Mom Accidentally Finds Baby Care Instructions From 1968, Shows How Much Life Has Changed
When it comes to taking care of newborn babies, each generation has its own guidelines on how best to do it. Every generation also has its own worries and concerns. These change over time. And they seem weird when you look back on them.
One woman, Micala Gabrielle Henson, posted a photo of a list of instructions for mothers from 1968 on Facebook. Her post went viral because people couldn’t believe some of the things written in the vintage guidelines for taking care of newborns. Micala herself stated that she was impressed by how much things have changed in just over 50 years!
Among the things that really caught our attention is the fact that people could smoke in hospitals, but they were told not to do so next to babies. Nowadays, well, do we even need to tell you that smoking anywhere in hospitals is a bad idea?
A vintage note from 1968 meant for mothers who just gave birth to newborns has some peculiar rules
Micala told Bored Panda that when she first saw the note, she was in shock. “I felt so bad for the previous generations of babies. I couldn’t help but think, ‘No wonder breastfeeding didn’t work out, they were barely given a chance to make it work.’ And some of the things were just silly, like the green coconut cake and no sitting on the sheets and how limited father was able to be in the room to see the baby.”
“Everything has changed pretty much. It seems like back then there wasn’t much of a chance to be successful in breastfeeding. They had set times for when the baby could be with mother for feeding which was very limited. What if they had trouble latching or baby wasn’t hungry then or awake then,” Micala said. “Also, they limited the amount of time baby could nurse, 5 minutes, then 7 minutes, then 10 minutes. That’s crazy. My babe was pretty much always feeding.”
Micala believes that nowadays hospitals and staff try to help strengthen the bond between mothers and babies. “Which is great, that’s just what baby wants. I think they will continue to do research to grow the bond and strengthen it as a whole family, mother, baby, father, siblings.”
Micala Gabrielle Henson posted the photo of the instructions on Facebook and it went viral
Also, the rule regarding visitors has changed quite radically. Though I still remember that my dad wasn’t allowed to see my sister for several days when she was born (and that was just a bit over two decades ago).
What’s more, newborns were separated from their mothers in the past: moms were allowed minimal interaction with them. Nowadays, if the child is healthy, moms can spend as much time with them as they want. In the 21st century, the name of the game is “rooming in”: keeping the baby in the same room as the parents as much as possible.
Nowadays, the rule about feeding the baby only during strict windows of time has been relaxed in favor of giving the newborn milk anytime it’s hungry.
The team at Bored Panda was also very surprised to see the list of banned foods for moms to eat, including apples and onions. Not to mention the peculiar “green cocoanut cake” that seems to have an extra ‘a’ in its ‘coconut.’ Unless we’re talking about actual cocoa ‘nuts’ aka cocoa beans.
However, one thing to keep in mind if you’re breastfeeding is that some foods may alter your milk: so avoid spicy foods, as well as consuming too much coffee. If in doubt, consult your doctor!
Old advice might be bad advice
Bored Panda also spoke with Vilnius-based doctor V.J. to hear her opinion about how much instructions for mothers have changed over the years. In her opinion, parents shouldn’t rely on old-timey tips and tricks because plenty of them can be harmful to the child’s development.
“According to the newest recommendations, the child should be breastfed exclusively with its mother’s milk, even without any water. The child should feed as much as it wants, but not less often than every 3 hours. This should continue until it is 6 months old. That’s when you should start introducing new products into the child’s diet one by one, starting with vegetables,” the doctor explained to us.
“When it comes to contact between a child and its mother, skin-to-skin contact, keeping the child close, and breastfeeding strengthens the emotional connection between them. What’s more, it helps with the production of breastmilk,” she added.
We’d love to hear how the rules for mothers who just gave birth have changed in hospitals if any of you dear Pandas are parents. So drop us a comment about that below. Or share your opinion about the note from 1968 if you don’t have kids yet but plan on having them (and your grandma told us to ask you when that’ll happen because she really wants grandkids)!
Here’s how people reacted when they read the note
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Mothers who just gave birth to newborns? What other age children do women give birth to?
