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Guy Says He’s Sick Of Women Complimenting Each Other, Prompts Them To Fill His Thread With Compliments
Guy Says He’s Sick Of Women Complimenting Each Other, Prompts Them To Fill His Thread With Compliments
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Guy Says He’s Sick Of Women Complimenting Each Other, Prompts Them To Fill His Thread With Compliments

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Social media is known for its ability to make some people feel insecure and ruin their confidence. And not only because many of us don’t feel good enough when we scroll through the airbrushed galleries of the people we follow. It’s also because there are many people who tear each other down with unnecessary rude and hurtful comments.

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    Luckily, there are still people who lift up each other’s spirits by being able to simply be nice.

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    It’s hard to deny how heartwarming it is to see strangers complimenting each other instead of trashing one another on social media. But it turns out, not everyone is a fan of that.

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    Last year, a man named Lewis voiced his unpopular opinion on women giving compliments to each other on Instagram. Apparently, it makes Lewis sick to see women bring each other up because to him, complimenting strangers is somehow synonymous to being immature.

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    Well, Lewis had no idea what was coming to him as he posted the tweet. As it comes with no surprise, women don’t agree with him at all.

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     In fact, they don’t agree with him so much, that instead of ‘growing up’, they turned his tweet into compliments galore.

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    One after another, women praised each other for their radiant skin, excellent makeup skills, amazing profile pictures, and talents.

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    We can only guess how infuriated Lewis must have felt as it must have been awful for him to see all these strangers complimenting each other.

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    Once again, kindhearted people showed everyone the best way to take down a rude commenter!

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    Danielle Renee
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this dude has never had a second date

    elfin
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Possibly not a first one. I doubt that he meets many women in his mom's basement.

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    Susanne Carvin
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I compliment women online and in person all the time - I think most people don't know how awesome they are. I would (and sometimes do) compliment men but then I risk them thinking I'm hitting on them. I wish more people understood - I don't want anything from them, sometimes a compliment is just a compliment.

    miaow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly!! A compliment is just a compliment.

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    Creative Username
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We compliment each other because we mean it. Maybe he should try that for once

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think his comment was out of jealousy. Women compliment each other all the time, men don't. Maybe he's feeling a little left out....

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    hobbitly
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it would have been better if they complimented him so he could feel that getting a compliment from a stranger is actually a nice thing.

    blugeagua
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh and another thing. When you see women who DO tear other women down, it’s only because society is very misogynistic and teaches both women and men to hate other women. We are brainwashed into thinking like that, but fortunately most women know better than that.

    Janine B.
    Community Member
    6 years ago

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    Sorry but I have to disagree. No one teached me to be rude. And we all are grown up and have a brain so we are able to choose and free what to say. My behavior is surely not the product of what men told me.

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    Kelsey Lofto
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry everyone. My BF says it means we're the best. ☺️

    Elizabeth
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is just a better place when people are happy and complimenting each other. I try to spread the love, if I see someone wearing an awesome top I say something. I even compliment men, especially if they have a great car.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, some unhappy people just love to make others unhappy. Misery loves company. Wowzy wowzy wo-wo.

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    blugeagua
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda, you could do without the misogynistic stereotypes in your opening paragraph. Yes SOME women tear other women down, but guess what? Men do the same thing to each other. It’s not a gender based thing. Mean spirited people are EVERYWHERE. But fortunately there are MORE women who will gladly stick up for other women when we can.

    Layla
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at this anonymous guy "Full Name" correcting women about their relationships with women. Mansplaining at its finest

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    Joe Sauer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to re-read the title. Why would someone have an issue with women giving each other compliments. That has to be one of the dumbest things I've seen

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's having a sad. No one is complimenting him. He doesn't realize that he could start a trend among men.

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    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, strangers being kind to each other! ... What is the problem, again?...

    elfin
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His comment is oddly gender-specific. How does he feel about guys complimenting each other? And if he approves of that, why?

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rarely see guys complimenting each other. I think some are afraid the other guy will think they're hitting on them. Maybe they should start.

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    Luna Lovegood
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for them. It makes my day when I get a positive comment on the internet.

    Care
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so great. Just like the compliments you hear in the women's bathroom at a bar. People supporting one another should not be discouraged!!

    Si
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Only men who can't get women. The ones who can are busy with their women.

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    Cat person
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a female and I actually sort of agree with him (a bit). It gets annoying when girls comment on each other's posts with dumb things like "ANGEL *heart face*" or "why are you so HOT" or "date me sis". I mean they are more like attention compliments and they are often fake. When girls don't get the number of comments they want, their confidence goes down. Instagram can hide the likes but all the fake comments will still be visible

    Susie
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incels need a world in which women tear each other down in order to bring them low enough to seek the incel's approval for validation. The confidence grown from building each other up makes their approval unnecessary, which (to the incel) invalidates their whole existence.

    Gracie Mae
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being kind takes just about zero effort. I love seeing people compliment each other, regardless of gender. Women especially, though, and sometimes an uplifting comment from a stranger can be a very powerful thing. Don't listen to dolts like this guy; apparently he's a bit butt-hurt from not getting this same type of attention...

