant lolol.

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    (Drop)Bear Snuggles
    Community Member
    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the 'friend' can't have certain spices. That still leaves the door wide open for a whole range of foods that don't have to be burgers/steak! Plain grilled chicken or fish comes to mind, plus veggies, steamed rice, even a good grilled cheese sandwich. But the thought of forcing people to conform to your own batshit boring palate is just insane!

    Asri
    Community Member
    4 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm allergic to onions. EVERYTHING has onions on it or has cross-contamination on the grill or on utensils. Yes, restaurants will lie. Especially at mid-range restaurants, because TBF those folks are running their butts off. It may be not so much the exact foods she wants, but the restaurant. Even so, her friend should still shut up and either meet them later or go and not eat. I mean I've never been to a restaurant where I couldn't eat dessert.

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    7 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, I have worked in restaurants, there is no way the typical kitchen can't manage scrambled eggs or a sandwich.

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