Going by some of the comments, I'd guess some people were given birth to as adults or teenagers. 🙄
Load More Replies...It was rare for mothers to breast-feed back then so babies were bottle-fed in the middle of the night by nurses so as not to disturb the mothers if you go back further in time back in to the 1800s late 1800s and early 1900s they still had to put pennies on their bellybuttons
I actually have a book about all the care for the baby and being a good wife written in the early 1900s
Load More Replies...I understand this is different thinking than now, but I don't see it as being all that awful. It seems like they were looking out for the mom's well being as well as the baby's. I had twins 20 years ago. I had also had a C-section, and my sciatic nerve went out because I was so huge. I loved my babies, but I needed rest. So, I asked for them to stay in the nursery. I knew I had plenty of time to bond with them once I went home. I actually had a nurse call DCFS on me, and they sent a social worker over to talk to me. Mind you, I was 40! And my twins were born via invitro fertilization. I think I knew what I was in for. By the way, both lovely kids, 20, smart, going to school, and we have a wonderful relationship.
They called DCFS? ...Was it that you didn't see your babies at all during the hospital. I can't understand why someone would do that.
Load More Replies...I feel like things have gone too far in the other direction. Some hospitals won’t allow mothers to get a break by putting their baby in the nursery, and force mothers to breastfeed by not giving formula unless “medically necessary.”
Hospitals with the Baby Friendly Designation do have a nursery for those who want to use it (it is a common misconception that they don't). You have to specifically request it, otherwise they will assume you want your baby with you 24 hours as that's what exclusively breastfeeding moms want, and why they chose a Baby Friendly birth hospital. They don't force you to breastfeed. You can bring formula if you want. You have to bring your own pacifier. They just have to be really careful to make sure that a baby is receiving these things because mom truly wants, since the opposite is more common if you go to a traditional hospital (breastfed baby getting formula without asking mom, baby repeatedly taken away for tests or other reasons, despite the fact that all tests can be done in the room and mom has clearly requested she wants 24he rooming-in). I had my son in 2016. I've given birth in both types of hospitals and Baby Friendly is amazing because your wants are respected
Load More Replies...When oldest was born (he'll be 6 in April) I got very sick with partial HELLP syndrome. I struggled to maintain consciousness and required a blood transfusion. Needless to say, I was physically and emotionally exhausted. Even so, when my nurse tried to take my son to the nursery in the middle of the night so I could rest, I sobbed and said that would make me a bad mother. God bless that wonderful woman. She patted my shoulder and said 'oh, sweetheart you're not a bad mother at all. You're just very, very tired.' She was right. I had never been more tired in my entire life.
I'll bet it was probably because the baby's poop would be extra gross and the nurses didn't want to deal with it.
Load More Replies...This is similar to stories my mom told me about having me in 1973. She said every couple of hours, a nurse would push a cart with those clear bassinet things on it down the hall with all the babies in it. She would hand them out to their mothers for feeding. After they were fed, the cart came back and the babies were collected and taken back to the nursery. Regarding what you can't eat while breastfeeding, if I ate chocolate, one of my babies would be so distressed. The other two were fine, but I realized quickly that one couldn't tolerate the milk if I ate chocolate. Another one would have the grossest diapers if I ate curry. You learn pretty quickly what to avoid when you're breasfeeding!
My daughter couldn't tolerate it if I ate tomatoes while nursing, she got the worst rash very quickly... I gave up spaghetti sauce for a whole year!
Load More Replies...Oh for pity's sake... My mom was an RN in that time period, and also that's when she had her kids. Breast-feeding was not the norm then, and smoking in public was, and clean linens daily was a luxury, and so forth and so on. Believe me, when I was visiting a friend and my newest godson a few years ago, I was shocked they had to remind people to wash their hands after changing a diaper! (who needs a reminder?!) And the cloth-vs-disposable diaper debate ... Yikes! And yet, we survive!
It's a little strange to me how if a baby has trouble latching, they would jump straight to giving them formula, even if the mom has enough breastmilk. My mom had that issue with me when I was born and they found a pump for her (not easy at that time), so I was still fed breastmilk instead of formula. Of course, when my mom was finally home, the first chance she got to be on her own she simply skipped one feeding and the latching problem was solved.
I don't think they knew how to help women. Most people didn't breastfeed and didn't grow up watching moms and aunts breastfeed. Today they know that nearly every breastfeeding problem has a solution, and that it's rare to be unable to (it's the biological human norm). I am so thankful that things are different. Makes me sad to see moms who wanted to breastfeed when they had their babies years ago, but the help just wasn't there
Load More Replies...Mothers who just gave birth to newborns? What other age children do women give birth to?
