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Guy Thinks A Girl Was Begging For Sex When She Was Nice To Him At Lunch, Learns A Hard Lesson
Have you ever been nice to your neighbor? The bus driver? Was it because you desperately wanted to have sex with them? Believe it or not, one guy has recently invited a girl for “Netflix and chill” just because she acted like a decent human being in front of him. Needless to say, she was shocked to learn he was so tragically clueless. His texts were so direct and incredibly obnoxious, you’d never like to receive anything like them. Scroll down to read how the girl responded to his twisted ways and let us know in the comments if you think the handled the situation well.
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What do you think ?
Stille20 7 years ago
Twisted? A lot of people make the mistake of thinking friendly is flirting. He was just super rude / aggressive about it.
Iapetos 7 years ago
That's going to be a very tough learning process and many of that kind are just too emotionally unstable.
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athornedrose 7 years ago
i can't stand guys who think every move you make is a come on. seriously, how is anyone supposed to live like that? i don't wanna be a jerk to everyone forever to have to avoid this, but i'll admit i have been from time to time. it's terrible to need this defense mechanism.
Bianca Allen 7 years ago
I feel her pain: confusion and disbelief, with a little bit of anger. I reached out to someone I considered a friend, after I married and move to a different state, we lost touch. I heard that his little sister had passed away in a bad accident, I reached out (MISTAKE) and told him how sorry I was for his loss and asked about his mother and about services, the random messages went on for maybe 5 days spaced out, this turned into an "us" situation and when was I going to come back to CA and when was I going to leave me husband. It was so awkward and uncomfortable. I kept re-reading my text messages trying to figure out how I "was being a tease and made him think we were starting a relationship? I guess you can't be a decent human these days. :/
stellermatt 7 years ago
I've recently had quite a few people laugh at my jokes on here, or share similar interests... you weren't... you weren't all leading me on were you? coz, I mean, I'm flattered but... hahaha, what a numpty, it could just be she thought he was nice, nice is fine, I have a hat that's nice. but now it would appear he was being nice coz he thought he was gonna get some. a swing and indeed a miss.
Suzi Gauthier 7 years ago
That's where he made his mistake. He's only nice when he wants to FK someone, so he thinks everyone who is being nice to him wants to FK him.
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Suzi Gauthier 7 years ago
He's probably rude to them because he doesn't want to FK them.
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Tiffany Zhu 7 years ago
friendly does not equal flirting. Honestly, it's annoying when I'm nice and people say they have girlfriends. wtf. IM NICE YEESH
Debbie Andersson 7 years ago
Guys like this are digging their own graves and the graves of other guys, women get afraid to interact and be nice because of men like that.
Magpie 7 years ago
It is true Debbie, The thing that is different is that he didn't send a d**k pic. Which I see waaaaay too much of. I prefer to be polite*, and not ignore people but creeps like this make me scared. Every woman I know has been scared to do the grocery shopping at some time. __________ *If a guy / woman is carry bundles and running short of hands I always hold doors open etc and yes I am a woman.
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Matthew Hyder 7 years ago
Geez, this guy is acting like he's entitlef to have her, that's pretty rude. :( I mean being clueless is one thing, but yeah... They could have been just friends, does that not work? :p Well from there I wonder what her boyfriend would think... Sigh... it's almost like he thought he was close to having sex with her too despite saying she had a boyfriend. This makes me sad. :(
Bunzilla 7 years ago
I think that's exactly the problem; entitlement. Far too many men feel entitled to sex, simply for being a guy who lays their eyes on a girl. And every girl has to walk on eggshells for fear of anything they do or say being misinterpreted.
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Stille20 7 years ago
Twisted? A lot of people make the mistake of thinking friendly is flirting. He was just super rude / aggressive about it.
Iapetos 7 years ago
That's going to be a very tough learning process and many of that kind are just too emotionally unstable.
Load More Replies... athornedrose 7 years ago
i can't stand guys who think every move you make is a come on. seriously, how is anyone supposed to live like that? i don't wanna be a jerk to everyone forever to have to avoid this, but i'll admit i have been from time to time. it's terrible to need this defense mechanism.
Bianca Allen 7 years ago
I feel her pain: confusion and disbelief, with a little bit of anger. I reached out to someone I considered a friend, after I married and move to a different state, we lost touch. I heard that his little sister had passed away in a bad accident, I reached out (MISTAKE) and told him how sorry I was for his loss and asked about his mother and about services, the random messages went on for maybe 5 days spaced out, this turned into an "us" situation and when was I going to come back to CA and when was I going to leave me husband. It was so awkward and uncomfortable. I kept re-reading my text messages trying to figure out how I "was being a tease and made him think we were starting a relationship? I guess you can't be a decent human these days. :/
stellermatt 7 years ago
I've recently had quite a few people laugh at my jokes on here, or share similar interests... you weren't... you weren't all leading me on were you? coz, I mean, I'm flattered but... hahaha, what a numpty, it could just be she thought he was nice, nice is fine, I have a hat that's nice. but now it would appear he was being nice coz he thought he was gonna get some. a swing and indeed a miss.
Suzi Gauthier 7 years ago
That's where he made his mistake. He's only nice when he wants to FK someone, so he thinks everyone who is being nice to him wants to FK him.
Load More Replies... Suzi Gauthier 7 years ago
He's probably rude to them because he doesn't want to FK them.
Load More Replies... Tiffany Zhu 7 years ago
friendly does not equal flirting. Honestly, it's annoying when I'm nice and people say they have girlfriends. wtf. IM NICE YEESH
Debbie Andersson 7 years ago
Guys like this are digging their own graves and the graves of other guys, women get afraid to interact and be nice because of men like that.
Magpie 7 years ago
It is true Debbie, The thing that is different is that he didn't send a d**k pic. Which I see waaaaay too much of. I prefer to be polite*, and not ignore people but creeps like this make me scared. Every woman I know has been scared to do the grocery shopping at some time. __________ *If a guy / woman is carry bundles and running short of hands I always hold doors open etc and yes I am a woman.
Load More Replies... Matthew Hyder 7 years ago
Geez, this guy is acting like he's entitlef to have her, that's pretty rude. :( I mean being clueless is one thing, but yeah... They could have been just friends, does that not work? :p Well from there I wonder what her boyfriend would think... Sigh... it's almost like he thought he was close to having sex with her too despite saying she had a boyfriend. This makes me sad. :(
Bunzilla 7 years ago
I think that's exactly the problem; entitlement. Far too many men feel entitled to sex, simply for being a guy who lays their eyes on a girl. And every girl has to walk on eggshells for fear of anything they do or say being misinterpreted.
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