    Ashley Duke
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If i see a beautiful womans pic im gonna like and comment. These days so many people are jealous, mean and coldhearted. I would rather uplift another person than to drag them down. Lewis should shut the f**k up and have a seat. All the people we know now were strangers at one point so his logic is bs. 🤦🤷

    yuti patel
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this thread. If Whenever I feel sad or depressed, I could just come to this page and read all of those comments/compliments and start smiling again 😊😄☺😀😁🙂

    Sandi Gail
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather see gals loving each other than the catty jealous c**p I had to endure my whole life.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easy & weak to break down & destroy. It's harder & braver to build up & create. What kind of person are you?

    Schrödinger's Dog
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor Lewis, he must be really pissed. :)

    Danielle Renee
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this dude has never had a second date

    elfin
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Possibly not a first one. I doubt that he meets many women in his mom's basement.

    Load More Replies...
    Susanne Carvin
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I compliment women online and in person all the time - I think most people don't know how awesome they are. I would (and sometimes do) compliment men but then I risk them thinking I'm hitting on them. I wish more people understood - I don't want anything from them, sometimes a compliment is just a compliment.

    miaow
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly!! A compliment is just a compliment.

    Load More Replies...
    Creative Username
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We compliment each other because we mean it. Maybe he should try that for once

    Carol Emory
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think his comment was out of jealousy. Women compliment each other all the time, men don't. Maybe he's feeling a little left out....

    Load More Replies...
    hobbitly
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it would have been better if they complimented him so he could feel that getting a compliment from a stranger is actually a nice thing.

    blugeagua
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh and another thing. When you see women who DO tear other women down, it’s only because society is very misogynistic and teaches both women and men to hate other women. We are brainwashed into thinking like that, but fortunately most women know better than that.

    Janine B.
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Sorry but I have to disagree. No one teached me to be rude. And we all are grown up and have a brain so we are able to choose and free what to say. My behavior is surely not the product of what men told me.

    Load More Replies...
    Kelsey Lofto
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't worry everyone. My BF says it means we're the best. ☺️

    Elizabeth
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is just a better place when people are happy and complimenting each other. I try to spread the love, if I see someone wearing an awesome top I say something. I even compliment men, especially if they have a great car.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, some unhappy people just love to make others unhappy. Misery loves company. Wowzy wowzy wo-wo.

    Load More Replies...
    blugeagua
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda, you could do without the misogynistic stereotypes in your opening paragraph. Yes SOME women tear other women down, but guess what? Men do the same thing to each other. It’s not a gender based thing. Mean spirited people are EVERYWHERE. But fortunately there are MORE women who will gladly stick up for other women when we can.

    Layla
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at this anonymous guy "Full Name" correcting women about their relationships with women. Mansplaining at its finest

    Load More Replies...
    Joe Sauer
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to re-read the title. Why would someone have an issue with women giving each other compliments. That has to be one of the dumbest things I've seen

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's having a sad. No one is complimenting him. He doesn't realize that he could start a trend among men.

    Load More Replies...
    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, strangers being kind to each other! ... What is the problem, again?...

    elfin
    Community Member
    Premium
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His comment is oddly gender-specific. How does he feel about guys complimenting each other? And if he approves of that, why?

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rarely see guys complimenting each other. I think some are afraid the other guy will think they're hitting on them. Maybe they should start.

    Load More Replies...
    Luna Lovegood
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for them. It makes my day when I get a positive comment on the internet.

    Care
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so great. Just like the compliments you hear in the women's bathroom at a bar. People supporting one another should not be discouraged!!

    Si
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Only men who can't get women. The ones who can are busy with their women.

    Load More Replies...
    Cat person
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a female and I actually sort of agree with him (a bit). It gets annoying when girls comment on each other's posts with dumb things like "ANGEL *heart face*" or "why are you so HOT" or "date me sis". I mean they are more like attention compliments and they are often fake. When girls don't get the number of comments they want, their confidence goes down. Instagram can hide the likes but all the fake comments will still be visible

    Susie
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incels need a world in which women tear each other down in order to bring them low enough to seek the incel's approval for validation. The confidence grown from building each other up makes their approval unnecessary, which (to the incel) invalidates their whole existence.

    Gracie Mae
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being kind takes just about zero effort. I love seeing people compliment each other, regardless of gender. Women especially, though, and sometimes an uplifting comment from a stranger can be a very powerful thing. Don't listen to dolts like this guy; apparently he's a bit butt-hurt from not getting this same type of attention...

    Ashley Duke
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If i see a beautiful womans pic im gonna like and comment. These days so many people are jealous, mean and coldhearted. I would rather uplift another person than to drag them down. Lewis should shut the f**k up and have a seat. All the people we know now were strangers at one point so his logic is bs. 🤦🤷

    yuti patel
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this thread. If Whenever I feel sad or depressed, I could just come to this page and read all of those comments/compliments and start smiling again 😊😄☺😀😁🙂

    Sandi Gail
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather see gals loving each other than the catty jealous c**p I had to endure my whole life.

    Suzi Gauthier
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easy & weak to break down & destroy. It's harder & braver to build up & create. What kind of person are you?

    Schrödinger's Dog
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor Lewis, he must be really pissed. :)

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