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Women Open Up About Their Abortion Stories With The Hashtag #YouKnowMe As Response To Alabama Abortion Law
Multiple celebrities are using their platforms to protest the push for harsher abortion regulations in a handful of southern states. 'The Good Place' actress Jameela Jamil shared her abortion story in response to Georgia's newest law and now T.V personality Busy Philipps of 'Busy Tonight' has done the same - introducing the hashtag #YouKnowMe.
Philipps has been openly pro-choice and decided to first share the story of her abortion on her show after Georgia signed their "fetal heartbeat" bill into law. "The statistic is that one in four women will have an abortion before age 45. That statistic sometimes surprises people," she said to her audience, "and maybe you’re sitting there thinking, ‘I don’t know a woman who would have an abortion,’ well, you know me I had an abortion when I was 15 years old and I’m telling you this because I’m genuinely really scared for women and girls all over the country.”
The phrase 'you know me' struck a chord with her producer Tina Fey, who encouraged her to start the hashtag. Philipps told The New York Times,"She said, 'I think you hit on something, which is you know me,'" but admitted to the outlet she felt too "overwhelmed" to do it right after opening up about her story. After the Alabama Senate passed another restrictive abortion bill, effectively completely banning it, which has since been signed into law, she tweeted out against it and used #YouKnowMe. She encouraged women to use the hashtag to share their own abortion stories to "end the shame" that surrounds the procedure. Like the similar hashtag #ShoutYourAbortion, it quickly went viral.
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Naima Ivansdóttir 7 years ago
that's not even either/or here... if she died the foetus would have, too...
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Monika Soffronow 7 years ago
May that strenght continue to be with you. Women MUST have the right to decide over their own bodies. Period.
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Monika Soffronow 7 years ago
Horrible experience. Kepp being strong and standing up for your rights.
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Foxxy 7 years ago (edited)
That really pisses me off. I want my uterus removed so I can’t fall pregnant, have no periods and not get early menopause. But I am deemed too young as I might want more kids. I have 2 children and I am 100000% sure I don’t want anymore. If my contraception fails I will be opting for an abortion. I hope it doesn’t happen but if it does that is the choice I will make.
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Christina Sersif 7 years ago
And this is what it will turn back into if we make them illegal and unobtainable. Abortions have taken place since the ancient Egyptians. Women are going to do them no matter what the laws are.
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Lucinda Overhoussen 7 years ago
A child binds a woman to an abusive partner. Women are raped by abusive partners... Let's make a law that perpetuates this cycle and pat ourselves on the back for saving lives... Because that's the only thing that matters right!?
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Monika Soffronow 7 years ago
My oh my. Only 18 and dealing with cancer and pregnancy. Heavy. I am so glad that you are here, sharing your experience.
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Olive 7 years ago
I was adopted at birth and I would like to assume that my biological mother, whom I have NEVER met, wasn’t FORCED into carrying me. I am grateful for her willingness to give me up after birth in order to give me a better life with my parents, who could not conceive. However, if I found out she had been FORCED to carry me to term, I would feel inherently guilty about my existence. Adoption is NOT a viable option if you DO NOT WANT TO BE PREGNANT. My body, my choice. My biological mother’s body, HER choice.
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Lisa Reuss 7 years ago
A tubal or ectopic pregnancy is life-threatening, not viable, and requires termination. That is not an abortion, that's a life-saving procedure. These yahoos passing laws do not understand that. The idiot senator in Ohio thinks an ectopic pregnancy can be removed and replanted into the uterus. FFS. That kind of medical procedure would change the world. It's not possible.
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Birma Gustafsson 7 years ago
That's great! No woman should ever feel ashamed or bad for taking the choice that was right for THEM.
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Alissa Merstrand 7 years ago
To the person saying she shouldve given it up for adoption. If she cant pay for herself, how inthe F**K is this girl gonna pay hospital expenses at birth? Idiots the whole bunch
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James Swinburne 7 years ago
19 is so young - having a child with an abusive partner links you to them for life. I hope you were able to leave him behind.
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Monika Soffronow 7 years ago
Children growing up in poverty are more or less set up for a life in misery. You mede the the right decision.
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Andrea Arnold 7 years ago
I’m so sorry, that must have been so incredibly difficult. That brought tears to my eyes. Sending love.
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Jessica Bertram 7 years ago
same. at 17. first time having sex. miscarried, but would have aborted. hang in there. #youknowme too.
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Lucinda Overhoussen 7 years ago
Imagine having to carry that child to term. What can be worse than rape? Having to carry product of that attack.
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Sarah Brinsfield 7 years ago
Your comment is the clearest, truest, and most honest one that I have seen so far. Good for you and Pay Attention People!!! This woman is going places!
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Jennifer Roberts 7 years ago
You are not alone...we are everywhere ready to show you how special you are! <3 stay strong sister!
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Valerie Butler 7 years ago
#youknowme i was 18 got pregnant by an abusive man. Suspected the pregnancy. Punched myself in the lower gut till i bled profusely. Realised i caused my own miscarriage. Not even sorry.
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Grace Barclay 7 years ago
And that's it in a nutshell! You have the right to grow yourself and know yourself before you choose to have a child. Bravo!
