Woman Abandons Family After Husband Gets Paralyzed, And The Way Their Little Girl Started Taking Care Of Him Is Incredible

And taking the older son with her... I hope when her time comes, the son will turn his back on her just as she did on her husband and little girl.

Being one that's taken care of someone who was extremely ill, I can tell you it's both physically and emotionally draining. Some people can handle it..some can't. I've raised an autistic child who became violent in his teens and took care of my mother-in-law as she was dying from an debilitating illness the doctors couldn't diagnose. Now my father is ill with late stage dementia. Just being in the same house with him for 2 weeks drained me...and I'm not his caretaker. She may have signed up for better or for worse, but you never know how your going to handle extremely worse. She may have left and taken the son because her son was the one having a hard time handling it and she was taking him away from the pain of seeing his father totally dependent on someone else. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't judge until you've walked a mile in their shoes.

That you don't know. What would you do if you had to work your a*s off to keep your family afloat on your own, while having to look after a disabled person? You may be strong enough to keep it going for a while. But if you simply can't do it, how would you feel if someone told you that you're an a*****e for not being strong enough? I would feel sad and depressed I guess...

That pretty much summed up what I wanted to say!

Please read my comments above. You have no idea why this mother left. She may have tried to get him to move in with family but he refused to go. As one that was left to take care of a dying mother-in-law and raise an autistic son that became violent in his teens, taking care of someone else is both emotionally and physically draining. She may have taken the son because HE was having a hard time seeing his father this way. She may have tried to take the daughter too, but she refused to leave. You have no idea why she left, so maybe hold off judging her until you know the whole truth.

In China,everyone fends for themselves, which is the case with the mother leaving. It is true neither you or I know the whole story , but speaking from many previous incident ,it is not unusual for the wife to leave, No money no honey bro.

Doesn't excuse up. and *leaving* him, though, just lying to him and disappearing. That is the shittiest response any spouse could've had, aside from straight up murder.

When my mother left my father and took me with her, my brother flat-out refused to come. S**t happens, and it's not always the parents' fault.

She may have tried to get the little girl to come to but she refused to leave her father. It also may have been a situation where the son asked his mother to get him out of there and she took him to her parents. As for DeadStillPretty's comment..you have no idea what he was like before the accident. He may have been one abusive a*****e of a husband. Her lying to him and leaving him may have been her way to get away from him. We don't know the whole story, so we shouldn't judge.