Tips For Trans Girls With Unsupportive Parents
DustTea (she/her) Community member
Here are a couple tricks to be more feminine with what you already have
(I should clarify I am a cis girl, just trying to help!)
Bland. No shape. Pretty masculine.
Yay! shape!
big hoodies are your friend
(this is from the men’s section too!) Pull it out like this to hide whatever chest you have
Ta daa
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slouch a bit. Maybe you have boobs, maybe you don’t…
sweaters!
this is bland. boring. no shape. ew
add a little bit of *spice*
put on a collared shirt underneath
tuck in the front
Yank!
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now pull it down with a couple firm but gentle yanks. it looks more natural this way.
WOO!!
So pretty! so interesting! so much shaaapee
How to sit??
balls suck, but we can’t be manspreading all over the place, girl.
*chef’s kiss*
comfy, check! not too obnoxious? check!
egg
same thing really
yas
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like manspreading but better somehow. this one is good
Crossed
cross your legs as small as is comfortable. the smaller, the more “lady like”
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those poses are too submissive for my liking
it’s up to you, my dude. Just trying to find more feminine ones. We love a dom queen tho
you? they corrected someone on their gender and you told them to shut up
that wasn't what i told them to shut up for. and if you look down below they deadnamed me and this is not the first time that has happened and i happen to very much not appreciate people doing that.
nope since i'm not able to edit it with my new name. plus my name is in my bio on here anyway so that's all you need.
it's not that hard, and i've asked you not to call me that before.
we were never friends? it's not that hard to not deadname someone.
okay i must know where that shirt in the first pic is from i need it
shein, my dude (don’t blame me i’m broke T-T)
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bro deborah do not wear that that is horrendous what year are we in
this is awesome and i can definitely use these to confuse people about my gender when i actually look more masculine
How to be more masc you mean? I could try, but idk how good it would be, as i’m not a guy.
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yous aid so in your bio though? they cant be blamed for thinking that
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ohhh i understand sorry enlighs iss my sixth language. i am desperate so u should be nice to me. that is basically dream because theyre in the cult thing. email me back pls.
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no please im sorry im so sorry really i am i didnt mean too pls forgive me. i want to be nice to u i will give u the world.my email is porcessing most likely.
pineapple is one of my best friends and he deserves to be defended
Alr shut up. If you feel attacked, leave. I cannot believe you said they’re invading your personal bubble when you’ve asked me where I live and how old I am. Wtf dude- I mean PERSON
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bro where u live is nothing? just saying the continent for timezone is NOTHING? i dont care? im not gonna find you and kill you? thats impossible? age to be safe and to have something in common? wow and ur getting my pronouns wrong as a joke now too after u guys cried about it. i dont mind but if i said that to you guys youd spiral
Pineapple is my friend. as for what you did? You asked where I lived, then I told you I wasn’t comfortable saying that, but you still asked again. You were rude to my friends, Called me “buffoon” and told me “take your [freaking] vitamins “ (as if I hadn’t thought of that) and called me transphobic
tryna catch up on this, whatre you mad about? /gen the boredpanda reply thing is rly scuffed and none of the messages ive seen look like their deserving of this
Goldy keeps asking to be my friend, where I live, and how old I am. I’ve repeatedly said no, and they won’t stop. My friends stepped in to help me and now goldy is throwing a fit
have you ever delt with something like this before? because dragging more people in usually just makes it alot worse
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whats the problem with knowing where you live for your timezone when im not gonna scale the whole of america looking for you (i dont even know what you look like) and i already told u my age and i want to see if we're close in age to have things in common too? im throwing a fit because u guys arent listening to me.
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so i can get timezone and ur accent im not saying give ur adress just like continent. ur not special enough for me to scale all of america to find you? buffoon was a joke im actually a animal lover. take ur vitamins was a joke. transphobic was a joke.
How’s are supposed to be funny. Yk what? I just don’t think I would be a good friend :( I’m a huge homophobe and transphobe, and a dream stan and… a pedo. yeah. So I just think it would be best if I wasn’t your friend :/
what is the point of you being here goldyy? why are you even doing this? what did we ever do to you?
well maybe if you didn't go around f*****g deadnaming people
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i didnt know you changed your name? the f**k? blaming me? i did check for ur pronouns page but it wasent there? last time i did u were fine being called that
i wasn't fine being called that. i didn't have as strong a reaction the first time since it was, you know, the first time. but you're an asshoIe who keeps on doing it now, i clearly have my name close to the top of my bio, you don't need my pronouns page for that.