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Chelsea De Martini 7 years ago
The fact that these women are strong enough to share their stories. Is a great thing and they shouldn't have to deal with some a*****e on the Internet. So, please be respectful.
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Lauren Marble-Holly 7 years ago
Correct me if I'm wrong but the phrase 'compromising his SOBRIETY' suggests to me that he wanted to be sober & kick the habit & that dealing with both that & a newborn would have been too much for them both, plus she was on the pill which suggests they weren't intending to get pregnant at that time. I would also suggest that the fact she married him would lean towards being proof that he beat the alcoholism in order to have a healthy, stable relationship with her.
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queen...<3 7 years ago
@hashwadoobies, that's not the point. That doesn't work all the time, and that's their decision
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Monika Soffronow 7 years ago
The university doctor refused to give you the morning after pill? What business does that person have being a university doctor?
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Mica Fiverline 7 years ago
Honestly, America... I don't get it. If I can't care for that child or it comes from a rape or condom-ghosting or a contraceptive malfunction, it's forced upon a woman to carry that unwanted child to term? And what about a birth defect? Something really serious that may not be immediately fatal but cause that child terrible pain for a few weeks before it dies anyway? Are you saying its better to have that child born to a life (however short) of suffering than to prevent that suffering altogether? Seriously, what is it with America and trying to relegate women's reproductive organs?? I live in a 1st world country that allows abortion and we don't have clinics at every corner! But we do have physicians that provide us the best care and support during a difficult decision in our lives. Ever since that Orange clown sits in the big white building, America is slowly but surely degenerating... Save yourselves, Women, before the facists come for you! (German, I know a fascist when I see one!)
Daniel (ShadowDrakken) 7 years ago
It's not America doing this b******t, it's American politicians. These bills were passed in spite of overwhelming opposition by the people.
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Lindsey Hopkins 7 years ago
What's absolutely amazing to me is a man can just pick up and walk away from a pregnant woman without looking back, but that woman needs to carry that child to term... her body needs to go through the changes of pregnancy, and then her body needs to go through the trauma of birth or a c-section. Men never seem to be held accountable here. Where are the laws charging them with child abandonment or neglect? Why don't we start there? We are living in a country right now that doesn't give a s**t about mental health. If a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, every day she carries that child, every pound she gains, every kick she feels... every second is a CONSTANT reminder of that rape. How is that woman ever supposed to recover? I am DISGUSTED where this country is headed. If a person doesn't agree with abortion, no one is forcing them to have one, but DO NOT TAKE THE RIGHT AWAY FROM A WOMAN WHO WANTS OR NEEDS ONE. End. Of. Story.
thepotatogirl 7 years ago
I'll be honest, I used to be a Pro-Lifer. But that was when I was still in high school and I hadn't known much about abortion and rape and things like that until I was able to join sites like this. It's really opened my eyes to the issues our world is dealing with, and now that I've read up on a lot of this, I am DEFINITELY a Pro-Choicer. Thank you all for opening my eyes. :)
Mica Fiverline 7 years ago
Honestly, America... I don't get it. If I can't care for that child or it comes from a rape or condom-ghosting or a contraceptive malfunction, it's forced upon a woman to carry that unwanted child to term? And what about a birth defect? Something really serious that may not be immediately fatal but cause that child terrible pain for a few weeks before it dies anyway? Are you saying its better to have that child born to a life (however short) of suffering than to prevent that suffering altogether? Seriously, what is it with America and trying to relegate women's reproductive organs?? I live in a 1st world country that allows abortion and we don't have clinics at every corner! But we do have physicians that provide us the best care and support during a difficult decision in our lives. Ever since that Orange clown sits in the big white building, America is slowly but surely degenerating... Save yourselves, Women, before the facists come for you! (German, I know a fascist when I see one!)
Daniel (ShadowDrakken) 7 years ago
It's not America doing this b******t, it's American politicians. These bills were passed in spite of overwhelming opposition by the people.
Load More Replies... Lindsey Hopkins 7 years ago
What's absolutely amazing to me is a man can just pick up and walk away from a pregnant woman without looking back, but that woman needs to carry that child to term... her body needs to go through the changes of pregnancy, and then her body needs to go through the trauma of birth or a c-section. Men never seem to be held accountable here. Where are the laws charging them with child abandonment or neglect? Why don't we start there? We are living in a country right now that doesn't give a s**t about mental health. If a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, every day she carries that child, every pound she gains, every kick she feels... every second is a CONSTANT reminder of that rape. How is that woman ever supposed to recover? I am DISGUSTED where this country is headed. If a person doesn't agree with abortion, no one is forcing them to have one, but DO NOT TAKE THE RIGHT AWAY FROM A WOMAN WHO WANTS OR NEEDS ONE. End. Of. Story.
thepotatogirl 7 years ago
I'll be honest, I used to be a Pro-Lifer. But that was when I was still in high school and I hadn't known much about abortion and rape and things like that until I was able to join sites like this. It's really opened my eyes to the issues our world is dealing with, and now that I've read up on a lot of this, I am DEFINITELY a Pro-Choicer. Thank you all for opening my eyes. :)
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