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Rape And Consent Explained In 7 Simple Comics By Alli Kirkham
Rape And Consent Explained In 7 Simple Comics By Alli Kirkham
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One of the most controversial points in the modern discussion of rape is consent – by failing to communicate, rapes can sometimes occur without the rapist even understanding what they’ve done or why the victim feels the way they do. Comic artist Alli Kirkham helped clear the question up with a series of 7 comics that illustrate sexual consent issues with everyday situations that are easier for everyone to understand.

For most, the word “rape” conjures up images of shadowy hooded figures sexually assaulting people at night. Violent criminals don’t concern themselves with consent, which covers the uncertain ‘grey area’ that many people are confused about. According to RAINN, an anti-sexual-violence organization in the U.S., 47% of rapists are the victim’s friend or acquaintance and 4/5 of assaults are by someone known to the victim. Men and women need to educate themselves about consent to avoid crossing each others’ boundaries without even knowing it.

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    Dovas

    Dovas

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    There is a beast with heart of cold stone that dashes like lightning, shreds flesh from bone. // Bewitched by this beast, I fell to my knees. My mouth babbled madness and mumbled soft pleas. // I stared down the ravenous, gnashing dark maw of a cute cuddly kitten with yarn in its paw

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    Dovas

    Dovas

    Author, Community member

    There is a beast with heart of cold stone that dashes like lightning, shreds flesh from bone. // Bewitched by this beast, I fell to my knees. My mouth babbled madness and mumbled soft pleas. // I stared down the ravenous, gnashing dark maw of a cute cuddly kitten with yarn in its paw

    What do you think ?
    DianePeters
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting it all in another context to point out the absurdities. Genius.

    John Fay
    Community Member
    6 years ago

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    Every so often, when yet another incident (Gillette ad) of implying all men are guilty of the actions of a few (for the purpose of diminishing men, in the name of power), I'm reminded of this condescending 'control your inner rapist' screed. So glad it's still up.

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    misguidedFer
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so accurate. I can't stand the idea some women go through sexual situations like this.

    clint baker
    Community Member
    4 years ago

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    There is never a time when rape is ok. And no woman wants to be raped. However, when an attractive woman decides to go in public in a pair of daisy dukes, showing buttcheeks, a bikini top that barely contains her breasts, she is inviting attention from someone. When she gets attention from a male that she isnt attracted to, its rape. When she gets the same attention from someone who she deems a suitable sexual partner, all is good with the world. I apologize for human nature. But there is a difference between dressing up for a night on the town, and dressing to attract a man. Are there honestly women who believe they should be able to go in public with most of their bodies exposed, and not have SOMEONE, have a sexual thought about them? They just dont like it when its not the one they WANT to show interest.

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    RobertForslund
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just find it so damn sad that you actually have to point stuff like this out for people to get the point... =/ I SO wish they never reproduce and that they compete for a Darwin Award! =/

    AnjaDickel
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brilliant! And now we have to teach our children to make a difference in the future.

    Malik Coleman
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing but a bunch of strawmen arguments and anybody who actually thinks society thinks like this needs to take off their paranoia lends.

    DaveN
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have yet to meet anyone who does not understand the concept of rape. I have met very few people willing to openly discuss the topic, which I think is far more important than explaining a concept anyone above 8 years old understands. Also, rape is not only against women, it is a gender neutral term.

    KatePro
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Certainly in the UK, legally only a man can rape a woman or another man so only men are legally capable of committing rape by definition. When women are the perpetators, than falls under a different crime - sexual assault, of which there are different definitions.

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    AjejeBrazorf
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're missing a strip. Say 2 people have a pleasing experience together, then one has after-thoughts a few days later and sues the other over it.

    DarioCarraresi
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There WAS consent during the act. Then the accuser decided to lie about it. By the way: only 1-2% of rape cases in the USA are false. That's less that pretty much any other crime, including auto theft.

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    GaryFrances
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bit juvenile for a complicated issue, but having said that, there are some that might STILL not understand.

    Amanda Fozzy
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s for sure just look at the comments and even more so the replies

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    clint baker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of these could very easily turned around and shot down. There is a huge difference in deciding youve changed your mind in the middle of a card game, and waiting til youre in the middle of having sex, and suddenly saying, stop, i decided i dont want to have sex. Thats like being in the middle of a roller coaster ride, and stopping it as it is going down its big dive, and saying, ive changed my mind, let me off. I dont want to finish this ride.

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    DianePeters
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting it all in another context to point out the absurdities. Genius.

    John Fay
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Every so often, when yet another incident (Gillette ad) of implying all men are guilty of the actions of a few (for the purpose of diminishing men, in the name of power), I'm reminded of this condescending 'control your inner rapist' screed. So glad it's still up.

    Load More Replies...
    misguidedFer
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so accurate. I can't stand the idea some women go through sexual situations like this.

    clint baker
    Community Member
    4 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    There is never a time when rape is ok. And no woman wants to be raped. However, when an attractive woman decides to go in public in a pair of daisy dukes, showing buttcheeks, a bikini top that barely contains her breasts, she is inviting attention from someone. When she gets attention from a male that she isnt attracted to, its rape. When she gets the same attention from someone who she deems a suitable sexual partner, all is good with the world. I apologize for human nature. But there is a difference between dressing up for a night on the town, and dressing to attract a man. Are there honestly women who believe they should be able to go in public with most of their bodies exposed, and not have SOMEONE, have a sexual thought about them? They just dont like it when its not the one they WANT to show interest.

    Load More Replies...
    RobertForslund
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just find it so damn sad that you actually have to point stuff like this out for people to get the point... =/ I SO wish they never reproduce and that they compete for a Darwin Award! =/

    AnjaDickel
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brilliant! And now we have to teach our children to make a difference in the future.

    Malik Coleman
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing but a bunch of strawmen arguments and anybody who actually thinks society thinks like this needs to take off their paranoia lends.

    DaveN
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have yet to meet anyone who does not understand the concept of rape. I have met very few people willing to openly discuss the topic, which I think is far more important than explaining a concept anyone above 8 years old understands. Also, rape is not only against women, it is a gender neutral term.

    KatePro
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Certainly in the UK, legally only a man can rape a woman or another man so only men are legally capable of committing rape by definition. When women are the perpetators, than falls under a different crime - sexual assault, of which there are different definitions.

    Load More Replies...
    AjejeBrazorf
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're missing a strip. Say 2 people have a pleasing experience together, then one has after-thoughts a few days later and sues the other over it.

    DarioCarraresi
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There WAS consent during the act. Then the accuser decided to lie about it. By the way: only 1-2% of rape cases in the USA are false. That's less that pretty much any other crime, including auto theft.

    Load More Replies...
    GaryFrances
    Community Member
    10 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bit juvenile for a complicated issue, but having said that, there are some that might STILL not understand.

    Amanda Fozzy
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s for sure just look at the comments and even more so the replies

    Load More Replies...
    clint baker
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of these could very easily turned around and shot down. There is a huge difference in deciding youve changed your mind in the middle of a card game, and waiting til youre in the middle of having sex, and suddenly saying, stop, i decided i dont want to have sex. Thats like being in the middle of a roller coaster ride, and stopping it as it is going down its big dive, and saying, ive changed my mind, let me off. I dont want to finish this ride.

    Load More Comments
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