Woman Hangs 10,000 Rainbow Christmas Lights To Protest Against An Anti-LGBT Neighbor
This election has divided Americans like few in history and it was followed by a wave of hate crime attacks against minorities across the US. However, we still feel that hate can be fought with love. Or at least with passive aggression.
When the new neighbor of Lexi Magnusson expressed anti-LGBT opinions, Lexi decided to do something about it. “Our new neighbors are bigots. Since regular aggression leads to assault charges, I went with passive aggression. 10,000 lights later.” – she captioned her photo.
The new neighbor thought that Lexi still held the same belief about LGBT issues as the Church does, and even moved to Washington in order “to protect her children.”
“Thinking that we were allies, she went on to tell us how horrified she was when her son got turned down for prom because the girl was already planning on going with her girlfriend. And THEN the junior high had an assembly about transgender people where they spotlighted one of the students who is a transgender boy. I thought she had meant that the school outed him, which, in my book is horrifyingly wrong. Nope, he had organized the assembly and spoke of the realities of being transgender,” – Lexi wrote on reddit.
“That, coupled with the school’s justifications for letting lesbians attend the prom together and doing an assembly that taught kids the facts about being transgender were just too much for her.” That’s why she wanted to get her children “away from that sort of influence and people making their “lifestyle” okay”.
Luckily, Lexi managed to stay calm and reacted in the best possible way. With Christmas lights.
“Here’s the thing: I was a fully believing Mormon once. I know where she is coming from. If I had yelled at her it would only feed into her persecution complex and false belief that LGBT people and their allies, along with people who have left the Mormon church, are angry bullies who are not tolerant of other people’s views. I hate that whole line of reasoning – but I knew that if she was willing to move her kids to get away from the gays (She moved to Washington. It’s basically North Oregon.) there would be little I could say to her to change her mind. She would have been right though, I am not tolerant of that “point of view,” – she told Mashable.
“I wanted to say more to her. I wanted to write her a letter telling her how sad I was that she would feel this way about other humans, especially children. But it wouldn’t have mattered. Then the election happened and the weight of all of those voters who feel exactly the same as she does really set in. It wasn’t just a passive aggressive middle finger at my neighbor, I wanted it something more to show my solidarity and belief than just the Human Rights Campaign stickers on our cars,” she said. “I’ve worked in the background to support LGBT causes and have been very vocal on Facebook – but in real life it’s still really hard for me. It’s probably the wimpy way to go, but it’s not nothing.”
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Share on FacebookIt's amazing but I think that every single person should have the right to their own opinion eg. if this woman is lgbt supporter the neighbour should have rights to be anti lgbt if he or she doesn't post threat to society with his or hers opinion and there should be no one trying to "convert" him or her. It's democracy as far as I know.
Democracy ends where hate speech begins. A person has every right to believe that homosexuality is wrong. However, no one is forcing them to be homosexual. On the other hand, being born homosexual is NOT an opinion-it is a matter of fact. So when bigoted people vote into law measures that take away the rights and freedoms of minorities like the gays-that is the opposite of democracy. These narrow-minded views don't stay private-they are out in the open by ways of aggression, bullying, assault, and much worse. I fully support the right of others to maintain their to have a different opinion than mine,
Load More Replies...A protest against ONE person just doesn't have enough weight to be called a "protest"... or "relevant". It looks more like a provocation to me and the poster herself admits to "passive aggression".
i think its less of a protest and more of a statement. her neighbor let her opinion be known and she is doing the same with the lights.
Load More Replies...To all of you saying it's just as bigoted to passively show your support for LGBT rights as it is to hold and act on a belief that LGBT people are subhuman/don't deserve acceptance for something they can't change, consider this: not all opinions are created equal. Technically, racism is "just an opinion" but we as a society have decided that it's a bad one so no one would get their panties in a knot if someone decided to passively protest a racist neighbor. And before you say that because it's an opinion based in religion so that's somehow different, keep in mind that people used the bible to justify outlawing interracial marriage as well, saying that god didn't intend the races to mix. There's no such thing as "just opinions" because opinions of intolerance inevitably lead to action, whether subconscious or conscious.
The neibors probably think the lights look good and aren't effected by them. The opinion article i don't agree with at all. The country has been divided way before the election. The election should bring people together because the president elect speaks to everyone something the past president didn't do. And the crimes being committed are by rioters in the streets. Stop making people out to be victims. People read this and believe it. It doesn't make someone a bigot because they don't go along with the left agenda or because someone don't think a weenie belongs in a butt.
