Why He Won’t Let You Go, Even Tho He Doesn’t Want You.
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Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don’t want to love you properly, but don’t want to let go of you either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in hopes that they’ve changed only to realize it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes proclaiming his love for you and you give in, AGAIN. The cycle repeats itself until you gather up enough strength to say enough is enough and really cut him out of your life.
You need a man who will commit to you and love you right at all times not only when you decide to walk away. He sabotages the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and or cheating because he is afraid commitment. Grown men don’t play games, string you along or entertain any other women. You will know when you have found a real man and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no other competition. He will make sure that you are safe and loved. If the man you are with only wants to love you when he is threatened with your absence, he is not the man for you. A man will only do what you allow. Stop believing what he says and pay attention to what he does. If he really wanted you he would treat you like he doesn’t want to lose you, not the opposite.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn’t proof of love; it’s a knee jerk reaction. A man kissing your ass and making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn’t proof that he’s trying, it’s proof that he knows how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again. Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a big man child cries. Just because he cries doesn’t mean you give him what he wants. A lot of you women don’t know what it’s like to be loved by a real man. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion, and you know fear of abandonment. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love is. Love isn’t promising to act right after he fcks up; love is him acting right from the start so he won’t fck it up. Love isn’t telling a grown man he needs to change to keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he can’t imagine life without you.
Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don’t want to love you properly, but don’t want to let go of you either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in hopes that they’ve changed only to realize it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes proclaiming his love for you and you give in, AGAIN. The cycle repeats itself until you gather up enough strength to say enough is enough and really cut him out of your life.
You need a man who will commit to you and love you right at all times not only when you decide to walk away. He sabotages the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and or cheating because he is afraid commitment. Grown men don’t play games, string you along or entertain any other women. You will know when you have found a real man and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no other competition. He will make sure that you are safe and loved. If the man you are with only wants to love you when he is threatened with your absence, he is not the man for you. A man will only do what you allow. Stop believing what he says and pay attention to what he does. If he really wanted you he would treat you like he doesn’t want to lose you, not the opposite.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn’t proof of love; it’s a knee jerk reaction. A man kissing your ass and making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn’t proof that he’s trying, it’s proof that he knows how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again. Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a big man child cries. Just because he cries doesn’t mean you give him what he wants. A lot of you women don’t know what it’s like to be loved by a real man. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion, and you know fear of abandonment. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love is. Love isn’t promising to act right after he fcks up; love is him acting right from the start so he won’t fck it up. Love isn’t telling a grown man he needs to change to keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he can’t imagine life without you.
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Share on FacebookUnfortunately when girls are not appreciated , treated like princesses, loved, and valued and knows how precious they are in their parents house, they believe they're not worthy. Girls are precious and should surrounde themselves with people who only lifts them up, not put them down. To any young lady who's reading my comment , LOVE YOURSELF , you are worth the stars in the sky !
So you saying its ok to be a main and have your dude f***kin slides. Which means you would be feeling what they described up there. I dont want any main or side title, these man need to either be faithful or breqk it off and move on so no one is confused or hurt
Load More Replies...Damn.. I need to print this out and pass it out to a few friends.friends.
This is the second time running into an article like this. This is spot on please listen. Pay attention to these so called men today. Do not react until you know for sure just be gentle and silent and observe ladies. I have had enough of the disrespect women are receiving these days. It's time to step out game up and stop looking lower then ourselves just to stop being lonely
After dating losers and man child...I'm truly blessed to finally have a real man who treats with true love and respect at all times.
Roberta i agree girl it went straight to the heart i needed to hear this please contact us lbvs.
i went through this for six years and finally had the strength to let go and attempted to move on, but one day i got a message telling me how much he loved me and still wanted me. it's hard but girls really need to think about their happiness before making them happy.
That sounds like the truth. My dude was a cheater and I feel never really cared about me anyway. it was convenient for him and I settled for it for 3 DAMN years until I finally had enough of his cheating a*s. I'm better off without him and he didn't deserve a good women like me anyways.Now things will start happening for me cause he was blocking my blessings.
This sounds like what a guy will say that is a friend. So he can get in your pants. People do dumb s**t, but I'd never duck another woman. I love my girl way to much. But I have gotten close to female when my girl didn't have sex with me for a whole month and we didn't text like we used too. But it was me being selfish because she had just gotten pregnant. I should have tried harder. But she will never be a toy that I miss. I cried when I saw the hurt in her eyes and I'll never let her go. That's why I bought her a ring and introduced her to my family. Don't dare make an article and place this brainwash for all woman. It don't fit all categories.