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you were ok with debbie and debs and those are legit just abbreviations of that name. i did need ur pronouns page bc that was the only thing i saw and can pay attention too i dont read ur bio for no reason
the key word there is were, i very obviously don't have my pronouns page in my bio so it's no longer applicable. there was also no reason to use that name. i have never been okay with the full version of my deadname and that's not gonna change whether or not i have my pronouns page in my bio.
this seems kind of hypocritical ngl, no hate to you man, just tryna be the voice of reason
that doesnt excuse it though? your still makign fun of someones ptsd, pretty low blow
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the f**k? im just defending myself? your making fun of me for being myself and my trauma? being mean to mean people solves problems does it? DOES IT?
Sorry if this is useless or silly. Just wanted to try to help out lol
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those poses are too submissive for my liking
it’s up to you, my dude. Just trying to find more feminine ones. We love a dom queen tho
you? they corrected someone on their gender and you told them to shut up
that wasn't what i told them to shut up for. and if you look down below they deadnamed me and this is not the first time that has happened and i happen to very much not appreciate people doing that.
nope since i'm not able to edit it with my new name. plus my name is in my bio on here anyway so that's all you need.
it's not that hard, and i've asked you not to call me that before.
we were never friends? it's not that hard to not deadname someone.
okay i must know where that shirt in the first pic is from i need it
shein, my dude (don’t blame me i’m broke T-T)
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bro deborah do not wear that that is horrendous what year are we in
this is awesome and i can definitely use these to confuse people about my gender when i actually look more masculine
How to be more masc you mean? I could try, but idk how good it would be, as i’m not a guy.
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yous aid so in your bio though? they cant be blamed for thinking that
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ohhh i understand sorry enlighs iss my sixth language. i am desperate so u should be nice to me. that is basically dream because theyre in the cult thing. email me back pls.
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no please im sorry im so sorry really i am i didnt mean too pls forgive me. i want to be nice to u i will give u the world.my email is porcessing most likely.
pineapple is one of my best friends and he deserves to be defended
Alr shut up. If you feel attacked, leave. I cannot believe you said they’re invading your personal bubble when you’ve asked me where I live and how old I am. Wtf dude- I mean PERSON
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bro where u live is nothing? just saying the continent for timezone is NOTHING? i dont care? im not gonna find you and kill you? thats impossible? age to be safe and to have something in common? wow and ur getting my pronouns wrong as a joke now too after u guys cried about it. i dont mind but if i said that to you guys youd spiral
Pineapple is my friend. as for what you did? You asked where I lived, then I told you I wasn’t comfortable saying that, but you still asked again. You were rude to my friends, Called me “buffoon” and told me “take your [freaking] vitamins “ (as if I hadn’t thought of that) and called me transphobic
tryna catch up on this, whatre you mad about? /gen the boredpanda reply thing is rly scuffed and none of the messages ive seen look like their deserving of this
Goldy keeps asking to be my friend, where I live, and how old I am. I’ve repeatedly said no, and they won’t stop. My friends stepped in to help me and now goldy is throwing a fit
have you ever delt with something like this before? because dragging more people in usually just makes it alot worse
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whats the problem with knowing where you live for your timezone when im not gonna scale the whole of america looking for you (i dont even know what you look like) and i already told u my age and i want to see if we're close in age to have things in common too? im throwing a fit because u guys arent listening to me.
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so i can get timezone and ur accent im not saying give ur adress just like continent. ur not special enough for me to scale all of america to find you? buffoon was a joke im actually a animal lover. take ur vitamins was a joke. transphobic was a joke.
How’s are supposed to be funny. Yk what? I just don’t think I would be a good friend :( I’m a huge homophobe and transphobe, and a dream stan and… a pedo. yeah. So I just think it would be best if I wasn’t your friend :/
what is the point of you being here goldyy? why are you even doing this? what did we ever do to you?
well maybe if you didn't go around f*****g deadnaming people
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i didnt know you changed your name? the f**k? blaming me? i did check for ur pronouns page but it wasent there? last time i did u were fine being called that
i wasn't fine being called that. i didn't have as strong a reaction the first time since it was, you know, the first time. but you're an asshoIe who keeps on doing it now, i clearly have my name close to the top of my bio, you don't need my pronouns page for that.
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you were ok with debbie and debs and those are legit just abbreviations of that name. i did need ur pronouns page bc that was the only thing i saw and can pay attention too i dont read ur bio for no reason
the key word there is were, i very obviously don't have my pronouns page in my bio so it's no longer applicable. there was also no reason to use that name. i have never been okay with the full version of my deadname and that's not gonna change whether or not i have my pronouns page in my bio.
this seems kind of hypocritical ngl, no hate to you man, just tryna be the voice of reason
that doesnt excuse it though? your still makign fun of someones ptsd, pretty low blow
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the f**k? im just defending myself? your making fun of me for being myself and my trauma? being mean to mean people solves problems does it? DOES IT?
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