Going by some of the comments, I'd guess some people were given birth to as adults or teenagers. 🙄
Load More Replies...It was rare for mothers to breast-feed back then so babies were bottle-fed in the middle of the night by nurses so as not to disturb the mothers if you go back further in time back in to the 1800s late 1800s and early 1900s they still had to put pennies on their bellybuttons
I actually have a book about all the care for the baby and being a good wife written in the early 1900s
Load More Replies...I understand this is different thinking than now, but I don't see it as being all that awful. It seems like they were looking out for the mom's well being as well as the baby's. I had twins 20 years ago. I had also had a C-section, and my sciatic nerve went out because I was so huge. I loved my babies, but I needed rest. So, I asked for them to stay in the nursery. I knew I had plenty of time to bond with them once I went home. I actually had a nurse call DCFS on me, and they sent a social worker over to talk to me. Mind you, I was 40! And my twins were born via invitro fertilization. I think I knew what I was in for. By the way, both lovely kids, 20, smart, going to school, and we have a wonderful relationship.
They called DCFS? ...Was it that you didn't see your babies at all during the hospital. I can't understand why someone would do that.
Load More Replies...I feel like things have gone too far in the other direction. Some hospitals won’t allow mothers to get a break by putting their baby in the nursery, and force mothers to breastfeed by not giving formula unless “medically necessary.”
Hospitals with the Baby Friendly Designation do have a nursery for those who want to use it (it is a common misconception that they don't). You have to specifically request it, otherwise they will assume you want your baby with you 24 hours as that's what exclusively breastfeeding moms want, and why they chose a Baby Friendly birth hospital. They don't force you to breastfeed. You can bring formula if you want. You have to bring your own pacifier. They just have to be really careful to make sure that a baby is receiving these things because mom truly wants, since the opposite is more common if you go to a traditional hospital (breastfed baby getting formula without asking mom, baby repeatedly taken away for tests or other reasons, despite the fact that all tests can be done in the room and mom has clearly requested she wants 24he rooming-in). I had my son in 2016. I've given birth in both types of hospitals and Baby Friendly is amazing because your wants are respected
Load More Replies...When oldest was born (he'll be 6 in April) I got very sick with partial HELLP syndrome. I struggled to maintain consciousness and required a blood transfusion. Needless to say, I was physically and emotionally exhausted. Even so, when my nurse tried to take my son to the nursery in the middle of the night so I could rest, I sobbed and said that would make me a bad mother. God bless that wonderful woman. She patted my shoulder and said 'oh, sweetheart you're not a bad mother at all. You're just very, very tired.' She was right. I had never been more tired in my entire life.
I'll bet it was probably because the baby's poop would be extra gross and the nurses didn't want to deal with it.
Load More Replies...This is similar to stories my mom told me about having me in 1973. She said every couple of hours, a nurse would push a cart with those clear bassinet things on it down the hall with all the babies in it. She would hand them out to their mothers for feeding. After they were fed, the cart came back and the babies were collected and taken back to the nursery. Regarding what you can't eat while breastfeeding, if I ate chocolate, one of my babies would be so distressed. The other two were fine, but I realized quickly that one couldn't tolerate the milk if I ate chocolate. Another one would have the grossest diapers if I ate curry. You learn pretty quickly what to avoid when you're breasfeeding!
My daughter couldn't tolerate it if I ate tomatoes while nursing, she got the worst rash very quickly... I gave up spaghetti sauce for a whole year!
Load More Replies...Oh for pity's sake... My mom was an RN in that time period, and also that's when she had her kids. Breast-feeding was not the norm then, and smoking in public was, and clean linens daily was a luxury, and so forth and so on. Believe me, when I was visiting a friend and my newest godson a few years ago, I was shocked they had to remind people to wash their hands after changing a diaper! (who needs a reminder?!) And the cloth-vs-disposable diaper debate ... Yikes! And yet, we survive!
It's a little strange to me how if a baby has trouble latching, they would jump straight to giving them formula, even if the mom has enough breastmilk. My mom had that issue with me when I was born and they found a pump for her (not easy at that time), so I was still fed breastmilk instead of formula. Of course, when my mom was finally home, the first chance she got to be on her own she simply skipped one feeding and the latching problem was solved.
I don't think they knew how to help women. Most people didn't breastfeed and didn't grow up watching moms and aunts breastfeed. Today they know that nearly every breastfeeding problem has a solution, and that it's rare to be unable to (it's the biological human norm). I am so thankful that things are different. Makes me sad to see moms who wanted to breastfeed when they had their babies years ago, but the help just wasn't there
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