There is an element of truth to this article. However there are also two sides to this coin. I recently broke things off with a woman who - while she had her very good points - could not be pleased under any circumstances. After 20 months, I threw my hands up in exasperation. It turns out that women under a certain age (with a few exceptions) do not want "gentlemen."
Oh yes, this is an old game. Too bad so many women fall for it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDF3TGuDNYs
Would not be any side if twomen's stop disrespecting themselves And background check
This was so awesome and true as the saying goes the only difference between men and boys is the size of their toys. Grown boys consider women as their toys not be shared or played with until they want to be bothered with it thus thinking of them as play things to be used for their amusement and pleasure when they want it . Grown men know that a woman can compliment their skills and abilities thus helping them to achieve their goals that they set together. Women have to know their worth and what they want in life for themselves thus then the cycle can be broken.
this is taken from the website "BlackGirlsAreEasy" you will find the full article under "The Truth About Soul Mates" entry.
Load More Replies...Ol Waiting to Exhale a*s s**t. Sounds like a bunch of jaded bag ladies wrote this lol.
Who ever wrot this is one of the biggest c**t ever to walk the earth. Dont know man holds on to a women he dosent want or love. And any women who believe this is really stupid
Unfortunately when girls are not appreciated , treated like princesses, loved, and valued and knows how precious they are in their parents house, they believe they're not worthy. Girls are precious and should surrounde themselves with people who only lifts them up, not put them down. To any young lady who's reading my comment , LOVE YOURSELF , you are worth the stars in the sky !
So you saying its ok to be a main and have your dude f***kin slides. Which means you would be feeling what they described up there. I dont want any main or side title, these man need to either be faithful or breqk it off and move on so no one is confused or hurt
Load More Replies...Damn.. I need to print this out and pass it out to a few friends.friends.
This is the second time running into an article like this. This is spot on please listen. Pay attention to these so called men today. Do not react until you know for sure just be gentle and silent and observe ladies. I have had enough of the disrespect women are receiving these days. It's time to step out game up and stop looking lower then ourselves just to stop being lonely
After dating losers and man child...I'm truly blessed to finally have a real man who treats with true love and respect at all times.
Roberta i agree girl it went straight to the heart i needed to hear this please contact us lbvs.
i went through this for six years and finally had the strength to let go and attempted to move on, but one day i got a message telling me how much he loved me and still wanted me. it's hard but girls really need to think about their happiness before making them happy.
That sounds like the truth. My dude was a cheater and I feel never really cared about me anyway. it was convenient for him and I settled for it for 3 DAMN years until I finally had enough of his cheating a*s. I'm better off without him and he didn't deserve a good women like me anyways.Now things will start happening for me cause he was blocking my blessings.
This sounds like what a guy will say that is a friend. So he can get in your pants. People do dumb s**t, but I'd never duck another woman. I love my girl way to much. But I have gotten close to female when my girl didn't have sex with me for a whole month and we didn't text like we used too. But it was me being selfish because she had just gotten pregnant. I should have tried harder. But she will never be a toy that I miss. I cried when I saw the hurt in her eyes and I'll never let her go. That's why I bought her a ring and introduced her to my family. Don't dare make an article and place this brainwash for all woman. It don't fit all categories.
There is an element of truth to this article. However there are also two sides to this coin. I recently broke things off with a woman who - while she had her very good points - could not be pleased under any circumstances. After 20 months, I threw my hands up in exasperation. It turns out that women under a certain age (with a few exceptions) do not want "gentlemen."
Oh yes, this is an old game. Too bad so many women fall for it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDF3TGuDNYs
Would not be any side if twomen's stop disrespecting themselves And background check
This was so awesome and true as the saying goes the only difference between men and boys is the size of their toys. Grown boys consider women as their toys not be shared or played with until they want to be bothered with it thus thinking of them as play things to be used for their amusement and pleasure when they want it . Grown men know that a woman can compliment their skills and abilities thus helping them to achieve their goals that they set together. Women have to know their worth and what they want in life for themselves thus then the cycle can be broken.
this is taken from the website "BlackGirlsAreEasy" you will find the full article under "The Truth About Soul Mates" entry.
Load More Replies...Ol Waiting to Exhale a*s s**t. Sounds like a bunch of jaded bag ladies wrote this lol.
Who ever wrot this is one of the biggest c**t ever to walk the earth. Dont know man holds on to a women he dosent want or love. And any women who believe this is really stupid
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