Lexi's is not a wimpy way to go. Every stand matters, no matter how big or small the gesture. I think the true essence of democracy lies in the policy of live and let live. Mankind has long divided itself on the basis of caste, creed, religion and colour. And now on the basis of sexual orientation? Acceptance and not expression is the key to a successful democracy.
We were divided during the obama years. This election didnt do s**t
I used to be Mormon, but left for personal reasons. Some of those reasons were related to being bisexual; some of those reasons were related to being treated unfairly because I have Cerebral Palsy and use a wheelchair. I believe everyone has the right to their own opinions, but people can be entitled to their own opinion, whilst still being respectful (the anti-LGBTQIA neighbor.) Having said that, I will defend (and debate) with those who feel differently, about my stance on this issue. My goal in debating with those who have contrasting viewpoints regarding LGBTQIA issues and rights (as well as other debatable topics), is not to persuade others to share my beliefs, but to understand and accept my thoughts and feelings on the matter. Everyone deserves to be made to feel validated, and at the utmost, respected. As I said, it's perfectly acceptable to have differing beliefs and opinions concerning these types of ideas, but it's important to be respectful. We're all human beings.
This is a very subtle protest, yet very clever as well! The LGBT+ community isn't bad, it's just different preference!
The comments here are full of so much hate, honestly, any time the topic of LGBT rights comes up.
It's amazing but I think that every single person should have the right to their own opinion eg. if this woman is lgbt supporter the neighbour should have rights to be anti lgbt if he or she doesn't post threat to society with his or hers opinion and there should be no one trying to "convert" him or her. It's democracy as far as I know.
Democracy ends where hate speech begins. A person has every right to believe that homosexuality is wrong. However, no one is forcing them to be homosexual. On the other hand, being born homosexual is NOT an opinion-it is a matter of fact. So when bigoted people vote into law measures that take away the rights and freedoms of minorities like the gays-that is the opposite of democracy. These narrow-minded views don't stay private-they are out in the open by ways of aggression, bullying, assault, and much worse. I fully support the right of others to maintain their to have a different opinion than mine,
Load More Replies...A protest against ONE person just doesn't have enough weight to be called a "protest"... or "relevant". It looks more like a provocation to me and the poster herself admits to "passive aggression".
i think its less of a protest and more of a statement. her neighbor let her opinion be known and she is doing the same with the lights.
Load More Replies...To all of you saying it's just as bigoted to passively show your support for LGBT rights as it is to hold and act on a belief that LGBT people are subhuman/don't deserve acceptance for something they can't change, consider this: not all opinions are created equal. Technically, racism is "just an opinion" but we as a society have decided that it's a bad one so no one would get their panties in a knot if someone decided to passively protest a racist neighbor. And before you say that because it's an opinion based in religion so that's somehow different, keep in mind that people used the bible to justify outlawing interracial marriage as well, saying that god didn't intend the races to mix. There's no such thing as "just opinions" because opinions of intolerance inevitably lead to action, whether subconscious or conscious.
The neibors probably think the lights look good and aren't effected by them. The opinion article i don't agree with at all. The country has been divided way before the election. The election should bring people together because the president elect speaks to everyone something the past president didn't do. And the crimes being committed are by rioters in the streets. Stop making people out to be victims. People read this and believe it. It doesn't make someone a bigot because they don't go along with the left agenda or because someone don't think a weenie belongs in a butt.
Lexi's is not a wimpy way to go. Every stand matters, no matter how big or small the gesture. I think the true essence of democracy lies in the policy of live and let live. Mankind has long divided itself on the basis of caste, creed, religion and colour. And now on the basis of sexual orientation? Acceptance and not expression is the key to a successful democracy.
We were divided during the obama years. This election didnt do s**t
I used to be Mormon, but left for personal reasons. Some of those reasons were related to being bisexual; some of those reasons were related to being treated unfairly because I have Cerebral Palsy and use a wheelchair. I believe everyone has the right to their own opinions, but people can be entitled to their own opinion, whilst still being respectful (the anti-LGBTQIA neighbor.) Having said that, I will defend (and debate) with those who feel differently, about my stance on this issue. My goal in debating with those who have contrasting viewpoints regarding LGBTQIA issues and rights (as well as other debatable topics), is not to persuade others to share my beliefs, but to understand and accept my thoughts and feelings on the matter. Everyone deserves to be made to feel validated, and at the utmost, respected. As I said, it's perfectly acceptable to have differing beliefs and opinions concerning these types of ideas, but it's important to be respectful. We're all human beings.
This is a very subtle protest, yet very clever as well! The LGBT+ community isn't bad, it's just different preference!
The comments here are full of so much hate, honestly, any time the topic of LGBT rights comes up.


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